Ask the opposite sex

[dancergirl40ky]

I don't want a guy to shave below the the belt. I like to follow the happy trail and it should be like a dead end. Trimmed is good if you think its too long.

[dancergirl40ky]

Hey well I have a preference too.

[DMBFanWI418]

Originally posted by Beefsteak1138
Well, that's cause you rock. A lot of girls feel they shouldn't drink beer as its too masculine and they stick to drinks w/ the little umbrellas and fruit slices sticking out of them. heh, thanks!!

I am not a fan of umbrellas and fruity slices on alcoholic drinks...

[dancergirl40ky]

I keep mine trimmed. Actually had it lasered so I don't have to shave. Don't like the completely shaved deal myself, very itchy and well I feel very naked.

[cutigerbtf]

LADIES - have you ever downloaded or looked at pornography [on the internet] ?

or- have you watched a video- with bf or spouse

[RuggerSelkie]

This thread went through the roof.

[dancergirl40ky]

Why am I saying all this? Need more beer.

[StephDMBCrush]

:lol...i can actually say i have never seen or downloaded porn...call me innocent...;)

[dancergirl40ky]

Hi Fred Daddy

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
LADIES - have you ever downloaded or looked at pornography [on the internet] ?

or- have you watched a video- with bf or spouse

Well Duh

[RuggerSelkie]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
Why am I saying all this?

That's a good question. Interesting though.

[Beefsteak1138]

Never downloaded porn before, but I've looked alot of it (and I mean alot) on my screen. Is that the same thing? :)

EDIT: yes i'm a guy and yes I have watched porn w/ my wife.

[dancergirl40ky]

I feel like Madame Xavier

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
Well Duh

hey stacy- not everyone has your wisdom or experience ;)

[ps- i just checked your profile for your birthday and it was listed]

[nutter58]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
I keep mine trimmed. Actually had it lasered so I don't have to shave. Don't like the completely shaved deal myself, very itchy and well I feel very naked. it's a strange feeling. won't shave completely because it makes me feel too 'bare', yet i'll happily lounge around with next to nothing on at home. :lol

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by Beefsteak1138
Never downloaded porn before, but I've looked alot of it (and I mean alot) on my screen. Is that the same thing? :)


realize the power of the video- i used to be a pic man myself- but video takes the bacon.

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by nutter58
it's a strange feeling. won't shave completely because it makes me feel too 'bare', yet i'll happily lounge around with next to nothing on at home. :lol

We Agree:p

[nutter58]

for sure stacey. :)

oh, and the porn thing. try watching it on a computer in the library, then come talk to me.

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
hey stacy- not everyone has your wisdom or experience ;)

[ps- i just checked your profile for your birthday and it was listed]

We have conversed before , is that the first time you checked my profile. I got nothing to hide. I'm probably the hottest 40 year old you'll know. (Not really being conceted, I just like to have a confident attitude)

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
We have conversed before , is that the first time you checked my profile. I got nothing to hide. I'm probably the hottest 40 year old you'll know. (Not really being conceted, I just like to have a confident attitude)

you're probably close- my roommate's mom freshman year was- whew- she was hot- he threatened to beat me up several times because i commented on his mother's looks.

[RuggerSelkie]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
hey stacy- not everyone has your wisdom or experience ;)

[ps- i just checked your profile for your birthday and it was listed]

Don't knock the older women. For some reason, they do it for me...Famke Jensen, Carrie Ann Moss, Lisa Guerrero, and I know I have a thing for Patrica Heaton (Ray's wife in Everybody Loves Raymond). What can I say? My wife is four years older than me.

[dancergirl40ky]

I lived in SC for 7 years Charleston, loved it. We are going to retire there some day.

[dancergirl40ky]

I am 2 years older that my husband. He had a fake ID when we met.

[cutigerbtf]

i was not knocking older women. I dig a woman with experience. I can honestly say i've fantasized about older women- it was just a little surprising- i'm cool with it.

[dancergirl40ky]

Why was it suprising? I posted a pic in the cock a couple of days ago.

I fantasize about younger guys too.

[RuggerSelkie]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
I am 2 years older that my husband. He had a fake ID when we met.

Ditto

I actually lied and told her I was 21 (though I told everyone I met I was 21...hey, people believed me). I'm not sure when I told her the truth.

[dancergirl40ky]

Just had to have that older woman huh?

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
Why was it suprising? I posted a pic in the cock a couple of days ago.

I fantasize about younger guys too.

i turned 21 about an hour ago ;)

goodnight.

[RuggerSelkie]

Minus one, the youngest woman I've seriously been interested in was seven months older than me. Most have been a year to two years.

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
i turned 21 about an hour ago ;)

goodnight.

Happy Birthday to you *in sexy Marilyn Monroe voice*

Nighty nite.

[RuggerSelkie]

21 is not amazing cuz you can buy booze, it's amazing cuz my heart doesn't race when I go buy it.

[boiii]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
:lol...i can actually say i have never seen or downloaded porn...call me innocent...;)

ill call you boring.

cheers.
ken

[FubarMichy]

Ok, I have a question for the guys:

When we ask you if we look fat in certain things, are you being honest with us?? Or just giving us the answer we're looking for??

