**The Official Hopeless Romantics Thread**

[newscane]

New Orleans for NYE would kick ass!!!! One of my favorite places in the country is the French Quarter.. unfortunately my wallet disagrees with me.
Another bump in that road... hotels around there usually jack up their rates and/or have multi-night minimums because of the Sugar Bowl (Jan 3rd this year). I went a few years ago when Miami played UF... one night in a hotel cost me about $175!!

[Jessica41]

Where is everyone?

I was at work. Then I went to see Dan for a couple hours. Now I'm home and waiting for my food to get here since I have not eaten ALL day, too busy.

[DMBfan41]

who delivers at this hour?

[Jessica41]

who delivers at this hour?

Two Boys from Italy! Cheesesteak yum.

[whiteysax]

it just struck me... if any of you guys are interested in hitting up the Central PA area for New Years... the Hershey Bears always play a New Years Eve game, finished in plenty of time to go somewhere and party... that's usually what I do for New Years... if you're interested, I can definitely hook us up with tickets and food coupons!

[phelps1540630]

it just struck me... if any of you guys are interested in hitting up the Central PA area for New Years... the Hershey Bears always play a New Years Eve game, finished in plenty of time to go somewhere and party... that's usually what I do for New Years... if you're interested, I can definitely hook us up with tickets and food coupons!

That actually sounds like a good idea but I'll be in chi-town for NYE...

[whiteysax]

That actually sounds like a good idea but I'll be in chi-town for NYE...that's my back-up plan ;)

[davehead34]

So, you do actually make it to Vegas? :lol

:lol Not THAT time, but I've been to Vegas about 7 or 8 times. :D

[whiteysax]

ok guys... here's my quandry...
I have airline credit where I MUST fly and be back before Jan 7 or I can't use it. and being that ticket prices will only continue to rise, I need to book ASAP. If we're doing something, we need to figure it out preferably by the end of this week... If nothing is going down, I'm planning on spending New Years in Chicago... otherwise I'll go to Chicago for a few days and come back to hang out with you guys...

[davehead34]

it just struck me... if any of you guys are interested in hitting up the Central PA area for New Years... the Hershey Bears always play a New Years Eve game, finished in plenty of time to go somewhere and party... that's usually what I do for New Years... if you're interested, I can definitely hook us up with tickets and food coupons!

Is that hockey or something?

[davehead34]

ok guys... here's my quandry...
I have airline credit where I MUST fly and be back before Jan 7 or I can't use it. and being that ticket prices will only continue to rise, I need to book ASAP. If we're doing something, we need to figure it out preferably by the end of this week... If nothing is going down, I'm planning on spending New Years in Chicago... otherwise I'll go to Chicago for a few days and come back to hang out with you guys...

Airlines are such pains in the ass about thier miles. I agree - we should decide soon.

[Jessica41]

Well I said I'm open to anything that's not expensive. So you guys figure out what you want to do...

[whiteysax]

Is that hockey or something?yes... it's minor league hockey and i LOVE it! I've gone to the NYE game the past 4 yrs or so...

Airlines are such pains in the ass about thier miles. I agree - we should decide soon.yeah... but i completely understand why the time restraint... but i have to know whether to book a flight coming home on jan 1 or dec 30...

Well I said I'm open to anything that's not expensive. So you guys figure out what you want to do...well the bears game would probably be $22 and include hotdog, drink, and popcorn... hotel might get expensive though

[phelps1540630]

yeah... but i completely understand why the time restraint... but i have to know whether to book a flight coming home on jan 1 or dec 30...


I'm coming home on the 1st... I would come home on the 2nd but I have work on the 2nd...

[whiteysax]

I'm coming home on the 1st... I would come home on the 2nd but I have work on the 2nd...
me too... and i was just told that the people we're playing the wedding reception for want us to play their engagement party the week between christmas and new years... so looks like if we do that, Chicago is out for good. but it's good money i can use

[phelps1540630]

me too... and i was just told that the people we're playing the wedding reception for want us to play their engagement party the week between christmas and new years... so looks like if we do that, Chicago is out for good. but it's good money i can use

I think that is so awesome Chris that you are getting gigs even if they are small ones... I wish I had some musical talent...

[whiteysax]

I think that is so awesome Chris that you are getting gigs even if they are small ones... I wish I had some musical talent...
well, it maybe a "small gig"... but its for a loaded family and we're getting paid more than I've ever made playing in a band...

[phelps1540630]

well, it maybe a "small gig"... but its for a loaded family and we're getting paid more than I've ever made playing in a band...

Thats awesome... Congrats!!!

[whiteysax]

Thats awesome... Congrats!!!thanks man!

[jguinan101]

Okay, I just got some pretty crazy news through a mutual friend, but I'll recap a little bit first. My ex and I dated for about 2 1/2 years then broke it off for about 6 months and after being back together for another 6 months we recently stoped talking about three weeks ago when she got back with a guy she was with for about 2 months. Anyway after talking to a mutual friend of my ex's about a week after she got back with this guy they were telling each other they love each other. Now last night I find out they are talking about getting married. I am just kind of floored by this news, I don't even know what to think. I guess in some ways it is kind of good because it kind of makes me realize she was apparently not any where close to the person I thought she was. It's just like wow what happend, she was telling me she loved me less than a month ago, hanging out with me everyday, and staying over 3 or 4 nights a week, and now she is telling some guy she has less than 3 months of history with, including the original 2 months which she ended because he did some very questionable things. I guess maybe she liked him a little more than I ever knew and maybe she just got back with me to ease the pain of him acting a little crazy. Who knows but apparently I have got to shake this girl. While this is some hard news to stomach I think it will help me put a different spin on our her mental state and exactly how much I "need" her or how good she would be for me anyway. Hopefully when she comes crawling back (like all her friends keep telling she will, me I'm not so sure) I will be over her and be able to shove it all in her face, instead of being an idiot and getting back with her. While I will always be there for her, hopefully I don't let myself get sucked back in a relationship with her if things do change.

[whiteysax]

Okay, I just got some pretty crazy news through a mutual friend, but I'll recap a little bit first. My ex and I dated for about 2 1/2 years then broke it off for about 6 months and after being back together for another 6 months we recently stoped talking about three weeks ago when she got back with a guy she was with for about 2 months. Anyway after talking to a mutual friend of my ex's about a week after she got back with this guy they were telling each other they love each other. Now last night I find out they are talking about getting married. I am just kind of floored by this news, I don't even know what to think. I guess in some ways it is kind of good because it kind of makes me realize she was apparently not any where close to the person I thought she was. It's just like wow what happend, she was telling me she loved me less than a month ago, hanging out with me everyday, and staying over 3 or 4 nights a week, and now she is telling some guy she has less than 3 months of history with, including the original 2 months which she ended because he did some very questionable things. I guess maybe she liked him a little more than I ever knew and maybe she just got back with me to ease the pain of him acting a little crazy. Who knows but apparently I have got to shake this girl. While this is some hard news to stomach I think it will help me put a different spin on our her mental state and exactly how much I "need" her or how good she would be for me anyway. Hopefully when she comes crawling back (like all her friends keep telling she will, me I'm not so sure) I will be over her and be able to shove it all in her face, instead of being an idiot and getting back with her. While I will always be there for her, hopefully I don't let myself get sucked back in a relationship with her if things do change.stay strong man. No woman should ever have complete emotional control over you. Live life for you!

[jguinan101]

stay strong man. No woman should ever have complete emotional control over you. Live life for you!

yeah i'm tryin, she will have that control for a while, you know when someone is such a big part of your life when they just poof and take off a little part of you dies, and the worst part is it dies slowly. i have always lived life for myself, and until just recently part of making myself happy ment making her happy, you know its just what i loved to do. but i will continue to make myself happy and do what i like and she wont be part of my life anymore and ill move on, eventually. damn you time, you go so slow sometimes. here's a line from my man jack johnson, "a short times a long time when your mind just wont let go"

[whiteysax]

yeah i'm tryin, she will have that control for a while, you know when someone is such a big part of your life when they just poof and take off a little part of you dies, and the worst part is it dies slowly. i have always lived life for myself, and until just recently part of making myself happy ment making her happy, you know its just what i loved to do. but i will continue to make myself happy and do what i like and she wont be part of my life anymore and ill move on, eventually. damn you time, you go so slow sometimes. here's a line from my man jack johnson, "a short times a long time when your mind just wont let go"yeah... sometime you do need some time. But if she does show up in the near future, don't let things go sour. If you wanna make her happy, that's very chivalrous and admirable... but if she's only gonna continue to string you along, remember that making YOU happy comes above making her happy if she isn't willing to reciprocate. If she genuinely DOES want to make you as happy as you make her, then by all means, go for it. But if her intentions are to come out on top, drop her like a ton of bricks...

[jguinan101]

yeah... sometime you do need some time. But if she does show up in the near future, don't let things go sour. If you wanna make her happy, that's very chivalrous and admirable... but if she's only gonna continue to string you along, remember that making YOU happy comes above making her happy if she isn't willing to reciprocate. If she genuinely DOES want to make you as happy as you make her, then by all means, go for it. But if her intentions are to come out on top, drop her like a ton of bricks...

hopefully i will be able to see the situation objectively if it comes up. sometimes those damn feelings can get in the way of that, but i think it will be okay, i think she is gone for good and i wont have to worry about her coming back and hurting me again. plus i would hope that if she did happen to come back it would be because she realized something and she wouldnt hurt me again. if i do have that situation i will take it slowly and make sure i dont make myself vulnerable, thanks whitey you're the man!

[whiteysax]

hopefully i will be able to see the situation objectively if it comes up. sometimes those damn feelings can get in the way of that, but i think it will be okay, i think she is gone for good and i wont have to worry about her coming back and hurting me again. plus i would hope that if she did happen to come back it would be because she realized something and she wouldnt hurt me again. if i do have that situation i will take it slowly and make sure i dont make myself vulnerable, thanks whitey you're the man!anytime joe!

