Ants Singles Thread

[chels012002]

another day of being single :(
And another :BANG

[Crush me Grey]

and another...

[angelces]

there are a couple guys at work 2 that would be fun, but they are young, and we'll see how that goes.

[System]

there are a couple guys at work 2 that would be fun, but they are young, and we'll see how that goes.

use and abuse them and then quit.....be mysterious like that...

[angelces]

use and abuse them and then quit.....be mysterious like that...
but you don't work where I work... ;)

[System]

ouch,

I would enjoyed being used by you, :evil

[angelces]

i have no doubt that you would.

hell the feeling might be mutual.

[System]

*stokes chin like an evil genius while formulating of a plan to get abused by Ang starts*

[angelces]

only strokin your chin eh???

I guess my evil plan isn't working as well as I thought...

back to the drawing board :evil

:lol

[System]

jstu fyi, only one hand is stoking my chin...

Other one, well you can't see it cause is under my desk :evil ;)

[chels012002]

woo hoo

[DMBfan41]

another day goes by, another day of the single life

[neumdogg]

another day goes by, another day of the single life
Maybe if you took down that Yankees avatar, you wouldnt be single......jk. I hear ya....im sick of this single BS

[chels012002]

I already hinted about the yankees.

[devils744]

stupid double post :banned

[devils744]

i would just like to say to all you women out there this: unless you are broken up with your boyfriend and ready to date me i'm tired of hearing about how much of a deadbeat he is, how you had to bail him out of jail for not paying parking fines, how he has sucky job, no future, crappy credit, no ambition, religions are different(which if is the case and you know you two can't get past it, why even bother) etc...etc... just dump him already but no, you love deadbeat losers. :BANG :BANG :BANG

[angelces]

:( but I like complaining to you about all my deadbeat boyfriends. :(

:lol

sorry seems like you're the shoulder

[devils744]

i'm sure you can annoy one of your other guy friends about the deadbeats ;)

:( but I like complaining to you about all my deadbeat boyfriends. :(

:lol

sorry seems like you're the shoulder

[angelces]

yeah the problem is I've slept with all 3 of my close guy friends... they are the deadbeats. :lol

And why I'm still friends with them I do not know.

(not to suggest I've slept with all my guy friends, which I definitely haven't, just the ones that i knew well enough for them to be the ones I complain too. :lol)

[devils744]

reason #3,458 as to why women suck :lol and no thats not the good kind of sucking just so ya know.

yeah the problem is I've slept with all 3 of my close guy friends... they are the deadbeats. :lol

And why I'm still friends with them I do not know.

(not to suggest I've slept with all my guy friends, which I definitely haven't, just the ones that i knew well enough for them to be the ones I complain too. :lol)

[angelces]

reason #3,458 as to why women suck :lol and no thats not the good kind of sucking just so ya know.
why because we sleep with our friends?

those three guys (3 of the 5 people I've slept with ever) I was friends with first than dated, then slept with.

I didn't do it just to fuck with their heads

[devils744]

i'm just messing with ya, hence the :lol

why because we sleep with our friends?

those three guys (3 of the 5 people I've slept with ever) I was friends with first than dated, then slept with.

I didn't do it just to fuck with their heads

[angelces]

nah you're just jealous that you're not my "friend"

[devils744]

this is also true :) i guess our night at fridays ment nothing to you *tear*

nah you're just jealous that you're not my "friend"

[angelces]

hey now, it coulda gone somewhere. but it was probably better at the time that it didn't, my life was a bit of a complicated mess at the time. But I'm more than willing to give it another shot. :p

[devils744]

its all good, i was also a mess and wasnt even thinking about something happening except hanging out and having some laughs. we should hang out again though, it was fun.

hey now, it coulda gone somewhere. but it was probably better at the time that it didn't, my life was a bit of a complicated mess at the time. But I'm more than willing to give it another shot. :p

[angelces]

agreed.

[devils744]

how YOU doing? :lol

[angelces]

I'm tired. Right now anyone who could bring me a hot cup of tea with honey and a warm bath would be my knight in shining armor.

[devils744]

all i got is some chicklets :(

I'm tired. Right now anyone who could bring me a hot cup of tea with honey and a warm bath would be my knight in shining armor.

[angelces]

yep. definitely frustrated

[chels012002]

Back and still bored

[devils744]

god damn am i bored....oh and still single

[reverend miles]

someone should start a "single ants dating service" or "single ants photos" thread. maybe we can get rid of some of this lonliness and boredom

[System]

i tried getting all the single ant ladies to send me their pictures but nobody did.

Think if i opened up to everyone and just posted the pic with no screen name people might be intrested in responding?

[reverend miles]

hmmmm.. try it

[winterscold]

Here is something to think about so you can easse the boredom:

If marriage means you fell in love, does divorce mean you climbed out?

Why are public toilet seats never complete ovals?

Why do we teach kids that violence is not the answer and then have them read about wars in school that solved America's problems?

[chels012002]

Thought about it and still bored

[winterscold]

How come they call it a black board when it's really green?

Why do we teach our kids, 'Rub-a-dub-dub three men in a tub?'

[PedroPSK]

... 'Rub-a-dub-dub three men in a tub?'Is that how it goes??:freak

...yup....I'm still single too....longest time ever....this sucks!

[chels012002]

Dang It Single Sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[neumdogg]

Dang It Single Sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I couldnt agree with you more

[MelissaDMBfan]

Dang It Single Sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It has its good times, and its bad time. Right now it is not that bad.

[devils744]

being single may suck so thank goodness for porn

[chels012002]

I have been single for too long.