:D

[cutigerbtf]

if you asked me if you looked fat in something- i'd tell you honestly.

and could the girls with a little pudge above the belt line please stop wearing shirts that show your mid-drift. I don't care how confident/comfortable you are- that disgusts me.

girls with flat tummys- please- continue :D

i do get a little weary of skinny girls thinking they are overweight. I can think of several gorgeous girls who are like- gosh i am so fat- just look at this pudge - and their body fat is like 3%- I wish you guys didn't shoot so high. when a guy likes you- he likes you just the way you are- each thing about you is 'perfect' to him. I know self-esteem has a lot to do with it- but when a guy says you look great, or don't need to loose weight- just say thanks- and take your compliment :)

[dancergirl40ky]

Morning Ben. I agree I have seen some girls at my sons games that should not be wearing what they are. At that age I think some of it is guidance at home. It would help if the girls had better options. You are a little heavy, but you want to look hip. Low Rise jeans are not attractive on everyone. I am not heavy, but I am 40. I don't want to dress like a teen ager but I don't want to look like an old lady. It is not easy to find a happy medium.

[Number27]

Happy Birthday Ben.

To answer some questions: I don't have a preference when it comes to hair color, but most of the women I have dater and liked have been Brunettes.

I am all about the eyes. If I can stare deeply into your eyes and smile, then you have me hooked.

It's all about the personality, the attitude and how she presents herself. That is the biggest attraction to me, and I am sure for other guys as well. Don't forget the smile, I am all about the smile.

I'm a whole package type of guy, but I find myself staring at the butt more than any other part. It's a Hispanic thing. Any size boob is fine with me, its the whole package that matters.

I got a question for the ladies. When I flirt, I tend to be a little bit touchy with the girls, wrapping my arm around them, caressing the hands or slightly caressing the thumbs. Is that going a bit too far, or do you find that cute?

[recentlytrippin]

Don't girls realize that when they act like fake bitches that will back stab someone in a minute in high school, will eventually piss so many people off that they will not have any friends by the time they are in their early to mid 20's. And they will provide countless amounts of jokes and snickers for all the people who hated their guts in high school.

[WineSnob]

Why do guys think it is ok to scratch themselves and belch and fart in public??? I mean really. I would NEVER do that . It's disgusting.

[Number27]

If I do burp in public, I usually say excuse me.

[WineSnob]

I should modify my question to include times when we are sitting at home hanging out...still not cool.

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by MediumatLarge
Why do guys think it is ok to scratch themselves and belch and fart in public??? I mean really. I would NEVER do that . It's disgusting.

not sure who you've been hanging around with ;)


I only scratch when i can do it without anyone else knowing it happened-

belching- with the guys watching football- it's a contest
but in public- let it out quietly- and say excuse me if it's accidentally audible.

farting in public- well if i'm in mixed company- i don't fart.
just the guys... again- a contest :D

[WineSnob]

Guys are gross.

[recentlytrippin]

Originally posted by MediumatLarge
Guys are gross.

Yes, they really are.

[cutigerbtf]

Girls are fickle

[mmazz72]

Originally posted by FubarMichy
Ok, I have a question for the guys:

When we ask you if we look fat in certain things, are you being honest with us?? Or just giving us the answer we're looking for??

:D

we're telling you what you want to hear. why?? because no matter how much you say you want honesty...if we tell you you look fat, we will NEVER hear the end of it.

i know. i've tried it.

[WineSnob]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
Girls are fickle

:rolleyes: Fickle because I don't want to get farted on??? Give me a break.

[mmazz72]

Originally posted by MediumatLarge
Why do guys think it is ok to scratch themselves and belch and fart in public??? I mean really. I would NEVER do that . It's disgusting.

because it is ok. these are all perfectly natural things, and they shouldn't be looked at as disgusting. if you choose to do them, that's up to you. but i'm not holding it all in just because some chick's got a hang-up about it.

[mmazz72]

Originally posted by MediumatLarge
:rolleyes: Fickle because I don't want to get farted on??? Give me a break.

ok, you didn't say anything about being farted ON. :lol

i'll draw the line there.

[WineSnob]

Originally posted by mmazz72
because it is ok. these are all perfectly natural things, and they shouldn't be looked at as disgusting. if you choose to do them, that's up to you. but i'm not holding it all in just because some chick's got a hang-up about it.

Don't hold it in! Just excuse yourself to outside or the restroom so i don't have to smell it.

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by MediumatLarge
:rolleyes: Fickle because I don't want to get farted on??? Give me a break.


no- just fickle in general-

sorry i had moved off of the farting/belching/scratching topic for a sec.

[wine2tears]

for girls:

when you go down on a guy is it expected for us to return the favor?

[JanelleM]

OK girl point of view. Girls liked being liked, but that doesn't mean they necessarily like you back. You are like a safety net to fall back on if something better doesn't come along whether it be something better to do that night or a different guy. If they need to feel good about themselves or have no plans, they will call you up. We're awful. Like I said before, it's all about control. it'a awful, but true. She knows she has control, but pull away and it will be a different story. If a girl starts telling you she is "busy" run fast. It will turn into nothing but frustration and heartache. Isn't that bad?

