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gbs3769
11-30-2006, 02:17 PM
The morning of the 27th... You get in the 30th, correct???
That is correct.

- Primo

phelps1540630
11-30-2006, 02:19 PM
That is correct.

- Primo

Are you flying right in from down south or are you flying from Syracuse???

whiteysax
11-30-2006, 02:20 PM
That sucks in two ways... You can't come out earlier and you can't make some extra $$$...you got it... but the story runs much deeper... i'll tell ya's in Chicago...

for now i'm off... time to go home

phelps1540630
11-30-2006, 02:31 PM
you got it... but the story runs much deeper... i'll tell ya's in Chicago...

for now i'm off... time to go home

I hate my school's school day... It is so freaking long... 7:32-2:56... I'm beat at the end of the day... You are leaving and I still have another 25 minutes left...

gbs3769
11-30-2006, 03:01 PM
Are you flying right in from down south or are you flying from Syracuse???
I'll be flying through Philly actually, from St. Thomas.

- Primo

phelps1540630
11-30-2006, 04:03 PM
I'll be flying through Philly actually, from St. Thomas.

- Primo

Philly is a crappy airport... I hate it...

whiteysax
11-30-2006, 06:34 PM
I hate my school's school day... It is so freaking long... 7:32-2:56... I'm beat at the end of the day... You are leaving and I still have another 25 minutes left...when i taught in texas, we started at 7:45 and went til 3:10 :shrug
The middle school i long termed at last year went from 7:50-2:55... i like getting out at 2:30... gives me the afternoon to do stuff

whiteysax
11-30-2006, 06:34 PM
Philly is a crappy airport... I hate it...i'm flying out of BWI for NYE

phelps1540630
11-30-2006, 06:46 PM
i'm flying out of BWI for NYE

So am I...

whiteysax
11-30-2006, 06:54 PM
So am I...awesome... you flying back into BWI? if so, what day?

phelps1540630
11-30-2006, 06:56 PM
awesome... you flying back into BWI? if so, what day?

Yes, on the 1st...

Jessica41
11-30-2006, 08:47 PM
we are going to see borat this weekend... is it good?

whiteysax
11-30-2006, 08:59 PM
Yes, on the 1st...ahhh... i'm flying out the 2nd

we are going to see borat this weekend... is it good?i hear only good, funny things... i have to see it yet...

newscane
11-30-2006, 10:27 PM
Someone shoot me? I can not sleep.

I was up until 4:30am on Monday night. 3:00am Tuesday night. Last night, 3:30am.

Tired as fuck.

- Primo
I was up until 2:45 Monday night (someone wanted to grab a show off my server), around 2:15 Tuesday night, and nearly 3 AM last night. I normally get up around 7:30 or 7:45 (or 7:55...). But I may be trying to get to work early tomorrow (around 8), because of something going on with our morning show. Won't happen unless I get to bed in the next two hours...

newscane
11-30-2006, 10:31 PM
So I've used some of my free time today to research some more grad schools... here's my list as it stands:
Northwestern (Chicago)
University of Chicago
Curtis Institute (Philadelphia)
DePaul University (Chicago)
Boston Conservatory
Boston University
Harvard (Boston)
University of Nevada (Las Vegas) - this was just kinda for fun... but they have a nice assistantship incentive
Music, right? Check out U-Miami...

Jessica41
11-30-2006, 10:52 PM
Man typing up this paper is so fun.


Not. It's hard.

SteelerMan
11-30-2006, 11:06 PM
we are going to see borat this weekend... is it good?

It's fantastic. I need to see it again... I probably missed about half of it the first time because I was constantly laughing.

Jessica41
11-30-2006, 11:13 PM
It's fantastic. I need to see it again... I probably missed about half of it the first time because I was constantly laughing.

Good deal. I was a little worried cause i dont know what kind of humor it is or if its a guy movie...but we'll see i guess. i told him i get to pick the next one ;)

jguinan101
12-01-2006, 02:19 AM
god i hope the bengals keep this momentum rollin and sneak into the wildcard spot. who-dey!!!

Jessica41
12-01-2006, 02:25 AM
im feeling delirious

phelps1540630
12-01-2006, 06:06 AM
god i hope the bengals keep this momentum rollin and sneak into the wildcard spot. who-dey!!!

You shut your dirty mouth...:rolleyes

phelps1540630
12-01-2006, 06:07 AM
It's fantastic. I need to see it again... I probably missed about half of it the first time because I was constantly laughing.

:thumbsup

whiteysax
12-01-2006, 06:15 AM
Music, right? Check out U-Miami...miami isn't really the location i was looking to move to, but i'll check out their program... thanks :)

jguinan101
12-01-2006, 09:43 AM
You shut your dirty mouth...:rolleyes

oh i see, you are a ravens fan right, i don't think you guys have much to worry about you should clinch the division and maybe even sneak into a first round bye, maybe bengals ravens get a rubber match in the playoffs, i just hope we make it, after making it for the first time in 15 or 16 years last season and winning the division to be left out this year would be kind of sucky, anyway who-dey!!!

DMBfan41
12-01-2006, 11:04 AM
everyone i know is going to grad school or law school.....i think that i should....but i have nothing to go for

SteelerMan
12-01-2006, 11:15 AM
miami isn't really the location i was looking to move to, but i'll check out their program... thanks :)

You should come down to LSU. That's probably where I'll end up going for law school next fall. Not sure about their music program though.

whiteysax
12-01-2006, 11:19 AM
You should come down to LSU. That's probably where I'll end up going for law school next fall. Not sure about their music program though.hmmm... aside from new orleans, the state of Louisiana didn't really impress or appeal to me... sorry

whiteysax
12-01-2006, 11:20 AM
ok... i should not be able to drive to school on the morning of December 1 with the windows down....

davehead86
12-01-2006, 11:26 AM
ok... i should not be able to drive to school on the morning of December 1 with the windows down....

Welp you cant in the chicago region today. All schools aclosed, the town of normal is basically shut down, first time since 2000 blizzard that the public transit isnt running and the Universities have shut down around here.

SteelerMan
12-01-2006, 11:33 AM
hmmm... aside from new orleans, the state of Louisiana didn't really impress or appeal to me... sorry

:(

But we have Parishes instead of Counties, and crawfish, and... ah, screw it. You're right. Louisiana sucks. If it weren't for my family, I wouldn't still be here or be considering staying here permanently.

SteelerMan
12-01-2006, 11:34 AM
ok... i should not be able to drive to school on the morning of December 1 with the windows down....

Isn't there supposed to be a cold front coming through soon? I'm flying into Pittsburgh tomorrow afternoon, and I thought the high was supposed to be 36.

phelps1540630
12-01-2006, 11:36 AM
oh i see, you are a ravens fan right, i don't think you guys have much to worry about you should clinch the division and maybe even sneak into a first round bye, maybe bengals ravens get a rubber match in the playoffs, i just hope we make it, after making it for the first time in 15 or 16 years last season and winning the division to be left out this year would be kind of sucky, anyway who-dey!!!

I wanted a first round bye but that loss purt a hurting on that... Stupid Ravens offense...

davehead86
12-01-2006, 11:55 AM
Isn't there supposed to be a cold front coming through soon? I'm flying into Pittsburgh tomorrow afternoon, and I thought the high was supposed to be 36.

apparently my posts are invisible.

Chicago is cold, PA is next.

jguinan101
12-01-2006, 01:01 PM
I wanted a first round bye but that loss purt a hurting on that... Stupid Ravens offense...

don't you mean super awsome bengals defense, :lol :thumbsup

SteelerMan
12-01-2006, 01:10 PM
apparently my posts are invisible.

Chicago is cold, PA is next.

I knew Chicago was bad, but I wasn't sure if it was going to hit Pittsburgh this weekend or not. Hopefully it's not excessively windy Sunday... I'll be up in the nosebleed section of Heinz.

whiteysax
12-01-2006, 02:03 PM
Welp you cant in the chicago region today. All schools aclosed, the town of normal is basically shut down, first time since 2000 blizzard that the public transit isnt running and the Universities have shut down around here.damn... i'm a year late!

:(

But we have Parishes instead of Counties, and crawfish, and... ah, screw it. You're right. Louisiana sucks. If it weren't for my family, I wouldn't still be here or be considering staying here permanently.Oh I love the Euro-French culture... and the cajun cuisine... (not a fan of crawfish)... but for the most part (present company excluded), it's full of rednecks and such... and I dealt with that for a year in eastern Texas, not doing it again! And it's too humid for me... i'm too white to live in Louisiana

Isn't there supposed to be a cold front coming through soon? I'm flying into Pittsburgh tomorrow afternoon, and I thought the high was supposed to be 36.yeah... it just came through pittsburgh... been getting dark and windy here all day... high temp is gonna be 20 degrees colder tomorrow... crazy weather... but no snow for PA... all rain...

whiteysax
12-01-2006, 02:15 PM
Music, right? Check out U-Miami...well the U of Miami does offer the programs I'm looking for... I'm just much more drawn to Chicago and Boston right now

Jessica41
12-01-2006, 02:24 PM
damn... i'm a year late!

Oh I love the Euro-French culture... and the cajun cuisine... (not a fan of crawfish)... but for the most part (present company excluded), it's full of rednecks and such... and I dealt with that for a year in eastern Texas, not doing it again! And it's too humid for me... i'm too white to live in Louisiana

yeah... it just came through pittsburgh... been getting dark and windy here all day... high temp is gonna be 20 degrees colder tomorrow... crazy weather... but no snow for PA... all rain...

yeah i heard thunderstorms for tonight, woo!

in other news, i finished that god damn paper at 12pm today, it ended up being about 10 pages, and it is handed in, and it is FRIDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
here's to a relaxing night in with danny, havent seen him ALL week b/c ive been so busy, and heres to thunderstorms, cheers cheers!

hope everyone has a GREAT weekend!!

phelps1540630
12-01-2006, 02:24 PM
don't you mean super awsome bengals defense, :lol :thumbsup

Again, shut your dirty mouth...

phelps1540630
12-01-2006, 02:28 PM
yeah i heard thunderstorms for tonight, woo!

in other news, i finished that god damn paper at 12pm today, it ended up being about 10 pages, and it is handed in, and it is FRIDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
here's to a relaxing night in with danny, havent seen him ALL week b/c ive been so busy, and heres to thunderstorms, cheers cheers!

hope everyone has a GREAT weekend!!

Here is to getting wasted both friday and saturday... I love the weekends...

