**The Official Hopeless Romantics Thread**

[davehead34]

It was a cool idea man. Good stuff. Glad to hear that you're back to normal, PurpleHaze. You seemed to have lost touch with reality for a few minutes back there.

[Jessica41]

OooOOooooOOooo I wanna do it too

[davehead34]

Nice :D

[Jessica41]

its like a secret club. ;)

[handsareme]

:cool

[gbs3769]

I'm such a trend setter. Like the Yellow Livestrong bracelets. After I put one on, the whole world started wearing them.

- Matt

[davehead34]

:lol Right, Matt. Right. Good stuff, Jon :thumbsup

I do have quite a bit of respect for everyone in our little club.

[handsareme]

I do have quite a bit of respect for everyone in our little club.
As do I. I just toned it down a bit...

[UNC41]

Everybody's doing it...

[gbs3769]

Well, it takes a particular breed to make a Hopeless Romantic and honestly it really isn't something that I think is that common.

- Matt

[davehead34]

As do I. I just toned it down a bit...

That's too small, Jon! Although, I suppose modesty is respectable. As long as your "reppin" ;)

[handsareme]

reppin' is as reppin' does




holla

[davehead34]

Well, it takes a particular breed to make a Hopeless Romantic and honestly it really isn't something that I think is that common.

- Matt

:thumbsup Agreed.

For better or worse (I believe it to be worse), there aren't nearly enough HRs out there. Today's culture doesn't really nurture/foster those kinds of personalities anymore. It is increasingly easy to cast the concept of love to the wind. This is especially true for the younger crowds. I believe that as people age and mature, they realize that love is possible and, more importantly, necessary because hey - all you need is love. Right? ;)

[handsareme]

Same pic as in post your picture thread of my flame: http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b286/jennmaritafae/couples005.jpg

[UNC41]

:thumbsup Agreed.

For better or worse (I believe it to be worse), there aren't nearly enough HRs out there. Today's culture doesn't really nurture/foster those kinds of personalities anymore. It is increasingly easy to cast the concept of love to the wind. This is especially true for the younger crowds. I believe that as people age and mature, they realize that love is possible and, more importantly, necessary because hey - all you need is love. Right? ;)

Seems that society pegs the Alpha Male as what teenage guys should be these days and there's not much for a HR in the profile. I also think that it is much easier to understand the perspective of a HR once you've experienced love, and how truly great it can be.

[davehead34]

Everybody's doing it...

:thumbsup :cool

[davehead34]

Seems that society pegs the Alpha Male as what teenage guys should be these days and there's not much for a HR in the profile. I also think that it is much easier to understand the perspective of a HR once you've experienced love, and how truly great it can be.

:thumbsup Agreed.

Once you experience what love can do to you, your life will be different. I haven't experienced love of the most serious kind in about six years, yet I'm relentlessly pursuing it.

[ryguy178]

Haven't stoppe din here in a while. Perhaps because it makes me depressed.


And you all had thought I'd become Hopeful! how silly of you.

[Jessica41]

Well, it takes a particular breed to make a Hopeless Romantic and honestly it really isn't something that I think is that common.

- Matt

it's really not common at all, and it should be.

[Jessica41]

:thumbsup Agreed.

Once you experience what love can do to you, your life will be different. I haven't experienced love of the most serious kind in about six years, yet I'm relentlessly pursuing it.

I third this.
and same with me. It's been two years though. feels longer.

[davehead34]

And you all had thought I'd become Hopeful! how silly of you.

Nope. We all know there's no hope for you, your Phillies, or your Flyers. Boston will always dominate. ;)

[ryguy178]

Oh shiiiit yo.

You all have "gang" signs in your profiles. I get it now.

[ryguy178]

Nope. We all know there's no hope for you, your Phillies, or your Flyers. Boston will always dominate. ;)
:lol

Dude I'm a huge Boston fan anyway...Bruins are 2nd to the Flyers, Sox are 2nd to the Phils.

[UNC41]

:thumbsup Agreed.

Once you experience what love can do to you, your life will be different. I haven't experienced love of the most serious kind in about six years, yet I'm relentlessly pursuing it.

I was always the kind of person to never pursue anything romantically before I fell in love for the first time. Now that I've lost it, its a feeling that I've been longing for, but still think its best to let things like that fall into place rather than pursue it.

[davehead34]

I third this.
and same with me. It's been two years though. feels longer.

It feels like a lifetime away. When you're in love, your whole person changes. It's a very powerful, controlling emotion. Perhaps that's why I listen to DMB so much. DMB makes me feel love on a large, global scale. Even though it's not the love between a couple, it's still love, and it's tiding me over until I'm ready to fall head over heels again.

[davehead34]

:lol

Dude I'm a huge Boston fan anyway...Bruins are 2nd to the Flyers, Sox are 2nd to the Phils.

I know. I just love saying that Boston is better than everyone else's teams :lol Being arrogant and cocky can be fun when you're dreadfully tired and have been staring at a computer screen for the past ten hours.

[ryguy178]

I know. I just love saying that Boston is better than everyone else's teams :lol Being arrogant and cocky can be fun when you're dreadfully tired and have been staring at a computer screen for the past ten hours.
I don't get much opportunity to be arrogant and cocky as a Philadelphia fan. :lol

[davehead34]

I don't get much opportunity to be arrogant and cocky as a Philadelphia fan. :lol

Yeah, but at least John Kruk is on ESPN a lot :shrug

[Jessica41]

It feels like a lifetime away. When you're in love, your whole person changes. It's a very powerful, controlling emotion. Perhaps that's why I listen to DMB so much. DMB makes me feel love on a large, global scale. Even though it's not the love between a couple, it's still love, and it's tiding me over until I'm ready to fall head over heels again.

:thumbsup :thumbsup

[gbs3769]

It's funny because it wasn't so long ago that I thought that I was experiencing something that I certainly thought could have grown into an everlasting love. It seems like it was years ago, but it was only back in April. But then again, it is almost August. That is at least a little bit of time.

So I am not sure if I am still over Jessica anymore. The other night when we went to Coleman's I was desperately hoping that she was there and that she would see me there. I knew I was looking really good and I wanted her to see just what it was that she had given up on. God I am pathetic sometimes. And then I go and lie to my roomate and say that I wasn't still thinking about Jessica when I mentioned that she would probable be at Coleman's.

- Matt

[davehead34]

It's funny because it wasn't so long ago that I thought that I was experiencing something that I certainly thought could have grown into an everlasting love. It seems like it was years ago, but it was only back in April. But then again, it is almost August. That is at least a little bit of time.