[JanelleM]

Originally posted by wine2tears
for girls:

when you go down on a guy is it expected for us to return the favor?

No way! I enjoy giving head more than receiving, only because most guys don't know what they're doing. It's all about the thumbs and the tongue. Seriously.

[dancergirl40ky]

Well we are just throwing it all out there aren't we.

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by wine2tears
for girls:

when you go down on a guy is it expected for us to return the favor?

Only if you expect me to do it again:)

[Number27]

So, we're just dicks in jars if Mr. Rock doesn't mind me quoting him.

[dancergirl40ky]

Oh I wouldn't say that. I love men , all aspects of them. The world would be soooo boring without them. Whose socks would I pick up?

[Number27]

I still haven't gotten an answer to my question :(

[mmazz72]

wine2tears - who cares what's expected? just do it. why wouldn't you? even if she doesn't give you head. get your face down there and enjoy. it's made from the best stuff on earth. :)

Janelle - while it's commendable that you enjoy giving more than receiving...you need to find some new men.

[Number27]

Yea, what Matt said...Getting your head down there is just awesome.

[JanelleM]

Originally posted by mmazz72
wine2tears - who cares what's expected? just do it. why wouldn't you? even if she doesn't give you head. get your face down there and enjoy. it's made from the best stuff on earth. :)

Janelle - while it's commendable that you enjoy giving more than receiving...you need to find some new men.

Oh I get mine! Should I be getting it more?

[Number27]

It should be 50/50

[JanelleM]

Originally posted by Number27
It should be 50/50

That's only fair, I just want to thank everyone for their sexual and emotional insights. You all are great!

[mmazz72]

Originally posted by JanelleM
Oh I get mine! Should I be getting it more?

well, if you claim most men don't know what they're doing, then you're obviously not finding the right men. :cool:

[Number27]

Originally posted by Number27
I got a question for the ladies. When I flirt, I tend to be a little bit touchy with the girls, wrapping my arm around them, caressing the hands or slightly caressing the thumbs. Is that going a bit too far, or do you find that cute?

[StephDMBCrush]

#27...it depends on the girl really....some girls like physical contact and some just dont like being touched. you just have to try to read the signs to see what she does when you do that stuff...you just have to play that one by ear buddy!!

[lzldmb]

Touching while flirting is bad. I'm not a flirter, so I guess I don't know. But it's better going with friendly romantic till things get more serious/mutual.

[Number27]

It's in my nature to wrap my arm around a girl. It's a hispanic thing.

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by Number27
It's in my nature to wrap my arm around a girl. It's a hispanic thing.

:lol what an angle...

"i touch girls- but i'm hispanic so it's ok "

i'm joking C-los- i'm just giving you a hard time.

[Number27]

But, it is okay. :lol
We have this nature that we have to have contact with a person. Usually, when I am out, I give girls hugs if its the first time I've met them. I saw that around me while growing up, and I just thought its okay.
Damn you Americans and your personal space. :lol

[mmazz72]

:lol

i can just picture carlos meeting a girl for the first time.

"hi there. i'm carlos"

*honks her tits. smacks her on the ass*

"how ya doin'?"

[ProudestAnt]

Originally posted by mmazz72
:lol

i can just picture carlos meeting a girl for the first time.

"hi there. i'm carlos"

*honks her tits. smacks her on the ass*

"how ya doin'?"
I would pay money to see that.:raven

[Number27]

You've been following me around Matt?
Ask all the girls I know, and they will tell you I am a smacker in the ass type of person. But only to girls that I know. It's not sexual harrassment if you say "Go team!" :lol

[mmazz72]

Originally posted by Number27
It's not sexual harrassment if you say "Go team!" :lol

:lol

*smack!*

"sorry. i'm just a big sports fan. and i'm hispanic." :p

[Number27]

No, its more like this:

*smack in the ass, maybe a little gropage* Go team!

:lol

[WineSnob]

Originally posted by Number27
It's in my nature to wrap my arm around a girl. It's a hispanic thing.


It's true. I am touchy too. Kinda funny really, white folks look at you like WTF??

[Number27]

Originally posted by MediumatLarge
It's true. I am touchy too. Kinda funny really, white folks look at you like WTF??

It's funny hearing you say White folks. Cause from the Colorado videos it doesnt seem like you are hispanic. But then again, I don't look hispanic either :lol

[WineSnob]

I'm not Mexican. I am Spanish. Spanish folks tend to be more pale...And by white folks, I was referring to the culture :)

[Number27]

Yea, I know. :)
Spain. The motherland. :lol

[WineSnob]

haha... or the Murderous land..those people were fucked UP!!

[Number27]

Nobody suspects the Spanish Inquisition :lol

[DMBfan41]

Girls, do you really enjoy anal sex?

[WineSnob]

Originally posted by DMBfan41
Girls, do you really enjoy anal sex?

EWWW sorry just EWWWW

[JanelleM]

Originally posted by DMBfan41
Girls, do you really enjoy anal sex?

This is a totally valid question that guys should know about. I f it is done right, it is very good. You need patience (vibrator)because it takes a while to get the girl into it. And lots of persuasion (lube). Once both of you are into it, it will be something new and different. I recommend everyone try it.

