Ants Singles Thread

[Trainer2375]

Hey there Evan! where have you been all morning? :D

[FrankTheTank]

i'm single who wants to go out with me :bounce :babe

[Bean]

Stupid work.

[Trainer2375]

i'm at work by myself this morning, it's kinda nice, but i don't have a lot to show for what i've done :lol

[FPrefect61]

i'm single who wants to go out with me :bounce :babe
As long as you don't set anyone else's hair on fire... :p

[devils744]

is it 6pm yet? damn i need to go home, so tired

[whyibesowhite]

is it 6pm yet? damn i need to go home, so tired
feel your pain.. hate being tired monday morning of all mornings...

[devils744]

yeah, definately isn't the best way to start the week..work is really slow today so that doesn't help either.

[ViolinFire]

its my friends ex girlfriend. shes a hoe.

[timmyt23]

Single and looking. Ladies.......oh never mind.

[DMBeener]

Hello single ants!

I'm tired of being single. :( Perhaps I should work on that.

[MexicoDMB]

If you are a female, then we can take care of your singleness

[DevilishAliya]

MexicoDMB, what happened to you being OK Mama's adopted love child....or something like that...? :lol

[MexicoDMB]

MexicoDMB, what happened to you being OK Mama's adopted love child....or something like that...? :lol

http://www.antsmarching.org/forum/showpost.php?p=1911311&postcount=70

:lol :lol :lol

I think I'm going to put it on my signature again though :monkey

[DMBfan41]

I think it's time to bring back the Singles thread. I'm single and I want to meet a girl. Preferably an Ants girl!

[chels012002]

Yeah lets bring back the singles thread. I don't know many single ANTS but I know alot of ANTS that are kick ass!! I feel all alone in the single world.

[DMBfan41]

Yeah lets bring back the singles thread. I don't know many single ANTS but I know alot of ANTS that are kick ass!! I feel all alone in the single world.

i'm here!

[chels012002]

i'm here!
I see that but it worries me that you like the yankees :lol

[dmb@uvm]

Single and looking :D

but to be honest I cant afford a GF right now, they cost way too much :lol

[chels012002]

Single and looking :D

but to be honest I cant afford a GF right now, they cost way too much :lol
Hey I am low maint!! I like to take care of myself which as soon as I get my job I will be able to do!!

The only thing in my life that costs is my baby girl.

[DMBfan41]

I see that but it worries me that you like the yankees :lol

you're in Arizona. Why should that bother you? You guys beat us!

[chels012002]

you're in Arizona. Why should that bother you? You guys beat us!
cause alot of the yankee fans I encounter are not nice.

[DMBfan41]

well, i'm not one of them. You can ask anybody. Except for the Red Sox fans around here, lol.

[chels012002]

well, i'm not one of them. You can ask anybody. Except for the Red Sox fans around here, lol.
I hope not

[DMBfan41]

so, how do you feel about younger guys, Chelsie?

[chels012002]

so, how do you feel about younger guys, Chelsie?
not all about them. Sorry I am really self consious.

I have to get off line though my friends are here I will be around if not tomorrow monday.

[kas141]

Single sucks. What's even worse is that I have a couple of possibilities floating around out there, but they're just not turning into anything. :BANG

Single sucks.

[System]

Single sucks. What's even worse is that I have a couple of possibilities floating around out there, but they're just not turning into anything. :BANG

Single sucks.


ya, i fall into that same group.

All of them want to be friends and hang out but when it comes to taking that next step....bad things, bad things indeed

[MelissaDMBfan]

I want my ex-boyfriends best friend, which wouldn't be a huge deal but he has a freakin girlfriend.

I need to do something about that!!!!!!!! Damn he is so hot

[bron]

I want my ex-boyfriends best friend
:thumbsup Best/Worst feeling ever...especially if said best friend lives with him. Oh but that only works if you're still with the boyfriend. I'm evil. Not that that's ever happened to me or anything.

Remember, there's always a way to get a girlfriend out of the picture...

I'm evil aren't I?

[System]

:thumbsup Best/Worst feeling ever...especially if said best friend lives with him. Oh but that only works if you're still with the boyfriend. I'm evil. Not that that's ever happened to me or anything.

Remember, there's always a way to get a girlfriend out of the picture...

I'm evil aren't I?


more perfect than evil....i am trying to get a boyfriend out of the picture......

[MelissaDMBfan]

Remember, there's always a way to get a girlfriend out of the picture...

I'm evil aren't I?

We need to figure out a way to get rid of these girlfriends. I am thinking about hooking up with the guy, having his girlfriend break up him, and then he will turn to me in his time of sorrow. Gosh, I love being evil :evil :lol

[System]

well at least you get some ass huh mel?

[MelissaDMBfan]

well at least you get some ass huh mel?
that's all I really want from him. Even though a relationship would be nice, I am too sexually frustrated to be in a serious relationship right now. :lol

[System]

well good, come down to STL and we shall release some frustrations

[devils744]

when did this thread make a come back?

[MelissaDMBfan]

well good, come down to STL and we shall release some frustrations
:thumbsup

[System]

so, you give me a few weeks to get my crazy life together, organize a film crew, and all the other things needed to make or porno and then you can come done and either help or star,

[chels012002]

when did this thread make a come back?
yesterday lol

[MelissaDMBfan]

so, you give me a few weeks to get my crazy life together, organize a film crew, and all the other things needed to make or porno and then you can come done and either help or star,
:lol deal. I will bring down some of my wild and crazy friends too! :)

[System]

:lol deal. I will bring down some of my wild and crazy friends too! :)

sweet, so I am holding audtions for the girls and you arhe holding them for the guys right?