SteelerMan
12-01-2006, 04:54 PM
Oh I love the Euro-French culture... and the cajun cuisine... (not a fan of crawfish)... but for the most part (present company excluded), it's full of rednecks and such... and I dealt with that for a year in eastern Texas, not doing it again! And it's too humid for me... i'm too white to live in Louisiana

Yeah, I can't stand the majority of the people here. LOTS of racism, although my city did just elect its first black mayor ever. I was pretty shocked. And the humidity can be disgusting, although I think I'm used to it.

gbs3769
12-01-2006, 04:58 PM
everyone i know is going to grad school or law school.....i think that i should....but i have nothing to go for
I am going to be going back for my MBA so I can finally do what I think I want to do.

- Primo

SteelerMan
12-01-2006, 05:29 PM
I am going to be going back for my MBA so I can finally do what I think I want to do.

- Primo

What do you think you want to do? I went for my MBA just so I'd have enough hours to sit for the CPA Exam... and now I'm going to law school instead of taking the CPA Exam. I guess an MBA looks good on a resume though.

newscane
12-01-2006, 08:49 PM
miami isn't really the location i was looking to move to, but i'll check out their program... thanks :)
It did seem that you were trying to stick to the northeast/midwest, but you did throw UNLV out there...

whiteysax
12-02-2006, 01:40 AM
Yeah, I can't stand the majority of the people here. LOTS of racism, although my city did just elect its first black mayor ever. I was pretty shocked. And the humidity can be disgusting, although I think I'm used to it.and june bugs... june bugs blow hard

I am going to be going back for my MBA so I can finally do what I think I want to do.

- Primohaha... we could go to school together...

It did seem that you were trying to stick to the northeast/midwest, but you did throw UNLV out there...yeah... that was a fun pick... i'd go broke if i lived in Vegas...

phelps1540630
12-02-2006, 09:39 AM
Hungover...

Jessica41
12-02-2006, 11:05 AM
Not me! haha I haven't drank in a week.

phelps1540630
12-02-2006, 11:07 AM
Not me! haha I haven't drank in a week.

I was drunk 5 days in a row last week... Last night was my first of this week though...

Jessica41
12-02-2006, 02:52 PM
hope everyone's having a good weekend!

newscane
12-02-2006, 06:48 PM
Went to the ACC Championship game this afternoon... WF wins 9-6... no touchdowns scored...

phelps1540630
12-02-2006, 06:58 PM
Went to the ACC Championship game this afternoon... WF wins 9-6... no touchdowns scored...

Nice... I watched part of it...

phelps1540630
12-03-2006, 06:15 PM
2nd page is saaaaaaad....

Jessica41
12-03-2006, 07:50 PM
2nd page is saaaaaaad....

:thumbsup how is everyone???

phelps1540630
12-03-2006, 08:00 PM
Good... How are you Jess???

DMBfan41
12-03-2006, 08:05 PM
it was actually a nice weekend....but the stress level of school is sure to build this week

Jessica41
12-03-2006, 08:51 PM
Good... How are you Jess???

I'm great. Paper got done on time on friday, had a great weekend with daniel, and this is the last week of classes :D

Jessica41
12-03-2006, 10:35 PM
come on, where are you people? it's sunday night and i have not a thing to do. entertain me.

newscane
12-03-2006, 11:46 PM
hey Jess... still around?

Jessica41
12-04-2006, 09:33 AM
I ended up just going to watch tv and passed out!

Morning HR's ...have a lovely MONDAY.
I came to the realization something I have been putting off... and that is my lack of going to the gym/eating better since Justin and I broke up. I realized it when I stepped on the scale after not doing so for over 2 months and realized I've gained 7 pounds. :( I've been doing a lot of eating out and eating at night when I should not be. So it's time to fix that.

gbs3769
12-04-2006, 09:39 AM
Called you last night, Jess...

- Primo

gbs3769
12-04-2006, 09:40 AM
What do you think you want to do? I went for my MBA just so I'd have enough hours to sit for the CPA Exam... and now I'm going to law school instead of taking the CPA Exam. I guess an MBA looks good on a resume though.
I want to get into Finance. Financial Advisor would be wonderful I think.

- Primo

phelps1540630
12-04-2006, 09:46 AM
I want to get into Finance. Financial Advisor would be wonderful I think.

- Primo

One of my friends who is a teacher left teaching and is now a Financial Advisor... I actually have my 403 (b) with him...

Jessica41
12-04-2006, 10:59 AM
Called you last night, Jess...

- Primo

Yeah I was doing laundry when you called, then homework. I will give you a call back soon, I'm headed to class here shortly.

DMBfan41
12-04-2006, 11:19 AM
god damn it, this weather is seriously killing me.

After being beautiful days, it quickly turns cold and i become sick again

Jessica41
12-04-2006, 11:49 AM
god damn it, this weather is seriously killing me.

After being beautiful days, it quickly turns cold and i become sick again

i hate it too. cold weather pisses me off. it's flurrying here. :(

whiteysax
12-04-2006, 12:45 PM
And a fine afternoon to my HRs!!!! :bounce

phelps1540630
12-04-2006, 01:10 PM
And a fine afternoon to my HRs!!!! :bounce

Yo Chris!!!

OlivePoet
12-04-2006, 01:12 PM
Suprises are more fun but she admitted two things...

1.) That if she was in my shoes and I gave her that excuse, she would have been upset...
2.) she would have probably slipped up and told me when she was drunk saturday night...

Oh, how I miss her..:(

That's about right. :lol

OlivePoet
12-04-2006, 01:20 PM
Maybe if I had someone to share the bath with. Too bad she lives in Chicago.

- Primo

:hug

OlivePoet
12-04-2006, 01:22 PM
Well that is probably the reason you aren't sleeping well. Missing someone does that.

That's what I keep telling him!! :lol

phelps1540630
12-04-2006, 01:23 PM
That's about right. :lol

Exactly... Helllloooo Heater... :hug I'l be emailing you soon, I have a small favor to ask you...

OlivePoet
12-04-2006, 01:25 PM
So I've used some of my free time today to research some more grad schools... here's my list as it stands:
Northwestern (Chicago)
University of Chicago
Curtis Institute (Philadelphia)
DePaul University (Chicago)
Boston Conservatory
Boston University
Harvard (Boston)
University of Nevada (Las Vegas) - this was just kinda for fun... but they have a nice assistantship incentive

:woohoo

DMBfan41
12-04-2006, 01:26 PM
So here's everything that I have to do in the next two weeks

- Write a 20 page paper
- Write 1,000 word essay
- Shoot and Edit a Music Video
- Write 2 more small essays
- Book Report
- 4 Finals

This is when school begins to get fun!

OlivePoet
12-04-2006, 01:29 PM
Exactly... Helllloooo Heater... :hug I'l be emailing you soon, I have a small favor to ask you...

No problem buddy! :hug

DancingHeaters@gmail.com

whiteysax
12-04-2006, 01:30 PM
Yo Chris!!!what's up phelps bro!:bounce

:woohooalthough i regret to inform you that i'm leaning more toward Boston right now... Boston Conservatory and BU look quite nice.. and of those 3 Chicago school, Northwestern is the only one that offers conducting.. the other 2 only offer composition.

OlivePoet
12-04-2006, 01:39 PM
what's up phelps bro!:bounce

although i regret to inform you that i'm leaning more toward Boston right now... Boston Conservatory and BU look quite nice.. and of those 3 Chicago school, Northwestern is the only one that offers conducting.. the other 2 only offer composition.

:lorraine

phelps1540630
12-04-2006, 02:33 PM
No problem buddy! :hug

DancingHeaters@gmail.com

:thumbsup Thanks in advance!!!

eachibon
12-04-2006, 11:01 PM
although i regret to inform you that i'm leaning more toward Boston right now... Boston Conservatory and BU look quite nice.. and of those 3 Chicago school, Northwestern is the only one that offers conducting.. the other 2 only offer composition.

When my bro was looking for schools (percussion perfomance major) he really liked New England Conservatory. I'm not sure NEC has what you're looking for, but just a suggestion.

eachibon
12-05-2006, 12:50 AM
So I came across this quote that I had saved from a while ago and thought that I'd share with you guys. I thought it was appropriate for this forum. Enjoy.

"Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more."
-Erica Jong

Jessica41
12-05-2006, 02:13 AM
So I came across this quote that I had saved from a while ago and thought that I'd share with you guys. I thought it was appropriate for this forum. Enjoy.

"Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more."
-Erica Jong

that quote made me think of justin.

whiteysax
12-05-2006, 06:24 AM
So I came across this quote that I had saved from a while ago and thought that I'd share with you guys. I thought it was appropriate for this forum. Enjoy.

"Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more."
-Erica Jong
the woman who said that has obviously dated less than a few psycho assholes!

phelps1540630
12-05-2006, 06:25 AM
the woman who said that has obviously dated less than a few psycho assholes!

True dat...

whiteysax
12-05-2006, 06:27 AM
I'm sorry, I'm still a bit bitter... I'll say this much...
Being brave for... yes
Risking everything for... sure
Fighting for... for the most part
Putting up with shit for... absolutely not!

Popeye2003
12-05-2006, 08:36 AM
Hello Popeye2003 it appears that you have not posted on our forums in several weeks, why not take a few moments to ask a question, help provide a solution or just engage in a conversation with another member in any one of our forums?

OK, I guess.

whiteysax
12-05-2006, 09:32 AM
Hello Popeye2003 it appears that you have not posted on our forums in several weeks, why not take a few moments to ask a question, help provide a solution or just engage in a conversation with another member in any one of our forums?

OK, I guess.:lol:lol
so is this your attempt to engage in conversation with another memberin this one of their forums?

gbs3769
12-05-2006, 11:17 AM
Hey.

I hate work.

- Primo

Jessica41
12-05-2006, 11:22 AM
Morning everyone

davehead34
12-05-2006, 11:27 AM
Morning, everyone. :)

Chris, move to Boston. We can start a band! ;) It's definitely one of my top three favorite cities. I just spent the past four days there. I drove by Fenway today on the way to work (driving from my girl's apartment to work in RI) and passed Fenway on the 93. I got so excited whenever I see Fenway that I want to start dancing and singing! Goddamn I love Boston!

Also, just watched Swingers for probably th 4893rd time last night with my girl who had never seen it before. Great time, indeed. :thumbsup Seriously, anyone that has not seen that movie has not lived.

Jessica41
12-05-2006, 11:47 AM
Morning, everyone. :)

Chris, move to Boston. We can start a band! ;) It's definitely one of my top three favorite cities. I just spent the past four days there. I drove by Fenway today on the way to work (driving from my girl's apartment to work in RI) and passed Fenway on the 93. I got so excited whenever I see Fenway that I want to start dancing and singing! Goddamn I love Boston!

Also, just watched Swingers for probably th 4893rd time last night with my girl who had never seen it before. Great time, indeed. :thumbsup Seriously, anyone that has not seen that movie has not lived.

your girl? 2 wks ago you didnt want a relationship....details

davehead34
12-05-2006, 11:59 AM
your girl? 2 wks ago you didnt want a relationship....details

:lol True, true.