[whiteysax]

i kind of know what you mean .. i found a great guy and then it ended after 2 years .. you always want what you can't have .. other guys want to be with me but i just want to be with him .. i hope i don't loose all hope in men lol cause i know they're not all the same .. and hopefully everything will work out with you you'll find mrs. right :)welcome to our humble thread... what are you doing for new years? ;)

[whiteysax]

i quoted someone... where'd they go?!

[Jessica41]

I'm happy :D

[whiteysax]

I'm happy :Di'd love to hear about it... but i'm dead tired... i'll read all about it in the morning :monkey

[DMBfan41]

So I just saw.....

don't laugh.....

Panic! At The Disco

[phelps1540630]

I'm happy :D

:thumbsup Always good news...

[davehead34]

So I just saw.....

don't laugh.....

Panic! At The Disco

You know how I know you're gay? You just saw Panic! at the Disco. :lol

;)

[whiteysax]

You know how I know you're gay? You just saw Panic! at the Disco. :lol

;)

:lol:lol nice!

[Jessica41]

i'd love to hear about it... but i'm dead tired... i'll read all about it in the morning :monkey

haha i dont have a long story, I'm just happy:)

[whiteysax]

haha i dont have a long story, I'm just happy:)ah, ok... well good for you then :) yay for Jess:bounce

[phelps1540630]

You know how I know you're gay? You just saw Panic! at the Disco. :lol

;)

:lol I went and saw +44 (Mark and Travis from Blink-182's new band) this past sunday in philly...

[gbs3769]

I am going to see RRFB this weekend in NYC. And sadly I don't have tickets to Damien Rice tomorrow night at Hiro. :whines

- Primo

[phelps1540630]

I am going to see RRFB this weekend in NYC. And sadly I don't have tickets to Damien Rice tomorrow night at Hiro. :whines

- Primo

:thumbsup for RRFB and :thumbsdow for no tickets to Damien Rice... I'm having my gf visit me this weekend which means the best weekend ever...

[Jessica41]

:thumbsup for RRFB and :thumbsdow for no tickets to Damien Rice... I'm having my gf visit me this weekend which means the best weekend ever...

Aww, have fun :)

[SteelerMan]

While this is some hard news to stomach I think it will help me put a different spin on our her mental state and exactly how much I "need" her or how good she would be for me anyway. Hopefully when she comes crawling back (like all her friends keep telling she will, me I'm not so sure) I will be over her and be able to shove it all in her face, instead of being an idiot and getting back with her. While I will always be there for her, hopefully I don't let myself get sucked back in a relationship with her if things do change.

:thumbsup

Yeah, I kind of know what you're going through. If anything, this should make things easier on you... she's obviously not the person you thought she was, and it honestly doesn't sound like she's a very stable individual. As for wanting to "shove it in her face" if she comes back, I totally understand, but don't let your desire for revenge consume you. It's best just to move on and forget about her. Like my best friend told me, "Just rip it off like a band aid."

[DMBfan41]

You know how I know you're gay? You just saw Panic! at the Disco. :lol

;)

oh shut up :lol

i'll tell you, originally, Bloc Party was supposed to open for Panic! So I was mainly going to see how all the emo kids would react to indie music. But, the drummer got a collapsed lung so they had to cancel a few gigs, of course they have to cancel MSG.

So, the show was Panic!, Jack's Mannequin, and Plain White T's. It was the most emo thing i've ever seen. I've gone to a lot of emo shows, but this was the first one that I can honestly say, I felt old. Especially after two 15 year old girls hit on me.

So, I have to say, no more emo shows for me.

But, considering the fact that Panic! only has one album, they played an hour set, and they were fun. They sounded pretty good. The best (and worst) part of the show, they did covers of Queen's Killer Queen and The Beatles' Eleanor Rigby. And the kids were like "WHAT SONG IS THIS?" "IS THIS A NEW SONG?"

I can forgive people for not knowing that Cortez The Killer is not a Neil Young song. But, if you don't know Queen.....and if you don't know THE BEATLES?????? I'm sorry, I can't handle that.

[SteelerMan]

So I just saw.....

don't laugh.....

Panic! At The Disco

How was it? I've heard their live show is very overdramatic.

I'd also like to hear about +44.

Edit: Nevermind, I see your post. How were Plain White T's? They're playing at a show in Dallas I'm thinking about going to.

[Jessica41]

text: "morning sweetheart, i miss you! wish i could give you a big kiss :)"

would you say thats a boyfriend thing to say?

[dmbigeyedphish]

text: "morning sweetheart, i miss you! wish i could give you a big kiss :)"

would you say thats a boyfriend thing to say?

Yes ma'am.

[DMBfan41]

How was it? I've heard their live show is very overdramatic.

I'd also like to hear about +44.

Edit: Nevermind, I see your post. How were Plain White T's? They're playing at a show in Dallas I'm thinking about going to.

they weren't really overdramatic. They were what they are...they are a cabaret act. I felt like I was at the circus and they were playing in the main ring. But, they were good.

Plain White T's are your typical sad emo band. Absolutely terrible.

This is the chorus of their new song


Hate is a strong word
But i really, really, really don't like you
Now that it's over
I don't even know what I liked about you
Brought you around and you just brought me down
Hate is a strong word
But I really, really, really don't like you
I really don't like you


wow!

[dmbigeyedphish]

they weren't really overdramatic. They were what they are...they are a cabaret act. I felt like I was at the circus and they were playing in the main ring. But, they were good.

Plain White T's are your typical sad emo band. Absolutely terrible.

This is the chorus of their new song


Hate is a strong word
But i really, really, really don't like you
Now that it's over
I don't even know what I liked about you
Brought you around and you just brought me down
Hate is a strong word
But I really, really, really don't like you
I really don't like you


wow!

Wow, such passion.:rolleyes

[SteelerMan]

they weren't really overdramatic. They were what they are...they are a cabaret act. I felt like I was at the circus and they were playing in the main ring. But, they were good.

Plain White T's are your typical sad emo band. Absolutely terrible.

This is the chorus of their new song


Hate is a strong word
But i really, really, really don't like you
Now that it's over
I don't even know what I liked about you
Brought you around and you just brought me down
Hate is a strong word
But I really, really, really don't like you
I really don't like you


wow!

Yikes, that's pretty bad. Maybe I'll pass on that show in Dallas... it is extremely emo-ish, which I don't mind, but I'm not sure I'd enjoy an emo concert.

Taking Back Sunday
30 Seconds to Mars
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
Kill Hannah
Black Tie Dynasty
Plain White T's

I have been really wanting to see A.F.I. though.

[eachibon]

omg, chris! i (finally) just won a game on the difficult level of spider solitaire! i'm so excited!

[DMBfan41]

Yikes, that's pretty bad. Maybe I'll pass on that show in Dallas... it is extremely emo-ish, which I don't mind, but I'm not sure I'd enjoy an emo concert.

Taking Back Sunday
30 Seconds to Mars
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
Kill Hannah
Black Tie Dynasty
Plain White T's

I have been really wanting to see A.F.I. though.

Ugh. Taking Back Sunday, 30 Seconds To Mars, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, Plain White T's. I'd pass.

I saw AFI i think I mentioned it, two weeks ago. They sounded great, but if you are a fan of older AFI, you definately won't enjoy it

[SteelerMan]

Ugh. Taking Back Sunday, 30 Seconds To Mars, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, Plain White T's. I'd pass.

I saw AFI i think I mentioned it, two weeks ago. They sounded great, but if you are a fan of older AFI, you definately won't enjoy it

Taking Back Sunday is alright, but I'm not a fan of the rest.

I prefer older AFI, but I like the new stuff a lot too. I've seen a couple of their recent setlists, and I think I'd be pretty satisfied.

[dmbosw41]

hi HR's:monkey

[whiteysax]

text: "morning sweetheart, i miss you! wish i could give you a big kiss :)"

would you say thats a boyfriend thing to say?does it matter? i thought you were taking it slow...

omg, chris! i (finally) just won a game on the difficult level of spider solitaire! i'm so excited!isn't it exciting!!!??! Such a feeling of accomplishment while those fireworks go off for you... congrats!!! :multi

hi HR's:monkey
Kris!!! what's up man? Dunno if you've gotten wind of the news... I'm highly considering a move to chicago either summer of 2007 or 2008

[Jessica41]

does it matter? i thought you were taking it slow...



I am. I think it does matter, don't you?

[phelps1540630]

I am. I think it does matter, don't you?

I don't think it matters... I've always been of the belief that things will happen as they happen... It may fast, it may be slow... Things are meant to happen when they are supposed to happen...

[SteelerMan]

Being single is about to get tough... I haven't been alone for Thanksgiving/Christmas in 7 years. :( Looking at Christmas decorations yesterday made me feel pretty depressed.

[phelps1540630]

Being single is about to get tough... I haven't been alone for Thanksgiving/Christmas in 7 years. :( Looking at Christmas decorations yesterday made me feel pretty depressed.


Holidays are the woooorstttt....

[SteelerMan]

Holidays are the woooorstttt....

Yeah... I'm not handling it too well.

[phelps1540630]

Yeah... I'm not handling it too well.

I usually don't either... Perfectly understandable...

[whiteysax]

I am. I think it does matter, don't you?it may mean something... i'm just saying, don't let the excitement of a "new guy" or the want to not be alone skew your judgement. I just don't want to see you get hurt again.

I don't think it matters... I've always been of the belief that things will happen as they happen... It may fast, it may be slow... Things are meant to happen when they are supposed to happen...true... you just have to take it in stride.

Being single is about to get tough... I haven't been alone for Thanksgiving/Christmas in 7 years. :( Looking at Christmas decorations yesterday made me feel pretty depressed.i dont' get too depressed around the holidays. They usually put me in such a good mood I actually have more hope :cool

[davehead86]

Yeah... I'm not handling it too well.