So I am not sure if I am still over Jessica anymore. The other night when we went to Coleman's I was desperately hoping that she was there and that she would see me there. I knew I was looking really good and I wanted her to see just what it was that she had given up on. God I am pathetic sometimes. And then I go and lie to my roomate and say that I wasn't still thinking about Jessica when I mentioned that she would probable be at Coleman's.

- Matt

God, I really don't know if I could give you guys a solid number of times I've done that - get all dressed up, look sharp, then go to where I think my ex is going to be hoping that she'll see me and get uber-jealous. I think it's natural. I know when I can't have something that I want - badly - but can't have, I will go out of my way to get something else and pretend like I don't even care. And the fucked up thing is, I don't know why I do this. I should just tell my buddies that "Yeah, I really like this girl. I could easily fall in love with her," but I don't for fear of instant reprisal.

I don't know about you guys, but I'm still down for the whole HR community thing we were discusing about a million posts ago. That was an awesome idea; although, it may not be entirely practical :shrug (I've been doing lots of "shrugs" lately, and I don't know why)

[ryguy178]

I know when I can't have something that I want - badly - but can't have, I will go out of my way to get something else and pretend like I don't even care.

This, my friend is human nature, and we have all been there.

[Jessica41]

Ryan what does that mean? (in your sig)

[gbs3769]

I'd love to have the community. At least we would have some people to share our sorrows with.

I'm also glad that I am not the only one that does that...

- Matt

[ryguy178]

Ryan what does that mean? (in your sig)
:lol :lol Think dear Jess....

I wanted to play too.

[davehead34]

Ryan what does that mean? (in your sig)

There Needs to Be...

[ryguy178]

I don't know about you guys, but I'm still down for the whole HR community thing we were discusing about a million posts ago. That was an awesome idea; although, it may not be entirely practical :shrug (I've been doing lots of "shrugs" lately, and I don't know why)

I'm tellin you man, I still haven't forgot about this either. We're all moving to Charlottesville, which is of course our Mecca.

THE #1 place in America to live you know.

[Jessica41]

I'm tellin you man, I still haven't forgot about this either. We're all moving to Charlottesville, which is of course our Mecca.

THE #1 place in America to live you know.

I'm up for it. As long as you don't mind 1 year old ants too.

[davehead34]

I'm tellin you man, I still haven't forgot about this either. We're all moving to Charlottesville, which is of course our Mecca.

THE #1 place in America to live you know.

:thumbsup I'm all about it. I could do Charlottesville. Right now, though, my Mecca is Red Rocks, and I will be worshipping there three times this year. Praise be to God!

[handsareme]

I'm out. Long day, hold on, my flame literally just came online. Looks like I'll be up for another few minutes...

[Jessica41]

:lol :lol Think dear Jess....

I wanted to play too.

:lol

[HR] is better. You should join us.

[ryguy178]

I'm up for it. As long as you don't mind 1 year old ants too.
It takes a whole village!...


How cool would it be to all be there when he attends his first DMB concert!

[ryguy178]

:lol

[HR] is better. You should join us.
I wasn't sure If I had to undergo some sort initiation or anything, like, disclose the length of my longest serious relationship (0 days) or how long since my last serious relationship (infinity.)

[davehead34]

:lol

[HR] is better. You should join us.

:thumbsup :cool

[Jessica41]

I wasn't sure If I had to undergo some sort initiation or anything, like, disclose the length of my longest serious relationship (0 days) or how long since my last serious relationship (infinity.)

I didn't do that, but for the record. (3yrs)//(depends what you mean by serious. love?(2yrs)

[Jessica41]

It takes a whole village!...


How cool would it be to all be there when he attends his first DMB concert!

I can't wait. I'm thinking when he's 3 I'll take him on the lawn somewhere.

[davehead34]

I wasn't sure If I had to undergo some sort initiation or anything, like, disclose the length of my longest serious relationship (0 days) or how long since my last serious relationship (infinity.)

That's most of the info. Now, to complete the process, I'll need your:

-Social Security Number
-Credit Card Number(s)
-Bank/Checking/Savings Routing Number
-Mother's maiden name
-Mailing address
-Date of birth

[ryguy178]

I can't wait. I'm thinking when he's 3 I'll take him on the lawn somewhere.
Should probably look into some ear protection for when he does go...even if on the lawn.

Although I'm not sure..i guess the lawn would be ok.

[gbs3769]

Chase,

You wouldn't happen to be that guy from Africa that I just gave all of that information to, would you?

- Matt

[Jessica41]

Should probably look into some ear protection for when he does go...even if on the lawn.

Although I'm not sure..i guess the lawn would be ok.

Yep, I have already thought about that :thumbsup He already knows who dmb is, and goes to sleep every night to it, so I'm sure by 3, we can have him singing easily.

[davehead34]

My friends Jay & Suz (they're married) are bringing their son to Red Rocks this summer for his first show ever! That kid's so lucky!

[ryguy178]

That's most of the info. Now, to complete the process, I'll need your:

-Social Security Number
-Credit Card Number(s)
-Bank/Checking/Savings Routing Number
-Mother's maiden name
-Mailing address
-Date of birth
Would you like any information about any distinguishing birth marks as well?

[ryguy178]

My friends Jay & Suz (they're married) are bringing their son to Red Rocks this summer for his first show ever! That kid's so lucky!
How old? Did he need a ticket?

[Jessica41]

Most places you need a ticket if they're older than 2. which is stupid, I think. It should be 5 or so.

[davehead34]

Chase,

You wouldn't happen to be that guy from Africa that I just gave all of that information to, would you?

- Matt

My friend came about this close |-----| from falling for that scam. What a fucking idiot. Thankfully, he showed me the email and I informed him he was being scammed...again (yes, he was scammed last year). I told him that you don't need to look at your bulkmail - that it's all junk.

[davehead34]

How old? Did he need a ticket?

Yeah he did need a ticket. Right now, both me, Jay & Suz have tickets to all three night, but their son doesn't. He only has tickets to the last night, I believe. I'm trying desperately to trade for extra RR tickets, but we all know how hard those tickets are to come by.

EDIT: I think he's about five.

[ryguy178]

Matt you really didn't fall for that did you??

[Jessica41]

I think he was joking.

[davehead34]

I believe he was, too. Matt's a little slower than everyone here, but give him some credit :lol

[Jessica41]

So when is the move to VA happening?

[davehead34]

So when is the move to VA happening?