[cutigerbtf]

had this convo w/ a close friend once- she said it just felt like you're taking a shit the whole time.

i never thought about it- but seems like it'd be true.

[DMBfan41]

Originally posted by JanelleM
This is a totally valid question that guys should know about. I f it is done right, it is very good. You need patience (vibrator)because it takes a while to get the girl into it. And lots of persuasion (lube). Once both of you are into it, it will be something new and different. I recommend everyone try it.

you've been here on Ants for only 13 days and already you are my favorite person on here! You sound like you know so much about sex. I'd love to chat with ya!

[JanelleM]

Originally posted by DMBfan41
you've been here on Ants for only 13 days and already you are my favorite person on here! You sound like you know so much about sex. I'd love to chat with ya!

Thank you! It'a all about experimentation! PM me anytime Jared.

[DMBfan41]

Originally posted by JanelleM
Thank you! It'a all about experimentation! PM me anytime Jared.

can I send ya an instant message? Do you have AIM or somethin?

[cutigerbtf]

bye jared- have fun.
it's like you're leaving for sex camp or something :)

[DMBfan41]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
bye jared- have fun.
it's like you're leaving for sex camp or something :)

I certainly wouldn't mind it. I gotta get rid of this damn virginity!

[cutigerbtf]

FOR THE LADIES:

you know guys dig boobs- and from time to time - we get busted looking...

we know you want us looking at your face/eyes, but do any of you like the fact that we're interested in your body? or is it just completely inconsiderate?

or is it the fact that we choose to look while you're trying to talk to us ;)

[lzldmb]

Good question, Ben. I don't look down too much, but sometimes you HAVE to.

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by lzldmb
I don't look down too much, but sometimes you HAVE to.

i do my best not to look down, but i mean- if a girl has a nice body- and wears a low cut shirt- i mean come on- half of it is your fault- what are we supposed to NOT look?

oh yeah- and if there is a defined crease- or blatant cleavage- you can forget about it- we're gonna look- so is every other heterosexual male.

[Number27]

Ben, you are giving out WAY too much information. :lol

[StephDMBCrush]

ben never gives out too much info...he is just THAT honest...god bless him!

[mmazz72]

women know what they're doing. they're not stupid.

they walk around with their tits hanging out and expect us NOT to look?! gimme a break.

[StephDMBCrush]

yes, i agree, any girl who wears a low enough shirt to see cleavage is asking for it. any girl that says otherwise is lying. low cut shirts=attention, whether the girls thinks its positive or negative. if you can see cleavage, its not mistake.

[cutigerbtf]

LADIES- the question still stands...

we know you want us looking at your face/eyes, but do any of you like the fact that we're interested in your body? or is it just completely inconsiderate?

[scroll up for the full question]

[StephDMBCrush]

if guys dont maintain eye to eye contact, its alright. i dont think its inconsiderate. if girls are allowed to give the up and down gaze, then it should be ok for guys too.

[crushme8602]

i am very offended....
this guy likes me and continues to bother me 24/7
he IMs me everytime i come online, asks me to hang out every night, etc.
ive basically told him to fuck off... and ask how can anyone can 'fall' for someone theyve met once?
anyway, long story short, this kid has the nerve to say to me "most girls at this school want just sex or a decent bf, becasue your pretty and friendly and smile all the time, i thought you just wanted sex"
:eek: :confused: :eek: are you joking me????? do guys really think like that????
im speechless

[StephDMBCrush]

besides ladies, wouldnt you be kinda worried if the guy you were interested in NEVER DID look? its guys human nature..it wont hurt them to look! let em be!

[cutigerbtf]

thanks steph. the honesty is much appreciated.

it's like dogs are born with the ability to swim
guys are born with the desire to look at, and play with boobs. simple as that.

[crushme8602]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
LADIES- the question still stands...

we know you want us looking at your face/eyes, but do any of you like the fact that we're interested in your body? or is it just completely inconsiderate?

[scroll up for the full question]
for me, its not inconsiderate if you know the girl for a while and she is comfortable around you, of course every girl wants to hear she looks good, but also, some girls dont know how to reply to that...

[StephDMBCrush]

you are welcome, cutigerbtf. anytime.

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by crushme8602
i am very offended....
this guy likes me and continues to bother me 24/7
he IMs me everytime i come online, asks me to hang out every night, etc.
ive basically told him to fuck off... and ask how can anyone can 'fall' for someone theyve met once?
anyway, long story short, this kid has the nerve to say to me "most girls at this school want just sex or a decent bf, becasue your pretty and friendly and smile all the time, i thought you just wanted sex"
:eek: :confused: :eek: are you joking me????? do guys really think like that????
im speechless
<--- this guy doesn't.
guys don't really think that.

the quality ones don't anyway. sorry you can't get rid of that prick- but some guys are jerks, and have absolutely no clue.

[StephDMBCrush]

:lol...
ben...you are a regular Dr. Ruth. i guess wisdom is coming with age...you are helping lot of females here buddy! :)

[StephDMBCrush]

ok guys...
girls who are waiting until they are getting married to have sex...
old fashioned or admirable?