[neumdogg]

I have been single for too long.
How long is long?

[chels012002]

How long is long?With out a bf 2 and a half years or more maybe closer to 3 years. I have dated but most of them were nothing more than a bunch of Users.

[neumdogg]

Longer than me.....Its been 2 years without a gf. I have dated as well, but they were all so dumb. Its hard for me in this city. I have lived in Los Angeles my entire life. I am looking for a Jewish girl, but its hard when I know EVERY FREAKING JEWISH GIRL MY AGE IN THIS CITY!!!

[devils744]

i'm only on month 9 so not as long as some of you

[Crush me Grey]

ok i have you all beat... ive never even been in a real relationship... :(

[neumdogg]

ok i have you all beat... ive never even been in a real relationship... :(
You are only 18, so no biggie. I didnt have a REAL relationship till i was 21.

[bron]

Real relationships are overrated. I started out too young, I had my first boyfriend of a year and a half when I was 14/15. Why did I do that? Since then I've been in another 2 year long relationship and another one that lasted 8 months. I can't seem to keep away from the "real relationships". Plus a few others a few months here and there. I've never really "dated" I've always had a boyfriend...kinda sucks in a way.

Oh well...

[neumdogg]

Real relationships are overrated. I started out too young, I had my first boyfriend of a year and a half when I was 14/15. Why did I do that? Since then I've been in another 2 year long relationship and another one that lasted 8 months. I can't seem to keep away from the "real relationships". Plus a few others a few months here and there. I've never really "dated" I've always had a boyfriend...kinda sucks in a way.

Oh well...
I'm just sick of dating.....maybe I should move to another city.....any suggestions?

[bron]

I'm just sick of dating.....maybe I should move to another city.....any suggestions?
Well, you seem to be pretty hung up on this whole Jewish girl thing...move to New York. I don't know if it's true or just a stereotype that New York is full of Jewish people.

:confused:

[neumdogg]

Well, you seem to be pretty hung up on this whole Jewish girl thing...move to New York. I don't know if it's true or just a stereotype that New York is full of Jewish people.

:confused:
Oh, its certainly true there.....loads of Jews for my pickings. Unfortunately, my job is here. I guess I can wait till these younger Jewish girls graduate from college and start dating them!

[devils744]

maybe its just me but it seems like nobody is willing to go out with somebody who isnt the same religion as them. i know its important but personally, i'm jewish and i could care less what somebodys religion is. and as long as we could make it work then thats all that matters but a lot of people don't even want to try. *sigh*

[bron]

maybe its just me but it seems like nobody is willing to go out with somebody who isnt the same religion as them. i know its important but personally, i'm jewish and i could care less what somebodys religion is. and as long as we could make it work then thats all that matters but a lot of people don't even want to try. *sigh*
I'd go out with anyone of any religion...just as long as they're not some fanatic who tries to push it down my throat. I'm not religious, and don't need to listen to someone trying to get me to be.

[devils744]

so when are you moving to the states :lol

I'd go out with anyone of any religion...just as long as they're not some fanatic who tries to push it down my throat. I'm not religious, and don't need to listen to someone trying to get me to be.

[bron]

so when are you moving to the states :lol
:lol Not any time soon...or ever. Ottawa's where it's at. (Contrary to popular belief)

[winterscold]

I don't think being single is all that bad, well I my age anyways. I'm still in high school, and I don't get the point in dating in high school. It's not like the relationship will go anywhere, But there are those few occasions where it does. I have a few really good friends that are girls (that are fairly hot), and if I were to go out with them and then break up, I'de be devastated, then I'de just be losing a good friend. I'de rather just get through high school worry freee and just worry about getting inot college. Then when I'm at college I will see thing differently.

[devils744]

high school? you're a young one and def no need to be upset about being single. talk to me when you're 25 :lol

[bron]

I don't think being single is all that bad, well I my age anyways. I'm still in high school, and I don't get the point in dating in high school. It's not like the relationship will go anywhere, But there are those few occasions where it does. I have a few really good friends that are girls (that are fairly hot), and if I were to go out with them and then break up, I'de be devastated, then I'de just be losing a good friend. I'de rather just get through high school worry freee and just worry about getting inot college. Then when I'm at college I will see thing differently.
:thumbsup That's a good attitude to have...too many people become too involved in relationships in high school, and spend too much time worrying and all the shit that goes along with it.

[winterscold]

^got it, and I really don't mind being single. Most likely after high school, I will never see my friends. I'm not that sad about that either, cause i only have 3 friends that listen to DMB. The rest are those white rapper kids or new age country people. I always have to give them a good punch whenever they say shizzle, just to remind the they are white and that DMB is supreme.

[devils744]

you never know about that, i still talk to a few people from high school, in fact one of them is still my best friend.

[winterscold]

^that's why I said most likely. But more than likely I won't ever see them again. I have a few friends I'll keep into contact with.. But I never know. I don't have to worry about it for awhile though.

[neumdogg]

maybe its just me but it seems like nobody is willing to go out with somebody who isnt the same religion as them. i know its important but personally, i'm jewish and i could care less what somebodys religion is. and as long as we could make it work then thats all that matters but a lot of people don't even want to try. *sigh*
I see what you're saying, but here is the deal. I dated a girl for a year. I was Jewish and she was Catholic. It became very serious and we could have honestly seen each other getting married down the road. When these ideas were swimming in my head, I started imagining the future. I asked my self certain questions: Would we be married by a rabbi or a priest? Synagogue or chuch? Would she want to come with me to Israel? Would our baby boy have a bris? Would our kids go to Hebrew school? Would our kids have Bar or Bat Mitzvahs?