Hey thanx for the help with emulators, found exactly what i needed.




And yes, the holidays are shitty for me. This will be my second year without someone to share them with and while i know i can do it, its just shitty to see everyone so happy and cuddling all the time. Ugh. Gotta keep the head up though. :cool

[jguinan101]

And yes, the holidays are shitty for me. This will be my second year without someone to share them with and while i know i can do it, its just shitty to see everyone so happy and cuddling all the time. Ugh. Gotta keep the head up though. :cool

yeah gotta keep the head up, my birthday is dec. 28 and new years might be tough, other than that im not to worried about xmas or thanksgiving im okay with those holidays i think

[Jessica41]

I don't think it matters... I've always been of the belief that things will happen as they happen... It may fast, it may be slow... Things are meant to happen when they are supposed to happen...

I agree.. my point is that they are happening...I dont want to stop it

[OlivePoet]

I get to see Primo in a few hours. :heartflutter

[Jessica41]

it may mean something... i'm just saying, don't let the excitement of a "new guy" or the want to not be alone skew your judgement. I just don't want to see you get hurt again.

I know. Nothing is skewed right now. I enjoy being with him, and I have fun with him. Tonight he said to me "I like being with you and I want to keep being with you." So I don't want to stop that.

[Jessica41]

I get to see Primo in a few hours. :heartflutter

:):)

[OlivePoet]

:thumbsup for RRFB and :thumbsdow for no tickets to Damien Rice... I'm having my gf visit me this weekend which means the best weekend ever...

My sister. :p

[dmbosw41]

does it matter? i thought you were taking it slow...

isn't it exciting!!!??! Such a feeling of accomplishment while those fireworks go off for you... congrats!!! :multi


Kris!!! what's up man? Dunno if you've gotten wind of the news... I'm highly considering a move to chicago either summer of 2007 or 2008


Dude that is awesome! We will have to talk more. I could easily be there as well. Who knows....all I know its gonna be a fun Summer of shows!!:D

[whiteysax]

I know. Nothing is skewed right now. I enjoy being with him, and I have fun with him. Tonight he said to me "I like being with you and I want to keep being with you." So I don't want to stop that.
ok, i'm happy that you're happy... i wish you the best of luck!

[/b]


Dude that is awesome! We will have to talk more. I could easily be there as well. Who knows....all I know its gonna be a fun Summer of shows!!:D
for sure... there's a bit of a chance i'll be headed toward syracuse... but we'll see.

[phelps1540630]

My sister. :p

who is awesome...

[gbs3769]

Holidays are the woooorstttt....
I always think of this John Mayer song when I think of people being alone for the holidays. I don't know why.

Here comes the cold
Break out the winter clothes
And find a love to call your own
You - enter you
Your cheeks a shade of pink
And the rest of you in powder blue

Who knows what will be
But I'll make you this guarantee

No way November will see our goodbye
When it comes to December it's obvious why
No one wants to be alone at Christmas time

In the dark, on the phone
You tell me the names of your brothers
And your favorite colors
I'm learning you
And when it snows again
We'll take a walk outside
And search the sky
Like children do
I'll say to you

No way November will see our goodbye
When it comes to December it's obvious why
No one wants to be alone at Christmas time
And come January we're frozen inside
Making new resolutions a hundred times
February, won't you be my valentine?

And we'll both be safe 'til St. Patrick's Day

We should take a ride tonight around the town
and look around at all the beautiful houses
something in the way that blue lights on a black night
can make you feel more
everybody, it seems to me, just wants to be
just like you and me

No one wants to be alone at Christmas time
Come January we're frozen inside
Making new resolutions a hundred times
February, won't you be my valentine?

And if our always is all that we gave
And we someday take that away
I'll be alright if it was just 'til St. Patrick's Day

- Primo

[gbs3769]

who is awesome...
Yeah, my BFF is pretty cool.

- Primo

[phelps1540630]

Yeah, my BFF is pretty cool.

- Primo

Pretty much like the most awesome girl ever...

[phelps1540630]

I always think of this John Mayer song when I think of people being alone for the holidays. I don't know why.

Here comes the cold
Break out the winter clothes
And find a love to call your own
You - enter you
Your cheeks a shade of pink
And the rest of you in powder blue

Who knows what will be
But I'll make you this guarantee

No way November will see our goodbye
When it comes to December it's obvious why
No one wants to be alone at Christmas time

In the dark, on the phone
You tell me the names of your brothers
And your favorite colors
I'm learning you
And when it snows again
We'll take a walk outside
And search the sky
Like children do
I'll say to you

No way November will see our goodbye
When it comes to December it's obvious why
No one wants to be alone at Christmas time
And come January we're frozen inside
Making new resolutions a hundred times
February, won't you be my valentine?

And we'll both be safe 'til St. Patrick's Day

We should take a ride tonight around the town
and look around at all the beautiful houses
something in the way that blue lights on a black night
can make you feel more
everybody, it seems to me, just wants to be
just like you and me

No one wants to be alone at Christmas time
Come January we're frozen inside
Making new resolutions a hundred times
February, won't you be my valentine?

And if our always is all that we gave
And we someday take that away
I'll be alright if it was just 'til St. Patrick's Day

- Primo

Great song... One of the songs that got me into Mayer back in 01... BEST NEWS EVER is that Michelle and I are going to see Mayer in Feb. at ISU...

[SteelerMan]

Hey thanx for the help with emulators, found exactly what i needed.

No problem at all. What kind of systems/games are you playing? I'm thinking about playing through Earthbound again.

[DMBfan41]

so, i had a dream that we had a road trip to Toronto, ha ha.

[jguinan101]

speaking of dreams... i had a dream about my ex last night, actually a few. they are the worst, everything is good and you are hanging out then poof, you wake up and the reality sets in. you can't even pick up the phone and call them. they are 15 minutes down the road but in all reality they are a milliion miles away, damn that is a lonely feeling, i hate stupid dreams like that, why couldnt i have a dream about me and brook burke in a hot tub, although i would be a little depressed waking up from that one too!

[whiteysax]

I had 3 dreams the other nite... it was nuts. The only one i remember now is that i was standing off stage with my sax and DMB was onstage and some guy in a suit came up to me and congratulated me for doing such a good job guesting with the band this year. It was apparently the last show of a tour and the guy in the suit said that after the show there was a contract waiting for me to sign. It was crazy

[phelps1540630]

I had 3 dreams the other nite... it was nuts. The only one i remember now is that i was standing off stage with my sax and DMB was onstage and some guy in a suit came up to me and congratulated me for doing such a good job guesting with the band this year. It was apparently the last show of a tour and the guy in the suit said that after the show there was a contract waiting for me to sign. It was crazy

Were you jamming with Roi and Rashawn or was it just you???

[gbs3769]

Great song... One of the songs that got me into Mayer back in 01... BEST NEWS EVER is that Michelle and I are going to see Mayer in Feb. at ISU...
Don't worry about getting there early to see Matt Kearney. He is a douchebag.

- Primo

[whiteysax]

Were you jamming with Roi and Rashawn or was it just you???dunno... i was just standing off stage talking to this guy... then i woke up...

[phelps1540630]

Don't worry about getting there early to see Matt Kearney. He is a douchebag.

- Primo

Thanks for the heads up... I wasn't planning on going in early anyway and I'm sure Michelle won't care either way...

[phelps1540630]

dunno... i was just standing off stage talking to this guy... then i woke up...

Chris, Rashawn, and Roi... What a killer combo...:thumbsup

[whiteysax]

Chris, Rashawn, and Roi... What a killer combo...:thumbsupyeah... 1 big black guy, 1 REALLY big black guy, and a skinny white guy...

[phelps1540630]

yeah... 1 big black guy, 1 REALLY big black guy, and a skinny white guy...

:lol :lol :lol You should see the picture I have with Rashawn... He makes me look so small...

[jguinan101]

wow, page 2, dont know what to say...

[Jessica41]

heyyyy la la la hey

[whiteysax]

hey guys... you put anymore thought into NYE? I hate to do this, but if it isn't definitely by Sunday, I'm probably gonna end up booking a flight to Chicago for NYE.

[DMBfan41]

i thought we were gonna do something....but not NYE...

[whiteysax]

i thought we were gonna do something....but not NYE...when/where?

[DMBfan41]

when/where?

there answers to these questions....i just don't have them

[SteelerMan]

hey guys... you put anymore thought into NYE? I hate to do this, but if it isn't definitely by Sunday, I'm probably gonna end up booking a flight to Chicago for NYE.

I'm considering driving to Chicago for New Year's Eve as well. My best friend moved up there earlier this year.

[phelps1540630]

hey guys... you put anymore thought into NYE? I hate to do this, but if it isn't definitely by Sunday, I'm probably gonna end up booking a flight to Chicago for NYE.

I'll be in Chi-town too...:thumbsup

[Jessica41]

Maybe we should plan something for a different time other than NYE. Everyone is going to be scattered, and I would like it to be a time when we can all get together at the same time.

[whiteysax]

Maybe we should plan something for a different time other than NYE. Everyone is going to be scattered, and I would like it to be a time when we can all get together at the same time.we we're definitely putting somethign together for sometime soon after NYE?

[phelps1540630]

we we're definitely putting somethign together for sometime soon after NYE?

A Jan. get together would be P.I.M.P...

[whiteysax]

i have a long weekend for MLK Day, as I'm sure you do as well, phelps.

[Jessica41]

Oh I was thinking December, but I suppose Jan could work too.

[whiteysax]

Oh I was thinking December, but I suppose Jan could work too.either or... i was thinking, aside from the busy christmas break, there's really no other long weekend in Dec... jan has MLK day...

[Jessica41]

either or... i was thinking, aside from the busy christmas break, there's really no other long weekend in Dec... jan has MLK day...

I'll prob still have school/work

[whiteysax]

I'll prob still have school/work:shrug hmmm

[phelps1540630]

i have a long weekend for MLK Day, as I'm sure you do as well, phelps.