[MelissaDMBfan]

sweet, so I am holding audtions for the girls and you arhe holding them for the guys right?
Yes, I think that would work out just wonderfully! :)

[System]

then we can get together, compare notes and then have to audition each other for a baseline...

could be a long weekend....

[devils744]

will there be multiple auditons in a few cities?

Yes, I think that would work out just wonderfully! :)

[MelissaDMBfan]

will there be multiple auditons in a few cities?
Hmmmmmm you have to pass the interview portion first, and then I might come to your city. :)

[System]

Hmmmmmm you have to pass the interview portion first, and then I might come to your city. :)

don't forget the audtion fee of airfare for your time

[MelissaDMBfan]

don't forget the audtion fee of airfare for your time
:thumbsup and the small charge I have just for having me in the pleasure of your company :lol

[System]

ya, but you will waive teh charge for me right?

[stevo]

wave?

[System]

ya, wave...i am a master of the english language

[StumpyErin]

so, what's this thread all about?! casue i'm deffinetly single.

[System]

thread is about sending me a picture of yourslef so i can rank top 50 hottest single ants and then dtermine where i need to fly to date them

[StumpyErin]

haha
are you being serious?

[System]

um, kinda :evil

[Crush me Grey]

thread is about sending me a picture of yourslef so i can rank top 50 hottest single ants and then dtermine where i need to fly to date them
:lol ..now thats a way to date someone

[System]

:lol ..now thats a way to date someone

desperate times call for desperate measures

[winterscold]

i am single, cause i refuse to go out with a lady that's not cool with Dave Matthews.

[bron]

ya, wave...i am a master of the english language
No you had it right the first time, it's waive when you're saying to waive a fee.

[System]

No you had it right the first time, it's waive when you're saying to waive a fee.

great, i am getting my english corrected by a canadian.

So I said it right eh?

[bron]

great, i am getting my english corrected by a canadian.
Burn. :lol

[colorgreen what]

<<<<<<<young, single white female. hehe.

[System]

huge burn,

well at least,
um, i meant to say,

um, eh, stupid

ya, I am sorry i got nothing.

[Route2]

i am single, cause i refuse to go out with a lady that's not cool with Dave Matthews.
Oh yeah me too...cant stand girls that are anti-dmb

[colorgreen what]

I've never met a girl who didn't not like DMB, even if they were just a casual listeners, most girls I know like em.

[Route2]

yeah you have a point... there are a lot that dont listen to them but they dont mind them.

[Route2]

whats your name mean--colorgreenwhat

[Crush me Grey]

I've never met a girl who didn't not like DMB, even if they were just a casual listeners, most girls I know like em.
one of my best friends cannot STAND dmb.. she says she hates the sound of daves voice... grrr

[devils744]

:bounce :multi

Hmmmmmm you have to pass the interview portion first, and then I might come to your city. :)

[angelces]

ah yes. the singles thread. Sorry to be back here, :( but i guess it's good to have this thread back. :)

[colorgreen what]

whats your name mean--colorgreenwhat
lol for some reason I've always used the name colorgreen for everything.

It came from this movie I watched when I was like 15 called "Girl" about this groupie. The band she followed went by the name "The Color Green" , and I thought it was funny. I added the "what" because I'm super sarcastic and it sounded funny at the time.

[devils744]

sorry to hear that, at least we keep eachother in good company

ah yes. the singles thread. Sorry to be back here, :( but i guess it's good to have this thread back. :)

[DMBfan41]

I've never met a girl who didn't not like DMB, even if they were just a casual listeners, most girls I know like em.

I guess I need to go to Evansville. I can't find many here!

[DMBfan41]

btw, any single Ants in the NYC/NJ area, I'm what you want!

[texasdmblvr]

or in the houston area????
i am so not feeling the 'ant love' down here in texas :(

[System]

how bout the St. Louis area?

Bueller?

Bueller?

Any one?

Anyone?

[StumpyErin]

haha...i hate that part of the movie.

Boston area? Come on you know im a fun time...

[System]

hey, if the cardinals play boston in the Series you know i will be there.

oh ya, ain't going to happen. Damn Yankees, keeping me from a date with Erin....

[StumpyErin]

ha! system is jumping on the bandwagon of wanting the red sox to win..who else is with him?!

[System]

haha, But i am still a cardinals fan at heart

[chels012002]

God I am so bored

[StumpyErin]

what up chelsea

[chels012002]

what up chelsea
Nothing you?

[UJCdream]

holy hell. this is an old as hell thread. cool.

[DMBfan41]

I brought it back! I'm single and I could use a girl.

[MelissaDMBfan]

I am single, but not really sure if I want to be in a relationship.

[StumpyErin]

i hear you DMBfan and i also hear you Melissa. (nice advatar by the way)

[MelissaDMBfan]

^thank you :)

[stunnersal]

What's up singles???

[chels012002]

I am single and I am looking sadly.

[Route2]

I am single and I am looking sadly.
i hear ya

[DMBfan41]

i hear you DMBfan and i also hear you Melissa. (nice advatar by the way)

thank ya. You seem pretty kewl. Too bad your location isn't :D

[MelissaDMBfan]

Just be yourself and have self confidence.

[angelces]

I am single, but not really sure if I want to be in a relationship.
agreed. wouldn't mind being single for a while and having some fun... :hehe:

[JanelleM]

haha, But i am still a cardinals fan at heart
No wonder you can't hook it up ;)

[System]

No wonder you can't hook it up ;)


don't make me come out there and give you a mushroom bruise :D

[stunnersal]

Just be yourself and have self confidence.
and don't let anyone take that away from you.... :thumbsup

[JanelleM]

don't make me come out there and give you a mushroom bruise :D
:lol :lol Well if there is such thing as a fun way to get a bruise...