After asking myself these questions, it hit me: I want my kids to be raised the same way I was. I'm not incredibly religoous, however, a lot of Judiasm is tradition. I want my kids to grow up with the same traditions that I grew up with.

If I put off breaking up with her, it would have gotten worse. When I did break up with her, she just didn't get it. Now she does. She understands how I want to lead my life, and that love of my life would be Jewish, because to me, a Jewish girl is ideal.

[angelces]

single with a head injury here. any takers? :lol

[twosteppn36]

hell no :lol

[bron]

single with a head injury here. any takers? :lol
:lol What happened? First thing that comes to mind is a headboard mishap.

[devils744]

how severe a head injury are we talking? :lol

[DMBfan41]

still single, still miserable

[stunnersal]

still single, still miserable
I know how you feel Jar! :thumbsup

[PedroPSK]

yup....another single friday night. This blows!

[stunnersal]

yeah it does...time to start changing that... :thumbsup

[winterscold]

I am 15, single, and couldn't care less:D

[chels012002]

23 its Friday night I work till 10 then I have plans with my single ex. now that is sad.

[winterscold]

i am possibly going to a bon firte tonight, or I could stay here and keep you guys company

[angelces]

bounce

[bron]

Whaddup Singles??

I had a really good date this weekend, on Saturday night. It actually wasn't so much of a date as a drunken sex fest. Question: When would you say you are no longer technically single...is it when you have the official conversation, or when you feel there is a general unverbal understanding that the other would be upset if you slept with someone else?

[angelces]

i would say either would do. because in either case if either party involved did have sex with someone else and the other party found out about it, the "relationship"/"arangement" would be over.

[chels012002]

I LOVE DRUNKEN SEX FESTS!! BUT they never go anywhere!!

[kmd firedancer]

Whaddup Singles??

I had a really good date this weekend, on Saturday night. It actually wasn't so much of a date as a drunken sex fest. Question: When would you say you are no longer technically single...is it when you have the official conversation, or when you feel there is a general unverbal understanding that the other would be upset if you slept with someone else?
I still haven't quite figured that out. It's a very tricky, blurry line.

[devils744]

did you ever know that you're my hero? you're everything i wish to be. i forget how the song goes.

Whaddup Singles??

I had a really good date this weekend, on Saturday night. It actually wasn't so much of a date as a drunken sex fest. Question: When would you say you are no longer technically single...is it when you have the official conversation, or when you feel there is a general unverbal understanding that the other would be upset if you slept with someone else?

[bron]

I LOVE DRUNKEN SEX FESTS!! BUT they never go anywhere!!
Normally that is true, I know...but this one definitely went somewhere! I'll leave it at that. I wasn't really very drunk, I'd only had a couple of drinks...he was slightly more, but managed to handle himself quite nicely.

:cool:

[DMBfan41]

Still single, more miserable

[DrinkerNJoker]

I still haven't quite figured that out. It's a very tricky, blurry line.


Its a very blurry line. im currently "hanging out" with this girl. She said "I would be upset if you hooked up with someone else, but im not ready to commit." Where does that leave me? Why do I always meet the ones that have been dropped on thier head?

[JanelleM]

:lol :lol She wants the whole package. She wants to keep you around in case nothing better comes along, yet she doesn't want you looking. Just tell her as long as there is no committment, you aren't promising her anything.

[DrinkerNJoker]

:lol :lol She wants the whole package. She wants to keep you around in case nothing better comes along, yet she doesn't want you looking. Just tell her as long as there is no committment, you aren't promising her anything.


Tried that shit...didnt go over well.

Im just all types of confused with your kind Jen...

[JanelleM]

Yeah girls don't even know what they want, so it's hard to tell you guys what to do. Right now you two are dating, nothing crazy. Do you want a commitment?

[System]

Yeah girls don't even know what they want, so it's hard to tell you guys what to do. Right now you two are dating, nothing crazy. Do you want a commitment?


Man, you got my hopes up being in the single thread Jen.

[LeanneM]

Janelle what are you doind in a singles thread. Are you tooling for more guys?

[JanelleM]

;) You guys are great, but never again will I date someone I met online. Gave it a try, didn't work out. Sorry :(

[System]

SHIT!!!

both sisters in the thread, watch out single guys....

[System]

;) You guys are great, but never again will I date someone I met online. Gave it a try, didn't work out. Sorry :(


I don't wanna date you, i just need you as a good luck charm

[JanelleM]

Janelle what are you doind in a singles thread. Are you tooling for more guys?
Yo slut, no just reaffirming that us girls are dumb hoes. Yo your sig doesn;t make sense...is it it's delicious I'll eat it

[JanelleM]

I don't wanna date you, i just need you as a good luck charm
:lol :thumbsup...and how am I your good luck charm again??

[JanelleM]

Much better :)

[LeanneM]

Word up!

[LeanneM]

My sig makes perfect sense>

[System]

:lol :thumbsup...and how am I your good luck charm again??



I didn't kill myslef this weekend in the woods and I didn't almost fall out of my tree.

So, i was thinking...what did I do different...answer is talked to you...

Therefore, good luck charm....till otherwise notified

[System]

My sig makes perfect sense>


I agree, i knew what she was talking about...

[LeanneM]

Um have such a bad headeache I might go blind. A remedy is what I 'm looking for....

[JanelleM]

Word. And yeah you fixed it, good job knocker. I just talked to Ryan and Bodine and they are dumb. They got so drunk Friday night that McKenzie fell down and Aaron woke up ass naked next to Parker. Good times. Remember when he would do that in high school? And then try to take a shower?