A friend I used to see at summer camp when I was a kid (I went to this camp in NH for about eight years or so) hit me up on Facebook and MySpace and invited me up to her apartment on Friday. The weather sucked horribly over here, and since it was already dark out, I opted for a raincheck for the following day. I drove up there on Saturday to visit her and GODDAMN she got fine! She's always been a little younger than me (she's 20 right now - turns 21 in March) so I never took interest in her at camp, but like I said - DAMN! Looooooooong story short, I didn't go up there for any other reason than to just see her and kick it with her that night, but ended up staying with her all the way up through this morning. I totally blew off work Monday and she blew off her class, as well. It was amazing. I honestly can't remember the last time I felt this way about anyone. I've basically spent the past several years convincing myself that I'm not ready to settle down and get in a relationship, but being with her felt so right that I couldn't lie to myself. The great thing is that I don't feel like I'm settling down by dating her because she's just as crazy, out of her mind, and adventurous as me! She wants to travel, lives in Boston, loves music, goes to Emerson, is really optomistic, absolutely stunning drop-dead beautiful, and is as obessed with my body as I am with her's. :lol We literally left her apartment twice the whole time we were together. I don't think you need me to go into details as to what we were doing. Y'all can figure that out for yourself. ;)

Chris, you better go to school in Boston.

Jessica41
12-05-2006, 12:12 PM
:lol True, true.

A friend I used to see at summer camp when I was a kid (I went to this camp in NH for about eight years or so) hit me up on Facebook and MySpace and invited me up to her apartment on Friday. The weather sucked horribly over here, and since it was already dark out, I opted for a raincheck for the following day. I drove up there on Saturday to visit her and GODDAMN she got fine! She's always been a little younger than me (she's 20 right now - turns 21 in March) so I never took interest in her at camp, but like I said - DAMN! Looooooooong story short, I didn't go up there for any other reason than to just see her and kick it with her that night, but ended up staying with her all the way up through this morning. I totally blew off work Monday and she blew off her class, as well. It was amazing. I honestly can't remember the last time I felt this way about anyone. I've basically spent the past several years convincing myself that I'm not ready to settle down and get in a relationship, but being with her felt so right that I couldn't lie to myself. The great thing is that I don't feel like I'm settling down by dating her because she's just as crazy, out of her mind, and adventurous as me! She wants to travel, lives in Boston, loves music, goes to Emerson, is really optomistic, absolutely stunning drop-dead beautiful, and is as obessed with my body as I am with her's. :lol We literally left her apartment twice the whole time we were together. I don't think you need me to go into details as to what we were doing. Y'all can figure that out for yourself. ;)

Chris, you better go to school in Boston.


haha sounds wonderful! so i suppose you will be ditching me and spending NYE with her:devil

davehead34
12-05-2006, 01:57 PM
haha sounds wonderful! so i suppose you will be ditching me and spending NYE with her:devil

I wouldn't go so far as to say that! She may be working and all that crazy stuff, and I haven't promised her anything except to spend every waking free moment with her. ;)

UNC41
12-05-2006, 02:00 PM
Also, just watched Swingers for probably th 4893rd time last night with my girl who had never seen it before. Great time, indeed. :thumbsup Seriously, anyone that has not seen that movie has not lived.

Congrats on popping her Swingers cherry. And the relationship too I suppose. :lol

Jessica41
12-05-2006, 02:01 PM
I wouldn't go so far as to say that! She may be working and all that crazy stuff, and I haven't promised her anything except to spend every waking free moment with her. ;)

:rolleyes

Jessica41
12-05-2006, 02:02 PM
PS. dont shoot me now, but I haven't seen Swingers yet. Should I rent it?

UNC41
12-05-2006, 02:04 PM
PS. dont shoot me now, but I haven't seen Swingers yet. Should I rent it?

Yessssssssssssssssssssssssss.

UNC41
12-05-2006, 02:05 PM
I've realized that one of the best parts of graduation from college is meeting up with some old flings or friends with benefits one last time.

SteelerMan
12-05-2006, 02:06 PM
PS. dont shoot me now, but I haven't seen Swingers yet. Should I rent it?

Absolutely. I consider it to be the perfect post-break up movie. It honestly helped me out a lot a few months ago.

Jessica41
12-05-2006, 02:11 PM
Absolutely. I consider it to be the perfect post-break up movie. It honestly helped me out a lot a few months ago.

Ok, maybe I'll rent it tonight. My dvd player is broken I think though :shrug

UNC41
12-05-2006, 02:12 PM
Absolutely. I consider it to be the perfect post-break up movie. It honestly helped me out a lot a few months ago.

I just consider it to be the perfect movie.

davehead34
12-05-2006, 02:13 PM
Congrats on popping her Swingers cherry. And the relationship too I suppose. :lol

:lol Thanks man. She wouldn't stop telling her roommate how great it was and that she HAD to watch it. That made my day. hahaha

PS. dont shoot me now, but I haven't seen Swingers yet. Should I rent it?

Don't rent it - buy it.

Ok, maybe I'll rent it tonight. My dvd player is broken I think though :shrug

While you're at it, buy a new DVD player.

davehead34
12-05-2006, 02:14 PM
Absolutely. I consider it to be the perfect post-break up movie. It honestly helped me out a lot a few months ago.

I just consider it to be the perfect movie.

:thumbsup Agreed.

whiteysax
12-05-2006, 04:51 PM
Morning, everyone. :)

Chris, move to Boston. We can start a band! ;) It's definitely one of my top three favorite cities. I just spent the past four days there. I drove by Fenway today on the way to work (driving from my girl's apartment to work in RI) and passed Fenway on the 93. I got so excited whenever I see Fenway that I want to start dancing and singing! Goddamn I love Boston!

Also, just watched Swingers for probably th 4893rd time last night with my girl who had never seen it before. Great time, indeed. :thumbsup Seriously, anyone that has not seen that movie has not lived. that'd be awesome, man!! where ever i go... i'd like to find a guitar player to hook up with... but i thought you were planning on heading back to San Diego? :confused

PS. congrats :thumbsup

gbs3769
12-05-2006, 05:54 PM
PS. dont shoot me now, but I haven't seen Swingers yet. Should I rent it?
You should buy it.

- Primo

phelps1540630
12-05-2006, 06:38 PM
You should buy it.

- Primo

Good call Primo...

DMBfan41
12-05-2006, 07:11 PM
i haven't seen swingers either...please don't vote me out of the gender

whiteysax
12-05-2006, 07:26 PM
i haven't seen swingers either...please don't vote me out of the gender
a regretfully must admit that I'm with you

phelps1540630
12-05-2006, 08:04 PM
a regretfully must admit that I'm with you

C'mon Chris, get on that...

whiteysax
12-05-2006, 08:20 PM
C'mon Chris, get on that...:lorraine looks like i have plans this weekend then :p

davehead34
12-05-2006, 08:44 PM
a regretfully must admit that I'm with you

i haven't seen swingers either...please don't vote me out of the gender

Wow. It's on Comcast OnDemand under comedy for FREE if you have it! :)

whiteysax
12-05-2006, 08:51 PM
Wow. It's on Comcast OnDemand under comedy for FREE if you have it! :)oh! i'll have to check that out!! thanks man!

phelps1540630
12-05-2006, 09:02 PM
:lorraine looks like i have plans this weekend then :p

True dat...

SteelerMan
12-05-2006, 09:21 PM
A group of friends and I are doing a mixtape trade... since I'm making one anyway (mine is a "Best of 2006" mix), I thought I'd see if maybe you guys might be interested.

Red_41
12-05-2006, 09:30 PM
Evening oh starry-eyed ones!

I have seen Swingers ... but only once and several years ago.

I pledge to rent it this weekend and make Christy watch it with me.

whiteysax
12-05-2006, 09:34 PM
Evening oh starry-eyed ones!

I have seen Swingers ... but only once and several years ago.

I pledge to rent it this weekend and make Christy watch it with me.it'll be like we're watching it together... but seperated by hundreds of miles

phelps1540630
12-05-2006, 09:34 PM
Evening oh starry-eyed ones!

I have seen Swingers ... but only once and several years ago.

I pledge to rent it this weekend and make Christy watch it with me.

Hi Noella! :hug Great movie swingers is...

Red_41
12-05-2006, 09:37 PM
it'll be like we're watching it together... but seperated by hundreds of miles

that's so romantic ... tragic ... but romantic.

newscane
12-05-2006, 09:39 PM
Also, just watched Swingers for probably th 4893rd time last night with my girl who had never seen it before. Great time, indeed. :thumbsup Seriously, anyone that has not seen that movie has not lived.
I haven't watched that in a little while.... maybe I'll do that this weekend...

newscane
12-05-2006, 09:40 PM
PS. dont shoot me now, but I haven't seen Swingers yet. Should I rent it?
It's money.

whiteysax
12-05-2006, 09:48 PM
that's so romantic ... tragic ... but romantic.like a Greek play...

phelps1540630
12-05-2006, 09:50 PM
like a Greek play...

True dat...

Red_41
12-05-2006, 09:52 PM
like a Greek play...

You tellin' me I remind you of your mama boy?

whiteysax
12-05-2006, 09:59 PM
You tellin' me I remind you of your mama boy?
Oedipal complex what?

phelps1540630
12-05-2006, 10:07 PM
Oedipal complex what?

I teach that shiznit...

davehead34
12-05-2006, 10:18 PM
oh! i'll have to check that out!! thanks man!

No problem man. Enjoy. :)

It's money.

So fucking money. With big fucking teeth.

phelps1540630
12-05-2006, 10:20 PM
Yo Chase! Whats good? Glad to hear about you and your girl man...

davehead34
12-06-2006, 11:28 AM
Yo Chase! Whats good? Glad to hear about you and your girl man...

Hey Josh! Nada much man! I'm wicked stoked right now because I JUST found out that Matisyahu's coming to Boston and I'm going with her!!!!! I love Matisyahu!!!!

eachibon
12-06-2006, 11:31 AM
it'll be like we're watching it together... but seperated by hundreds of miles

it's been done before :);)

Jessica41
12-06-2006, 11:32 AM
So I guess I broke up with him last night. Not sure if it was the 'right' thing to do and I was quite sad during and afterwards. I jusy told him the truth... that there are so many qualities I love about him but whenever we hang out I feel something is missing or not clicking. I'm upset with myself because I wanted to try with him, I like him a lot, so what in the hell do you do in that situation? I've never been there. Then a few hours after leaving I ended up writing him an email in the middle of the night saying just that, and that I missed him, etc etc. and he responded this morning saying "This e-mail won't be very long, but I wanted to respond to you to let you know I got the one you sent me in the middle of the night :P I'll respond properly this evening when I get home. I hope you have a good day and stay warm. I'll talk to you soon.
Danny



In happier news: message from Tony (Spawn on ants I think many of you know him, esp. from Cville) ...he is planning an ants meetup in Jan. I want all of the HR's to be there. Here is the msg.