:rolleyes Umm...Well I get out of the Marine Corps in 376 days...

I'll talk to ya tomorrow, Jess! Take it easy, K? I'm straight up beat!

[gbs3769]

And no, I didn't fall for that scam.

I work in IT, I get briefed on all of the scams every morning so that when our users ask about them I can tell them how stupid they are.

- Matt

[jfolden]

Wow, I apparently missed a lot here last night. Now, I just got to figure out if I qualify to have either of these in my sig:

[HR]{TNtB}

[il bacio dolce]

I have not been whoring it up in TNtB half as much as I should, and I am currently sort of disqualified from HR. :lol I don't get to wear either title.

[jfolden]

I only seem to whore it up in {TNtB} on Friday and Saturday nights, well at least when I come home that is, cause I just can't stay up late and be at work by 7. So, I don't know if I qualify there, but I'd like to think I can wear the [HR] proudly. Adn, you can wear the [HR] Cassie, cause even with your situation, you're still an HR, right? :)

[davehead34]

Wow, I apparently missed a lot here last night. Now, I just got to figure out if I qualify to have either of these in my sig:

[HR]{TNtB}

I said fuck it and threw both in my sig. I've been pathetic lately and have been posting in both quite a bit lately.

[il bacio dolce]

Late at night, lately, I haven't been on Ants. I've been at work, after which I want to go straight to sleep, or watching something with Matt then going to sleep, or doing it/attempting to do it and failing miserably and then going to sleep. :lol

[handsareme]

:rolleyes Umm...Well I get out of the Marine Corps in 376 days...

I'll talk to ya tomorrow, Jess! Take it easy, K? I'm straight up beat!
...and so the countdown begins.

[il bacio dolce]

Now, I could decide I'm not content with the fact he doesn't want to get married or have kids and I'll never get to be a wife or mother, as he's not likely to change his mind about those things at 30 and I don't want to leave him. But that would really depress me so I chose not to care. :lol So other than that, we're great.

[davehead34]

He never wants to get married? That's strange. I can understand about not having kids, though. Some people don't ever wants kids, but most people want to get married, at least.

[davehead34]

...and so the countdown begins.

Jon, I've had a countdown for the last 800 days or so. I'm serious.

[il bacio dolce]

He never wants to get married? That's strange. I can understand about not having kids, though. Some people don't ever wants kids, but most people want to get married, at least.
Says he's never wanted to. I got an "If I was gonna marry anyone, it would be you" though. :lol And kids? I could take em or leave em! They'd be fairly easy to handle, our kids. I figure once we get them reading, we're pretty much good to go! That's the best case scenario, they just sit in their rooms and read. Realistically though, we'll have one introverted, moody-as-hell girl just like me as a child, and one very outgoing, defiant little troublemaker, just like him as a child!

Oh shit. His friend emailed him this little video yesturday, it was hilarious. There's a younger-looking dad with his little boy at the super market. The little boy keeps picking up a box of cereal and the dad keeps putting it back on the shelf. This little boy throws the mother of all tantrums, screaming, kicking, rolling on the floor and throwing shit, and other shoppers are staring of course. Then at the end of the clip it says: "USE CONDOMS". :thumbsup

[watchtwrwildcat]

He never wants to get married? That's strange. not really.

[il bacio dolce]

not really.
It really isn't. There are very few reasons TO get married. Correction, there's really not a single GOOD reason to get married. :p Most people have however observed plenty of reasons to avoid it and have come up with some of their own.

[davehead34]

It really isn't. There are very few reasons TO get married. Correction, there's really not a single GOOD reason to get married. :p Most people have however observed plenty of reasons to avoid it and have come up with some of their own.

I disagree. Your insurance goes down and you pay less on taxes. Those are two off the top of my head. Plus, if you're in the military, they pay for you to live out in town instead of being cooped up in the barracks. Besides, if you really love someone, and s/he loves you as much, then getting married is the best, and only way, to really put your money where your mouth is. There are several great reasons to get married. While it may not be for everyone, marriage can be an awesomely beneficial thing.

[watchtwrwildcat]

I disagree. Your insurance goes down and you pay less on taxes. Love is grand. Divorce is a hundred grand.

[il bacio dolce]

Hey. I'd marry him. I'd have his kids, too. It sort of needs to be a unanimous vote though. :lol

[davehead34]

Love is grand. Divorce is a hundred grand.

I believe that we're both approaching marriage from two entirely different perspectives. I feel that marriage can work between two people, because it can and does. Although it doesn't work all the time, it does work most of the time. It certainly isn't something you can rush into.

Conversely, you appear to view marriage as something that is fatally flawed - like it can never work. I can speculate as to how and why you feel this way, but it's not in my nature to pry. Perhaps you've been married before and it didn't work, or perhaps your friends got married and it went horribly for them. Maybe your parents got divorced - I don't know. All I know is that you seem to view the glass of marriage as half empty, to say the least, with which I strongly disagree.

[davehead34]

Hey. I'd marry him. I'd have his kids, too. It sort of needs to be a unanimous vote though. :lol

:lol True.

[jfolden]

I disagree. Your insurance goes down and you pay less on taxes. Those are two off the top of my head. Plus, if you're in the military, they pay for you to live out in town instead of being cooped up in the barracks. Besides, if you really love someone, and s/he loves you as much, then getting married is the best, and only way, to really put your money where your mouth is. There are several great reasons to get married. While it may not be for everyone, marriage can be an awesomely beneficial thing.
:thumbsup I definitely believe that there are good reasons to get married and I want kids some day. I'm 27 and I know these things about me, but I also don't think I'm ready to be married or have kids today. I just go with the belief that when I'm with the right person and the time is right, we'll both be ready to committ to one another and get married and once ready begin a family.

I think the most important thing though for a relationship is that both people have similar beliefs, hopes, and needs. If neither wants marriage and/or children, then it should be able to work out. Just like if, although I don't really believe in, they elieve in an "open" relationship, it can work if they feel the same way. Basically, as long as both people communicate what they want and can agree on the definition of the relationship, that should be what is most important.

[watchtwrwildcat]

I
Conversely, you appear to view marriage as something that is fatally flawed - like it can never work. bingo.

if I'm ever ready to be taken for granted and in turn take someone else for granted, each day, every day, I'll get married again.


plus, it's just a big fucking financial mess and that's a headache I just don't need.

[il bacio dolce]

Remember what I said about couples that compliment eachother work better than couples that mirror eachother? That's no bullshit.