I do but the GF is coming in on MLK weekend since it was an extended time when I could see her...

[SteelerMan]

:lol

I got a girl's number at Barnes & Noble tonight... sounds like no big deal, but that's actually the first time I've ever approached a girl in public. They were about 15 minutes from closing, and we had both been there for 2+ hours and were the only two left, so we started talking. Not sure if I'll end up calling her, but I'm sure I'll run into her there again.

[SteelerMan]

I'll be in Chi-town too...:thumbsup

Wow... so three of us will most likely be in Chicago for New Year's Eve. Just out of curiosity, what part of Chicago will you guys be hanging out in? If I go, I'll probably be in Blue Island.

[DMBfan41]

Just wanted to let you guys know that

I got tix to see Dave in Oxford, England baby!!!!!!!!!!!

[whiteysax]

Wow... so three of us will most likely be in Chicago for New Year's Eve. Just out of curiosity, what part of Chicago will you guys be hanging out in? If I go, I'll probably be in Blue Island.
wherever the rest of teh gang is hanging out

[whiteysax]

Just wanted to let you guys know that

I got tix to see Dave in Oxford, England baby!!!!!!!!!!!
congrats bro!!!! have a blast!!!!:bounce:bounce

[phelps1540630]

Wow... so three of us will most likely be in Chicago for New Year's Eve. Just out of curiosity, what part of Chicago will you guys be hanging out in? If I go, I'll probably be in Blue Island.

No clue... It is my gf's bday so wherever she wants to go... On another note, I'm picking my gf up from BWI after work today...:bounce :bounce :bounce

[Jessica41]

Just wanted to let you guys know that

I got tix to see Dave in Oxford, England baby!!!!!!!!!!!

:multi :multi :multi WOOHOO!

[jguinan101]

so second page again, where is everyone, so after not talkin for like 2 weeks my x called today, kinda weird but i just dont know what to think anymore, i was trying not to call her, people tell me not to let her know how bad i'm hurting, but i was about to cave so kind of weird she called today, it was just a friendly conversation, just so weird, i wanted to tell her all the things ive been thinking 24/7 but i just can't do that over the phone, not really sure if i want to in person, who knows....

[Jessica41]

so second page again, where is everyone, so after not talkin for like 2 weeks my x called today, kinda weird but i just dont know what to think anymore, i was trying not to call her, people tell me not to let her know how bad i'm hurting, but i was about to cave so kind of weird she called today, it was just a friendly conversation, just so weird, i wanted to tell her all the things ive been thinking 24/7 but i just can't do that over the phone, not really sure if i want to in person, who knows....

I was at school, work, and now I am about to shower then hang out with some friends and Dan

[whiteysax]

ahh... the week is over...

[Jessica41]

ahh... the week is over...

:multi

[DMBfan41]

whose up for a quiet night alone on a friday night?

Apparently me :(

[whiteysax]

whose up for a quiet night alone on a friday night?

Apparently me :(:bounce:multi:multi:bounce

[Jessica41]

whose up for a quiet night alone on a friday night?

Apparently me :(

:hug :hug

[whiteysax]

well my good mood for the weekend just got shot to hell...

[Jessica41]

What's wrong?

[whiteysax]

after all the shit i've been going through to figure out this airline shit, everyone i talked to failed ot mention that there would be a $100 TRANSFER fee when i book the new flight.
Just got off the phone, was booking my flight to Chicago... $328 for the round trip... no extra fees cause it was using credit from a ticket purchased in the past. She puts me on hold to check fares, comes back with the numbers and all the sudden its $328 for the flight and $100 for a transfer from the ticket i bought back in JUNE for this ticket now. After the difference, it would cost me out of my pocket. And of course there's no way to transfer any of my brother's credit, even just to cover the difference. Granted, had I booked something 2 weeks ago, the cost wouldn't be so high. But I had NO knowledge of this TRANSER fee for a ticket bought a year ago... after loosing $100 on the Cancellation fee which the lady told me they don't charge.
the Refund Department is only open Mon-Fri until 4pm EST... so I have to wait til Monday to hear back. Although i sent them an email with my question. I'm so pissed... everytime I try to do something, there's another fee I was unaware of. So instead of using the money I originally spent for my bro's birthday, I'm gonna loose all $670 dollars I spent... could use that cash now....

[phelps1540630]

after all the shit i've been going through to figure out this airline shit, everyone i talked to failed ot mention that there would be a $100 TRANSFER fee when i book the new flight.
Just got off the phone, was booking my flight to Chicago... $328 for the round trip... no extra fees cause it was using credit from a ticket purchased in the past. She puts me on hold to check fares, comes back with the numbers and all the sudden its $328 for the flight and $100 for a transfer from the ticket i bought back in JUNE for this ticket now. After the difference, it would cost me out of my pocket. And of course there's no way to transfer any of my brother's credit, even just to cover the difference. Granted, had I booked something 2 weeks ago, the cost wouldn't be so high. But I had NO knowledge of this TRANSER fee for a ticket bought a year ago... after loosing $100 on the Cancellation fee which the lady told me they don't charge.
the Refund Department is only open Mon-Fri until 4pm EST... so I have to wait til Monday to hear back. Although i sent them an email with my question. I'm so pissed... everytime I try to do something, there's another fee I was unaware of. So instead of using the money I originally spent for my bro's birthday, I'm gonna loose all $670 dollars I spent... could use that cash now....



:thumbsdow

[whiteysax]

:thumbsdow
well i straightened it all out... turns out i was never assessed a cancellation fee and i found flights out of BWI for $100 less... so i was able to book and only pay $20 out of pocket... I fly to Chicago on Dec. 30! :multi

[Popeye2003]

Blue balls are about the worst thing ever :lol

[DMBfan41]

Blue balls are about the worst thing ever :lol

what have you been doin??

[Popeye2003]

what have you been doin??
Less than I could have but more than I should have, I'd guess.

:lol

[whiteysax]

Less than I could have but more than I should have, I'd guess.

:lol
:lol:lol how ambiguous of you!

[Popeye2003]

:lol:lol how ambiguous of you!
:D

I went to Rio this week, and last night I was in this friend's house. His mom and his girlfriend live there too. And the girlfriend's sister was there. But my friend played the smart guy and put me in a bed with a friend of ours (a girl, this one) in his office. He slept with his mom in her room, and his girlfriend slept with her sister in his room.

And he knew the girl was into me. We all went to bed at like 2am, and I had to wake up at 8 because I had to get my flight. And I was fucking tired. So I turn to the side of the bed and try to sleep. She puts her arm around me and starts kissing my neck, breathing on it, that sort of thing. Obviously, this kind of thing always gives me shivers. Somehow, I managed to control myself and ignore her (how fucking queer of me :lol ). She doesn't give up, but she never crosses a single line, and we eventually fall asleep. I wake up sometime, get my iPod (my alarm and clock during my stay there :D ) and check the time, as quietly as possible.

Doesn't work. She wakes up. I'm not ready for a second round of resistance, no matter how tired I was. I give in easily and we start making out. Problem is, I soon realize that I could score the easiest home run of my life but I can't do so, because the girl makes too much noise. She wants it badly, and I do too, but I can't wake up people. I'm sure my friend and his girlfriend would laugh if they opened the door, but if his mother opened the door I'd be screwed and I'd be expelled from that house :p

So we made out for real long, and I got the worst blue balls of my life.

[whiteysax]

:D

I went to Rio this week, and last night I was in this friend's house. His mom and his girlfriend live there too. And the girlfriend's sister was there. But my friend played the smart guy and put me in a bed with a friend of ours (a girl, this one) in his office. He slept with his mom in her room, and his girlfriend slept with her sister in his room.

And he knew the girl was into me. We all went to bed at like 2am, and I had to wake up at 8 because I had to get my flight. And I was fucking tired. So I turn to the side of the bed and try to sleep. She puts her arm around me and starts kissing my neck, breathing on it, that sort of thing. Obviously, this kind of thing always gives me shivers. Somehow, I managed to control myself and ignore her (how fucking queer of me :lol ). She doesn't give up, but she never crosses a single line, and we eventually fall asleep. I wake up sometime, get my iPod (my alarm and clock during my stay there :D ) and check the time, as quietly as possible.

Doesn't work. She wakes up. I'm not ready for a second round of resistance, no matter how tired I was. I give in easily and we start making out. Problem is, I soon realize that I could score the easiest home run of my life but I can't do so, because the girl makes too much noise. She wants it badly, and I do too, but I can't wake up people. I'm sure my friend and his girlfriend would laugh if they opened the door, but if his mother opened the door I'd be screwed and I'd be expelled from that house :p

So we made out for real long, and I got the worst blue balls of my life.wow, dude... even MY balls hurt after that story...

oh, and kissing on my neck and breathing on it don't just give me shivers... they give me other things :eek :lol:lol

So I take it you'll be headed back to Rio in the near future?

[Jessica41]

:D

I went to Rio this week, and last night I was in this friend's house. His mom and his girlfriend live there too. And the girlfriend's sister was there. But my friend played the smart guy and put me in a bed with a friend of ours (a girl, this one) in his office. He slept with his mom in her room, and his girlfriend slept with her sister in his room.

And he knew the girl was into me. We all went to bed at like 2am, and I had to wake up at 8 because I had to get my flight. And I was fucking tired. So I turn to the side of the bed and try to sleep. She puts her arm around me and starts kissing my neck, breathing on it, that sort of thing. Obviously, this kind of thing always gives me shivers. Somehow, I managed to control myself and ignore her (how fucking queer of me :lol ). She doesn't give up, but she never crosses a single line, and we eventually fall asleep. I wake up sometime, get my iPod (my alarm and clock during my stay there :D ) and check the time, as quietly as possible.