[MelissaDMBfan]

and don't let anyone take that away from you.... :thumbsup
:thumbsup Be yourself. Don't change yourself for anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't be too pushy with a girl.

[stunnersal]

:thumbsup Be yourself. Don't change yourself for anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't be too pushy with a girl.
agreed, even if they push you away.... :thumbsup

[chels012002]

Just be yourself and have self confidence.
I dont have a hard time finding guys. Its that I have a hard time finding guys I want around for more than a couple weeks.

[stunnersal]

I dont have a hard time finding guys. Its that I have a hard time finding guys I want around for more than a couple weeks.
yeah i know a few girls like you.... :(

[JanelleM]

A year is not a few days....

[chels012002]

yeah i know a few girls like you.... :(
Since Feb I have had 3 guys I was dating and it never works out. The last one luckilly is someone I want in my life just not as a bf and he agrees. It not that I am a bad person it's cause I have a kid and guys my age dont want a baby.

[angelces]

so yeah, my problem is more that I am not around many people of the single and my age variety. everyone at job one is old and married, everyone at job 2 is young and the AF type crowd, not my thing.

[reverend miles]

i have found that the reason i'm still single is my beard... i look like osama. i can't shave it off, though. it's the secret to my incredible strength, wisdom, and good fortune (and i need it for halloween). i don't think there are many girls who like beards. fuck it, i don't care. if a girl doesn't go for me cause i have a damn beard... damn that! i'll grow it twice as long.

[stunnersal]

Since Feb I have had 3 guys I was dating and it never works out. The last one luckilly is someone I want in my life just not as a bf and he agrees. It not that I am a bad person it's cause I have a kid and guys my age dont want a baby.
Well that's a whole different story, that's a guy running when he finds out that you have a kid. Most guys don't want the extra responsibility, only one that's mature enough to handle loving and caring for you and that you don't want a daddy just somebody to love you.

[MelissaDMBfan]

Since Feb I have had 3 guys I was dating and it never works out. The last one luckilly is someone I want in my life just not as a bf and he agrees. It not that I am a bad person it's cause I have a kid and guys my age dont want a baby.
I have a kid too, and I have found some good guys that have wanted to date me even, but there are some assholes out there will run once they find out. I say it is their loss because my kid is the greatest kid in the world, and they are the ones that missing out. :)

[chels012002]

I have a kid too, and I have found some good guys that have wanted to date me even, but there are some assholes out there will run once they find out. I say it is their loss because my kid is the greatest kid in the world, and they are the ones that missing out. :)
I have actually started a rule that I must date a guy who has a kid. I am so sick of getting into something and him deciding he isnt ready for kid. So this way he can't run cause he has the same thing as I.

[stunnersal]

Guys that aren't mature enough to date someone with a kid, aren't mature enough for a relationship...

[JanelleM]

Guys that aren't mature enough to date someone with a kid, aren't mature enough for a relationship...
I don't think that's true. Most guys are age our freaks about being a dad anyway...and I wouldn't mind dating someone with a kid, however if it got serious I would worry about having a mixed family. Doesn't mean I/guys can't handle a relationship. I know that sounds bad, but I grew up with step-parents and step-sisters and I hated it.

[System]

i can say, that i am a little wigged out about being a dad. but if the right girl came and she had a kid I wouldn't be opposed to it. just a function of how great the girl is and where i am in my life if i can hlep support them and be a good father figure.

[stunnersal]

i can say, that i am a little wigged out about being a dad. but if the right girl came and she had a kid I wouldn't be opposed to it. just a function of how great the girl is and where i am in my life if i can hlep support them and be a good father figure.
Exactly, if you love somebody doesn't matter if they have a kid or not, you love them for them. You find ways to make things work.

[neumdogg]

Guys that aren't mature enough to date someone with a kid, aren't mature enough for a relationship...
Not true at all. I am 24 and there is no way IN HELL I would date someone with a kid. I don't want to cut evenings short on saturday or friday nights or not even go out because my girlfriend has a child. I love going out....I need to go and party. You cant do that as much if you have a kid. However, that in no way makes me not mature enough to have a relationship.....I just dont see the link you are trying to make...

[System]

Not true at all. I am 24 and there is no way IN HELL I would date someone with a kid. I don't want to cut evenings short on saturday or friday nights or not even go out because my girlfriend has a child. I love going out....I need to go and party. You cant do that as much if you have a kid. However, that in no way makes me not mature enough to have a relationship.....I just dont see the link you are trying to make...


you maybe mature enough to have a relationship but you sound very selfish to me.

[angelces]

Not true at all. I am 24 and there is no way IN HELL I would date someone with a kid. I don't want to cut evenings short on saturday or friday nights or not even go out because my girlfriend has a child. I love going out....I need to go and party. You cant do that as much if you have a kid. However, that in no way makes me not mature enough to have a relationship.....I just dont see the link you are trying to make...
because when "need to go out and party" rather than take responsibility, that indicates lack of maturity.

[stunnersal]

Not true at all. I am 24 and there is no way IN HELL I would date someone with a kid. I don't want to cut evenings short on saturday or friday nights or not even go out because my girlfriend has a child. I love going out....I need to go and party. You cant do that as much if you have a kid. However, that in no way makes me not mature enough to have a relationship.....I just dont see the link you are trying to make...
I'm saying if you breakup with somebody cause they have a kid that's immature. it's not your kid, it's hers, you're not the father, that's the most immature thing you can do. I have nothing bad to say about guys that won't date girls with kids, but don't date somebody and then dump em whrn you find out they do.