[Number27]

The girl that I like is waiting till marrige or being engaged to have sex with a guy. Is it wrong to find that sexy? Nope. More power to her for waiting, even if I am not a virgin.

[DMBeener]

I'll make my entry into this thread...I'll try to discuss some of the main points...here goes!

BEING LED ON - Some girls lead guys on. Some guys lead girls on. Those people who do absolutely SUCK. Fucking up with people's heads is not cool. But not everyone does it. In all honesty, I can't say as though I've led a guy on. If there is interest on my end, I'll let him know (although I'm not that great at doing so); if there's no interest, then buh bye.

MASTURBATION - I'll admit to "pushing my button." I'm not a fan of using foreign objects.

PJs FOR AM CLASSES - While I only did this once in college (just to say that I did it), from a female point of view, it gives us a few more minutes to sleep. (We females value sleep just as much as you males do!) "Making ourselves look nice" takes time, and for class, it's just not necessary. Guys, it doesn't take you guys nearly as long to get ready for the day, so let us slack off on occasion. You should like us for more than our outer beauty.

BISEXUAL THOUGHTS/TENDENCIES - I've never had them. I like penises, what can I say?

BLOWJOBS - I'm not the biggest fan of giving them, but if it makes him happy I will. If I give one, I don't *expect* anything in return, but something would be greatly appreciated.

GUYS and LOOKING - Sure, you can look at my body (as in a quick glance), but when your eyes come popping out of your head, there's a problem. I love eye contact. Nothing beats an incredible deep stare into a pair of gorgeous eyes.

I think that covers most of the bases (haha). That is all.

[StephDMBCrush]

ok guys...does the length of a girls hair make a difference? and do you prefer natural color or is dyed ok?

[willnole]

I like both dyed and natural hair, as long as it's not SO dyed that it starts to affect the texture.

I prefer hair in the neighborhood of just above the shoulders to 1/4 way down the back. Any longer and it's a pain.

[Tony Soprano]

What is it with girls who go out with guys just for their money? Recently I dated a girl who goes to school out of state and then came home to "play" relationship with me for a weekend. She coerced me to buy her drinks and expensive dinners along with breakfast and every other meal we ate. She ended up telling me that she had a fuckbuddy back in Arizona after this expensive weekend. What the hell is with that? Any female input would be great!

[cutigerbtf]

girls who wait- admirable, but i can still respect a girl who chooses not to wait- as long as it's withing a long/meaningful relationship.

hair color- i prefer natural. i absolutely do not like jet black hair. period.
hair length- i've seen girls with short hair look ultra sexy [like the girl on trading spaces] but length is nice also, when a girl dresses up for something formal- seeing her put it 'up' in a nice design always looks great to me. anything that goes down past your elbows is too long- and the elbows are pushing it. [personal preference of course]

[willnole]

"Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money"

[willnole]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf

hair length- i've seen girls with short hair look ultra sexy [like the girl on trading spaces]

Paige Davis is SUPER hot

[Number27]

Keep your hair short girls, it very, very sexy. Ben would bone Page (Girl in Trading Spaces) any day, right after I'm done with her. :lol

[StephDMBCrush]

any girl who uses you for your money is a beast and should be cut off from your life asap. money shouldnt be a big deal, unless you are a homeless hobo on roller skates...but dont be a total cheapskate either. i think girls should pay for stuff sometimes too. i dont agree with the whole "guys should pay for everything". girls need to suck it up and pay sometimes too. and vice versa. it keeps both parties in check and teaches you to appreciate the nice things the other person does. :)

[Number27]

Okay, question for the ladies. Do you like chivalrous guys? You know, the ones that always pay, open doors for you, pull the chair, etc.

[StephDMBCrush]

i think all that stuff is sweet, but i would feel bad for the guy who does all that stuff all the time. i think girls should want to spoil guys in the same respect that they spoil us. you have to show guys they are appreciated, and not walk all over their chivalry. girls who abuse those priveleges ruin it for the rest of us. so guys, if its your cup of tea to be like that, more power to ya. but dont waste it on a unappreciative girl. you gotta expect respect in return if you are good to them :)

[willnole]

Los, they like them, they just won't fuck them.

[Number27]

Dammit!
Give it up for my FL buddy. FL represent! :lol

[lzldmb]

Yeah I am still looking for a girl that will show similar respect, but in different ways. It's the small things that get me, ya know? I'll pay, open doors, surprise em, buy flowers, do all that, but I would love small things in return.

That really makes me feel like they care. Girls around these parts don't do that shit. I need to find someone older or something. At 18-19, it's all party and materialism.

[brand0n]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok guys...
girls who are waiting until they are getting married to have sex...
old fashioned or admirable?

definately admirable. that's the way to go.

[StephDMBCrush]

alright fellas...do you really like to cuddle or do you just do it to shut up the girl?