Doesn't work. She wakes up. I'm not ready for a second round of resistance, no matter how tired I was. I give in easily and we start making out. Problem is, I soon realize that I could score the easiest home run of my life but I can't do so, because the girl makes too much noise. She wants it badly, and I do too, but I can't wake up people. I'm sure my friend and his girlfriend would laugh if they opened the door, but if his mother opened the door I'd be screwed and I'd be expelled from that house :p

So we made out for real long, and I got the worst blue balls of my life.


:hug :hug

[Jessica41]

wow, dude... even MY balls hurt after that story...

oh, and kissing on my neck and breathing on it don't just give me shivers... they give me other things :eek :lol:lol

So I take it you'll be headed back to Rio in the near future?

:lol

I had a good night last night :D

[phelps1540630]

well i straightened it all out... turns out i was never assessed a cancellation fee and i found flights out of BWI for $100 less... so i was able to book and only pay $20 out of pocket... I fly to Chicago on Dec. 30! :multi

Nice... I fly to Chicago on the 27th and come back on the 1st...

[Popeye2003]

wow, dude... even MY balls hurt after that story...

oh, and kissing on my neck and breathing on it don't just give me shivers... they give me other things :eek :lol:lol

So I take it you'll be headed back to Rio in the near future?
Of course they give other things. But I had my back to her, so I had that going for me :p

And no, I'm not going back in the near future. I've got a New Year's trip planned that I don't know if I'll be able to make, I'll be going to the beach in January with the family, and after that I want to save some money, most definitely not to go to Rio again, unless I get a job.

[Popeye2003]

:hug :hug
How's things? :hug

[Jessica41]

How's things? :hug

Things are good. I just got home from working a split shift at work since 11:30 with an hour break in between, so now I'm about to shower, do some laundry, and then relax for the night with Danny. :)

[Popeye2003]

Things are good. I just got home from working a split shift at work since 11:30 with an hour break in between, so now I'm about to shower, do some laundry, and then relax for the night with Danny. :)
Sounds good.

But... who's Danny? :p

[Popeye2003]

Oh... and I got confirmation on what I was already sure about, but needed a girl to tell me that. I've got a great ass :D :hump

[whiteysax]

Oh... and I got confirmation on what I was already sure about, but needed a girl to tell me that. I've got a great ass :D :humpa great Brazilian ass!!!!

[daraidaaa]

Hmmm would this be the right place to ask for help since I don't feel like starting a new thread about relationship problems...

[DMBfan41]

I gotta get to Rio.

I think i am officially feeling lonely.

And yes, this is the place for all of your relationship problem advice

[daraidaaa]

Ok well here it goes then...

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a bit over 2 years(our 2 year anniversary was on 11/01/06) but it has been an on and off relationship. Well this latest time that we have been dating has been from 9.22 of this year until now and things were amazing at first, but now they are starting to go downhill.

I obviously love this chick, I think you have to love anyone to stick with them for 2 years, but constantly she's just been nagging on me and snapping at me for anything I do and quite frankly, i'm sick of it.

For example, the other night I told her I didn't like her saying that I was a stereotypical man, which was because I was watching football, and she went way overboard. Finally I rationalized with her telling her that if I was actually a stereotypical male I would treat her much worse than I do and that I probably would have left her after we had sex and she agreed.

But it is just like this constantly, another example; today when I got home from work and had a shitty day I was expecting to call her and feel 100 times better because she usually has the power to do that, like anyone you love does. She doesn't answer her cell so I call her house and no answer. So I wait for like 20 minutes and call her cell back and she picks up. I asked her why she didn't pick up the first time and she insisted that I never called her and that I needed to calm down. Thing is, I asked her in my normal tone so I don't know what she was talking about with me needing to calm down and it really struck a bad chord with me.

I enjoy spending time with her and love her more than anything else and I think she has realized that, despite the fact I have been telling her that I loved her since sometime last year and I feel like she is exploiting it and thinking she has me whipped and in a way, she does.

I know if I bring something up, the relationship will most likely go awry and we will fight and then break up, but in the same sense I am sick of the constant snapping at me when I didn't do anything, or just snapping even if I did do something.

So what do I do, take the beating because I love her or tell her to stop or it's over, which will probably end the relationship anyways?

[whiteysax]

Ok well here it goes then...

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a bit over 2 years(our 2 year anniversary was on 11/01/06) but it has been an on and off relationship. Well this latest time that we have been dating has been from 9.22 of this year until now and things were amazing at first, but now they are starting to go downhill.

I obviously love this chick, I think you have to love anyone to stick with them for 2 years, but constantly she's just been nagging on me and snapping at me for anything I do and quite frankly, i'm sick of it.

For example, the other night I told her I didn't like her saying that I was a stereotypical man, which was because I was watching football, and she went way overboard. Finally I rationalized with her telling her that if I was actually a stereotypical male I would treat her much worse than I do and that I probably would have left her after we had sex and she agreed.

But it is just like this constantly, another example; today when I got home from work and had a shitty day I was expecting to call her and feel 100 times better because she usually has the power to do that, like anyone you love does. She doesn't answer her cell so I call her house and no answer. So I wait for like 20 minutes and call her cell back and she picks up. I asked her why she didn't pick up the first time and she insisted that I never called her and that I needed to calm down. Thing is, I asked her in my normal tone so I don't know what she was talking about with me needing to calm down and it really struck a bad chord with me.

I enjoy spending time with her and love her more than anything else and I think she has realized that, despite the fact I have been telling her that I loved her since sometime last year and I feel like she is exploiting it and thinking she has me whipped and in a way, she does.

I know if I bring something up, the relationship will most likely go awry and we will fight and then break up, but in the same sense I am sick of the constant snapping at me when I didn't do anything, or just snapping even if I did do something.

So what do I do, take the beating because I love her or tell her to stop or it's over, which will probably end the relationship anyways?if you have to make yourself miserable just to stay with someone you have feelings for, it isn't worth it. There are hundreds of millions of girls in the world that can most likely give you the same feeling of completeness without you feeling that you have to compromise your happiness, or freedom, or normal routine.
If you have to change the way you would normally act (assuming normal isn't being an asshole), then you need to seriously re-evaluate the relationship. Some change is good... but having to be in check all the time is ridiculous. Why should you have ot put up with shit to keep her happy and yourselves together? Why shouldn't she have to give anything up? Relationships work 2 ways.

[daraidaaa]

Well I talked to her and told her that it needs to change and she blatently told me, "the only way it's going to change is if we end it." I asked, "you're not willing to try?" And she goes, "it's the only way possible."

I am now single. :(

[eggie24]

Well I talked to her and told her that it needs to change and she blatently told me, "the only way it's going to change is if we end it." I asked, "you're not willing to try?" And she goes, "it's the only way possible."

I am now single. :(

in time you'll see this as being for the best. loving someone is NOT enough for a relationship. relationships can surely take work, but she is obviously not willing to put in that work. the hard thing is realizing she isn't the girl you thought she was.

[Jessica41]

Sounds good.

But... who's Danny? :p
We've been talking online since mid September, and have been dating for a couple weeks now.:) I stayed over for the first time last night, it was nice!

[Jessica41]

Oh... and I got confirmation on what I was already sure about, but needed a girl to tell me that. I've got a great ass :D :hump

:hump

[Jessica41]

Hmmm would this be the right place to ask for help since I don't feel like starting a new thread about relationship problems...

:thumbsup :thumbsup we are the experts :p

[thehoss]

good morning guys and gals, darrraaaaiiddda, im sorry to hear bro. but honestly, its the ups and downs of life right there. heart-break happens to be the one that hurts the most. throw on some dmb, watch the bears crush the jets, and have a good day man

[davehead34]

What'd I miss in the past few days? It was cool to see Primo again this weekend. He and Heater are too damn cute. :)

[whiteysax]

Well I talked to her and told her that it needs to change and she blatently told me, "the only way it's going to change is if we end it." I asked, "you're not willing to try?" And she goes, "it's the only way possible."

I am now single. :(
Yeah man, Sarah's right... It may look like a huge let down right now... But it is completely not fair to you that she expects you to change your ways in order to stay together, but she isn't willing to work at anything to make you happy.

[whiteysax]

What'd I miss in the past few days? It was cool to see Primo again this weekend. He and Heater are too damn cute. :)YOU'RE too damn cute!!!
I'm looking forward to seeing him for New Years!!

[thehoss]

What'd I miss in the past few days? It was cool to see Primo again this weekend. He and Heater are too damn cute. :)

not happy i had to miss this weekend....did you guys have a good time?

[whiteysax]

hey Chase, did you actually jam with RRFB?!!?! holy shit dude!!!! sweet!!!

[handsareme]

Howdy strangers...it's been awhile since I've popped my head in. How're people?

[Jessica41]

Howdy strangers...it's been awhile since I've popped my head in. How're people?

How are YOU?

[Popeye2003]

We've been talking online since mid September, and have been dating for a couple weeks now.:) I stayed over for the first time last night, it was nice!
Oh, he's the internet guy. Cool to see you guys are getting along good.

[Popeye2003]

What'd I miss in the past few days? It was cool to see Primo again this weekend. He and Heater are too damn cute. :)
All you need can be found here:

http://antsmarching.org/forum/showpost.php?p=5271408&postcount=20375

:D

[Popeye2003]

hey Chase, did you actually jam with RRFB?!!?! holy shit dude!!!! sweet!!!
Holy shit :eek

How did that happen, Chase?

[handsareme]

How are YOU?
I'm great. I get to fly 4-8 hours a week in training. Relationshipwise, Saturday will be our three month anniversary. There's not much else to tell unless people are deeply interested.

[daraidaaa]

Well guys looks like it's good I took your advice. My girlfriend and I are now through, after 2 years. I guess it's time to move on, just don't know how hard it'll be.