[JanelleM]

I didn't kill myslef this weekend in the woods and I didn't almost fall out of my tree.

So, i was thinking...what did I do different...answer is talked to you...

Therefore, good luck charm....till otherwise notified
I like, fine I will take that job :thumbsup

[System]

I like, fine I will take that job :thumbsup


What do you require as pay?

[LeanneM]

Of course I have seen him naked like a gozillion times. But I don't remember the gay tendancies?

[System]

What kind of high school did you guys go to? Naked guys with gay tendancies?

Shit, we just got beer, drove around till we found an empty barn and drank ourselves stupid

[LeanneM]

Ryan text me thank you sweaty and I think you are really sexy...so I texted back leave me alone.

[LeanneM]

I am so glad I do not have to deal with his shit anymore. Pfew too mmany problems.

[JanelleM]

Ryan text me thank you sweaty and I think you are really sexy...so I texted back leave me alone.Are you serious?? Thank you for what? And did he really right sweaty...Jason style?

[JanelleM]

What kind of high school did you guys go to? Naked guys with gay tendancies?

Shit, we just got beer, drove around till we found an empty barn and drank ourselves stupid
No gay tendencies...he just stumbled out into the living room and fell asleep by Parker I guess. Idiots. But yes whenever this guy gets trashed he gets naked. No idea why.

Leanne Ryan's brother get's married in a month! :eek:

[System]

Leanne Ryan's brother get's married in a month! :eek:

wedding are good for 2 things

1) Making your current girlfriend think she wants to get married

2) hooking up with lonely bridesmaids

[LeanneM]

Thank you for transfering my monthly payment into his account. No I spelled it wrong he wrote sweety.

[JanelleM]

wedding are good for 2 things

1) Making your current girlfriend think she wants to get married

2) hooking up with lonely bridesmaids
Yeah I am Ryan's date and he is the best man otheriwse I would not be going. I just plan on drinking.

[JanelleM]

Thank you for transfering my monthly payment into his account. No I spelled it wrong he wrote sweety.
Fuck him. How many more months you have of that shit?

[System]

Yeah I am Ryan's date and he is the best man otheriwse I would not be going. I just plan on drinking.


ya, i forgot.

Drinking yourself stupid on the bride's parents dime.



I have done that a couple times....

[LeanneM]

wedding are good for 2 things

1) Making your current girlfriend think she wants to get married

2) hooking up with lonely bridesmaids
AGREED! :)

[System]

AGREED! :)


please tell me you know a lonely bridesmaid for me

[LeanneM]

Payments end in feb. Thank GOD I reminded him of that and told him after that there should be no reason to talk.

[LeanneM]

please tell me you know a lonely bridesmaid for me

Please tell me you know a lonely groomsman for me. :bounce

[JanelleM]

Seriously...OK only four more months of that bullshit. What a spaz.

[System]

Please tell me you know a lonely groomsman for me. :bounce


ok, me and my brother

you and Jen

Vegas

[JanelleM]

Vegas...:thumbsup. Never been :(

[System]

Vegas...:thumbsup. Never been :(


you are going....i will let you konw when your flight leaves...end of January timeframe

[neumdogg]

Vegas...:thumbsup. Never been :(
Thats the most devastating thing I have ever heard

[41ravens]

if this thread is still for singles i would just like to say hello and hopefully you will welcome me to your community as i have recently become a member of the single's society

[i like tictacs]

This girl I used to date, and was totally, amazing in every way for me, just started talking again. I know why we tapered off...i totally blew it, started being a nice guy, etc. I bought her shit and just melted in front of her. No good. I'm not falling for it though. As soon as I get back to school it's on. We were exchanging pictures and she's all like "wow you're hot" and "ooooh you're a babe" blah blah blah. Cutest girl I've ever seen. I haven't dated anyone since this, and this was a year ago. I mean, I've tried, but it's like I'm just going through the motions to appease my friends who tell me to move on. I went through a few week long hook up stints with other people but I've always been attracted to this one. Within 2 days of meeting her we spent an entire day together, came back and made out for like 6 hours afterwards. One of the best days in my life.


Oh infatuation...

[devils744]

good luck with that dude, you're going to need it. just be extremely careful

[i like tictacs]

good luck with that dude, you're going to need it. just be extremely careful
Elaborate :BANG

[devils744]

for the most part people don't change. i would think at some point you will as you said "melt in front of her". just remember that you are you, don't change who you are just to please someone else.

[i like tictacs]

I'm not trying to please her until we get into bed. I don't think not being a pussy is "changing myself" that much. I'll update.

[musicmad]

hey guys
long long lonnnng time no speak huh?
well ive missed you all but i decided to give this place a break for awhile,then come back and see if anyone remembers me :lol :o

yeah well im still in this thread,ugh

[DrinkerNJoker]

Yeah girls don't even know what they want, so it's hard to tell you guys what to do. Right now you two are dating, nothing crazy. Do you want a commitment?


I guess more than anything i want to understand the method behind the madness. Is there any?

[PhildoMurph #41]

I'm single...just thought i'd say hey :freak

[stunnersal]

if this thread is still for singles i would just like to say hello and hopefully you will welcome me to your community as i have recently become a member of the single's society
:thumbsup Just joined that society myself... :(

[JanelleM]

I guess more than anything i want to understand the method behind the madness. Is there any?
:haha Hmmmm what do you think? There could be, but I am going with the old if you're not someone's girlfriend you can't be thier ex-girlfriend motto. She's trying to keep it casual.