Hey, my grandparents passed their 50th back in November. They're wonderful. :D Their kids are pretty much dysfunctional when it comes to marriage, I'll admit. But THEY did something right.

[il bacio dolce]

bingo.

if I'm ever ready to be taken for granted and in turn take someone else for granted, each day, every day, I'll get married again.


plus, it's just a big fucking financial mess and that's a headache I just don't need.
When your marriage isn't centered around spiritual fluff, it's nothing but a legal matter. Your signatures on a piece of paper. And don't take this to sound like I have a lack of faith in love, but sometimes there are "reconcilable differences". It's not a cop out, it's not a lack of effort, it's just better off that way sometimes. You should be able to walk away from a situation that is no longer good for you or them without having to pay out your asses for it.

[davehead34]

bingo.

if I'm ever ready to be taken for granted and in turn take someone else for granted, each day, every day, I'll get married again.


plus, it's just a big fucking financial mess and that's a headache I just don't need.

I'm sorry that things turned out less than desirable for you in your previous marriage.

[il bacio dolce]

My head hurts because I made myself laugh so hard just now thinking about how I used to call that guy after work at night while he'd be at the bar, and I'd be trying to flirt and get him to come over to see me, but I couldn't understand shit he said because hish shpeesh wushall shlurred. I never stopped to think about it. I thought it was just how he talked! :lol

[DMBfan41]

Ha, I just thought of something funny. Ever since I got my job at Costco, I've been hitting on this girl. I sell wireless phones in the Costco. So, a few days ago, we were talking about cell phones, and i checked if she was able to upgrade her phone and she mentions that her HUSBAND can get one, but she can't.

This girl is so small, she looks like she's in high school, early college. And she's married. I don't know how old she is exactly, but I was definately embarassed.

I can't believe I've reached the age where I have to start looking for rings before I start hitting on girls

[il bacio dolce]

You used to get married right out of high school, dear. :rolleyes

[watchtwrwildcat]

I'm sorry that things turned out less than desirable for you in your previous marriage.quite the contrary actually, things turned out exactly as I desired.

[ryguy178]

Ha, I just thought of something funny. Ever since I got my job at Costco, I've been hitting on this girl. I sell wireless phones in the Costco. So, a few days ago, we were talking about cell phones, and i checked if she was able to upgrade her phone and she mentions that her HUSBAND can get one, but she can't.

This girl is so small, she looks like she's in high school, early college. And she's married. I don't know how old she is exactly, but I was definately embarassed.

I can't believe I've reached the age where I have to start looking for rings before I start hitting on girls
I feel like once I get a job my lovelife will improve somewhat. But since I've never really had a job, like, ever, I rarely meet new and interesting people.

[Ilovedit2]

My boyfriend, who i love emensely is leaving me to move to TN..."to be friends"...more like to screw other girls...What makes guys throw women away like they are so disposable..when in reality they're probably the best thing that happened to the guy..What makes guys so afraid??

[Ilovedit2]

My boyfriend, who i love emensely is leaving me to move to TN..."to be friends"...more like to screw other girls...What makes guys throw women away like they are so disposable..when in reality they're probably the best thing that happened to the guy..What makes guys so afraid??

[saintjohnsriver]

perfect song for this thread



More Than This
(Ferry)
I could feel at the time
There was no way of knowing
Fallen leaves in the night
Who can say where they're blowing
As free as the wind
And hopefully learning
Why the sea on the tide
Has no way of turning
More than this - there is nothing
More than this - tell me one thing
More than this - there is nothing
It was fun for a while
There was no way of knowing
Like dream in the night
Who can say where we're going
No care in the world
Maybe I'm learning
Why the sea on the tide
Has no way of turning
More than this - there is nothing
More than this - tell me one thing
More than this - there is nothing

[saintjohnsriver]

and that's song's antithesis

Now That I've Met you
Would you object to
Never seeing each other again
Cause I can’t afford to
Climb aboard you
No one’s got that much ego to spend

So don’t work your stuff
Because I’ve got troubles enough
No, don’t pick on me
When one act of kindness could be
Deathly
Deathly
Definitely

Cause I’m just a problem
For you to solve and
Watch dissolve in the heat of your charm
But what will you do when
You run it through and
You can’t get me back on the farm

So don’t work your stuff
Because I’ve got troubles enough
No, don’t pick on me
When one act of kindness could be
Deathly
Deathly
Definitely

You’re on your honor
Cause I’m a goner
And you haven’t even begun
So do me a favor
If I should waver
Be my savior
And get out the gun

Just don’t work your stuff
Because I’ve got troubles enough
No, don’t pick on me
When one act of kindness could be
Deathly
Deathly
Definitely

Aimee Mann

[gbs3769]

So this has been such a random week for me. Today while I was taking the ferry I met this girl (who I think is named Katie or Kate, I really need to be better about that) who was traveling to Ocean City, MD.

Anyways we got to talking and I found out that she goes to Villanova which is where both my parents went and my cousin goes. So we talked about that for a little bit and I come to find out that she knows my cousin and that both of her parents are basically from the same town that my mom is from outside of Philly. So then I come to find out that her mom went to the same high school as my mom and graduated two years after my mom.

It was just a very random moment and of course it would have been smart of me to get her number or give her my number since we are both familiar with the same areas. I mean, we used to play at the same playground in Havertown, PA when we were younger.

- Matt

[Jessica41]

Why didn't you?

[gbs3769]

Because at the time I didn't even think about it. I was thinking I'm probably never going to see her again in my life.

Although I just found her on thefacebook. If I only had a facebook account I would actually add her to my friend list.

- Matt

[UNC41]

Is it weird that I'm curious as to what her name is so I can see if she's cute?

[gbs3769]

She's cute. Definitely my type as well, blonde hair, green eyes, tall enough.

- Matt

[UNC41]

Should have got the number, but ohh well.

[DMBfan41]

Is it weird that I'm curious as to what her name is so I can see if she's cute?

ha, i felt like that. This girl that graduated from my high school is gonna be a freshmen on my campus. So, I was curious and looked her up on myspace. Definately hot. But, I don't think I'll try for anything. Her dad is a major in the army.

[ryguy178]

Facebook has added a whole new dimension to life.

Meet a girl drunk? Don't remember exactly what she looked like last night?? Facebook her next morning!

[UNC41]

ha, i felt like that. This girl that graduated from my high school is gonna be a freshmen on my campus. So, I was curious and looked her up on myspace. Definately hot. But, I don't think I'll try for anything. Her dad is a major in the army.

What happens at college, stays at college. Wait that's Vegas.