[mmazz72]

i seem to missed a lot here. ok...

waiting for marriage is admirable, but not my cup of tea. i like sex. often. so, i'll admire you...but i'll be bangin' someone else.

i don't care about natural or dyed hair. just like i don't care if breasts are fake or not. as long as it looks good, i don't care where it came from.

hair, i like long. the longer the better. i've seen girls with short hair that were attractive...but generally, i love long, think, curly/wavy hair. lots of body. simply beautiful.

plus, if you have short hair, you can't do the thing where you have your hair up in a bun, and then pull the pin, and it all comes flowing down, and you shake you head back and forth a couple times, and the hair flies all over.

i love that. :D

edit: oh, and crushme8602 - that dude's an asshole. he does not represent the rest of us. we don't think like that. have him killed soon.

[mmazz72]

cuddling's cool.

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by mmazz72
cuddling's cool.
spooning- also cool.

[StephDMBCrush]

how about forking? sporking?

[lzldmb]

Waiting is admirable. I wish I would have. But since I didn't, I won't again.

As for cuddling, it's a flippin riot especially if there aren't many overly sexual strings attached. Sex just kills a relationship. There needs to be puppy-love cuddling every once in a while. During a movie, during the night, during recess, whatever.

[lzldmb]

And what the hell is forking, sporking and spooning?

[mmazz72]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
how about forking? sporking?

porking? no wait.

[moe.ron]

Originally posted by mmazz72
are you kidding? i think the pj's look is awesome. what's hotter than a girl who's already ready for bed?? :p
Seriously girls that dont have any make up on and are wearing PJ's or sweat pants or something look super hot i think.

[Number27]

Cuddling is awesome.

[cutigerbtf]

spooning- conforming your body to the same shape as the girl/or guy- typically occurs in bed.

sitting in someone's lap is not spooning.

forking/sporking- just a joke steph made because i said 'spooning' silly steph ;)

[lzldmb]

Originally posted by moe.ron
Seriously girls that dont have any make up on and are wearing PJ's or sweat pants or something look super hot i think.
Definitely.

[lzldmb]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
spooning- conforming your body to the same shape as the girl/or guy- typically occurs in bed.

sitting in someone's lap is not spooning.

forking/sporking- just a joke steph made because i said 'spooning' silly steph ;)
Got ya. Spooning is.....................................hubbidah.

[StephDMBCrush]

haha...sorry if i caused confusion...i guess i am just a silly goose ;) spooning rules guys! girls love it! (you should all be making a mental note and saving to your hard drive)

[ProudestAnt]

Originally posted by moe.ron
Seriously girls that dont have any make up on and are wearing PJ's or sweat pants or something look super hot i think.
Dig it.:raven

[Haiku Jimi]

spoon in spoon...

[lzldmb]

Yeah these tips may be handy some day...


I love the tight black pants with tight white shirt....hair all messy and not down. Curled up on the couch, waiting for time to pass before they go to bed...oh god...

NO THONGS.

[Bartender84]

Cuddling is great. I didn't even know what spooning was until now. Always thought it was just an eating utensil and a song title

[Number27]

I love girls in thongs, bikini briefs and boy cut panties :)

[lzldmb]

NO THONGS. The rest are sweet.

NO THONGS. Even commando is pretty damn cool, although I like underwear.

[cutigerbtf]

I have no underwear preference on a girl-in terms of style.

something about a girl in plain white cotton panties and matching bra. damn.

I could chase a girl around the house in her underwear ALL DAY LONG. [white cotton panties and a plain white [tight] t-shirt would work just as well]

[lzldmb]

Oh Ben. My fantasy. That is it. White does it for me. Something about the essence of purity while she is in white bikini underwear and a tight white spaghetti strap shirt....hubbidah.

My wife HAS to wear that at least twice a week.

[cutigerbtf]

ladies- what's a good look for a guy. clothing wise.

gel in the hair- ok? no way?

[lzldmb]

Ooo. That's interesting. I want to know.

Gel is not cool, I mean I'm no girl, but I think it makes the guy look stupid. I think that's a faux pas, or should be at least.

[gbs3769]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok guys...
girls who are waiting until they are getting married to have sex...
old fashioned or admirable?

Admirable I suppose. I would never think of it as Old Fashioned. That sort of decision is not for me to make any judgement on. That is something people have to wait until they are comfortable with it. And that takes some people longer than others.

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok guys...does the length of a girls hair make a difference? and do you prefer natural color or is dyed ok?

I prefer natural color or slightly highlighted hair. The length does make a difference. But only in as much as I don't want a girl to have a butch haircut. For the most part, when my girlfriend has long hair for a while I love it when it is cut, but once she gets it cut I want it to be long again.

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
alright fellas...do you really like to cuddle or do you just do it to shut up the girl?

I like to cuddle.

- Matt (2)

[WineSnob]

A guy with nice hair is a plus, so if gel is necessary to get there, then so be it :)

[jprzybys]

Spooning is the most amazing thing ever. It is just awesome. Cuddling all day long on a cold sunday is also great, drifting in and out of sleep, mmmmmmmm.

[gbs3769]

Originally posted by lzldmb
NO THONGS. The rest are sweet.

What is bad about them?

- Matt (2)

[WineSnob]

Originally posted by gbs3769
What is bad about them?

- Matt (2)

They are gross!! Butt floss is WRONG.

[lzldmb]

Originally posted by gbs3769
What is bad about them?