[JanelleM]

Not break up with someone...just not date them in the first place. If you can't handle it yet you can't handle it.

[neumdogg]

I'm saying if you breakup with somebody cause they have a kid that's immature. it's not your kid, it's hers, you're not the father, that's the most immature thing you can do. I have nothing bad to say about guys that won't date girls with kids, but don't date somebody and then dump em whrn you find out they do.
Well, how did they get this kid? If they were stupid enough to have unprotected sex with a guy, then thats being immature. Plus, if I meet a girl, I wanna find out right away if she has a child. Why would she keep this information from me? That immature.

[angelces]

Well, how did they get this kid? If they were stupid enough to have unprotected sex with a guy, then thats being immature. Plus, if I meet a girl, I wanna find out right away if she has a child. Why would she keep this information from me? That immature.
so you are assuming that everyone who has a kid who is no longer with the father of their child is stupid.

because I'm sure the only way people ever have unplanned pregnancies is because they were "stupid enough to have unprotected sex"

get a clue.

[bron]

you maybe mature enough to have a relationship but you sound very selfish to me.
Yeah, but that's the whole thing...he's 24 and doesn't have a kid so he's allowed to be selfish. That's the way I see it anyway, if he doesn't want to get involved with someone with a child, then I don't see anything wrong with that. I'm 21 and I don't think at this point I would ever consider dating a guy with a kid. Why? Because I'm 21 and this is my time to go out and party and be selfish, because later down the line I will have to devote everything to other people.

[System]

Yeah, but that's the whole thing...he's 24 and doesn't have a kid so he's allowed to be selfish. That's the way I see it anyway, if he doesn't want to get involved with someone with a child, then I don't see anything wrong with that. I'm 21 and I don't think at this point I would ever consider dating a guy with a kid. Why? Because I'm 21 and this is my time to go out and party and be selfish, because later down the line I will have to devote everything to other people.

ya, that is probably right, but the way he worded it made it come across that way.

[stunnersal]

Well, how did they get this kid? If they were stupid enough to have unprotected sex with a guy, then thats being immature. Plus, if I meet a girl, I wanna find out right away if she has a child. Why would she keep this information from me? That immature.
That's a completely different subject. I'd say you never had a serious relationship b4.

[angelces]

some times though you don't choose who you love, it chooses you. I'm not going to rule out an option because I don't like all of the reprocussions of the option.

[bron]

ya, that is probably right, but the way he worded it made it come across that way.
That's true...and there is a fine line between alltogether not dating someone because they have a kid and dumping someone when you find out they have a kid. Although, it seems like that's the kind of thing that would come up on the first date, lol.

[stunnersal]

some times though you don't choose who you love, it chooses you. I'm not going to rule out an option because I don't like all of the reprocussions of the option.
Nor should you, you learn to deal with it and adjust to it. That's what love is for...

[angelces]

why would it have to come up, unless you are one of those people who lets your children define who you are as a person. you could have whole conversations with people without them knowing you have a kid. And not even in a malicious way.

[neumdogg]

so you are assuming that everyone who has a kid who is no longer with the father of their child is stupid.

because I'm sure the only way people ever have unplanned pregnancies is because they were "stupid enough to have unprotected sex"

get a clue.
How did i ever assume that?! Thats why i asked, "How did she get that kid?" Its one thing to have a divorce or a husband who died. However, with a lot of girls i come across, they have sex with a guy, give birth, and then raise the kid by themselves. Personally, I dont we anything to do with that.

So lets get this straight: If a girl who has unprotected sex with a guy and the guy doesnt own up to it, I dont want to be a part of her life because she shouldnt be having unprotected sex anyway. Second, i dont need a child in my life right now....is that so wrong????

[MelissaDMBfan]

so you are assuming that everyone who has a kid who is no longer with the father of their child is stupid.

because I'm sure the only way people ever have unplanned pregnancies is because they were "stupid enough to have unprotected sex"

get a clue.
thank you angela. :)

Did I get pregnant from having unprotected sex? No, even though it seems like everyone else thinks that. Sometimes the form of birthcontrol doesn't work. I took responsibilty for my actions though, and its a real shame that a guy can not be proud of that.

[MelissaDMBfan]

How did i ever assume that?! Thats why i asked, "How did she get that kid?" Its one thing to have a divorce or a husband who died. However, with a lot of girls i come across, they have sex with a guy, give birth, and then raise the kid by themselves. Personally, I dont we anything to do with that.

So lets get this straight: If a girl who has unprotected sex with a guy and the guy doesnt own up to it, I dont want to be a part of her life because she shouldnt be having unprotected sex anyway. Second, i dont need a child in my life right now....is that so wrong????
Not every guy runs from the relationship. Just because my sons father and I are not together doesn't mean he isn't involved in his life. I am not looking for a father for my son because he already has one. I am looking for someone that loves me for who I am, and it just so happens that my son is part of who I am, and if someone doesn't want to deal with that, then I don' twant to be with them anyways.

[angelces]

"However, with a lot of girls i come across, they have sex with a guy, give birth, and then raise the kid by themselves. Personally, I dont we anything to do with that."

did it ever occur to you that they might not have choose for it to happen that way. Accidents happen one way or another. I don't have a problem with the fact that you wouldn't want to date someone with child. I do have a problem with your misconceptions of women and how they end up that way.

There are a small percentage of people who have unprotected sex just to get pregnant regardless of the relationship, but most of the time, shit happens.

[bron]

why would it have to come up, unless you are one of those people who lets your children define who you are as a person. you could have whole conversations with people without them knowing you have a kid. And not even in a malicious way.
Well, it wouldn't have to come up...but it seems like the kind of thing you would mention if you were on a date with someone, or had gone out on a few dates, right? If I'm on a date with someone who I think I am liking, and I had a child, I would think I would mention that, without it meaning that my kid defines who I am. Just in the sort of conversations you have like "who are you? what do you do? what's your daily life like?"