[gbs3769]

Definitely should have got the number, but that's allright. Now I am holding out that my mom's best friend actually gave her niece my number for this weekend. Either that, or I'll have to call and make sure that I have her number. That would be the better idea.

- Matt

[DMBfan41]

Facebook has added a whole new dimension to life.

Meet a girl drunk? Don't remember exactly what she looked like last night?? Facebook her next morning!

tried that, girl turned out to be larger than I remembered. And after that night, I stopped going to fraternity parties

[UNC41]

Matt, I need to start meeting random hot girls that I find out I am connected to on a regular basis like you.

[Jessica41]

Matt how did you find her if you dont have an account?

[Jessica41]

Matt, I need to start meeting random hot girls that I find out I am connected to on a regular basis like you.

me too. guys, not girls.

[DMBfan41]

What happens at college, stays at college. Wait that's Vegas.

i don't know if that works with daughters of majors in the army

[ryguy178]

Matt, I need to start meeting random hot girls that I find out I am connected to on a regular basis like you.
When you go to Penn you can play Jewish Geography with everyone you meet.


But i'm not Jewish.

[redsoxiluv]

Facebook has added a whole new dimension to life.

Meet a girl drunk? Don't remember exactly what she looked like last night?? Facebook her next morning!

:lol so true...

[UNC41]

I know a girl that goes to Penn, and she's not Jewish. If you know a girl from North Dakota I'm sure that's her.

[ryguy178]

I know a girl that goes to Penn, and she's not Jewish. If you know a girl from North Dakota I'm sure that's her.
I think me and her might be the only ones...What is her name? There can't be many people from north dakota. I think i've met someone from a plains state, but that might have been wyoming.

[UNC41]

Her name is Brittney. She's a skinny blonde girl.

[gbs3769]

Matt, I need to start meeting random hot girls that I find out I am connected to on a regular basis like you.

I must say I seem to have some pretty random luck. It's certainly good luck, but it is random.

Matt how did you find her if you dont have an account?

My friend's account.

- Matt

[gbs3769]

So I think that it might have been a false positive. The picture that looks like her has curly hair, but she definitely didn't have curly hair today. I wonder if I got the name wrong.

- Matt

[Jessica41]

So I think that it might have been a false positive. The picture that looks like her has curly hair, but she definitely didn't have curly hair today. I wonder if I got the name wrong.

- Matt

Go by her face, not hair. I can have curlyish hair one day and straight hair the next.

[gbs3769]

Well, the face looks right. And I googled her and she was in the Italian club and she is going to be going to Florence this year so that would make sense. I just wish that I could look at her profile, but sadly I don't go to Villanova. Anyone here that does want to take a look at it for me?

- Matt

[handsareme]

Well, the face looks right. And I googled her and she was in the Italian club and she is going to be going to Florence this year so that would make sense. I just wish that I could look at her profile, but sadly I don't go to Villanova. Anyone here that does want to take a look at it for me?

- Matt
Google's amazing.

[ryguy178]

Well, the face looks right. And I googled her and she was in the Italian club and she is going to be going to Florence this year so that would make sense. I just wish that I could look at her profile, but sadly I don't go to Villanova. Anyone here that does want to take a look at it for me?

- Matt
There used to be some trick where you could look at a profile without actually friending them or having them be at your school...I don't know it though but it would prove most helpful in this situation.

[Jessica41]

Bye everyone I'll see ya'll on Thursday. Hope to not be any more hopeless when I return...

[handsareme]

A "Say Goodbye"?

The college I'm going to next year doesn't have Facebook.:(

[Popeye2003]

New member of the thread :D

[ryguy178]

Bye everyone I'll see ya'll on Thursday. Hope to not be any more hopeless when I return...
Looks like you won't be!

[Popeye2003]

Bye everyone I'll see ya'll on Thursday. Hope to not be any more hopeless when I return...
Well, you did get Say Goodbye... :lol

[handsareme]

Did I call it?

[Popeye2003]

Did I call it?
Looks like it :p

[handsareme]

So what's your story?

[gbs3769]

So I find out that the girl that I thought was the girl I met definitely wasn't her. The girl that I thought it was happened to graduate this year and that couldn't happen since the girl I actually met is a junior. Anyways, my best bet now to be a stalker is to use my mom's yearbook to get the first name of the mother so that I can then find out what her married name is and thus find the daughter.

- Matt

[Popeye2003]

So what's your story?
Which of them? :lol

[davehead34]

Hey guys. Just checking in to see what's up.

[il bacio dolce]

So I find out that the girl that I thought was the girl I met definitely wasn't her. The girl that I thought it was happened to graduate this year and that couldn't happen since the girl I actually met is a junior. Anyways, my best bet now to be a stalker is to use my mom's yearbook to get the first name of the mother so that I can then find out what her married name is and thus find the daughter.

- MattHm. Welll I don't get how that works, but good luck with that. :lol

[gbs3769]

My mom went to high school with the mother of the girl I met. I don't know the last name of the girl that I met, but I do know her mother's maiden name. I could then look through records to find out what the mothers new last name and thus then have the last name of the girl. Although that is really stalkerish so I think I'll just forget about it.

- Matt

[drmgrl]

My mom went to high school with the mother of the girl I met. I don't know the last name of the girl that I met, but I do know her mother's maiden name. I could then look through records to find out what the mothers new last name and thus then have the last name of the girl. Although that is really stalkerish so I think I'll just forget about it.

- Matt

Hmmm... I say do it. Just don't let her find out the lengths you went to, to find her.

[davehead34]

Don't worry about the whole stalker thing. I've met plenty of chicks who actually want to be stalked. Some of the really sick ones think it's romantic. Broads...

[il bacio dolce]

It's definitely kind of stalkerish. You aren't going to do anything bad or anything, so it's okay. ;)

[Jessica41]

I don't think it's stalkerish...go for it.

[davehead34]

:lol I was just reading your updated signature block, Cassie. "This just in..." :thumbsup Good stuff.

[il bacio dolce]

I don't care what this person thinks of me, because I barely know him. I am bothered that someone who doesn't know me judges me. It's not him, it's his actions. :rolleyes

This guy just asked me if I've ever made a meaningful post because he's never seen one from me. Boy, you'd think in 19K+ posts and almost two years of being here..... I've met and talked with a lot of people with whom I've shared a love of music, shared personal thoughts and opinions with, who I've listened to, consoled, given advice to, debated/argued/fought with, kept them company, amused and made them smile, as well as gotten many laughs and smiles in return... I get the vaguest feeling I have made a handful of meaningful posts.