"So, there has been some talk lately about attempting a meetup of sorts with a bunch of us Ants. I have been conversing between several parties on this and decided to start the ball rolling to see if we can really do this.

For the most part, this is gonna be the North Eastern group of us which consists of Canadians, New yorkers, and Pennsylvanians. Granted I'm sure we won't get everyone but hopefully there will be a large enough interest so that it will be a nice little reunion of sorts.

The first step is picking a date. Looking at the calender and talking to a few of you has led me to a conclusion that the latter part of January might be a good time. I was looking at the weekend of January 26th to the 28th and was wondering if that would be a good time for most (hopefully all of you).

Once I get a consensus of a good time to do this, we need to start planning a place. Since we have people coming from far distances I was trying to figure a place somewhere in the middle for all of us. After discussing it with several others we were thinking that somewhere on the southern end of New York would be around the halfway point. Two places I've heard thrown out there were Binghamton, NY or one of the southern tier finger lakes winery areas. Thats about all the ideas thus far. So any input on possible areas as well would be appreciated, like I said, we are trying to keep if around the halfway mark for eveyrone.

No matter what happens, I know that many of us are a little strapped for cash so whatever we end up doing, it won't be anything too expensive. Anyways, it need not be as the whole point of this is just so that we get to see each other before tour season....

So, let me know if the time frame is good for ya and any ideas/suggestions would be appreciated....."

eachibon
12-06-2006, 11:41 AM
So I guess I broke up with him last night. Not sure if it was the 'right' thing to do and I was quite sad during and afterwards. I jusy told him the truth... that there are so many qualities I love about him but whenever we hang out I feel something is missing or not clicking. I'm upset with myself because I wanted to try with him, I like him a lot, so what in the hell do you do in that situation? I've never been there. Then a few hours after leaving I ended up writing him an email in the middle of the night saying just that, and that I missed him, etc etc. and he responded this morning saying "This e-mail won't be very long, but I wanted to respond to you to let you know I got the one you sent me in the middle of the night :P I'll respond properly this evening when I get home. I hope you have a good day and stay warm. I'll talk to you soon.
Danny

awww Jess, i'm sorry to hear that. You seemed so happy. Maybe things will still work out?

davehead34
12-06-2006, 11:43 AM
So I guess I broke up with him last night. Not sure if it was the 'right' thing to do and I was quite sad during and afterwards. I jusy told him the truth... that there are so many qualities I love about him but whenever we hang out I feel something is missing or not clicking. I'm upset with myself because I wanted to try with him, I like him a lot, so what in the hell do you do in that situation? I've never been there. Then a few hours after leaving I ended up writing him an email in the middle of the night saying just that, and that I missed him, etc etc. and he responded this morning saying "This e-mail won't be very long, but I wanted to respond to you to let you know I got the one you sent me in the middle of the night :P I'll respond properly this evening when I get home. I hope you have a good day and stay warm. I'll talk to you soon.
Danny



In happier news: message from Tony (Spawn on ants I think many of you know him, esp. from Cville) ...he is planning an ants meetup in Jan. I want all of the HR's to be there. Here is the msg.

"So, there has been some talk lately about attempting a meetup of sorts with a bunch of us Ants. I have been conversing between several parties on this and decided to start the ball rolling to see if we can really do this.

For the most part, this is gonna be the North Eastern group of us which consists of Canadians, New yorkers, and Pennsylvanians. Granted I'm sure we won't get everyone but hopefully there will be a large enough interest so that it will be a nice little reunion of sorts.

The first step is picking a date. Looking at the calender and talking to a few of you has led me to a conclusion that the latter part of January might be a good time. I was looking at the weekend of January 26th to the 28th and was wondering if that would be a good time for most (hopefully all of you).

Once I get a consensus of a good time to do this, we need to start planning a place. Since we have people coming from far distances I was trying to figure a place somewhere in the middle for all of us. After discussing it with several others we were thinking that somewhere on the southern end of New York would be around the halfway point. Two places I've heard thrown out there were Binghamton, NY or one of the southern tier finger lakes winery areas. Thats about all the ideas thus far. So any input on possible areas as well would be appreciated, like I said, we are trying to keep if around the halfway mark for eveyrone.

No matter what happens, I know that many of us are a little strapped for cash so whatever we end up doing, it won't be anything too expensive. Anyways, it need not be as the whole point of this is just so that we get to see each other before tour season....

So, let me know if the time frame is good for ya and any ideas/suggestions would be appreciated....."

A little bit of good news with a little bit of bad news, I suppose. I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work at (at least at that particular moment ;)), but am thrilled that Tony wants to do some sort of gathering! I'll definitely get with him about that to exten my support.

What exactly did you dislike about him? You mentioned how you guys didn't click as well as you would've like to. Was he awkward? Could he not read you very well? Are you just not ready to be in a relationship? Why did you send him that email? I'm sure he's confused as hell right now. You guys will be a lot stronger or nothing at all when this cloud settles. That's just what I think, though. If you guys get back together I think it really could make your bond with him stronger, but you'd have to address the problem that bothers you or else there really isn't a point in dating him anymore.

Jessica41
12-06-2006, 11:49 AM
A little bit of good news with a little bit of bad news, I suppose. I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work at (at least at that particular moment ;)), but am thrilled that Tony wants to do some sort of gathering! I'll definitely get with him about that to exten my support.

What exactly did you dislike about him? You mentioned how you guys didn't click as well as you would've like to. Was he awkward? Could he not read you very well? Are you just not ready to be in a relationship? Why did you send him that email? I'm sure he's confused as hell right now. You guys will be a lot stronger or nothing at all when this cloud settles. That's just what I think, though. If you guys get back together I think it really could make your bond with him stronger, but you'd have to address the problem that bothers you or else there really isn't a point in dating him anymore.

I can't pinpoint one exact thing, thats the tough thing for me. I guess to describe him...he's extreeemely laid back person, very sweet but has a mysterious quietness/shyness about him. Sometimes I can't read him. Then he opens up for a bit and when he smiles, it's the most beautiful thing in the world. We are both sarcastic yet sensitive people. So I dont know if that combo is bad or what, but when we joke with eachother we sometimes offend eachother w/out meaning to. He is the complete opposite of Justin when it comes to personality. Maybe thats what I'm not used to? He barely ever goes out, which I thought might be a problem for me but it wasn't much of an issue because I still go out w/ my friends and I still see him a few times a week. We had a good weekend, I stayed there Sat after he asked me to, we just hung out/watched Serendipity, cuddled, etc. I don't think the being ready for a relationship is an issue with me at all. I am ready for one, with the right person.

davehead34
12-06-2006, 12:04 PM
I can't pinpoint one exact thing, thats the tough thing for me. I guess to describe him...he's extreeemely laid back person, very sweet but has a mysterious quietness/shyness about him. Sometimes I can't read him. Then he opens up for a bit and when he smiles, it's the most beautiful thing in the world. We are both sarcastic yet sensitive people. So I dont know if that combo is bad or what, but when we joke with eachother we sometimes offend eachother w/out meaning to. He is the complete opposite of Justin when it comes to personality. Maybe thats what I'm not used to? He barely ever goes out, which I thought might be a problem for me but it wasn't much of an issue because I still go out w/ my friends and I still see him a few times a week. We had a good weekend, I stayed there Sat after he asked me to, we just hung out/watched Serendipity, cuddled, etc. I don't think the being ready for a relationship is an issue with me at all. I am ready for one, with the right person.

Right on. He sounds like a great guy, but that you're not used to dating somone like that. If Justin's personality was radically different then, of course, you can expect a transition period where you're adapting to them. I bet there are still traits Justin has that you wish he has. That could be tough to deal with.

:thumbsup Serendipity is a GREAT movie! I know we've probably said it 100000 times in this thread, but wow, what a great movie. It's the quintessential HR movie, IMHO. Besides, I love that David Gray has his song January Rain on there. What a great song. :)

gbs3769
12-06-2006, 12:07 PM
:thumbsup Serendipity is a GREAT movie! I know we've probably said it 100000 times in this thread, but wow, what a great movie. It's the quintessential HR movie, IMHO. Besides, I love that David Gray has his song January Rain on there. What a great song. :)
I watch it every night as I go to bed.

- Primo

Jessica41
12-06-2006, 12:09 PM
Right on. He sounds like a great guy, but that you're not used to dating somone like that. If Justin's personality was radically different then, of course, you can expect a transition period where you're adapting to them. I bet there are still traits Justin has that you wish he has. That could be tough to deal with.

:thumbsup Serendipity is a GREAT movie! I know we've probably said it 100000 times in this thread, but wow, what a great movie. It's the quintessential HR movie, IMHO. Besides, I love that David Gray has his song January Rain on there. What a great song. :)

Have you ever thought someone was a great person, they thought you were a beautiful person back, you really liked them and qualities they had, thought they'd be great for you... but just have something not click? What in the hell do you do?

Jessica41
12-06-2006, 12:09 PM
I watch it every night as I go to bed.

- Primo

Before or after reciting goodnight moon? :)

Jessica41
12-06-2006, 12:09 PM
And yes, Serendipity is one of my fav movies of all time. That is why I brought it over for him to watch :)

Jessica41
12-06-2006, 12:12 PM
Here is the email that I wrote him last night.

So I admit, I went out tonight and I had fun with my friends, and I needed it. But nearly the entire time I thought of you. I saw friends I hadn’t seen in months, and most of them were Justin’s fraternity brothers that I haven’t hung out with in a couple months. I was invited back to the house and although I missed them all I couldn’t go because I didn’t want to deal w/ possible drama w/ Justin, and I still don’t feel very single. I had heard last night from some of them that he's still acting bitter and doesn't want me there, but I ignored it, because I have every intention of moving on, and that is what I have tried to do with you.

Basically this email comes down to the fact that I miss you. I know everything we talked about and I’m aware of our personality clashing “issues” but I still can’t escape the fact that I miss you…. As a person and nothing else. That’s why for the last few weeks I couldn’t just let you go. There are things about you that I adore and miss when I’m not around. I really thought that you and I would be a good together. Who knows? I thought I did. I want you to be happy and don’t want to stress you out more than you are. I wanted to be a good thing in your life and I wanted you to be the same in mine. I hope that we can stay friends, although I admit part of me knows I could never be friends with you without wanting to walk over and hug/kiss you. How can I? I guess I want you to have the answers. I wanted you to tell me how you felt so I would feel better about things as a whole of it wasn’t just me deciding it. I am by nature a VERY simple person, and I just wanted to be with you. This is the most complicated thing I have had to deal with in a long time. This is the longest email I have ever written a person to say I miss who you are and I miss being around you. I wish it could work. I hope that in time, we will be friends, because I think that it would be fun. I hope you have a wonderful Wednesday and you’re in good spirits. DMB tour is only 6 months away :P

<3 me

davehead34
12-06-2006, 03:03 PM
Have you ever thought someone was a great person, they thought you were a beautiful person back, you really liked them and qualities they had, thought they'd be great for you... but just have something not click? What in the hell do you do?