[MelissaDMBfan]

Well, it wouldn't have to come up...but it seems like the kind of thing you would mention if you were on a date with someone, or had gone out on a few dates, right? If I'm on a date with someone who I think I am liking, and I had a child, I would think I would mention that, without it meaning that my kid defines who I am. Just in the sort of conversations you have like "who are you? what do you do? what's your daily life like?"
I can have many conversations with people with out them knowing about my son, but if I know that a relationship can come from this I let them know ASAP. Sometimes it just doesn't come up in coversation, and it is not like I am purposely not talking about him.

[chels012002]

See I tell guys straight off that I have a kid. After a couple dates they suddenly aren't cool with it.

[neumdogg]

Not every guy runs from the relationship. Just because my sons father and I are not together doesn't mean he isn't involved in his life. I am not looking for a father for my son because he already has one. I am looking for someone that loves me for who I am, and it just so happens that my son is part of who I am, and if someone doesn't want to deal with that, then I don' twant to be with them anyways.
I completely agree: "...and if someone doesn't want to deal with that, then I don' twant to be with them anyways." Thats exactly how i feel. I dont want to be with someone who has a kid and you dont wanna be with someone who doesnt want to be with someone who has a kid (did that make sense?).

In addition, having a child is a choice. No doubt about it. If "shit happens," you have an abortion or put the child up for adoption.

[angelces]

I completely agree: "...and if someone doesn't want to deal with that, then I don' twant to be with them anyways." Thats exactly how i feel. I dont want to be with someone who has a kid and you dont wanna be with someone who doesnt want to be with someone who has a kid (did that make sense?).

In addition, having a child is a choice. No doubt about it. If "shit happens," you have an abortion or put the child up for adoption.
wow. if shit happens you put it up for adoption or kill it.

sounds like someone I'd want to raise their own children one day.

[MelissaDMBfan]

I completely agree: "...and if someone doesn't want to deal with that, then I don' twant to be with them anyways." Thats exactly how i feel. I dont want to be with someone who has a kid and you dont wanna be with someone who doesnt want to be with someone who has a kid (did that make sense?).

In addition, having a child is a choice. No doubt about it. If "shit happens," you have an abortion or put the child up for adoption.


Or if "shit happens" you step up to the plate and take responsibility for your actions. I put myself in the situation I was in, and I needed to accept that and make the best decision for myself.

[neumdogg]

wow. if shit happens you put it up for adoption or kill it.

sounds like someone I'd want to raise their own children one day.
So im guessing you're pro-life?

[devils744]

ahh...this thread is getting good :thumbsup

[angelces]

So im guessing you're pro-life?
actually no.

But I am pro thinking before you type.

Everyone's situation is different. Everyone has their own circumstances. You don't seem to be very open minded.

[neumdogg]

Or if "shit happens" you step up to the plate and take responsibility for your actions. I put myself in the situation I was in, and I needed to accept that and make the best decision for myself.
Of course I would step up and do what was needed to be done. If i had a child with a girl during a one night stand, of course I would take reposibiility. However, as long as i use a condom, its not going to happen. Of course there is a 1% chance that the condom will break, and if so, i will own up to it

[stunnersal]

ahh...this thread is getting good :thumbsup
it went from singles, to single mothers, to abortion all in 3 pages.... :thumbsup

[MelissaDMBfan]

Of course I would step up and do what was needed to be done. If i had a child with a girl during a one night stand, of course I would take reposibiility. However, as long as i use a condom, its not going to happen. Of course there is a 1% chance that the condom will break, and if so, i will own up to it
I was on the pill and the effectiveness of it around 99%, but 92% under normal circumstances, I believe the condom is much less than that. I didn' think it would happen to me, but it did.

[devils744]

god bless ants :thumbsup


it went from singles, to single mothers, to abortion all in 3 pages.... :thumbsup

[angelces]

Of course I would step up and do what was needed to be done. If i had a child with a girl during a one night stand, of course I would take reposibiility. However, as long as i use a condom, its not going to happen. Of course there is a 1% chance that the condom will break, and if so, i will own up to it
there's definitely a way bigger chance of failure than 1%.

And if you're with someone with a latex allergy, then you have a much higher chance of failure. Even if you combine methods, pill and condom, shit still happens.

[bron]

However, as long as i use a condom, its not going to happen. Of course there is a 1% chance that the condom will break, and if so, i will own up to it
:haha I believe a condom breaking isn't the only way for semen to slip into a lady...if you hang around in there for too long afterwards, precum with pre penetration contact, if you are pulling out and it slips off. I'm a condom girl too, and use that as my form of birth control, but you gotta be precise with those things, cause they're not all that reliable.

[angelces]

god bless ants :thumbsup
:lol :p

[devils744]

condoms are good but not fullproof obviously. it can still break or fall off somehow

I was on the pill and the effectiveness of it around 99%, but 92% under normal circumstances, I believe the condom is much less than that. I didn' think it would happen to me, but it did.

[MelissaDMBfan]

god bless ants :thumbsup
Got to love it. :)

[neumdogg]

actually no.

But I am pro thinking before you type.

Everyone's situation is different. Everyone has their own circumstances. You don't seem to be very open minded.
I am open minded....however, i also have a future to look forward to. If I had a kid now while i wasnt married as oppose to having a kid years from now when i was settled down, my life would be completely different. I like my life now....why do i need to change it?

[MelissaDMBfan]

condoms are good but not fullproof obviously. it can still break or fall off somehow
exactly, and their effectivness is less than the pill.