[FPrefect61]

Please tell me you know a lonely groomsman for me. :bounce
I'm a groomsman for my friend's wedding this weekend.


And I'm lonely. :(

[JanelleM]

Tom I was going through my picture drawer last night and I showed Leanne a picture of you and me...she digs the facial hair :thumbsup

[FPrefect61]

Tom I was going through my picture drawer last night and I showed Leanne a picture of you and me...she digs the facial hair :thumbsup
:lol Guess who shaved last night?

I had to look clean shaven for the wedding.

Which picture of us?

[mosvar]

single rules

[bron]

I guess more than anything i want to understand the method behind the madness. Is there any?
If we told you, we'd have to kill you...

[chels012002]

still here still single.

[FPrefect61]

Hopefully some of the bridesmaids are single and lonely at the wedding this weekend. :evil

[stunnersal]

still here still single.
:thumbsup same here

[JanelleM]

Really? I expected things to change today. :rolleyes:

[System]

things never change they just re-organize themselves to better suit fucking up my life

[JanelleM]

Always the way. That's why you should always try to have control

[System]

i like being in control, but if everyone did things my way i wouldn't have any one to debate my points with...but then again, i could be King..and that couldn't be that bad could it?

[stunnersal]

i like being in control, but if everyone did things my way i wouldn't have any one to debate my points with...but then again, i could be King..and that couldn't be that bad could it?
Never let anyone control your life, you'll end up hurt and disappointed... :thumbsup

[System]

i don't wanna control somebody's life, nor to i wanna be in control..i guess my statement was more in reference to work

[JanelleM]

King?? Not bad at all :D

[System]

King?? Not bad at all :D


wanna be my queen?

[stunnersal]

i don't wanna control somebody's life, nor to i wanna be in control..i guess my statement was more in reference to work
i hear ya, just a word of advice, that's all...You end up getting dumped for somebody else... :thumbsup

[JanelleM]

Somebody else?? I don't think that's what happened.

[System]

eh, I will get over it....always do...what doesn't kill me makes me stronger, learn your lesson and move on...


and then when the opportunity presents itself....post that video you made together on the web

[angelces]

love is when he lets you be in control of the half of life that you feel you need to control, and let him control the half of life he needs to control. the fuck ups come when his half overlaps your half and you can't compromise.

:lol

[dmbphan041]

ok, gunna try this out.... 16/m/toronto...pm me for a chat;)

[angelces]

I would but you're like 7 years too young. Sorry hun. :)

[chels012002]

Bored as usual

[angelces]

for the real man. but what else is new.

I gotta be out of the house by 7 tomorrow to leave work early enough to get to the body shop before it closes. I should be in bed but I was still wired from Job 2.

nothing else going on though.

[chels012002]

I am still wired from the day but it is only 8:20 here

[kmd firedancer]

eh, I will get over it....always do...what doesn't kill me makes me stronger, learn your lesson and move on...


and then when the opportunity presents itself....post that video you made together on the web
:lol Is that the Paris Hilton Theory of Life?

[chels012002]

:lol Is that the Paris Hilton Theory of Life?
I think it might be! :lol

[ethaxton]

Decided to call it quits with my gf last night...i was tired of doing so much for her and it going unnoticed. It'll be hard to get over 3 years...but I guess meeting new people to hang out with and talk to is the first step! Of course the day after all this ive got a test, quiz and work for 5 hours...and my roomate leaves tomm for cali for a week...so its going to be a lonely week.

[PedroPSK]

Decided to call it quits with my gf last night...i was tired of doing so much for her and it going unnoticed. It'll be hard to get over 3 years...but I guess meeting new people to hang out with and talk to is the first step! Of course the day after all this ive got a test, quiz and work for 5 hours...and my roomate leaves tomm for cali for a week...so its going to be a lonely week.That sucks dude! sorry to hear about that. Stay positive and stay stong and you will be fine!
It's rough but sometimes it has to be done.

[Outsider]

Singles is a great movie.

[kmd firedancer]

Decided to call it quits with my gf last night...i was tired of doing so much for her and it going unnoticed. It'll be hard to get over 3 years...but I guess meeting new people to hang out with and talk to is the first step! Of course the day after all this ive got a test, quiz and work for 5 hours...and my roomate leaves tomm for cali for a week...so its going to be a lonely week.
Aww that is sad. But you might actually like the space to get back to being you. My last bf and I were together for only 10 months and I couldn't believe how much I changed myself to adapt to his lifestyle! Another piece of advice...don't do the we are broken up but still sleeping together or just friends thing. It will only make you resent her even more when things finally do come to an end.

[StumpyErin]

What?! Paris Hilton!? Where?!

[angelces]

Decided to call it quits with my gf last night...i was tired of doing so much for her and it going unnoticed. It'll be hard to get over 3 years...but I guess meeting new people to hang out with and talk to is the first step! Of course the day after all this ive got a test, quiz and work for 5 hours...and my roomate leaves tomm for cali for a week...so its going to be a lonely week.
3 years is a long time and I'm sure it will hurt for a while, it took me about a year to get over my 4 year relationship. I had a couple of sloppy rebounds between when he broke up with me and the end. But my advice is the same as the person above me. If this is what you want, stick to it, regardless of how hard it is.

Good luck.

[StumpyErin]

Aww that is sad. But you might actually like the space to get back to being you. My last bf and I were together for only 10 months and I couldn't believe how much I changed myself to adapt to his lifestyle! Another piece of advice...don't do the we are broken up but still sleeping together or just friends thing. It will only make you resent her even more when things finally do come to an end.
good advice....VERY good advice. I'm also sad to hear, breaking up always is a hard thing....I KNOW....but then again who DOESNT know?