[davehead34]

Really. Who said that?

[il bacio dolce]

Some dude. :confused It's in the thread about hippies.

[davehead34]

Eh. Fuck him then. There were a few people, to say the least, in that thread that were incorrigable. Some people are just thick. Really thick. I think you made valid points in that thread, Cassie :)

[il bacio dolce]

I think he read it without the sarcasm and was disgusted, but then, as has been the case with a few other people, when I tried to tell him what I really meant, he just told me he didn't give a shit what my intentions were and then went on about how inane all my posts are. All of them. :rolleyes

[davehead34]

I wouldn't pay much attention to them - most of them were pretty close-minded :rolleyes

[gbs3769]

Yeah hippies suck and all...

Ok so not really, but that was all I thought when I saw that thread. I knew it was going to be a fun one.

- Matt

[dmbosw41]

never saw this thread before....

[ryguy178]

Hi all..

Bye all.

[gbs3769]

Later Ryan. I'm back to stalking since I now have facebook...

- Matt

[gravedigger2424]

I just need to get some :) :) :) :)

[Designer43]

I just need to get some :) :) :) :)

I second that. :thumbsup

[davehead34]

I just need to get some :) :) :) :)

Gettin some has to be easier in IN than it is in SoCal! It's dog-eat-dog over here for chicks, which makes no sense because there's plenty for everyone. Unfortunately, there are many stuck-up chicks over here.

I second that.

I KNOW it's easier to pick up chicks in NJ. I've met more than a few chicks from Jersey before. Fish in a barrell my friend. Fish in a barrell.

[jfolden]

I just need to get some :) :) :) :)

I second that. :thumbsup


:thumbsup

I'll third that! If that makes sense. :)

[il bacio dolce]

Judging by post counts in this thread, I think I can count myself a member. :lol

[davehead34]

:lol

[Jessica41]

Hey guys. Just checking in to see what's up.

You know what's up with me... what's up w/ you and your "quasi girlfriend?"

[chels012002]

Yeah Chase how is that girl of yours?

[jfolden]

You know what's up with me... what's up w/ you and your "quasi girlfriend?"

Gotta ask...(sb)? I'm assuming it has something to do with the setlist discussion.

[Jessica41]

Gotta ask...(sb)? I'm assuming it has something to do with the setlist discussion.

ry made it for the setlist buddies :)

[davehead34]

Yeah Chase how is that girl of yours?

She's doing about as well as she can be doing considering she's on the East Coast and I'm way the hell over here :shrug She's coming down in two weeks exactly and I'm gonna show her a GOOD GOOD time... :evil Plus, I'm taking her to the 8.13.00 SBC DMB show! We're totally psyched about it!

[Jessica41]

Ok, so Rome wants to hang out tonight... I havent seen him since January... this should be interesting. Maybe things will be ok though considering I'm missing someone else.

[ryguy178]

Ok, so Rome wants to hang out tonight... I havent seen him since January... this should be interesting. Maybe things will be ok though considering I'm missing someone else.
Hmm..well I hope things work out for the best for you.

[davehead34]

Ok, so Rome wants to hang out tonight... I havent seen him since January... this should be interesting. Maybe things will be ok though considering I'm missing someone else.

I think you need to tell that someone else how you feel...and tell Rome how you feel about someone else....

[Jessica41]

Well he came over tonight...it went well, we had fun. and I'm more confused about what to do than ever. The funny thing is, I don't even think I want the ties of a relationship right now. This is probably bad, but I want the freedom of being single, but I want to be able to love, too.

[il bacio dolce]

Is Rome a hot Italian? :D He has to be.

[gbs3769]

That's not bad at all. It's basically how I am feeling these days. I was in a relationship for so long that it is feeling good to be out there on my own and being able to do what it is that I want and not have to worry about the consequences.

Although there is that side of me that still wants to have the perfect relationship which is why I continue to look.

- Matt

[Jessica41]

Ok so I'm definitely not doing well. And by not doing well, I mean crying. :(

[ryguy178]

Ok so I'm definitely not doing well. And by not doing well, I mean crying. :(
What's wrong?

[jfolden]

Problems? What's happening?

[ryguy178]

Don't leave us hanging like that! :(

[UNC41]

Ok so I'm definitely not doing well. And by not doing well, I mean crying. :(

Hey Jess, I only wish you to be happy, and I wish you were.

[davehead34]

Ok so I'm definitely not doing well. And by not doing well, I mean crying. :(

I'm sorry to hear that, Jess. :hug

[il bacio dolce]

Okay, can't kick ass if we don't know who's ass it is.

[Jessica41]

No one needs their ass kicked. No one did anything wrong. Problems? I'll explain the best way I can. It involves the person who I have adored for 8 years, and I previously explained in this thread that our timing was always off. It just so happens our timing may be right now....but I think I may have recently developed feelings for someone else, which is making me almost not even care that Rome is thinking about me, missing me, etc. All these things I thought I wanted for years are happening, and I'm not feeling how I should because of this other person. If you understand that, congrats. I'm sick and feeling crappy so I'm trying to explain it the best way I can.

[chels012002]

Jess it is going to take some deep thought and alone time to figure out what to do. But only you can make the decision that is right for you.

[gbs3769]

It's almost comical the way that life throws things at you. Relationships are one of those things that life seems to have a twisted irony about as is shown by your current situation. Life has thrown you a perfect opportunity with Rome, which you have been longing for, and has also chosen to present another option to you.

It is my opinion that neither option can be wrong in and of itself and that by some twist of fate (yes I do not believe in it, but it is an appropriate word to use) the better option will be revealed to you.

I am trying to think of a parallel situation from my life so that I can share with you a successful resolution of the current situation but for the most part I have not had such luck where someone that I have adored for so many years has been revealed to me again and that we now have an opportunity to be what we should have been.

I'm sorry I'm not much help, but I'm thinking of you.

- Matt

[gbs3769]

I am officially a terrible facebook stalker. Not only can I not find the girl that I met on the ferry, but I have resorted to stalking 18 and 19 year olds at Syracuse. It's not that I am actively stalking 18 and 19 year olds, it's just that people that graduated with me never got into the facebook because it came out after we graduated.

- Matt

[Jessica41]

but you have me as a friend and that makes it all okay.

[gbs3769]

Well, that just makes my day.