[angelces]

exactly, and their effectivness is less than the pill.
I'm on the shot, for medicinal purposes. Which is more effective for birth control purposes than the pill because I can't fuck it up and forget one. because you know everyone forgets every now and again. even those with the best intentions.

plus it's damn convenient not having a period at all.

[devils744]

that it is, i would think the best thing is the pill plus a condom and if you're not cool with that then there is always anal :lol

exactly, and their effectivness is less than the pill.

[angelces]

that it is, i would think the best thing is the pill plus a condom and if you're not cool with that then there is always anal :lol
but even that's not fool proof, i'm sure there's drippage and what not to worry about. :lol

[stunnersal]

but even that's not fool proof, i'm sure there's drippage and what not to worry about. :lol
From the sex or just....well nevermind.... :banned

[bron]

plus it's damn convenient not having a period at all.
Sigh, that must be nice...this is coming from a girl who's on the "death day" of her rag. :p I swear, every month on this day, I'm just about ready to run to the nearest walk in and tell 'em to fill me up with depo!

Just thought I'd share....hey fella's good news, I'm single!

[devils744]

:lol i could get pretty graphic here but i think i would end up grossing myself out so i wont touch this one :lol

but even that's not fool proof, i'm sure there's drippage and what not to worry about. :lol

[angelces]

Sigh, that must be nice...this is coming from a girl who's on the "death day" of her rag. :p I swear, every month on this day, I'm just about ready to run to the nearest walk in and tell 'em to fill me up with depo!

Just thought I'd share....hey fella's good news, I'm single!
mine was hellacious, PMS, PMD (depression), cramps so bad I couldn't stand up straight, vomitting, migraines, you name it. then 7 days of bloody hell.

yeah I'll take a shot in the ass every 3 months to not have to deal with that.

[stunnersal]

I guess spaghetti is out for dinner.... :ugh:

[devils744]

:ugh:, i feel like i need to shower after reading that :freak

mine was hellacious, PMS, PMD (depression), cramps so bad I couldn't stand up straight, vomitting, migraines, you name it. then 7 days of bloody hell.

yeah I'll take a shot in the ass every 3 months to not have to deal with that.

[System]

(IGNORED)

Just thought I'd share....hey fella's good news, I'm single!


Hey, alright, how you doing today.

[angelces]

sorry for over sharing.

back to the subject at hand.

anyone wish they could just go have (SAFE) cheap meaningless sex just to get past a dry spell?

[System]

anyone wish they could just go have (SAFE) cheap meaningless sex just to get past a dry spell?

yep, I call it mutual masterbation. Removes the pyschological factor out of the equation.

[angelces]

yep, I call it mutual masterbation. Removes the pyschological factor out of the equation.
mmm i seem to have heard that saying before... ;)

[System]

mmm i seem to have heard that saying before... ;)

don't know what you are talking about :rolleyes:

[neumdogg]

sorry for over sharing.

back to the subject at hand.

anyone wish they could just go have (SAFE) cheap meaningless sex just to get past a dry spell?
Oh yes....and i have many friends that do that...

[devils744]

fuck yes :lol

sorry for over sharing.

back to the subject at hand.

anyone wish they could just go have (SAFE) cheap meaningless sex just to get past a dry spell?

[angelces]

fuck yes :lol
so... fridays? friday? :lol

[devils744]

hell yes! i'll be there! :D just an fyi though, since its been awhile we will have to do it a few times, hope thats ok :)

so... fridays? friday? :lol

[angelces]

the sex or the LI Ice Teas? :lol

[devils744]

why can't we have the best of both worlds? :lol

the sex or the LI Ice Teas? :lol

[angelces]

good point. :lol

[devils744]

yeah, i have them from time to time :)

[kas141]

sorry for over sharing.

back to the subject at hand.

anyone wish they could just go have (SAFE) cheap meaningless sex just to get past a dry spell?

*raises hand*

Dry spells, like being single, suck.

[devils744]

you can join me and angela this friday :lol

*raises hand*

Dry spells, like being single, suck.

[neumdogg]

you can join me and angela this friday :lol
I know Angela probably hates me right now, but can i join? ::sigh::

[devils744]

someone start a new thread about having an ants orgy this weekend :lol

[angelces]

I know Angela probably hates me right now, but can i join? ::sigh::
only if you promise to bring the protection. :lol

[System]

i think it needs to wait till between halfway when the tour ends and when the new one starts so we have something to do.

[neumdogg]

only if you promise to bring the protection. :lol
Oh i will, but you have to promise to bring the handcuffs...

[angelces]

i have 2 sets, one for the arms and one for the ankles, sometimes its fun to hook the arms to the ankles... :evil

[neumdogg]

i have 2 sets, one for the arms and one for the ankles, sometimes its fun to hook the arms to the ankles... :evil
Hey, I'm game! I can be your naughty little boy if you want...

[angelces]

honestly though...

it just sucks being a sexually confident woman. I mean I like sex, I like it hot, dirty, sweaty and loud. I don't mind most of the things women have issues with. I like to have sex often, half the time more often then the men I've been with (shocking I know).

I mean I enjoy porn, I have a full toybox, I like wearing sexy slutty things under my day-to-days, I know how to pleasure myself, I know how to get what I want.

sex is never just sex. and guys are usually scared off by women who are overly sexually confident because it usually means we're "whores"

Why can't sex be uncomplicated. why are there are the crappy trappings around it about roles, rules, calling, cuddling/no cuddling, no kissing, only if we kiss first, blah blah blah. one of the greatest things about falling asleep next to the person you just had sex with is the fact that 9-10 times you get to have sex with him again. Instead it means the beginning of a complicated mess of morning after garbage.

so yeah it's gonna be duracel for me for a while now, i can see it coming.