[DontDrinkMyWatr]

I wouldnt listen tap that shit one more time. Bust in her face then tell her you're never seein her again

[StumpyErin]

I wouldnt listen tap that shit one more time. Bust in her face then tell her you're never seein her again
hey now. I WAS that girl that was told "I just dont love you anymore"....don't be an ass.

[twosteppn36]

did they bust it in your face too?

[StumpyErin]

hahaha no. I was the one that said, "Fine you dont want to be with me...dont talk to me ever again...in fact get the fuck out of my apartment" When in actuallyity I was the one who left......but this isn't about me, this is about ETHAXTON.

[twosteppn36]

3 years is a long time and I'm sure it will hurt for a while, it took me about a year to get over my 4 year relationship. I had a couple of sloppy rebounds between when he broke up with me and the end. But my advice is the same as the person above me. If this is what you want, stick to it, regardless of how hard it is.

Good luck.


and i just noticed your sig.....skank

[kmd firedancer]

I wouldnt listen tap that shit one more time. Bust in her face then tell her you're never seein her again
Oh no! Haha so many rude comments I could make I just don't know where to start.

[ethaxton]

Yeah I know its going to be hard, but the last few months ew've been kind of off and on, so I've been preparing myself for this. Im excited for the weekend though, get off work in a few hours and then its time to head to the bar =)

btw, thanks for the support *officially subscribes to singles thread*

[taphntm]

Is this where I come to claim my baggage?

[Nautiest_monkey]

706 pages not looking through all. anyone females in kansas?

[PaigeDMB22]

706 pages not looking through all. anyone females in kansas?
Haha, I hear ya! Any guys in FL or Colorado seeing as though I am moving there soon.

[angelces]

its 12 am I must be lonely...

[nutter58]

its 12 am I must be lonely...
it's strange seeing you in here. .. .

[angelces]

why? didn't you hear that I have reason to be in here?

[nutter58]

why? didn't you hear that I have reason to be in here?
i know about it. but still. *shrugs* nevermind.

[angelces]

it wasn't my choice. but here I am. I'm just happy that you don't have a reason to be in here besides to check up on me. :)

[nutter58]

not checking up on you. no need for that. especially not by me. just bored. and yea, well i'm glad i don't have a reason to be here either.

[UJCdream]

single checking in for duty.

[mdmt619]

i've kinda just realized that i'm probably going to go through high school without having dated at all, but for some weird reason it doesnt bother me that much...

[angelces]

high school is a mysterious thing, but there is life after HS. Thankfully.

[jcantrell82]

i've kinda just realized that i'm probably going to go through high school without having dated at all, but for some weird reason it doesnt bother me that much...

Yeah i wouldn't worry about that at all... the thing about dating in high school is this: When you break up with someone, you STILL have to see them all the time! It's bogus.

[ethaxton]

Yeah seeing your ex the day after in HS would always suck, especially if you have multiple classes with her.

My ex-gf and I have a lot of the same friends right now so it makes it difficult, but there is no shortage of women here so I cant complain too much.

[FPrefect61]

i've kinda just realized that i'm probably going to go through high school without having dated at all, but for some weird reason it doesnt bother me that much...
Eh, don't worry about it. I only had one girlfriend in high school, and it lasted 4 weeks.

Look at me now, a fine member of society, with no developmental problems whatsoever... :freak

[angelces]

I think the thing that a lot of people in HS don't realize is that the rest of your life really begins after HS. College is a major develmental time in everyone's lives. Most of the time the friends you have in HS don't last through college, but the friends you have in colleg last you a life time.

[angelces]

college is more about socialization than anything else in the states, yeah you go to learn ... blah blah blah. but really it's the first time for most people to be away from their parents and "on their own" and they are most of the time away from the friends they knew for the last 12 years so the process of creating a new social scene for yourself while dealing with new found independence, makes or breaks a lot of people.

[ethaxton]

college is more about socialization than anything else in the states, yeah you go to learn ... blah blah blah. but really it's the first time for most people to be away from their parents and "on their own" and they are most of the time away from the friends they knew for the last 12 years so the process of creating a new social scene for yourself while dealing with new found independence, makes or breaks a lot of people.

Exactly...college is a great social experience...but the people that have had parents that were somewhat controlling go CRAZY with their new found freedom. Parents def. need to give their kid some freedom in HS otherwise the shit hits the fan in college.

[PaigeDMB22]

Exactly...college is a great social experience...but the people that have had parents that were somewhat controlling go CRAZY with their new found freedom. Parents def. need to give their kid some freedom in HS otherwise the shit hits the fan in college.
I totally agree with that. I am an only child and my mom and I are extremely close. I went away when I was 16 to go to prep school and play hockey. The first month I was there was the only time I got in trouble my entire life. I would've hated to see what would've happend if I had never been away from home before college when I got to college. I think the first 2 years you are away from home be that prep school, or college or whenever you grow the most as a person, but I don't think you really define who you are until the first year out of school. In college like everyone has said is a time for socialization, a lot of time you just go along with what your friends are doing, but it isn't until you are out of college and completely on your own that you set your feet in the ground all the socialization that you do is completely in your hands to go out and do what it is you want, and you are really making all your own decisions, that is when you will see how much you really grew in college.

[asmjm39]

do single girls go for the Michelin Man?

[il bacio dolce]

Hi, guys. I'll be one of you again someday. :lol

[jcantrell82]

fng;anbfahugihjfpagji; !

[RuggerSelkie]

Umm, ya, obviously not single, but there is a nice Doctor that just joined...