To make it short and sweet, I think some people require more time to get used to than others. Different people's personalities suit different people differently, but that doesn't mean they shouldn't be together. As long as you're happy together. That's, IMHO, the most important thing. Happiness.

phelps1540630
12-06-2006, 03:46 PM
To make it short and sweet, I think some people require more time to get used to than others. Different people's personalities suit different people differently, but that doesn't mean they shouldn't be together. As long as you're happy together. That's, IMHO, the most important thing. Happiness.

:thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup

davehead86
12-06-2006, 04:34 PM
Have you ever thought someone was a great person, they thought you were a beautiful person back, you really liked them and qualities they had, thought they'd be great for you... but just have something not click? What in the hell do you do?

You cant ever make that click happen, it jsut does. I have two great friends whom i woulda dated if something even a lil tiny click happened.

And its anythign from, not attractive, bad kisser, persnality not suited to make you "want them". Who knows, but its annyoing none the less. Just hold out, maybe it'll click after a wee bit like davehead34 said it just takes time.

whiteysax
12-06-2006, 04:42 PM
So I guess I broke up with him last night. Not sure if it was the 'right' thing to do and I was quite sad during and afterwards. I jusy told him the truth... that there are so many qualities I love about him but whenever we hang out I feel something is missing or not clicking. I'm upset with myself because I wanted to try with him, I like him a lot, so what in the hell do you do in that situation? I've never been there. Then a few hours after leaving I ended up writing him an email in the middle of the night saying just that, and that I missed him, etc etc. and he responded this morning saying "This e-mail won't be very long, but I wanted to respond to you to let you know I got the one you sent me in the middle of the night :P I'll respond properly this evening when I get home. I hope you have a good day and stay warm. I'll talk to you soon.
Danny

In happier news: message from Tony (Spawn on ants I think many of you know him, esp. from Cville) ...he is planning an ants meetup in Jan. I want all of the HR's to be there. Here is the msg.
if you're still questioning whether or not to be with him, you should probably take some time to be alone. You can't force a relationship to work, no matter how much you think it should. And you can't expect the very next relationship after the Justin ordeal to be "the one". I know you don't think that way, but try not to look at it from a universal perspective. Believe it or not, you have a LOT of time to find the exactly right person for you. Don't "settle". If there are things about him that just make you wonder if it would work... or things you don't see changing... then find someone where you don't have that uncertainty.

Here is the email that I wrote him last night.

So I admit, I went out tonight and I had fun with my friends, and I needed it. But nearly the entire time I thought of you. I saw friends I hadn’t seen in months, and most of them were Justin’s fraternity brothers that I haven’t hung out with in a couple months. I was invited back to the house and although I missed them all I couldn’t go because I didn’t want to deal w/ possible drama w/ Justin, and I still don’t feel very single. I had heard last night from some of them that he's still acting bitter and doesn't want me there, but I ignored it, because I have every intention of moving on, and that is what I have tried to do with you.

Basically this email comes down to the fact that I miss you. I know everything we talked about and I’m aware of our personality clashing “issues” but I still can’t escape the fact that I miss you…. As a person and nothing else. That’s why for the last few weeks I couldn’t just let you go. There are things about you that I adore and miss when I’m not around. I really thought that you and I would be a good together. Who knows? I thought I did. I want you to be happy and don’t want to stress you out more than you are. I wanted to be a good thing in your life and I wanted you to be the same in mine. I hope that we can stay friends, although I admit part of me knows I could never be friends with you without wanting to walk over and hug/kiss you. How can I? I guess I want you to have the answers. I wanted you to tell me how you felt so I would feel better about things as a whole of it wasn’t just me deciding it. I am by nature a VERY simple person, and I just wanted to be with you. This is the most complicated thing I have had to deal with in a long time. This is the longest email I have ever written a person to say I miss who you are and I miss being around you. I wish it could work. I hope that in time, we will be friends, because I think that it would be fun. I hope you have a wonderful Wednesday and you’re in good spirits. DMB tour is only 6 months away :P

<3 meparts of this make Danny sound like a "rebound" guy. If that's what's causing the uncertainty... reevaluate the situation VERY CAREFULLY. If you miss "him" then ok... you're entitled to that. But if you just miss "being in love" or having someone "like you"... then take time for yourself.

To make it short and sweet, I think some people require more time to get used to than others. Different people's personalities suit different people differently, but that doesn't mean they shouldn't be together. As long as you're happy together. That's, IMHO, the most important thing. Happiness.agreed... happiness takes the cake... but at what cost? you can't compromise your personality or lifestyle because someone makes you happy. Well, i suppose you can. But I feel that the type of happiness we're talking about needs to come naturally and just be a nice compliment to the life you're already living.

phelps1540630
12-06-2006, 07:10 PM
Jess, I understand how you are feeling. When I was in college, there were a number of girls who I dated who were great and I really liked but something was missing. I can think of one in particular. I dated this one girl (not officially but it was a given) my entire last semester of college. She was very pretty, very cool, and a lot of fun. I had a good time hanging out with her and always enjoyed the time spent with her. However, there was something missing there for me. I really "tried" to make myself like her more but I just couldn't do it. Sometimes there is just something missing...

Popeye2003
12-06-2006, 09:08 PM
:lol:lol
so is this your attempt to engage in conversation with another memberin this one of their forums?
It could be. Maybe. Perhaps. I dunno.

whiteysax
12-06-2006, 09:16 PM
It could be. Maybe. Perhaps. I dunno.and we love you for that :D :bounce

phelps1540630
12-06-2006, 09:17 PM
and we love you for that :D :bounce
:thumbsup

whiteysax
12-06-2006, 09:21 PM
ok... how's this sound for a timeline...
now - May 2007: continue compiling list of schools to look at/visit
June-July 2007: attend clinics and work with profs
July 2007: decide where to move
July-August 2007: look for apartments/jobs
August-October 2007: secure job/move

Is that June-October too ambitious? It may cut into my DMB shows...

phelps1540630
12-06-2006, 09:56 PM
ok... how's this sound for a timeline...
now - May 2007: continue compiling list of schools to look at/visit
June-July 2007: attend clinics and work with profs
July 2007: decide where to move
July-August 2007: look for apartments/jobs
August-October 2007: secure job/move

Is that June-October too ambitious? It may cut into my DMB shows...

DMB is more important than your life, duh!!!

whiteysax
12-06-2006, 09:59 PM
DMB is more important than your life, duh!!!on the flipside... if i pull this off successfully, i'll be making the money to just go to whatever show i want to after i start working again

phelps1540630
12-06-2006, 10:02 PM
on the flipside... if i pull this off successfully, i'll be making the money to just go to whatever show i want to after i start working again

Good good point...

davehead86
12-06-2006, 10:25 PM
on the flipside... if i pull this off successfully, i'll be making the money to just go to whatever show i want to after i start working again

Whitey you are not allowed to miss Alpine or Wrigley, ill let you pick which one youd like to attend.

whiteysax
12-07-2006, 06:02 AM
Whitey you are not allowed to miss Alpine or Wrigley, ill let you pick which one youd like to attend.
:( $$$? :lorraine

davehead34
12-07-2006, 10:09 AM
Is that June-October too ambitious? It may cut into my DMB shows...

I know that we believe the world revolves around DMB, but I'm slowly realizing that there's more to life than spending all of Visa and Mastercard's money on 13 $65 tickets for the summer tour. What I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't worry about DMB and their touring schedule. Your music/job schedule is more important than DMB schedule, IMHO.

davehead34
12-07-2006, 10:09 AM
Jess, how'd it go last night with everything?

DMBfan41
12-07-2006, 10:39 AM
so last night went like this

Drank from 10-2
Wrote A Paper from 2-6
Slept From 6-8
Finished Paper 8-8:30

Woo!

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 11:04 AM
Jess, how'd it go last night with everything?

Well I was at work til 9 or so. I checked my phone around 8pm and he had sent me a text that said "I'm @ justins in case you try to get ahold of me".... no big deal, i went home did my normal thing, and he got home around 10pm, and signed online. He said goodnight, we chatted for a few, and he said he'd respond to my email today, didnt get a chance b/c he was helping his friend w/ his house stuff and didnt get home til late. (10pm is late b/c he goes to bed early, he's a teacher) So I guess we wait and see. Pretty sure we're just going to be friends.

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 11:05 AM
so last night went like this

Drank from 10-2
Wrote A Paper from 2-6
Slept From 6-8
Finished Paper 8-8:30

Woo!

:lol fun!!

davehead34
12-07-2006, 11:15 AM
Well I was at work til 9 or so. I checked my phone around 8pm and he had sent me a text that said "I'm @ justins in case you try to get ahold of me".... no big deal, i went home did my normal thing, and he got home around 10pm, and signed online. He said goodnight, we chatted for a few, and he said he'd respond to my email today, didnt get a chance b/c he was helping his friend w/ his house stuff and didnt get home til late. (10pm is late b/c he goes to bed early, he's a teacher) So I guess we wait and see. Pretty sure we're just going to be friends.

Well, if that's what you want then I'm happy for you. :) I still think you guys should date, though. ;)

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 11:20 AM
Well, if that's what you want then I'm happy for you. :) I still think you guys should date, though. ;)

I want it to come naturally. It always has for me before. (relationship-wise) And if it didn't, I knew it wasn't meant to happen. With Danny though, it does sometimes and doesn't other times. I sit here and try to explain it and it's so hard because I don't even know why or what the problem is exactly. I think some things about us are too different sometimes, and then there are some things about us that are exactly the same that is the problem too. We're both way sensitive. It creates clashing.

davehead34
12-07-2006, 11:21 AM
so last night went like this

Drank from 10-2
Wrote A Paper from 2-6
Slept From 6-8
Finished Paper 8-8:30

Woo!

Sweeeeet! I didn't do anything particularly awesome yesterday. Just met with my landlord, paid the first/last month's rent, smoked about seven bowls, drank a sixer of Pacifico, and talked to Anna for almost three hours. All while watching the Celtics embarrass themselves - again.

davehead34
12-07-2006, 11:22 AM
I want it to come naturally. It always has for me before.