[System]

honestly though...

it just sucks being a sexually confident woman. I mean I like sex, I like it hot, dirty, sweaty and loud. I don't mind most of the things women have issues with. I like to have sex often, half the time more often then the men I've been with (shocking I know).

I mean I enjoy porn, I have a full toybox, I like wearing sexy slutty things under my day-to-days, I know how to pleasure myself, I know how to get what I want.

sex is never just sex. and guys are usually scared off by women who are overly sexually confident because it usually means we're "whores"

Why can't sex be uncomplicated. why are there are the crappy trappings around it about roles, rules, calling, cuddling/no cuddling, no kissing, only if we kiss first, blah blah blah. one of the greatest things about falling asleep next to the person you just had sex with is the fact that 9-10 times you get to have sex with him again. Instead it means the beginning of a complicated mess of morning after garbage.

so yeah it's gonna be duracel for me for a while now, i can see it coming.


i might be able to hook it up to a diesel generator if you are looking for some more power

[devils744]

is it too early to say that i love you? :D

honestly though...

it just sucks being a sexually confident woman. I mean I like sex, I like it hot, dirty, sweaty and loud. I don't mind most of the things women have issues with. I like to have sex often, half the time more often then the men I've been with (shocking I know).

I mean I enjoy porn, I have a full toybox, I like wearing sexy slutty things under my day-to-days, I know how to pleasure myself, I know how to get what I want.

sex is never just sex. and guys are usually scared off by women who are overly sexually confident because it usually means we're "whores"

Why can't sex be uncomplicated. why are there are the crappy trappings around it about roles, rules, calling, cuddling/no cuddling, no kissing, only if we kiss first, blah blah blah. one of the greatest things about falling asleep next to the person you just had sex with is the fact that 9-10 times you get to have sex with him again. Instead it means the beginning of a complicated mess of morning after garbage.

so yeah it's gonna be duracel for me for a while now, i can see it coming.

[angelces]

i might be able to hook it up to a diesel generator if you are looking for some more power
:lol I knew there was a reason I liked you... :lol

[bron]

it just sucks being a sexually confident woman. I mean I like sex, I like it hot, dirty, sweaty and loud. I don't mind most of the things women have issues with. I like to have sex often, half the time more often then the men I've been with (shocking I know)....

...I know how to pleasure myself, I know how to get what I want.
I know what you mean...A lot of the guys I go out with are often shocked at how sexually open I am, not slutty, but they seem to be used to girls who are very low maintenance almost when it comes to sex. As in, same routine all the time, girl doesn't usually come but "doesn't mind", girl is afraid to speak up and say what she wants, guy just gets to lie on top of her and call it sex. Then I come in, and I know what I like, I know I can come if you would just stop doing that, lol, I'm vocal, a little picky sometimes, and I love sex! I think it's scary for them...

[angelces]

I know what you mean...A lot of the guys I go out with are often shocked at how sexually open I am, not slutty, but they seem to be used to girls who are very low maintenance almost when it comes to sex. As in, same routine all the time, girl doesn't usually come but "doesn't mind", girl is afraid to speak up and say what she wants, guy just gets to lie on top of her and call it sex. Then I come in, and I know what I like, I know I can come if you would just stop doing that, lol, I'm vocal, a little picky sometimes, and I love sex! I think it's scary for them...
totally know where you're coming from. I'm not usually obvious about it, but I like to be very encouraging when the find the things and spots that i like.

I've found though with most guys, the build up is enormous, then when we actually get down to it, it's rather dissappointing.

[devils744]

in my opinion, nothing wrong with encouraging us or being sexually open in bed. i find that is pretty damn hot and if you tell us what you like we can make sure we get the job done :thumbsup

[PedroPSK]

... i find that is pretty damn hot and if you tell us what you like ...I totally agree! I used to love it when my ex would talk to me and tell me exactly what she was feeling, it made it better and more enjoyable for both of us. Come on ladies....sometimes aggression is good!!
:evil :D

[Route2]

oh defintatly agression is good... and i also feel loud girls are the most exciting and enjoyable!!

[System]

i am still up for the idea of all the single girls sending me their pictures and I will rank them for everyone else to pick from

[stevie9jo]

Ya know I figured single life in college would be good...but so far not so much...

[twosteppn36]

single life is definitely better in college

[System]

Ya know I figured single life in college would be good...but so far not so much...

it gets better, just get um drunk and take advantage of them

[stevie9jo]

it gets better, just get um drunk and take advantage of them
Can't take advantage of them when they don't like you!!

[stevie9jo]

single life is definitely better in college
Maybe I just haven't been doing things right then...

[System]

Maybe I just haven't been doing things right then...

eh, you are still young, you will learn how to manipulate boys to get you to do what you want.

[colorgreen what]

and I still find amusement in this thread.

[System]

and I still find amusement in this thread.

your up pretty early for a college student

[colorgreen what]

more like....I'm up pretty late.

[System]

more like....I'm up pretty late.


you are telling me that I have gotten what i consider a full night of sleep and driven over an hour to work and you are still up?

Shit i am old

[StumpyErin]

ha - last night WAS a late night......im feeling it right now at work.

[colorgreen what]

you are telling me that I have gotten what i consider a full night of sleep and driven over an hour to work and you are still up?

Shit i am old

nah I'm just not normal.

[System]

nah I'm just not normal.


great then what does that make me?

[colorgreen what]

great then what does that make me?
lol I have no clue. you know yourself better than I know yourself. find your own damn social norm.

[System]

i don't wanna be normal, i have no intention to be normal. Normal is boring.