- Matt (2)
I don't know, they are a HUGE turn off. I'm not a fan of slutty. They scream cheap, slutty, easy, no class. All that.

[jprzybys]

I like thongs, and, on the same note, steph, clean your box :lol


weird how this worked out;)

[gbs3769]

Originally posted by lzldmb
I don't know, they are a HUGE turn off. I'm not a fan of slutty. They scream cheap, slutty, easy, no class. All that.

I don't think that they always scream slutty or cheap. I think it depends on who is wearing them and when they are wearing them.

- Matt (2)

[Brad]

why does a girl who is not seeing anyone wear a ring on her ring finger, and only her ring finger?

[Number27]

Yea, thongs only seem slutty on certain girls...its how they present themselves. I've seen girls who didn't fit the "thong" image wear them, because their attire called for it...like tight clothes.

[cutigerbtf]

do the ladies ever see a guy and just think:

"boy would I like to f*ck him"

[Brad]

yes they do.

[StephDMBCrush]

hell yes...haha

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok guys...does the length of a girls hair make a difference? and do you prefer natural color or is dyed ok?

Depends on the girl. I normally have a preference for shoulder length, although some girls can rock the short hair and look really good. It's like a baseball cap on the right girl. I've never found excessively long (middle of the back) hair to be attractive. And for the most part, natural color.

[Brad]

i love hair. i almost always like for the hair to be down, natural color (or at least look natural). it has to smell good. usually hair that is down to the upper quarter of the back is perfect. anywhere from there up to the shoulders.

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by Brad
i love hair. i almost always like for the hair to be down, natural color (or at least look natural). it has to smell good. usually hair that is down to the upper quarter of the back is perfect. anywhere from there up to the shoulders.

Yes! Leave the hair down.

[Brad]

and i agree with the right girl in a baseball cap. that is most def hott.

[StephDMBCrush]

well how do you know if you are the right girl to wear a baseball cap?

[Brad]

if you look good in one.

[gbs3769]

Post a pic of you wearing a hat and we will tell you.

- Matt (2)

[Brad]

word.

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by gbs3769
Post a pic of you wearing a hat and we will tell you.

- Matt (2)

[Brad]

i think its awesome when a cute girl has her ponytail through the hole in the back of the hat. so hott.

[StephDMBCrush]

hmmm...i dont think i have any pics like that on hand...all i have is naked ones...whats a girl to do?!

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by Brad
i think its awesome when a cute girl has her ponytail through the hole in the back of the hat. so hott.

Yes it is, and even wearing it backwards from time to time.

[StephDMBCrush]

how about sideways?

[Brad]

you and i have a lot in common. and sideways is kinda dorky. thats ok when you are trying to be a dork. no other time.

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
how about sideways?

Not so much, no. Looks retarded on everybody.

[StephDMBCrush]

haha...i would never wear a hat sideways..no worries guys...just trying to be smart

[gbs3769]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
hmmm...i dont think i have any pics like that on hand...all i have is naked ones...whats a girl to do?!

You could post those too... But in all seriousness, take one of you in a hat and post it, we'll tell you if you look good or not.

- Matt (2)

[StephDMBCrush]

well i will have to borrow the roomie's digital camera later... so do some girls just look really really bad in hats...i would never want to be "that girl"

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
well i will have to borrow the roomie's digital camera later... so do some girls just look really really bad in hats...i would never want to be "that girl"

Some do look bad, but if you can make it work...damn.

[gbs3769]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
well i will have to borrow the roomie's digital camera later... so do some girls just look really really bad in hats...i would never want to be "that girl"

Yes. There are some girls that don't look good in hats at all. But most like fine-great.

- Matt (2)

[StephDMBCrush]

ok guys..so if i girl is really talented...like if she can sing, dance, etc...does that make any difference?

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok guys..so if i girl is really talented...like if she can sing, dance, etc...does that make any difference?

Well everyone has talents. None of my ex's could sing or dance, So it doesn't to me, but dancers tend to have nice bodies...

[StephDMBCrush]

ok...heres a good one...
do all guys really just wanna have sex with their female friends? ie...the "when harry met sally" theory

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok...heres a good one...
do all guys really just wanna have sex with their female friends? ie...the "when harry met sally" theory

No. Not all. Some I do, some I don't. I have this one friend who reminds me of my sister, and that would just be fucked up.

[JustinRIT]

Ok, I have one. How much does the "little things" matter. I can't really open doors and pull out chairs, etc on dates, and it always bugs me that I can't, but I wonder if I blow it out of proportion.

[mmazz72]

why can't you?

i mean, i don't really know how important it is to them, but it certainly can't hurt to do it now and then.

[katedid81]

Originally posted by JustinRIT
Ok, I have one. How much does the "little things" matter. I can't really open doors and pull out chairs, etc on dates, and it always bugs me that I can't, but I wonder if I blow it out of proportion. why can't you?

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by mmazz72
why can't you?

i mean, i don't really know how important it is to them, but it certainly can't hurt to do it now and then.

I have a disability and can't walk (I've said that a few times here, but no worries). More often that not, I just end up creating an awkward situation.