I hear ya there. Stuff just has to happen without much thought or effort. Those are the best relationships. :)

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 11:23 AM
I hear ya there. Stuff just has to happen without much thought or effort. Those are the best relationships. :)

Yeah, thats what happened for me in the past. I feel like relationships of course take work, but the beginning shouldn't be work...that should come later after a relationship is established.

whiteysax
12-07-2006, 11:23 AM
I know that we believe the world revolves around DMB, but I'm slowly realizing that there's more to life than spending all of Visa and Mastercard's money on 13 $65 tickets for the summer tour. What I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't worry about DMB and their touring schedule. Your music/job schedule is more important than DMB schedule, IMHO.yeah... the shows were more of a joke... I'm not going to go broke and live like an unsuccessful dumbass just to go see 10 shows a year when i can take one year off and get a job that will pay enough to NOT live like that and STILL see 10 shows a year :D

whiteysax
12-07-2006, 11:24 AM
I want it to come naturally. It always has for me before. (relationship-wise) And if it didn't, I knew it wasn't meant to happen. With Danny though, it does sometimes and doesn't other times. I sit here and try to explain it and it's so hard because I don't even know why or what the problem is exactly. I think some things about us are too different sometimes, and then there are some things about us that are exactly the same that is the problem too. We're both way sensitive. It creates clashing.Good for you!!! you deserve a humpy! :hump:hump

davehead86
12-07-2006, 11:25 AM
:( $$$? :lorraine

Not an excuse, Cassie and I will pay for you to go.:p :cool

davehead34
12-07-2006, 11:28 AM
Not an excuse, Cassie and I will pay for you to go.:p :cool

Now he really doesn't have an excuse! :lol

davehead34
12-07-2006, 11:29 AM
yeah... the shows were more of a joke... I'm not going to go broke and live like an unsuccessful dumbass just to go see 10 shows a year when i can take one year off and get a job that will pay enough to NOT live like that and STILL see 10 shows a year :D

Are you any closer to picking a place to study?

davehead34
12-07-2006, 11:30 AM
Yeah, thats what happened for me in the past. I feel like relationships of course take work, but the beginning shouldn't be work...that should come later after a relationship is established.

:thumbsup Good point! Anna and I were talking last night about what our first fight will be about. We both have no idea how or when it's going to come because we're both so go with with the flow and so laid back, but she said she'd throw a hairdryer at me. :lol

whiteysax
12-07-2006, 11:32 AM
Yeah, thats what happened for me in the past. I feel like relationships of course take work, but the beginning shouldn't be work...that should come later after a relationship is established.once again... :hump:hump humpies for you!

Not an excuse, Cassie and I will pay for you to go.:p :coolc'mon... people are gonna think i'm a leach!!
2005 - Allan gives me the cash for a ridiculously discounted ticket off of Noles cause I was broke for Hershey
2007 - Cassie offers to give me a Vegas ticket if I can get out there
2007 - You offer to pay for Alpine

... wait... why am i complaining againg? :eek

whiteysax
12-07-2006, 11:36 AM
Are you any closer to picking a place to study?i think I'm gonna go to as many clinics as I can as early in the summer as possible and plan on moving by late August-October, assuming I can find a job somewhere. A few different factors outside of school choice pulling me different ways though...
Friends in Chicago, love the city, good school
Friend who's moving with me prefer's Boston, again good schools, closer to home... we'll see....

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 11:38 AM
once again... :hump:hump humpies for you!


haha, thanks for all the humpies. So apparently I do know what I'm talking about, that's a huge relief! Wish I could stop feeling so confused internally then.

whiteysax
12-07-2006, 11:46 AM
haha, thanks for all the humpies. So apparently I do know what I'm talking about, that's a huge relief! Wish I could stop feeling so confused internally then.well it sounded like a case of "blinded by love" in a way. I know what Justin put you through and I know you like the closeness of a one-on-one relationship (friendship or otherwise)... so when everything started popping up "Danny" AND you were still saying you wanted to take it slow, it sounded like you knew what you should do, but also knew what you wanted and were going to go right after it. I was a little worried for you that you might get in too deep and get hurt again.
But after hearing you talk the way you are today, I'm VERY happy to hear you looking at it so objectively and logically. I'm very happy for you and know you'll find someone. Just remember to take your own advice (in my experience, the hardest advice to follow!)... let it come to you... don't force it... enjoy the ride... and listen to lots of Dancing Nancies and You Never Know :D

whiteysax
12-07-2006, 11:46 AM
EDIT: oh, and i'll give you humpies anytime!! :eek

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 11:57 AM
well it sounded like a case of "blinded by love" in a way. I know what Justin put you through and I know you like the closeness of a one-on-one relationship (friendship or otherwise)... so when everything started popping up "Danny" AND you were still saying you wanted to take it slow, it sounded like you knew what you should do, but also knew what you wanted and were going to go right after it. I was a little worried for you that you might get in too deep and get hurt again.
But after hearing you talk the way you are today, I'm VERY happy to hear you looking at it so objectively and logically. I'm very happy for you and know you'll find someone. Just remember to take your own advice (in my experience, the hardest advice to follow!)... let it come to you... don't force it... enjoy the ride... and listen to lots of Dancing Nancies and You Never Know :D

Well I did/am taking it slow. Danny and I took it all slow. That's not the problem, I wish it was as simple as that. I didn't get in too deep at all.

gbs3769
12-07-2006, 11:57 AM
Just popping in real quick to say that I miss you guys.

I'm heading out to grab some lunch and then it is back to the grind at work for me. Jess, you still need to call me.

- Primo

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 11:58 AM
EDIT: oh, and i'll give you humpies anytime!! :eek

:hump :hump

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 11:58 AM
Just popping in real quick to say that I miss you guys.

I'm heading out to grab some lunch and then it is back to the grind at work for me. Jess, you still need to call me.

- Primo

Hi Matthew :) I WILL call you. Maybe tonight?

oh and are you guys all up for the meetup thing in Jan. that Tony is planning? We are shooting for Jan 26-28. Prob somewhere in lower NY.

whiteysax
12-07-2006, 12:01 PM
Well I did/am taking it slow. Danny and I took it all slow. That's not the problem, I wish it was as simple as that. I didn't get in too deep at all.good to hear... just wanna make sure my Cville bed buddy is happy :)

Just popping in real quick to say that I miss you guys.

I'm heading out to grab some lunch and then it is back to the grind at work for me. Jess, you still need to call me.

- Primoat first i glance and thought you said "just pOOping in real quick"... then thought... nah... not Primo Poop...

:hump :humpWOOO!!!

Hi Matthew :) I WILL call you. Maybe tonight?

oh and are you guys all up for the meetup thing in Jan. that Tony is planning? We are shooting for Jan 26-28. Prob somewhere in lower NY.
haha... you called him Matthew :monkey

whiteysax
12-07-2006, 12:43 PM
and for my peanutbutter jelly time... "To believe in this living is just a hard way to go... "
Dude....

phelps1540630
12-07-2006, 12:59 PM
and for my peanutbutter jelly time... "To believe in this living is just a hard way to go... "
Dude....

I love Angel from Montgomery... I got to see it back in 99.... Hello HR's...

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 01:09 PM
Hiiiiiiiii

gbs3769
12-07-2006, 01:12 PM
Hi Matthew :) I WILL call you. Maybe tonight?

oh and are you guys all up for the meetup thing in Jan. that Tony is planning? We are shooting for Jan 26-28. Prob somewhere in lower NY.
If you get a chance, feel free to call tonight. I think I am making tonight my catch up with the world night. I have a lot of people that I need to call and I have been putting it off so I am going to try and call as many as I can.

As far as the meetup that is going on, you'll have to keep me posted on the details. I still would love for everyone to come here simply because lodging is free and then I wouldn't have to drive. However, just keep me updated on what is going on and I'll see how it fits in the schedule.

- Primo

phelps1540630
12-07-2006, 01:13 PM
If you get a chance, feel free to call tonight. I think I am making tonight my catch up with the world night. I have a lot of people that I need to call and I have been putting it off so I am going to try and call as many as I can.

As far as the meetup that is going on, you'll have to keep me posted on the details. I still would love for everyone to come here simply because lodging is free and then I wouldn't have to drive. However, just keep me updated on what is going on and I'll see how it fits in the schedule.

- Primo

Mr. Popular you are Primo...

jguinan101
12-07-2006, 01:15 PM
ugh high dudes :cool

whiteysax
12-07-2006, 01:22 PM
Mr. Popular you are Primo...
we love our love hustler...

well it would appear i'm finally going to teach a class today... off to do some guitar-ing... catch ya's all later this afternoon

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 01:22 PM
If you get a chance, feel free to call tonight. I think I am making tonight my catch up with the world night. I have a lot of people that I need to call and I have been putting it off so I am going to try and call as many as I can.

As far as the meetup that is going on, you'll have to keep me posted on the details. I still would love for everyone to come here simply because lodging is free and then I wouldn't have to drive. However, just keep me updated on what is going on and I'll see how it fits in the schedule.

- Primo

Well I know that Tony has contacted several SPAC ants / CanadaANTS - so I don't know how many people you are willing to put up in your house.

DMBfan41
12-07-2006, 01:26 PM
Hi Matthew :) I WILL call you. Maybe tonight?

oh and are you guys all up for the meetup thing in Jan. that Tony is planning? We are shooting for Jan 26-28. Prob somewhere in lower NY.

thanks...a get together as soon as i leave!

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 01:27 PM
thanks...a get together as soon as i leave!

awww when do you leave?

DMBfan41
12-07-2006, 01:33 PM
awww when do you leave?

Jan 25th

OlivePoet
12-07-2006, 01:42 PM
:thumbsup Thanks in advance!!!

I'm still waiting for an email. :p

phelps1540630
12-07-2006, 02:24 PM
I'm still waiting for an email. :p

Oh, you will get it... I'm waiting just a little bit for when the time gets closer...

SteelerMan
12-07-2006, 04:40 PM
Hey guys... I need a little advice. There's this girl on my former college's basketball team that I really wanna talk to. The problem is I don't know her, nor do I really know anyone who knows her. I see her at the men's games all the time (I'll probably see her tonight actually), and I would go talk to her, but she's always surrounded by other girls and I'm alone. Would it be too awkward/creepy if I just went up and started talking to her? If so, what would I say? These questions may sound funny, but I'm not used to doing this sort of thing. If I don't go talk to her, I'll just end up kicking myself for it later.

marlin1805
12-07-2006, 05:48 PM
You only live once ... Go up and talk to her. After a minute of chat-chitting, ask her if she would like to get some coffee sometime. Thats what I do and it works like a charm. You know if she's interested right away with the way she responds. Good luck!

SteelerMan
12-07-2006, 07:11 PM
You only live once ... Go up and talk to her. After a minute of chat-chitting, ask her if she would like to get some coffee sometime. Thats what I do and it works like a charm. You know if she's interested right away with the way she responds. Good luck!