[colorgreen what]

good choice.

[bron]

eh, you are still young, you will learn how to manipulate boys to get you to do what you want.
:D It's so easy.

[System]

:D It's so easy.


ya, i know....

it sucks to be simple minded sometimes

[gracielou]

I can join this thread now seeing that I am now a free woman! Woohoo!

[PedroPSK]

welcome to my world! :D

[bron]

Welcome to the single world...although, I don't even know if I'm single. I think technically I am, I don't have a boyfriend but I have a dude..but I wouldn't mind it if he were my boyfriend, I also wouldn't mind if he just continued to be my dude....

sigh.

[System]

Welcome to the single world...although, I don't even know if I'm single. I think technically I am, I don't have a boyfriend but I have a dude..but I wouldn't mind it if he were my boyfriend, I also wouldn't mind if he just continued to be my dude....

sigh.


Well, Can be your dude too?

I need a dudette

[bron]

Well, Can be your dude too?

I need a dudette
I don't know, I kinda like the dude I have right now....but I suppose I can add you onto the dude list. You up for a flight to Ottawa?

[angelces]

Well, Can be your dude too?

I need a dudette
isn't it a little early for you to be mackin on us single chicks? ;)

[System]

I don't know, I kinda like the dude I have right now....but I suppose I can add you onto the dude list. You up for a flight to Ottawa?


ya, i can handle flights, i got access to certain air vehicles that will get me up there at a relatively low cost.

[System]

isn't it a little early for you to be mackin on us single chicks? ;)

nope, I have been up since 3:30 am central time.

It is has been over 5 hours, i should be eating lunch now.

[angelces]

nope, I have been up since 3:30 am central time.

It is has been over 5 hours, i should be eating lunch now.
you coulda at least IMed me back. :(

[MelissaDMBfan]

Even if there was a possibility of me getting back with my ex, I think it is slim to none now. Things got really nasty last night.

[gracielou]

Aww I'm sorry:( You want to get back w/ your ex? Girl be young and single its fun!

[MelissaDMBfan]

Aww I'm sorry:( You want to get back w/ your ex? Girl be young and single its fun!
I don't mind being single. It is probably the best thing for me right now, but since my ex moved back to Chicago (he was in Arizona for about 6 months) there was always a possibility of us getting back together. We both admitted that, but right now I don't think that will happen any time soon. We will still be really good friends, because he is such an amazing person, and we have sooooooooooooo much in common. Everything happens for a reason, I suppose. :)

[gracielou]

Exactly! And you never know I believe if its meant to be it will be. I too am really good friends with my ex of over 3 yrs because he is an amazing person too.

[System]

you coulda at least IMed me back. :(


computer at home, i even put up an away mesage

[angelces]

computer at home, i even put up an away mesage
:lol I noticed. and gave you crap for it.

I IMed you after the game, tough night for both of our boys last night.

[System]

:lol I noticed. and gave you crap for it.

I IMed you after the game, tough night for both of our boys last night.


ya, i didn't last that long. I fell asleep doing homework..it was disgusting

[angelces]

ya, i didn't last that long. I fell asleep doing homework..it was disgusting
I hope you last longer than that when it counts... ;)

[System]

ya, homework doesn't feel as good, and is less challenging than that other thing.

I love to win, and if winning involves going all night, Somebody has to do it.

[angelces]

ya, homework doesn't feel as good, and is less challenging than that other thing.

I love to win, and if winning involves going all night, Somebody has to do it.
so sex is a competition?

if done right though everyone should win...

[System]

yep, and the winner gets to sleep in a wet spot,

cause if you do it right, everyone sleeps in a wet spot

[angelces]

yep, and the winner gets to sleep in a wet spot,

cause if you do it right, everyone sleeps in a wet spot
mmmm, or you do it on top of the covers, then get under them when your done, and everyone wins...

[System]

mmmm, or you do it on top of the covers, then get under them when your done, and everyone wins...


covers usually don't last long with me around....i pick up the first thing on the floor that keeps us warm

[angelces]

covers usually don't last long with me around....i pick up the first thing on the floor that keeps us warm
ah but see, if you end up on one side, you just pull the covers over sleeping bag style for warmth.

but then again, the point is to be hot and sweaty and not needing covers.

[angelces]

singles...

[chels012002]

OMG I am bored!

[DMBfan41]

still single!

[Hudak-Budak]

still single!
Same here. I can never quite figure out if it's a good thing or a bad thing.

[chels012002]

yeah this bites.

[devils744]

another day of being single :(

[angelces]

another day of being single :(
we all hear that...

[System]

another day of having nasty thoughts at work...

STupid sexy emails....

[angelces]

well if you think they are stupid I'm sure if you told the sender they would stop sending them.

[System]

hell no. they are awesome...

I just can't get up from my desk for the next 15-20 minutes...gotta stay the whole time today..no leaving early

[angelces]

awww poor baby. :lol

[System]

hey you are missing out, it could be used on you right now...

[angelces]

yeah what a waste for that kind of reaction to be spent on your own... I mean not being able to stand up for 15-20 minutes... must have been a hell of an email!!

[System]

made me wish i could do some stuff that would be bad news for the author

[devils744]

well if you would have come over we could have done something about it :lol

made me wish i could do some stuff that would be bad news for the author

[angelces]

it was YOU!!?!?

:lol

and I thought we were tight, you didn't share your sexy emails with me? *pout*

[devils744]

i didn't realize i was in such demand. i'll start to write you one everyday though at no charge unlike system :lol

it was YOU!!?!?

:lol

and I thought we were tight, you didn't share your sexy emails with me? *pout*

[angelces]

booyah!!