- Matt

[Jessica41]

Wellllllll just had a nice little conversation with Rome. He definitely wants to date. Isn't this my luck. He has been trying to hang out again for the last two days. However, I am sick. and for some strange reason, I don't feel like I used to. This strange reason may be this other person. But I really should rule it out, and I don't know why I can't. I'm just gonna face the fact that I'm scared to date anyone, terrified really, and run away from all this madness...

[ryguy178]

You have to evaluate the possibilities of Non-Rome Male first. And had this non-Rome male not entered the picture at all, what would be your response to Rome.

[ryguy178]

I am officially a terrible facebook stalker. Not only can I not find the girl that I met on the ferry, but I have resorted to stalking 18 and 19 year olds at Syracuse. It's not that I am actively stalking 18 and 19 year olds, it's just that people that graduated with me never got into the facebook because it came out after we graduated.

- Matt

Facebook stalking has become a new American Hobby. We've spent hours gathered around facebook before just looking for like anyone we've ever come across and checking out what kind of loserish groups they were in and stuff.

I hung out with a hot girl one night, went home and facebooked her, and apparently she had like the lamest and weirdest interests. Plus she was a republican, meh.

I'm kidding about that. I don't care.

[ryguy178]

Notice the use of the word "Facebooked" as being a verb.

[Jessica41]

So Ryan how is your love life?

[ryguy178]

So Ryan how is your love life?
Non-existant. Until school starts again...

but even then i'm still Hopeless.

[Bartender84]

Non-existant. Until school starts again...

but even then i'm still Hopeless.
Wow. Sounds pretty much exactly like mine

[Jessica41]

but you said you loved me yesterday...

[AnyonebutBush]

You can run but you cant hide Fockers :twenty4

[Bartender84]

You can run but you cant hide Fockers :twenty4
:eek *runs and hides*

[Jessica41]

:lol :lol

seriously. I did laugh. out loud.

[AnyonebutBush]

:eek *runs and hides*will you brb?

[ryguy178]

but you said you loved me yesterday...
In a "don't beat me up for making fun of your setlist score" kind of way :lol

[AnyonebutBush]

wow everyone did run :o

[Bartender84]

will you brb?
I'm already back, Focker

And I'm wondering to myself why I've never posted in this thread before. It seems perfect for me.

[ryguy178]

You can run but you cant hide Fockers :twenty4
what the HELL are YOU doing here?????!!! :lol :lol :lol :lol

[ryguy178]

I'm already back, Focker

And I'm wondering to myself why I've never posted in this thread before. It seems perfect for me.
welcome to our humble abode of hopelessness.

[Bartender84]

what the HELL are YOU doing here?????!!! :lol :lol :lol :lol
Exactly what I was thinking :lol :lol :lol Nick, I'm telling your girl!

[AnyonebutBush]

what the HELL are YOU doing here?????!!! :lol :lol :lol :lolLindsay is gone therefore I am now a HR for the next week :(

[ryguy178]

Nick you can't be here...your the envy of what all of us HR aim to be!!!!

[Jessica41]

Welcome Vince :hug

[Bartender84]

Nick you can't be here...your the envy of what all of us HR aim to be!!!!
:thumbsup

[ryguy178]

Lindsay is gone therefore I am now a HR for the next week :(
Those women just float in and out of our lives i'll tell ya.

[AnyonebutBush]

Nick you can't be here...your the envy of what all of us HR aim to be!!!!Hey love is work bro..it does not come easy for anyone ..you just have to find someone worth all the work it takes!

[AnyonebutBush]

I feel really bored and lonely tonight :(

[Bartender84]

I feel really bored and lonely tonight :(
That's me every night :(

[AnyonebutBush]

That's me every night :(Have you ever been in love?

[AnyonebutBush]

That's me every night :(I know Im late but happy birthday...:)

[ryguy178]

Hey love is work bro..it does not come easy for anyone ..you just have to find someone worth all the work it takes!
All I want is to find that someone indeed.

I think i'm the atypical college student. I don't want a bunch of messing around or "fun". I just want to find that one person, who as my buddy once said in a drunken state of emotion..."duuuude I just want that one girl I can sit in on friday and watch a romantic comedy with...i'm sick of all this messin around shit.."

[UNC41]

Recently I had decided to go with the don't talk to my ex for the time being and it had been working alright. But then this past week she decided to talk to me 4 different times on MSN and suggested that we should hangout sometime. Then I check my e-mail yesterday morning and she wrote me an e-mail pretty much typing about nothing, which really strikes a spot for me because before we ever hung out face to face we e-mailed each other daily for a couple of months. E-mail had always been kind of a thing between us that we thought of being special for that reason. Just when I think its starting to get a little easier this has to happen.

[redsoxiluv]

Non-existant. Until school starts again...

but even then i'm still Hopeless.

that about sums up my life right now.

[Bartender84]

Have you ever been in love?
Many times. I can only think of two people who've ever really been in love with me though. One is my ex, and the other lives in Minnesota and was a long distance relationship that never became anything

[Bartender84]

All I want is to find that someone indeed.

I think i'm the atypical college student. I don't want a bunch of messing around or "fun". I just want to find that one person, who as my buddy once said in a drunken state of emotion..."duuuude I just want that one girl I can sit in on friday and watch a romantic comedy with...i'm sick of all this messin around shit.."
:thumbsup

[ryguy178]

that about sums up my life right now.
**sigh**

Girls at penn are all rich JAP's. None of them are my type.

[AnyonebutBush]

I have this girl
we share a cot
she is my only
definite spot.
We take a bath
then my lover lays down
she hikes up her skirt
and makes my monkey proud.

[Bartender84]

I have this girl
we share a cot
she is my only
definite spot.
We take a bath
then my lover lays down
she hikes up her skirt
and makes my monkey proud.
I hate you and I am jealous of you and you are a focker

[ryguy178]

I have this girl
we share a cot
she is my only
definite spot.
We take a bath
then my lover lays down
she hikes up her skirt
and makes my monkey proud.
Stop flaunting your love.



And you would make a good poet.

Perhaps next weeks Spotting Digest will feature an article on your artistic side.

[redsoxiluv]

All I want is to find that someone indeed.

I think i'm the atypical college student. I don't want a bunch of messing around or "fun". I just want to find that one person, who as my buddy once said in a drunken state of emotion..."duuuude I just want that one girl I can sit in on friday and watch a romantic comedy with...i'm sick of all this messin around shit.."

I wish more guys at my school had your attitude. there are the really long term relationships and there are the drunken hookups, with almost nothing in between.

and I am hopeless. I dont know why I didnt open this thread sooner.