[Jessica41]

if you have to make yourself miserable just to stay with someone you have feelings for, it isn't worth it. There are hundreds of millions of girls in the world that can most likely give you the same feeling of completeness without you feeling that you have to compromise your happiness, or freedom, or normal routine.
If you have to change the way you would normally act (assuming normal isn't being an asshole), then you need to seriously re-evaluate the relationship. Some change is good... but having to be in check all the time is ridiculous. Why should you have ot put up with shit to keep her happy and yourselves together? Why shouldn't she have to give anything up? Relationships work 2 ways.

:thumbsup

[Jessica41]

Well guys looks like it's good I took your advice. My girlfriend and I are now through, after 2 years. I guess it's time to move on, just don't know how hard it'll be.

it will be hard in the beginning. give it time and spend lots of time with friends and doing things YOU enjoy doing, that maybe you didn't get to do while being part of a couple.

[davehead34]

:D

I went to Rio this week, and last night I was in this friend's house. His mom and his girlfriend live there too. And the girlfriend's sister was there. But my friend played the smart guy and put me in a bed with a friend of ours (a girl, this one) in his office. He slept with his mom in her room, and his girlfriend slept with her sister in his room.

And he knew the girl was into me. We all went to bed at like 2am, and I had to wake up at 8 because I had to get my flight. And I was fucking tired. So I turn to the side of the bed and try to sleep. She puts her arm around me and starts kissing my neck, breathing on it, that sort of thing. Obviously, this kind of thing always gives me shivers. Somehow, I managed to control myself and ignore her (how fucking queer of me :lol ). She doesn't give up, but she never crosses a single line, and we eventually fall asleep. I wake up sometime, get my iPod (my alarm and clock during my stay there :D ) and check the time, as quietly as possible.

Doesn't work. She wakes up. I'm not ready for a second round of resistance, no matter how tired I was. I give in easily and we start making out. Problem is, I soon realize that I could score the easiest home run of my life but I can't do so, because the girl makes too much noise. She wants it badly, and I do too, but I can't wake up people. I'm sure my friend and his girlfriend would laugh if they opened the door, but if his mother opened the door I'd be screwed and I'd be expelled from that house :p

So we made out for real long, and I got the worst blue balls of my life.

Damn, Art! You should've put a sock in her mouth or something! :lol

[davehead34]

YOU'RE too damn cute!!!
I'm looking forward to seeing him for New Years!!

:lol

Whitey, what're you doing for NYE? I've decided to hit up RRFB in Jersey.

[davehead34]

not happy i had to miss this weekend....did you guys have a good time?

It was a fun weekend, but there will be many more. We were all sorry to hear about your situation. :hug

[davehead34]

hey Chase, did you actually jam with RRFB?!!?! holy shit dude!!!! sweet!!!

Yep. :p

[whiteysax]

:lol

Whitey, what're you doing for NYE? I've decided to hit up RRFB in Jersey.i'm flying out to Chicago now. Although after your personal encounter with RRFB, I'm almost persuaded to go with you and try to get my ass on stage!!! :lol

[davehead34]

i'm flying out to Chicago now. Although after your personal encounter with RRFB, I'm almost persuaded to go with you and try to get my ass on stage!!! :lol

:lol

If you made it to a show and brought a sax, you never know...

[whiteysax]

:lol

If you made it to a show and brought a sax, you never know...
nice... I'm gonna be playing at the Rex Theatre in Pittsburgh, that's as close to a big stage as I've gotten so far...

[davehead34]

nice... I'm gonna be playing at the Rex Theatre in Pittsburgh, that's as close to a big stage as I've gotten so far...

Right on! How many people can you cram in there? The idea of playing with them on Wednesday night at the Roxy was a bit intimidating for a while. I believe there were 2000 people there that night.

[whiteysax]

Right on! How many people can you cram in there? The idea of playing with them on Wednesday night at the Roxy was a bit intimidating for a while. I believe there were 2000 people there that night.At the Rex? A few hundred... maybe 300-400 at MOST!
Did RR actually ask you to sit in with them? How did that come about?

[davehead34]

At the Rex? A few hundred... maybe 300-400 at MOST!
Did RR actually ask you to sit in with them? How did that come about?

That's still a totally decent sized crowd!

It all happened without me really knowing what was going to happen. I was chillin with Joey (Bizzle), and Paige earlier in the day at the hotel and Paige told Joey I played blah blah blah and I was so blazed at the time that I was like "No man, there's no way I can go on stage with you guys. I'll be too damn stoned and drunk by then!" So he was like "Well, we'll wait and see. If you want to come on up then we can definitely get you up."

Fast forward to the show...

We're at the show in the front on the rails. I was in my own world jammin out with my eyes closed and all of a sudden Paige is like, "Chase! Go up NOW!" and Rob was signaling me to come up. So I was trying to climb over the security rails when one of my Birks fell off into the crowd and to avoid looking like a complete ass on stage, I took my other Birk off and threw it at Paige. So, I was actually on stage barefoot - Jerry Garcia style. At that point the guitar tech, Tylor (I believe) goes up to Rob and said, "What do you want me to do man?" Rob replied, "Get him a fucking guitar!" :lol So Tyler tunes up the Gibson SG, hands it to me and asks, "So, you know how to use this?" I just looked at him and laughed. Then we jammed. I'm pretty much of the opinion that it was all improvised. I'm not sure if anyone knew for sure if I was going on or not until it actually happened.

[whiteysax]

That's still a totally decent sized crowd!

It all happened without me really knowing what was going to happen. I was chillin with Joey (Bizzle), and Paige earlier in the day at the hotel and Paige told Joey I played blah blah blah and I was so blazed at the time that I was like "No man, there's no way I can go on stage with you guys. I'll be too damn stoned and drunk by then!" So he was like "Well, we'll wait and see. If you want to come on up then we can definitely get you up."

Fast forward to the show...

We're at the show in the front on the rails. I was in my own world jammin out with my eyes closed and all of a sudden Paige is like, "Chase! Go up NOW!" and Rob was signaling me to come up. So I was trying to climb over the security rails when one of my Birks fell off into the crowd and to avoid looking like a complete ass on stage, I took my other Birk off and threw it at Paige. So, I was actually on stage barefoot - Jerry Garcia style. At that point the guitar tech, Tylor (I believe) goes up to Rob and said, "What do you want me to do man?" Rob replied, "Get him a fucking guitar!" :lol So Tyler tunes up the Gibson SG, hands it to me and asks, "So, you know how to use this?" I just looked at him and laughed. Then we jammed. I'm pretty much of the opinion that it was all improvised. I'm not sure if anyone knew for sure if I was going on or not until it actually happened.very nice!!!! Connections are sweet to have... and now you have an image... the barefoot guitar guy... :lol that's awesome though!

[davehead34]

very nice!!!! Connections are sweet to have... and now you have an image... the barefoot guitar guy... :lol that's awesome though!

:lol Barefoot Guitar Guy. I think I'm gonna use that!

[phelps1540630]

:lol Barefoot Guitar Guy. I think I'm gonna use that!

Thats an awesome story Chase!!! Good to hear you had fun...

[Popeye2003]

Damn, Art! You should've put a sock in her mouth or something! :lol
A cousin of mine said the same thing :lol

[Popeye2003]

That's still a totally decent sized crowd!

It all happened without me really knowing what was going to happen. I was chillin with Joey (Bizzle), and Paige earlier in the day at the hotel and Paige told Joey I played blah blah blah and I was so blazed at the time that I was like "No man, there's no way I can go on stage with you guys. I'll be too damn stoned and drunk by then!" So he was like "Well, we'll wait and see. If you want to come on up then we can definitely get you up."

Fast forward to the show...

We're at the show in the front on the rails. I was in my own world jammin out with my eyes closed and all of a sudden Paige is like, "Chase! Go up NOW!" and Rob was signaling me to come up. So I was trying to climb over the security rails when one of my Birks fell off into the crowd and to avoid looking like a complete ass on stage, I took my other Birk off and threw it at Paige. So, I was actually on stage barefoot - Jerry Garcia style. At that point the guitar tech, Tylor (I believe) goes up to Rob and said, "What do you want me to do man?" Rob replied, "Get him a fucking guitar!" :lol So Tyler tunes up the Gibson SG, hands it to me and asks, "So, you know how to use this?" I just looked at him and laughed. Then we jammed. I'm pretty much of the opinion that it was all improvised. I'm not sure if anyone knew for sure if I was going on or not until it actually happened.
That's great shit, man.

[Jessica41]

great story chase, lucky!!

[davehead34]

Yeah, it was pretty nuts, but this weekend was just all around awesome. My teams are all kickin ass. The Bruins won 3 in a row, Celts won 4 in a row, Pats shut out Green Bay, BC beats MD and Wake Forest loses so BC still contends for ACC, Colts lost, Jets lost, saw RRFB twice. Great. Fucking. Week.

[whiteysax]

great story chase, lucky!!lucky? no, that's fate!! ;)

[Popeye2003]

lucky? no, that's fate!! ;)
Nah, it's luck :p

[DMBfan41]

That's still a totally decent sized crowd!

It all happened without me really knowing what was going to happen. I was chillin with Joey (Bizzle), and Paige earlier in the day at the hotel and Paige told Joey I played blah blah blah and I was so blazed at the time that I was like "No man, there's no way I can go on stage with you guys. I'll be too damn stoned and drunk by then!" So he was like "Well, we'll wait and see. If you want to come on up then we can definitely get you up."

Fast forward to the show...

We're at the show in the front on the rails. I was in my own world jammin out with my eyes closed and all of a sudden Paige is like, "Chase! Go up NOW!" and Rob was signaling me to come up. So I was trying to climb over the security rails when one of my Birks fell off into the crowd and to avoid looking like a complete ass on stage, I took my other Birk off and threw it at Paige. So, I was actually on stage barefoot - Jerry Garcia style. At that point the guitar tech, Tylor (I believe) goes up to Rob and said, "What do you want me to do man?" Rob replied, "Get him a fucking guitar!" :lol So Tyler tunes up the Gibson SG, hands it to me and asks, "So, you know how to use this?" I just looked at him and laughed. Then we jammed. I'm pretty much of the opinion that it was all improvised. I'm not sure if anyone knew for sure if I was going on or not until it actually happened.

very awesome story, chase. Thats one that you won't forget for the rest of your life. Good thing you weren't that drunk and high that you forgot about it the day after.