[chels012002]

Still single WTF?

[StumpyErin]

IM SO SINGLE, THAT I MEET SOMEONE AT A CLUB, AND WE MAKE OUT FOR OVER AN HOUR....AND THEN WHEN WE (MY FRIENDS AND I) LEAVE CAUSE THE PLACE IS CLOSING....I PEACE OUT AND DONT GET A PHONE NUMBER...

ITS THE SAME BULLSHIT OVER AND OVER...I'VE REALIZED. I GIVE SOMEONE MY PHONE NUMBER AND ITS THE SAME BULLSHIT EVERYTIME. SO I JUST AVOID IT.

WOW...MY WALL THAT i PUT MYSELF BEHIND JUST WENT 10 FEET HIGHER....THIS IS NOT GOOD.

[chels012002]

IM SO SINGLE, THAT I MEET SOMEONE AT A CLUB, AND WE MAKE OUT FOR OVER AN HOUR....AND THEN WHEN WE (MY FRIENDS AND I) LEAVE CAUSE THE PLACE IS CLOSING....I PEACE OUT AND DONT GET A PHONE NUMBER...

ITS THE SAME BULLSHIT OVER AND OVER...I'VE REALIZED. I GIVE SOMEONE MY PHONE NUMBER AND ITS THE SAME BULLSHIT EVERYTIME. SO I JUST AVOID IT.

WOW...MY WALL THAT i PUT MYSELF BEHIND JUST WENT 10 FEET HIGHER....THIS IS NOT GOOD.
Well yeah the last time I gave a guy my # after a good make out session was at the DMB concert which I am now kicking myself for. He turned out to be a jerk and stopped calling cause I didnt want to go out at 12 am. :ugh:

[stunnersal]

Well yeah the last time I gave a guy my # after a good make out session was at the DMB concert which I am now kicking myself for. He turned out to be a jerk and stopped calling cause I didnt want to go out at 12 am. :ugh:
Maybe it wasn't good for him... :rolleyes:

[StumpyErin]

HEY. YOU ARE AN APRiL FOOLS BABY!

[neumdogg]

IM SO SINGLE, THAT I MEET SOMEONE AT A CLUB, AND WE MAKE OUT FOR OVER AN HOUR....AND THEN WHEN WE (MY FRIENDS AND I) LEAVE CAUSE THE PLACE IS CLOSING....I PEACE OUT AND DONT GET A PHONE NUMBER...

ITS THE SAME BULLSHIT OVER AND OVER...I'VE REALIZED. I GIVE SOMEONE MY PHONE NUMBER AND ITS THE SAME BULLSHIT EVERYTIME. SO I JUST AVOID IT.

WOW...MY WALL THAT i PUT MYSELF BEHIND JUST WENT 10 FEET HIGHER....THIS IS NOT GOOD.
Here is the problem: Don't try to meet guys at clubs! All they want is ass for that night. Personally, I am sick of meeting girls at clubs. I dont want just ass for the night. So, personally, I rely in on meeting people through people.

[angelces]

Here is the problem: Don't try to meet guys at clubs! All they want is ass for that night. Personally, I am sick of meeting girls at clubs. I dont want just ass for the night. So, personally, I rely in on meeting people through people.
:thumbsup to that man.

[MelissaDMBfan]

Still single, and loving it.

Well, at least for the time being. :)

[MRGreySt.YNK]

Still single, and loving it.

Well, at least for the time being. :)

Atleast someone is.

[StumpyErin]

i just feel like im the only one of all the people i know that are single. but i dont want to talk about me.

nice avatar melissadmbFan

[MelissaDMBfan]

i just feel like im the only one of all the people i know that are single. but i dont want to talk about me.

nice avatar melissadmbFan
Thanks.

I am seriously the only one of my friends that is single. ALL of my friends are either married, engaged, or in a very serious relationship. I just try to make the best of it. It gets hard when all of them are with their significant others, and I have nothing to do, but I do other things to occupy my tim.e I wouldn't mind being in a relationship, but I am just too busy, and don't like putting up with the hasels. Plus, I get very board with that person.

Anways, I know it is cliche, but it is true "It will happen to you when you least expect it."

[neumdogg]

i just feel like im the only one of all the people i know that are single. but i dont want to talk about me.

nice avatar melissadmbFan
For me, I feel like I'm the only guy amongst my friends who wants a relationship. Its damn hard when all my friends want to do is find girls to have sex with, and then drop them. Maybe I'm just mature for my age!

[stunnersal]

For me, I feel like I'm the only guy amongst my friends who wants a relationship. Its damn hard when all my friends want to do is find girls to have sex with, and then drop them. Maybe I'm just mature for my age!
or gay..... :lol Sorry i couldn't pass that up.... :thumbsup


Joking btw! :)

[MRGreySt.YNK]

For me, I feel like I'm the only guy amongst my friends who wants a relationship. Its damn hard when all my friends want to do is find girls to have sex with, and then drop them. Maybe I'm just mature for my age!

:thumbsup, I am the same way, all my friends are just out for a peice of ass.