[AnyonebutBush]

I hate you and I am jealous of you and you are a fockerWhen I see you Im gonna give you a big hug and cook you a hot dog :thumbsup ....

p.s she is not a definite spot... she likes to be

12/18/3

I want to be

15/18/12

Hehe I am a definite spot :thumbsup

[watchtwrwildcat]

Have you ever been in love?abso-fuckin'-lutely.

[AnyonebutBush]

I write serious songs too :monkey

[Bartender84]

and I am hopeless. I dont know why I didnt open this thread sooner.

Me neither. I guess I'm just too depressed about it to talk about. Seriously, all I want right now is that kind of relationship, not physical, just someone I can be with and talk to openly.

[davehead34]

I've said this before, and I'll say it once again. If they're 18, they're game. So what - you have some detective work that needs to be done? No biggy. Just make sure you don't get caught peeping in windows...

[AnyonebutBush]

I really hope the day comes soon for all you sweet people.everybody knows about how guys can be pigs,,but then you see all these sweet guys and wonder why they are not stolen away by now :shrug

[AnyonebutBush]

just dont settle :thumbsup
everybody can get a dreamgirl...wait for her to come to you!

[ryguy178]

When I see you Im gonna give you a big hug and cook you a hot dog :thumbsup ....

p.s she is not a definite spot... she likes to be

12/18/3

I want to be

15/18/12

Hehe I am a definite spot :thumbsup
You are so fucking weird :lol

[AnyonebutBush]

Maybe I should start a ants dating service.....

[ryguy178]

I've said this before, and I'll say it once again. If they're 18, they're game. So what - you have some detective work that needs to be done? No biggy. Just make sure you don't get caught peeping in windows...

The completely drunken randomness of this post is what makes it so fucking funny :lol :lol :lol :lol

[AnyonebutBush]

You are so fucking weird :lolWhat??he doesnt like steaks or burgers :twak ..I like hugs :twak I like to get busy wit it :twak whats so wierd? :confused

[davehead34]

I wish more guys at my school had your attitude. there are the really long term relationships and there are the drunken hookups, with almost nothing in between.

and I am hopeless. I dont know why I didnt open this thread sooner.

You didn't open this thread ealier because you've always been too busy looking up the stats on the Red Sox.

Anyways, there's nothing wrong with the occassional drunken hookup; however, they should be few and far between. I really don't understand why there isn't more emphasis on actual "dating" now a days. Yes, I do sound a bit like a traditionalist, which I am most ceratinly not...but come on - everyone needs love! Right?....

[ryguy178]

Maybe I should start a ants dating service.....
Didn't they try that???

http://www.antsmarching.org/forum/showthread.php?t=136389&highlight=dating+service

[AnyonebutBush]

I think one night stands are just fine as well. as long as both parties are honest and careful...

[Jessica41]

Right! and with that I am PMing you back.

[ryguy178]

just dont settle :thumbsup
everybody can get a dreamgirl...wait for her to come to you!
I would dig a hole all the way to china for my dreamgirl.


ALthough i'm really not into the whole Asian thing..meh.

[Bartender84]

I think one night stands are just fine as well. as long as both parties are honest and careful...
I've never even had a one night stand

[ryguy178]

You didn't open this thread ealier because you've always been too busy looking up the stats on the Red Sox.



I can get off to Manny's and Papi's STATS.

[Bartender84]

Didn't they try that???

http://www.antsmarching.org/forum/showthread.php?t=136389&highlight=dating+service
:lol

I just really hope the girl I eventually find is into DMB

[AnyonebutBush]

Didn't they try that???

http://www.antsmarching.org/forum/showthread.php?t=136389&highlight=dating+serviceI am suprised that I dont see many ants hooking up...I thinking all the chatting is good. Its good to start on the inside and work your way out.

[ryguy178]

Point of note: Real men don't call it "Flippy Cup"

[AnyonebutBush]

I've never even had a one night standI have had a few but its not anything to special..Its nothing like looking down at the woman you love.

[ryguy178]

I have had a few but its not anything to special..Its nothing like looking down at the woman you love.
Funny...I pictured you as looking up.



:lol

[AnyonebutBush]

Funny...I pictured you as looking up.



:lollately I have been :lol

[Bartender84]

I am suprised that I dont see many ants hooking up...I thinking all the chatting is good. Its good to start on the inside and work your way out.
I think the problem for me is that I don't do long distance relationships very well. It's kind of depressing not to actually be with the person.

If I found the perfect girl, then I'd do it

[Bartender84]

I haven't even been on a date in 3 years :(

[AnyonebutBush]

I never finished a song about waiting to have love its called Pacing Again..I think when I am done her I am going to try and finish it actually

[Bartender84]

It's kind of odd, because for the first 16 years of my life I had no luck at all. Then, over the course of 2 years I had 4 girlfriends, one of which was online. And now nothing new since high school ended.

[AnyonebutBush]

I haven't even been on a date in 3 years :(I saw your picture and your a good looking guy...Are you maybe a little too shy? Three years is a long time bro talk to me brother.

[AnyonebutBush]

It's kind of odd, because for the first 16 years of my life I had no luck at all. Then, over the course of 2 years I had 4 girlfriends, one of which was online. And now nothing new since high school ended.Do you live in a small town?

[ryguy178]

i've never had a serious GF.

I didn't help I was in love with the same person for 4 years.

[Bartender84]

I saw your picture and your a good looking guy...Are you maybe a little too shy? Three years is a long time bro talk to me brother.
Yep, that's mostly it. I'm really shy. I just find it incredibly hard to meet new people, in real life that is. On the internet, I'm fine.

[AnyonebutBush]

i've never had a serious GF.

I didn't help I was in love with the same person for 4 years.what happened after the 4 years?

[Bartender84]

Do you live in a small town?
Not really. Not a big city, but there's a lot of people here. I don't know the exact population.

Main problem is that I just don't get out of the house that much. Once I get a job and then get a car I will.

[redsoxiluv]

You didn't open this thread ealier because you've always been too busy looking up the stats on the Red Sox.

Anyways, there's nothing wrong with the occassional drunken hookup; however, they should be few and far between. I really don't understand why there isn't more emphasis on actual "dating" now a days. Yes, I do sound a bit like a traditionalist, which I am most ceratinly not...but come on - everyone needs love! Right?....

eh, my "drunken hookups" have never been anything more than making out, but even then I felt weird about it later. I guess I just don't like the idea of not getting to know someone before getting physical, but it seems like that's not the way things are done anymore. and part of the reason I'm lonely. being way too shy doesn't help, either.