Thanks man. I'll probably see her in about an hour... I think I'm gonna go for it.

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 07:11 PM
Thanks man. I'll probably see her in about an hour... I think I'm gonna go for it.

Do it do it

marlin1805
12-07-2006, 08:45 PM
Thanks man. I'll probably see her in about an hour... I think I'm gonna go for it.

Let us know :thumbsup

phelps1540630
12-07-2006, 08:55 PM
Do it do it


Agreed... Do it...

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 09:08 PM
From ITS:

We are having hardware problems with the student e-mail server and will be shutting it down at 3:30 PM today to diagnose the problem. The server could be down for a few hours. We suspect a hardware failure and we have built a new server just in case we need to cut over to new hardware. If we go this route, we will need to get a full backup of the existing server and restore it to the new server so there is a possibility that student e-mail could be down for most of the evening.


LOVELY.

Jessica41
12-07-2006, 09:53 PM
well he imed me, we chatted, he asked me if i got his email, i of course did not due to the above...i told him to fwd it to my other one if he wanted. here it is.


In a perfect world where people don't have differences I think we'd have been a great couple, but obviously that's never the case. I don't think I'm able to express myself enough for you to be content. You would be frustrated with me and I would be annoyed by you wanting to know how i feel all the time. That's a tough place to find a happy medium I think, but I don't know. I know that I am someone who only speaks about things when they (I think they) need to be spoken about and that's just me. I guess it can be bad. I always go through a phase when I first date someone where I'm all about her for a few weeks, then there is a lull and I sort of lose interest, and it's a matter of me trying to regain that interest. It's nothing to do with the person, it's a pattern I've always followed. I think a lot of it has to do with being so independent and doing what I want pretty much all the time, and then resenting the fact that now I have to answer to someone. Even though I really don't. I guess I'm destined to be single forever if that trend continues.

I tried to get it back, but I think our differences were just so great that it was too hard for me. We argued about really little stupid things and that didn't help me. What's weird is that we've got so much in common and are actually very much alike in a lot of ways. I like spending time with you and talking to you, it's just...I don't know, something just never clicked after the first few weeks.

I know that we will be friends. I'll probablly call you up from time to time to see if you'll go see a movie with me or something (nothing scary!) Like I said, we're too much alike and I like you way too much to not be friends with you.

I hope you had a good Thursday and a Wednesday too. I'll talk to you soon.

Me


So...that is that.

davehead34
12-08-2006, 07:58 AM
Hey guys... I need a little advice. There's this girl on my former college's basketball team that I really wanna talk to. The problem is I don't know her, nor do I really know anyone who knows her. I see her at the men's games all the time (I'll probably see her tonight actually), and I would go talk to her, but she's always surrounded by other girls and I'm alone. Would it be too awkward/creepy if I just went up and started talking to her? If so, what would I say? These questions may sound funny, but I'm not used to doing this sort of thing. If I don't go talk to her, I'll just end up kicking myself for it later.

I'm not a fan of just walking up to someone and talking to them. Its too impersonal and, more importantly, you never know what that person's going to be like. All you know about this girl is that she probably likes basketball. That's it. I wouldn't want to get all flustered about whether or not I should walk up to her only to find out we have nothing in common, or that she has a boyfriend, or that she's a completely crazy bitch.

gbs3769
12-08-2006, 10:05 AM
So...that is that.
At least you know. :hug

- Primo

jguinan101
12-08-2006, 10:31 AM
yeah atleast things seem very civil and no bridges are being burnt cause that is never any fun... on a somewhat cheery note i'm about to go take my last final for the quarter starts at 10 30 so i gotta hustle, anyway its for my american writters class and i have only done about half the assigned reading and that might be generous, i think i feel my first c coming on, but its passing and i hate the class so i dont care really!!! yeay!!!

Jessica41
12-08-2006, 10:43 AM
At least you know. :hug

- Primo

Yeah and I did a lot of thinking last night, as I usually do. Here is what I came up with. (and wrote to him today)

I wanted you to express to me how you felt because it was obvious to me that you had been acting different than in the beginning. I wanted you to be the one to bring up that something was wrong, but instead you didn't and it bothered me that you were different, and that created an argument at your house the other night. That was a cause for the one at my house previously as well. And after both ended, you expressed to me that I was right, and in fact you had been feeling different. So maybe that all makes more sense to you now, because it does to me. I wanted to know how you felt because you were acting different + you were annoyed with me wanting to know how you felt = an argument waiting to happen.

People always say that everything happens for a reason, and every person you date, though it may end, you learn something from. I think I figured out what I learned from this. I realized last night that you never really challenged or "fought" me... and I don't mean that in an argumentative sense for the point of arguing, but for that fact you didn't really care about what I did, when I did it, or when I was upset for whatever reason, or moved away from you, you just let it happen. I didn't feel as though anything mattered much too much to you. (at times) Easy going is a great way to be, I consider myself the same, but to an extent.

Hope you have a lovely friday. On top of everything that happened, today would have been Justin and I's one year anniversary. Not that I'm sad at all, it's just a symbol to me that shows me that I'm finding the wrong types of people, over and over, and over again. It can get really frustrating to know exactly what you want in a person and not be able to find that person. If all else fails you and I should play matchmaker for eachother. :P

Me

Jessica41
12-08-2006, 10:44 AM
So yeah, today would have been Justin and I's one year.

I sense today that I am extra HR. Thats ok though, I am the queen HR poster. :P

davehead34
12-08-2006, 11:13 AM
So yeah, today would have been Justin and I's one year.

I sense today that I am extra HR. Thats ok though, I am the queen HR poster. :P

HR runs through your veins.

gbs3769
12-08-2006, 11:23 AM
So yeah, today would have been Justin and I's one year.

I sense today that I am extra HR. Thats ok though, I am the queen HR poster. :P
I know how that goes. This past April 6th was actually pretty difficult for me. Even though I was with Kristen at the time, it was only a year after Becca and I broke up and it would have been our 6 year.

It was only about a month and a half or two months later when I found out that Becca was getting married. Let me tell you, that was really tough to handle.

- Primo

phelps1540630
12-08-2006, 11:35 AM
I know how that goes. This past April 6th was actually pretty difficult for me. Even though I was with Kristen at the time, it was only a year after Becca and I broke up and it would have been our 6 year.

It was only about a month and a half or two months later when I found out that Becca was getting married. Let me tell you, that was really tough to handle.

- Primo

I'm sure Primo...

Jessica41
12-08-2006, 12:40 PM
So if I did everything right, then why did I wake up thinking about him? And why is it that when I was with him, even the most dreadful tasks seemed to be okay because I had him to look forward to seeing? If I had work to do, or classes I didn't wanna go to, it was okay because I had something to look forward to... and today I was just driving thinking, now I don't have that.

He responded to my email above saying "Just so you know, i'm not gonna respond to all that while I'm at school.

I don't know if I can be a matchmaker for you. I'm the only single guy I know."


Anyway, yeah, today sucks. Primo I know that must have been horrible for you. I was the same way with my ex of 3 years, for awhile. But I eventually forgot September 5th. What are you up to tonight? Maybe I'll call you finally :)

phelps1540630
12-08-2006, 12:46 PM
So if I did everything right, then why did I wake up thinking about him? And why is it that when I was with him, even the most dreadful tasks seemed to be okay because I had him to look forward to seeing? If I had work to do, or classes I didn't wanna go to, it was okay because I had something to look forward to... and today I was just driving thinking, now I don't have that.

He responded to my email above saying "Just so you know, i'm not gonna respond to all that while I'm at school.

I don't know if I can be a matchmaker for you. I'm the only single guy I know."


Anyway, yeah, today sucks. Primo I know that must have been horrible for you. I was the same way with my ex of 3 years, for awhile. But I eventually forgot September 5th. What are you up to tonight? Maybe I'll call you finally :)


It just takes time Jess... All things get better with time... I know thats the worst thing to hear right not but all wounds heal with time...

eachibon
12-08-2006, 12:53 PM
So if I did everything right, then why did I wake up thinking about him? And why is it that when I was with him, even the most dreadful tasks seemed to be okay because I had him to look forward to seeing? If I had work to do, or classes I didn't wanna go to, it was okay because I had something to look forward to... and today I was just driving thinking, now I don't have that.

He responded to my email above saying "Just so you know, i'm not gonna respond to all that while I'm at school.

I don't know if I can be a matchmaker for you. I'm the only single guy I know."


Anyway, yeah, today sucks. Primo I know that must have been horrible for you. I was the same way with my ex of 3 years, for awhile. But I eventually forgot September 5th. What are you up to tonight? Maybe I'll call you finally :)

Ha, that's funny, sept 5th that's my ex's bday...

Jessica41
12-08-2006, 12:57 PM
It just takes time Jess... All things get better with time... I know thats the worst thing to hear right not but all wounds heal with time...

I know, it's not like I have a wound though. We dated for a month. I hope I didn't make a mistake. I just looked forward to hanging out with him and now I'm back at square one, single, don't want to deal with dating, starting over with someone, etc. It's all a huge pain in the ass. I miss my HR's.

eachibon
12-08-2006, 01:01 PM
I know, it's not like I have a wound though. We dated for a month. I hope I didn't make a mistake. I just looked forward to hanging out with him and now I'm back at square one, single, don't want to deal with dating, starting over with someone, etc. It's all a huge pain in the ass. I miss my HR's.

I hear that...

marlin1805
12-08-2006, 01:38 PM
I know, it's not like I have a wound though. We dated for a month. I hope I didn't make a mistake. I just looked forward to hanging out with him and now I'm back at square one, single, don't want to deal with dating, starting over with someone, etc. It's all a huge pain in the ass. I miss my HR's.

I love being single ... embrace it. It's an awesome feeling to know that the only person you have to answer to is yourself. Plus, if you want to go crazy one night, or meet new people, have a good time, whatever, theres no holding back you have to do because you're "in a relationship". You can do whatever the hell you want to and its the best feeling in the world, at least for me.

I think romantic relationships are a huge waste of time unless you know that you're going to marry the person. Otherwise, theres no point to having a g/f or b/f ... being single is the way to go until you meet that person that just knocks your socks off :thumbsup

phelps1540630
12-08-2006, 01:43 PM
I know, it's not like I have a wound though. We dated for a month. I hope I didn't make a mistake. I just looked forward to hanging out with him and now I'm back at square one, single, don't want to deal with dating, starting over with someone, etc. It's all a huge pain in the ass. I miss my HR's.

Yeah, I know what you mean... I've felt like that in the past but I've always felt that if things are meant to be, they will work out...

davehead34
12-08-2006, 02:38 PM
I love being single ... embrace it. It's an awesome feeling to know that the only person you have to answer to is yourself. Plus, if you want to go crazy one night, or meet new people, have a good time, whatever, theres no holding back you have to do because you're "in a relationship". You can do whatever the hell you want to and its the best feeling in the world, at least for me.