[stunnersal]

:thumbsup, I am the same way, all my friends are just out for a peice of ass.
I try and change it up and go out for a piece of tit, i like to mix it up... :thumbsup

[MelissaDMBfan]

Lately I find myself just wanting a piece of ass too. :lol

[MRGreySt.YNK]

I try and change it up and go out for a piece of tit, i like to mix it up... :thumbsup

:lol :lol

[StumpyErin]

[Anways, I know it is cliche, but it is true "It will happen to you when you least expect it."]

oh i know. but this is the thing with my friends. everyone is either hooking up with, living with, dating, seeing, or inbetween with everyone in the group of friends that i know. it's a circle for the most part. everyone is everyones buisness...and now that im not part of the circle like i once was......i have an outside opinion and am amazed what a little fucking clique it is, and how much drama goes on....theres a lot more to life.

so i seperated myself from my best friends, and i see them all together every once in a while and it brings back memories...which i hate...because i dont...i just dont know anymore. i have to finish school with all of them, but i honestly cant wait to move to a different city where i can go to Grad School, where i wont have to run into them.

now what i just said.....thats MY story. i dont tell many people that, because i just dont....but i feel like venting for some reason right now....maybe that was the point of this "ANTS SINGLES THREAD". *shrug*

[StumpyErin]

wow my last post sounds like i was yelling for some reason when i just went to re-read it.

ON A LIGHTER NOTE - my moto - Love me or hate me....either way im on your mind.

[chels012002]

Maybe it wasn't good for him... :rolleyes:
no he got mad cause I wouldnt go out with him that late. I also think he didnt like that I put my baby first.

[chels012002]

HEY. YOU ARE AN APRiL FOOLS BABY!
funny thing my older sister is april 1st and I am april 2nd lol.

[Crush me Grey]

im ready to give being single a rest..

[FPrefect61]

im ready to give being single a rest..
:thumbsup

Yeah, I'm getting bored of the single life too.

[stunnersal]

no he got mad cause I wouldnt go out with him that late. I also think he didnt like that I put my baby first.
well ur baby always comes first, choose who you makeout with wisely next time... :thumbsup

[chels012002]

well ur baby always comes first, choose who you makeout with wisely next time... :thumbsup
That is something I had to learn the hard way.

[Crush me Grey]

:thumbsup

Yeah, I'm getting bored of the single life too.
blargh. thats the word for it.

[FPrefect61]

blargh. thats the word for it.
That does sum up the feeling pretty well. :lol

[stunnersal]

That is something I had to learn the hard way.
Well just keep trying you'll find the right tongue.... :lol

[Nautiest_monkey]

The single life is getting really old. The room to spread my wings after the last relationship was nice but now it's just not so much fun. Winter is coming and waking up cold and alone is gonna suck.

[Nautiest_monkey]

:monkey

[StumpyErin]

so we all feel the same. whats the next step we should all take?

[TwoStepFF]

so we all feel the same. whats the next step we should all take?
See me :thumbsup :thumbsup

[chels012002]

Well just keep trying you'll find the right tongue.... :lol
Wow I like that comment!:thumbsup

[stunnersal]

Wow I like that comment!:thumbsup
:lol :lol Like the sig... :thumbsup

[chels012002]

:lol :lol Like the sig... :thumbsup
Its motivational! :lol

[kmd firedancer]

i just feel like im the only one of all the people i know that are single. but i dont want to talk about me.
Same here. I use to like the fact that I was single. But now whenever we go out I feel like the odd girl out. Then there are the "oh you have to meet this guy, you will love him." thing from all my friends. Uggggg.

[stunnersal]

Its motivational! :lol
yeah you should check out my seminars... :thumbsup Tony Robbins has nothing on me... :lol

[chels012002]

yeah you should check out my seminars... :thumbsup Tony Robbins has nothing on me... :lol
I will have too!

[Nautiest_monkey]

is that it for single ants?



:monkey

[rcarlsn612]

Same here. I use to like the fact that I was single. But now whenever we go out I feel like the odd girl out. Then there are the "oh you have to meet this guy, you will love him." thing from all my friends. Uggggg.
I'm a guy and that happens to me alot too.
Its like your dating 2 ppl,the one that hooked you up and the person. So then you have to relive the whole date and whatnot to the hooker-upper :BANG

[BeckyMathews]

name: doug
age: 22
gener: male
interest: tba


:D
name: becky
age: 20 something
gender: female
interests: oh so many!

[StumpyErin]

name: erin
age: 20 somthing
gender: female
interests: ....you?

[41ravens]

oooh, i wanna play

name: adam
age: 22
gender: male
interests: music seems to be the only thing of interest to me lately

[Nautiest_monkey]

name : Jeremy
age twenty-something
gender : Male
interests : Depends on the day

[twosteppn36]

Jeff
21
Male
Candlelight dinners and long walks on the beach










:lol riiiiiiight

[MelissaDMBfan]

Melissa
23
Female
interests: Enjoying being single!!!!!!!!!! :) :)

[twosteppn36]

Melissa
23
Female
interests: Jeff


:thumbsup

[mefriend31]

I wanna play too

Melissa
24
female
hmm...

[StumpyErin]

second round of questions:

Location: Newport, Ri (represent)
What you do for work: Interning at a Submarine System Engineering Base
Best jam-band song: too many for me to choose just one
Best Valentine's Day story: picked up an Australian and got drinks bought for me all night
Do you give out your number or "get" someones number: give out...i tried the "get" before and i've got the run around..
Do you have a Secret Crush: Wouldn't you like to know.
Ideal Date Scenerio: Pre-Game then hit up a party or go to a club.

your turn.

[Nautiest_monkey]

Location: Lovely state of Oz
What you do for work: I sit in a cubicle
Best jam-band song: right now it's a 15 minute Crazy game
Best Valentine's Day story: Olive Garden had a two hour wait so we went to Chucky Cheese and had a blast
Do you give out your number or "get" someones number: Give out, never get nay calls though
Do you have a Secret Crush: doesn't everyone?
Ideal Date Scenerio: Going to a show



:monkey