See kids, don't do drugs and stay in school, that way you won't forget you just jammed with Robert Randolph;)

[Jessica41]

very awesome story, chase. Thats one that you won't forget for the rest of your life. Good thing you weren't that drunk and high that you forgot about it the day after.

See kids, don't do drugs and stay in school, that way you won't forget you just jammed with Robert Randolph;)

:lol

[davehead34]

lucky? no, that's fate!! ;)

Nah, it's luck :p

I don't know what the hell it was! :lol

very awesome story, chase. Thats one that you won't forget for the rest of your life. Good thing you weren't that drunk and high that you forgot about it the day after.

See kids, don't do drugs and stay in school, that way you won't forget you just jammed with Robert Randolph;)

There's absolutely no way I could've forgotten what it felt like to be on stage and playing. It's an unforgettable feeling. I was, however, extremely hammered and definitely wicked blazed when I was up there. The adrenaline kicks in and makes it tolerable, though. When I got off stage I didn't know what the hell I played or anything. It's like I forgot what I played, but knew I played. :lol

[davehead34]

Man, it's dead today. :shrug

[Onesweetworld82]

yes it is

[phelps1540630]

Yeah, it was pretty nuts, but this weekend was just all around awesome. My teams are all kickin ass. The Bruins won 3 in a row, Celts won 4 in a row, Pats shut out Green Bay, BC beats MD and Wake Forest loses so BC still contends for ACC, Colts lost, Jets lost, saw RRFB twice. Great. Fucking. Week.

:thumbsdow

[davehead34]

yes it is

We should do something about that. I'm drowning in my boredom at work.

:thumbsdow

Don't worry, Josh - I'm rooting for you guys (for once) next week when you play Wake Forest. You guys are playing them, right?

[phelps1540630]

Don't worry, Josh - I'm rooting for you guys (for once) next week when you play Wake Forest. You guys are playing them, right?

Yeah, we play Wake next week... I'm a Notre Dame fan first and foremost but I have a soft spot in my heart for the terps football as MD is my home state...

[davehead34]

Yeah, we play Wake next week... I'm a Notre Dame fan first and foremost but I have a soft spot in my heart for the terps football as MD is my home state...

Yeah, the Ravens are a bunch of asshats.

[Pamela]

[QUOTE=davehead34;5276867]We should do something about that. I'm drowning in my boredom at work.QUOTE]

someone needs to get back to work!!!:BANG :twak

[phelps1540630]

Yeah, the Ravens are a bunch of asshats.

:twak Your face is a bunch of asshats... :rolleyes

Don't hate on the Ravens because of some stupid girl... 8-2...

[davehead34]

[QUOTE=davehead34;5276867]We should do something about that. I'm drowning in my boredom at work.QUOTE]

someone needs to get back to work!!!:BANG :twak

Someone needs to stop reading their bible stuff at work, too. :rolleyes

[davehead34]

:twak Your face is a bunch of asshats... :rolleyes

Don't hate on the Ravens because of some stupid girl... 8-2...

:lol

I don't hate the Ravens because of some chick - I hate the entire state. :lol

[Pamela]

[QUOTE=Pamela;5276942]

Someone needs to stop reading their bible stuff at work, too. :rolleyes


someone needs to START reading their Bible....:angel

[davehead34]

[QUOTE=davehead34;5277005]


someone needs to START reading their Bible....:angel

Stay the hell out of my thread, Mama J or else I won't cook my sauce on Sunday. ;)

[Popeye2003]

You people need to learn how to quote properly. :D

[whiteysax]

You people need to learn how to quote properly. :D:lol:lol:lol

[davehead34]

You people need to learn how to quote properly. :D

:lol Don't mind her - that's my mom. She doesn't know how to do anything. :lol ;)

[Pamela]

Stay the hell out of my thread, Mama J or else I won't cook my sauce on Sunday. ;)

ummm... your mama raised a good Christian boy...:angel

and I was posting before you even knew about this board!!!

[davehead34]

ummm... your mama raised a good Christian boy...:angel

and I was posting before you even knew about this board!!!

Christian... right... :rolleyes

True, but I was, unfortunately, posting on Nancies before you even knew who the DMB were! :)

[handsareme]

While Chase was on stage with RRFB, my dad played a quaint little coffee house in the middle of Nowheresville, KS. It was cool though, the place was packed and people were singing along.

[davehead34]

While Chase was on stage with RRFB, my dad played a quaint little coffee house in the middle of Nowheresville, KS. It was cool though, the place was packed and people were singing along.

That sounds like good fun bro! :) Nothing beats a good ol sing along!

[Onesweetworld82]

what's up?

[SteelerMan]

I was so bored I started a new MySpace page... PM me if you'd like to be my MySpace buddy. :D My profile is private though, so you'll have to add me (and have me add you in return) before you can see it.

[davehead34]

What? Second page!? PM sent ^ :)

[phelps1540630]

:lol

I don't hate the Ravens because of some chick - I hate the entire state. :lol

You have no clue broseph... Md is my home state, I love that place... Bmore is such a fun city...

[davehead34]

You have no clue broseph... Md is my home state, I love that place... Bmore is such a fun city...

I've driven through it and I stopped in BMore once in 8th grade. It was nice and all. I had a good time, I'll admit, but I really can't bring myself to liking them. Could you convince yourself to like a team like the Oakland Raiders or the city of Oakland? It's kind of like that.

[Jessica41]

I was so bored I started a new MySpace page... PM me if you'd like to be my MySpace buddy. :D My profile is private though, so you'll have to add me (and have me add you in return) before you can see it.

Pmed you :)

Morning everyone. I have a hangover since I got drunk last night for the first time in weeks. Went out with my friend Scott since I won't be seeing my friends over break. I guess I got carried away w/ the grateful deads and blue moons. Oh well, koolaid and advil are my friends today. Off to work later then spending a relaxing quiet evening with Danny! I'm excited :)

[phelps1540630]

I've driven through it and I stopped in BMore once in 8th grade. It was nice and all. I had a good time, I'll admit, but I really can't bring myself to liking them. Could you convince yourself to like a team like the Oakland Raiders or the city of Oakland? It's kind of like that.

Yeah, I don't care if you like the Ravens but I think you would enjoy the city of Bmore... If you are ever in town, let me know and I'll show you some good places to go in Bmore... If you know where to go, Bmore is a great time...

[davehead34]

Pmed you :)

Morning everyone. I have a hangover since I got drunk last night for the first time in weeks. Went out with my friend Scott since I won't be seeing my friends over break. I guess I got carried away w/ the grateful deads and blue moons. Oh well, koolaid and advil are my friends today. Off to work later then spending a relaxing quiet evening with Danny! I'm excited :)

Hey, Jess! That's too bad about the hangover, but I'm glad you had a kickin time last night. What do you guys have planned for later?

[davehead34]

Yeah, I don't care if you like the Ravens but I think you would enjoy the city of Bmore... If you are ever in town, let me know and I'll show you some good places to go in Bmore... If you know where to go, Bmore is a great time...

I'll definitely hit you up bro. Thanks for the hook up. The downtown area is flippin beautiful! I must say that!

[phelps1540630]

I'll definitely hit you up bro. Thanks for the hook up. The downtown area is flippin beautiful! I must say that!

And downtown is nothing... Fed Hill, Canton, and sometimes Fells point are where its at... You would love Fells I think Chase...

[Jessica41]

Hey, Jess! That's too bad about the hangover, but I'm glad you had a kickin time last night. What do you guys have planned for later?

Well I'm working til 8:30-9 and he has parent teacher conferences til 8:30 so I believe he is just coming over and we're gonna hang out/do the movie watching thing. I like low key nights with him.

[phelps1540630]

Well I'm working til 8:30-9 and he has parent teacher conferences til 8:30 so I believe he is just coming over and we're gonna hang out/do the movie watching thing. I like low key nights with him.

Low key nights are :thumbsup... That is what I have done for the most part since my GF has been in town... We have gone out to dinner with my friends for the most part and then spend the evening watching TV/a movie...

[jguinan101]

yeah the relax on the couch and watch a movie thing is something i miss for sure oh well though, i'll get to do it someday again i'm sure and i have that to look forward to!!!

[phelps1540630]

yeah the relax on the couch and watch a movie thing is something i miss for sure oh well though, i'll get to do it someday again i'm sure and i have that to look forward to!!!

Yep...:thumbsup

[davehead34]

And downtown is nothing... Fed Hill, Canton, and sometimes Fells point are where its at... You would love Fells I think Chase...

I thought you were talking about RI at first! We have a Fed[eral] Hill, and there's a Canton nearby, I think. :lol I also don't like oar at all, and that's where they're from. I actually disliked them before I met you know who.

[davehead34]

Well I'm working til 8:30-9 and he has parent teacher conferences til 8:30 so I believe he is just coming over and we're gonna hang out/do the movie watching thing. I like low key nights with him.

I wish I had someone to spend low key nights with. Those really are the best. Josh, how's the girlfriend?

[phelps1540630]

I wish I had someone to spend low key nights with. Those really are the best. Josh, how's the girlfriend?

The girlfriend is great... It sucks that she is stuck at my apartment while I'm at work but its wonderful to have her in town... It is going to suck when she has to leave tomorrow especially since I've gotten used to having her around so much...

[Jessica41]

I wish I had someone to spend low key nights with. Those really are the best. Josh, how's the girlfriend?

you would if you didnt sleep with them all right away ;) jk.

I'm just happy I have him to spend time with when I am having a hellish day/week... it's something great to look forward to, and I always know he'll cheer me up. It's a comforting feeling to have.