I think romantic relationships are a huge waste of time unless you know that you're going to marry the person. Otherwise, theres no point to having a g/f or b/f ... being single is the way to go until you meet that person that just knocks your socks off :thumbsup

:thumbsup Very much in agreement. No one should be either single or in a relationship unless they absolutely want it.

Jessica41
12-08-2006, 02:59 PM
I love being single ... embrace it. It's an awesome feeling to know that the only person you have to answer to is yourself. Plus, if you want to go crazy one night, or meet new people, have a good time, whatever, theres no holding back you have to do because you're "in a relationship". You can do whatever the hell you want to and its the best feeling in the world, at least for me.

I think romantic relationships are a huge waste of time unless you know that you're going to marry the person. Otherwise, theres no point to having a g/f or b/f ... being single is the way to go until you meet that person that just knocks your socks off :thumbsup

Yeah it's nice, but to be honest I'm sick of it. You can only be single for so long before you start to miss having someone to be there. and I have reached that point. It was nice to have him there. And now its getting colder and having no one to cuddle with absolutely sucks. Although he still would if I wanted to I'm sure... :p

SteelerMan
12-08-2006, 03:23 PM
Do it do it

Let us know :thumbsup

Agreed... Do it...

...I didn't do it. :lol Several reasons:

a) She was always flanked by at least two other members of the girl's team, which would've made it extremely awkward;

b) I started putting a lot of pressure on myself to go talk to her, which in turn made me not want to. I actually felt relieved when I realized I didn't have to do it;

c) I love going to basketball games. She's at all the basketball games. If I went and talked to her, whether she was receptive to me or not, it would've made going to basketball games somewhat awkward. I'd rather just go and enjoy myself, and talking to her could tarnish it.

It's probably for the best.

gbs3769
12-08-2006, 03:26 PM
Anyway, yeah, today sucks. Primo I know that must have been horrible for you. I was the same way with my ex of 3 years, for awhile. But I eventually forgot September 5th. What are you up to tonight? Maybe I'll call you finally :)
Not really sure what I am up to tonight. My roommate is done with work at 8:00pm. I don't feel like going downtown. More than likely, I will just be on my computer playing WoW or cleaning a little bit.

Feel free to give me a call.

- Primo

marlin1805
12-08-2006, 03:33 PM
...I didn't do it. :lol Several reasons:

a) She was always flanked by at least two other members of the girl's team, which would've made it extremely awkward;

b) I started putting a lot of pressure on myself to go talk to her, which in turn made me not want to. I actually felt relieved when I realized I didn't have to do it;

c) I love going to basketball games. She's at all the basketball games. If I went and talked to her, whether she was receptive to me or not, it would've made going to basketball games somewhat awkward. I'd rather just go and enjoy myself, and talking to her could tarnish it.

It's probably for the best.

Good thinking

SteelerMan
12-08-2006, 03:36 PM
Good thinking

Whenever I read your posts, my mind hears them being read by the voice of Ari Gold. It's kind of cool.

gbs3769
12-08-2006, 04:58 PM
Whenever I read your posts, my mind hears them being read by the voice of Ari Gold. It's kind of cool.
Pick up your shit because you're mother fucking fired!

- Primo

marlin1805
12-08-2006, 05:06 PM
Let's hug it out bitch

SteelerMan
12-08-2006, 05:07 PM
Get the fuck out. Seriously... don't even grab a bagel. Get out.

Jessica41
12-08-2006, 05:08 PM
:lost

gbs3769
12-08-2006, 05:10 PM
:lost
http://youtube.com/watch?v=ukEjumdmJWE

- Primo

SteelerMan
12-08-2006, 05:14 PM
http://youtube.com/watch?v=ukEjumdmJWE

- Primo

:lol

One of my favorite scenes. The scene where he crashes Josh Weinstein's party and totally punks him out is probably my all-time favorite.

gbs3769
12-08-2006, 05:22 PM
:lol

One of my favorite scenes. The scene where he crashes Josh Weinstein's party and totally punks him out is probably my all-time favorite.
That is an awesome scene as well...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qKNV5foRiL4

- Primo

newscane
12-08-2006, 09:07 PM
Hmm, I have an idea for a new avatar...

DMBfan41
12-08-2006, 09:09 PM
I love being single ... embrace it. It's an awesome feeling to know that the only person you have to answer to is yourself. Plus, if you want to go crazy one night, or meet new people, have a good time, whatever, theres no holding back you have to do because you're "in a relationship". You can do whatever the hell you want to and its the best feeling in the world, at least for me.

I think romantic relationships are a huge waste of time unless you know that you're going to marry the person. Otherwise, theres no point to having a g/f or b/f ... being single is the way to go until you meet that person that just knocks your socks off :thumbsup

single? that's not really romantic...

davehead86
12-08-2006, 09:40 PM
I love being single ... embrace it. It's an awesome feeling to know that the only person you have to answer to is yourself. Plus, if you want to go crazy one night, or meet new people, have a good time, whatever, theres no holding back you have to do because you're "in a relationship". You can do whatever the hell you want to and its the best feeling in the world, at least for me.

I think romantic relationships are a huge waste of time unless you know that you're going to marry the person. Otherwise, theres no point to having a g/f or b/f ... being single is the way to go until you meet that person that just knocks your socks off :thumbsup

Meh, any woman i would date would allow me to do that anyway (be random and such), its a downer when its been two years and ive made intentions known to more than one girl who just give me stupid fucking reasons and cant just say no. WTF. Im ready to have someone around again, it would be nice.

Jessica41
12-09-2006, 11:15 AM
so i got drunk last night and sent him a text at 1am saying "miss you"..... i really need to NOT do that :/

whiteysax
12-09-2006, 12:09 PM
so i got drunk last night and sent him a text at 1am saying "miss you"..... i really need to NOT do that :/yeah, that's probably a good idea

phelps1540630
12-09-2006, 05:48 PM
so i got drunk last night and sent him a text at 1am saying "miss you"..... i really need to NOT do that :/

I do and say stupid shit when I'm drunk on a regular basis...

Jessica41
12-09-2006, 06:28 PM
I do and say stupid shit when I'm drunk on a regular basis...

Yeah all my friends joke that I need to not take my phone out when I go out because I almost always end up texting and I regret it the next day. But oh well, I actually do miss him but it doesn't really matter now so what is done is done. Going to get a shower and go out with a friend. Have a goodnight everyone!

phelps1540630
12-09-2006, 06:31 PM
Yeah all my friends joke that I need to not take my phone out when I go out because I almost always end up texting and I regret it the next day. But oh well, I actually do miss him but it doesn't really matter now so what is done is done. Going to get a shower and go out with a friend. Have a goodnight everyone!

I'm headed out for dinner and then I'm drinking... You have a good night as well!!!

Jessica41
12-10-2006, 12:57 PM
happy sunday :)

marlin1805
12-10-2006, 04:14 PM
http://youtube.com/watch?v=pHAXSoX8LwQ

happy sunday

phelps1540630
12-10-2006, 07:57 PM
http://youtube.com/watch?v=pHAXSoX8LwQ

happy sunday

Great movie...

gbs3769
12-11-2006, 10:24 AM
So I went out and bought seasons one and two of Entourage on Saturday. I spent all weekend watching them.

- Primo

whiteysax
12-11-2006, 10:35 AM
So I went out and bought seasons one and two of Entourage on Saturday. I spent all weekend watching them.

- Primo
nice, i spent all weekend watching season 1 of Prison Break... I'm hooked

SteelerMan
12-11-2006, 10:49 AM
So I went out and bought seasons one and two of Entourage on Saturday. I spent all weekend watching them.

- Primo

:thumbsup

Excellent. That's an awesome weekend. I've been watching Season One of Arrested Development, Season One of Extras, and Season One of Da Ali G Show. I've missed out on a lot of TV the past three years, so I'm trying to catch up. I also started watching Season One of Twin Peaks... but when I realized it's basically impossible to see the first episode (it's not included on the DVD's), and Season 2 isn't out on DVD and seems to be constantly delayed, I'm starting to think I may just end up getting frustrated if I watch it.

DMBfan41
12-11-2006, 10:51 AM
let the stress week begin!

4 Finals
3 Papers
2 More Days Of Working

And A Music Video to edit by next monday

davehead34
12-11-2006, 11:07 AM
Get the fuck out. Seriously... don't even grab a bagel. Get out.

:thumbsup :lol So money. Classic scene!

davehead34
12-11-2006, 11:08 AM
So I went out and bought seasons one and two of Entourage on Saturday. I spent all weekend watching them.

- Primo

:thumbsup The could be the best DVD aquisition you've ever made. Entourage is easily one of my favorite things to watch. Ever.

On a sidenote, did anyone that HASN'T seen SWINGERS yet finally watch it?

marlin1805
12-11-2006, 11:10 AM
On a sidenote, did anyone that HASN'T seen SWINGERS yet finally watch it?

I finally saw it a month ago - what a great movie!

UNC41
12-11-2006, 11:27 AM
So I went out and bought seasons one and two of Entourage on Saturday. I spent all weekend watching them.

- Primo

I've introduced the two guys I'm staying with right now to Entourage. They can't get enough of it. Such a great show. We just finished the Sundance episode last night.

UNC41
12-11-2006, 11:28 AM
nice, i spent all weekend watching season 1 of Prison Break... I'm hooked

My parents bought my brother this for his birthday last week. We'll be watching it once I'm finished with finals and back home.

whiteysax
12-11-2006, 11:31 AM
My parents bought my brother this for his birthday last week. We'll be watching it once I'm finished with finals and back home.
:thumbsup:thumbsup I saw half of season 2 this fall and my roommate has season 1 on dvd and told me i should watch that so that what i saw in season 2 made sense. The plot kinda drags on, but they do it in such an intriguing way that you don't really know what to expect next.

UNC41
12-11-2006, 11:32 AM
:thumbsup:thumbsup I saw half of season 2 this fall and my roommate has season 1 on dvd and told me i should watch that so that what i saw in season 2 made sense. The plot kinda drags on, but they do it in such an intriguing way that you don't really know what to expect next.

My parents have been watching it from the beginning and insist we give it a try. I've heard great things, so I'm excited. I just hadn't had time to add another weekly show to my slate, but now that I'm graduating studying won't get in the way of any TV I want to watch at night.

whiteysax
12-11-2006, 11:48 AM
My parents have been watching it from the beginning and insist we give it a try. I've heard great things, so I'm excited. I just hadn't had time to add another weekly show to my slate, but now that I'm graduating studying won't get in the way of any TV I want to watch at night.:thumbsup:thumbsup i spent about 8 hrs watching it this weekend... finished Saturday nite