[phelps1540630]

you would if you didnt sleep with them all right away ;) jk.

I'm just happy I have him to spend time with when I am having a hellish day/week... it's something great to look forward to, and I always know he'll cheer me up. It's a comforting feeling to have.

Agreed... My ex gf from my first year of teaching was like that... We work in the same school so we both were going through the "growing pains" of that first year of teaching... It was always nice to have someone to talk to about... We were always able to cheer each other up when one of us had a bad day...

[davehead34]

The girlfriend is great... It sucks that she is stuck at my apartment while I'm at work but its wonderful to have her in town... It is going to suck when she has to leave tomorrow especially since I've gotten used to having her around so much...

I didn't realize she was in town with you. How long has she been in? Glad to hear things are working out so well. Are you two doing anything special tonight? There are few things worse in life than the pain of when someone you really care about leaves.

you would if you didnt sleep with them all right away ;) jk.

I'm just happy I have him to spend time with when I am having a hellish day/week... it's something great to look forward to, and I always know he'll cheer me up. It's a comforting feeling to have.

:lol Touche'. He sounds like Monday Night Football to men. I slave all day at work on Mondays, which are by far my least favorite day of the week, but force a smile because come 8:30 I'll be watching MNF.

[phelps1540630]

I didn't realize she was in town with you. How long has she been in? Glad to hear things are working out so well. Are you two doing anything special tonight? There are few things worse in life than the pain of when someone you really care about leaves.

She got here on Friday... We are going down to baltimore tonight and doing dinner with one of my best friends and his fiance... I'm actually in this friends wedding so I want her to meet these two... Her plane doesn't leave till 7 tomorrow so I don't have to drop her off at the airport until 5 which gives us a good portion of the day tomorrow to spend together as well...

[davehead34]

She got here on Friday... We are going down to baltimore tonight and doing dinner with one of my best friends and his fiance... I'm actually in this friends wedding so I want her to meet these two... Her plane doesn't leave till 7 tomorrow so I don't have to drop her off at the airport until 5 which gives us a good portion of the day tomorrow to spend together as well...

Awesome! Seeing you and Jess happy right now makes me wish I had someone here. :shrug

[SteelerMan]

Awesome! Seeing you and Jess happy right now makes me wish I had someone here. :shrug

I feel you. :shrug I'm working on someone at the moment, but I have a feeling it's not going to happen.

[phelps1540630]

Awesome! Seeing you and Jess happy right now makes me wish I had someone here. :shrug

Yeah, you always meet someone when you least expect it... I was not planning to meet my gf when I did but it was just something I couldn't stop... It is obviously not my ideal situation to have a gf that lives a 2 hour PLANE ride away but life is what it is...

[whiteysax]

: puke

[SteelerMan]

: puke

What's wrong?

[Jessica41]

: puke

you ok over there chris?

[jguinan101]

it seems a little blah in here today, the whole having someone there theme is a lonely feeling for a few of us, its definetly the little things you miss the most, anyway i can't wait for turkey day i'm gonna stuff my face, forget all about the relationship problems and the crappy two weeks of school left (man that home stretch of every quarter is so killer for me i hate it, especially having all the crappy relationship stuff on my mind so much lately) and watch some football. wow i hope this post makes atleast a little bit of sense.

[whiteysax]

What's wrong?

you ok over there chris?
I was just commenting on the sappy crap... but it hasn't been a good nite. As you all know, I'm not looking for a gf. I don't want one. But in my last class today there was a girl that looked a LOT like Tara (my college ex). So all nite i've been thinking back to that. And how comfortable and natural our relationship was... and how i fucked it up for no reason. I thought I was over going through this...

[jguinan101]

yeah i know what you mean, it is a little sappy in here today, but i guess thats kinda why we are all in the hr thread. anyway nothing like a look alike to bring back all those old feelings. im definetly not in any kind of place to want a girlfriend, but at the same time if my ex came back i would be so happy about it. i know i shouldn't want her back and sometimes i hope i'm getting over it but i miss her a lot and would be so happy if she came back, i would gladly take her back and i guess just hope that i didn't get hurt again. wow it sounds so much worse when i actually read it, i can't believe i'm still thinking that way, she really just was gone with no warning, i had no idea it was coming and i'm still trying to get over the shock.

[Jessica41]

I was just commenting on the sappy crap... but it hasn't been a good nite. As you all know, I'm not looking for a gf. I don't want one. But in my last class today there was a girl that looked a LOT like Tara (my college ex). So all nite i've been thinking back to that. And how comfortable and natural our relationship was... and how i fucked it up for no reason. I thought I was over going through this...

im sorry. but if you loved the girl, you probably will go through spurts where it comes and goes. i know that no matter who im with, it will happen to me. it still does from time to time.

[davehead34]

I feel you. :shrug I'm working on someone at the moment, but I have a feeling it's not going to happen.

Don't worry about it bro. I hear that the bars and clubs are full of singles on Thanksgiving. Maybe you should check it out? I think my brother and I will, but we're not sure quite yet.

Yeah, you always meet someone when you least expect it... I was not planning to meet my gf when I did but it was just something I couldn't stop... It is obviously not my ideal situation to have a gf that lives a 2 hour PLANE ride away but life is what it is...

:thumbsup Agreed. The relationships that I've enjoyed most are the ones that are the most random.

[Jessica41]

Morning! Vacation begins now :)

[davehead34]

Morning! Vacation begins now :)

Helllllooooooooo, Jess! How was last night? I'm jealous you get to start vacation so early. I'm at work SOBER right now! :(

So, I'm looking for an apartment and another room mate. Anyone wanna move in with me? Moving to Providence...

[jguinan101]

yeah i'm a little jealous about those of you starting break already, i just have one easy paper standing between me and a 4 day weekend of no school. but shortly after that i have a hellish week next week to finish the quarter, and then a week of finals. man i can not wait for the nice relaxing x-mas break. i should be done with this paper already but i keep doing other things, plus this damn ex problem makes it so hard to concentrate on school work. any how happy biggest bar night of the year everyone. Cheers!!!

[davehead34]

yeah i'm a little jealous about those of you starting break already, i just have one easy paper standing between me and a 4 day weekend of no school. but shortly after that i have a hellish week next week to finish the quarter, and then a week of finals. man i can not wait for the nice relaxing x-mas break. i should be done with this paper already but i keep doing other things, plus this damn ex problem makes it so hard to concentrate on school work. any how happy biggest bar night of the year everyone. Cheers!!!

:thumbsup Hell fucking YEAH! I love drinking! And I LOVE BARS!

[jguinan101]

lol, yeah i guess when you put it that way i'm in a much better mood, now to finish this damn paper

[davehead34]

lol, yeah i guess when you put it that way i'm in a much better mood, now to finish this damn paper

Yeah dude, definitely try to finish that paper then get your ass to the bars! What's the paper on, anyways?

[Jessica41]

Helllllooooooooo, Jess! How was last night? I'm jealous you get to start vacation so early. I'm at work SOBER right now! :(

So, I'm looking for an apartment and another room mate. Anyone wanna move in with me? Moving to Providence...

I have off school til Tues. But I go back to work Friday :(

[eachibon]

Yeah, i'm happy for the little t-day break, but being home is a little bittersweet. Too many years of happy memories with my ex. And I'm kinda paranoid I'm gonna see him this weekend. We go to different schools in different states, so I haven't seen him in a long while, but I'm not sure if he's back in town...

[jguinan101]

Yeah dude, definitely try to finish that paper then get your ass to the bars! What's the paper on, anyways?

unfortunatly no bars for me, i wait tables and sprained my ankle pretty badly about two weeks ago so i've been on the waiter DL for a bit now and my bank account has suffered pretty badly, but i will definetly be hangin out with my buds kickin back some cold ones. the paper is just a report on a research study, only 2-3 pages, just summerizing the study and talking about any relevance it might have

[Jessica41]

i have a 5 page research paper due for abnormal psych due next friday. have i started it? no. am i going to work on it over break? most likely not. am i going to work on it next thursday night? most likely.

[Jessica41]

just a little post going out to all my HR's to wish you all a

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Hope you have a great holiday with lots of turkey, family, friends, and love :D

ps. 14,000 :) :monkey

[secretlysmiling]

Hello HR's!!!

Been awhile..

But now that I'm on Thanksgivng break I thought I'd pop over here and see how everyone was doing. :)

[eachibon]

i have a 5 page research paper due for abnormal psych due next friday. have i started it? no. am i going to work on it over break? most likely not. am i going to work on it next thursday night? most likely.

Yeah, that's the way to do it...

[phelps1540630]

I was just commenting on the sappy crap... but it hasn't been a good nite. As you all know, I'm not looking for a gf. I don't want one. But in my last class today there was a girl that looked a LOT like Tara (my college ex). So all nite i've been thinking back to that. And how comfortable and natural our relationship was... and how i fucked it up for no reason. I thought I was over going through this...

Yo broseph... I'll be seeing you on NYE at least for a little while anyway...

[Jessica41]

I have zero plans for NYE. that sucks.

[SteelerMan]

Waiting for phone calls that may never come isn't fun. :shrug

[jguinan101]

Waiting for phone calls that may never come isn't fun. :shrug

yeah it sucks bad, i finally got one a week ago after waiting about 3, did anything good come from it, nope, will she do any of the things i asked (give me my stuff back or call to hang out some time) most likely not. now i'm just waiting on the next one. its good to hold out so she calls me and i'm not the one doing the calling right? or is that just childish

[Jessica41]

yeah it sucks bad, i finally got one a week ago after waiting about 3, did anything good come from it, nope, will she do any of the things i asked (give me my stuff back or call to hang out some time) most likely not. now i'm just waiting on the next one. its good to hold out so she calls me and i'm not the one doing the calling right? or is that just childish

thats fine but i wouldnt be sitting around waiting for it. its going to draw the moving on process out a lot longer than necessary.