[Third Floor]

Originally posted by JustinRIT
I have a disability and can't walk (I've said that a few times here, but no worries). More often that not, I just end up creating an awkward situation. if thats the case, then if a girl still expects you to open doors and pull out chairs, thats fucked up.

[Number27]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok...heres a good one...
do all guys really just wanna have sex with their female friends? ie...the "when harry met sally" theory
some of my female friends. I got a lot of them who are extremely hot, and somehow wound up being my friends. some are totally out of my league, so I can't do anything about it.

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by Third Floor
if thats the case, then if a girl still expects you to open doors and pull out chairs, thats fucked up.

Yeah I know. But I mean, I wonder...like I can't do those things. I'd like to, and other things, about having to get the chair in and out of the car. I mean, I can't help it, but it bugs the shit out of me. And I dunno if it really hurts my chances or not.

[katedid81]

Originally posted by Third Floor
if thats the case, then if a girl still expects you to open doors and pull out chairs, thats fucked up. word up to that

[katedid81]

Originally posted by JustinRIT
Yeah I know. But I mean, I wonder...like I can't do those things. I'd like to, and other things, about having to get the chair in and out of the car. I mean, I can't help it, but it bugs the shit out of me. And I dunno if it really hurts my chances or not. hurts your chances with the superficial girls

[Third Floor]

Originally posted by JustinRIT
Yeah I know. But I mean, I wonder...like I can't do those things. I'd like to, and other things, about having to get the chair in and out of the car. I mean, I can't help it, but it bugs the shit out of me. And I dunno if it really hurts my chances or not. if it does. then its complete shit.

[Number27]

Originally posted by JustinRIT
Yeah I know. But I mean, I wonder...like I can't do those things. I'd like to, and other things, about having to get the chair in and out of the car. I mean, I can't help it, but it bugs the shit out of me. And I dunno if it really hurts my chances or not.
it shouldn't at all. like kate said, it hurts your chances with superficial girls. they know you can't do that stuff, so they won't expect it. just being yourself should do the trick.

[Number27]

Question for the gals: When I whisper Spanish to you in your ear, do you find that sexy?

[Tony Soprano]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok...heres a good one...
do all guys really just wanna have sex with their female friends? ie...the "when harry met sally" theory

I have never understood how two people of the opposite sex can be friends anyways. One of the two people has to have some sort of interest in the other. I just don't get it.

[mmazz72]

Originally posted by JustinRIT
I have a disability and can't walk (I've said that a few times here, but no worries). More often that not, I just end up creating an awkward situation.

ah. you know, i actually thought that after i posted, but i wasn't sure.

anyway, yeah. what everyone else already said. you shouldn't be expected to pull out chairs and open doors in your situation, and you certainly shouldn't feel bad about it.

if they have a problem with that, then they're fucked up and you want nothing to do with them anyway.

[Bartender84]

I have many female friends that I consider just friends. Hell, the majority of my friends are female. I don't know how it works

[mmazz72]

Originally posted by Tony Soprano
I have never understood how two people of the opposite sex can be friends anyways. One of the two people has to have some sort of interest in the other. I just don't get it.

you don't have any female friends? or you do, but you've fucked them all?

there can be interest, it just isn't acted on. i have plenty of female friends. sure, there are some i'd like to sleep with, and some i wouldn't. who knows? some of them may even want to sleep with me...but it doesn't matter. you just don't do it.

i mean, there are a few exceptions, where friends have actually gotten together and became lovers and more. but, generally, i don't think it's a good idea.

[Tony Soprano]

Actually come to think of it.... I have no female friends that I talk to on a regular basis. Usually just girls where the conversations consist of "how ya been" and "who are you dating?".

[nutter58]

geez, louise.

[StephDMBCrush]

i think the spanish in the ear would be pretty cool...and then i would translate what you were saying...i am THIS CLOSE to being fluent in ole espanol :)

[dmbfan715]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
do the ladies ever see a guy and just think:

"boy would I like to f*ck him"

yes. :)

[dm40band]

this is a badass thread.... do i have a question? let me think of one...

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
i think all that stuff is sweet, but i would feel bad for the guy who does all that stuff all the time. i think girls should want to spoil guys in the same respect that they spoil us. you have to show guys they are appreciated, and not walk all over their chivalry. girls who abuse those priveleges ruin it for the rest of us. so guys, if its your cup of tea to be like that, more power to ya. but dont waste it on a unappreciative girl. you gotta expect respect in return if you are good to them :)

Good way to put it.

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by willnole
Los, they like them, they just won't fuck them.

That is so not true.

My husband has been opening doors for me for 20 years and I have been fucking him for well , almost that long.

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by MediumatLarge
A guy with nice hair is a plus, so if gel is necessary to get there, then so be it :)

Good Answer, Just not so much that it doesn't move.

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
do the ladies ever see a guy and just think:

"boy would I like to f*ck him"

OH yes, most definitely

[dancergirl40ky]

Justin, you shouldn't worry about those things, if a girl is going out with you I am sure she realizes your abilities. There are other small chivalrous things you can do , to make up the difference. Flowers, candy, just decent manners that show her she would come first.

[gbs3769]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok...heres a good one...
do all guys really just wanna have sex with their female friends? ie...the "when harry met sally" theory

No they don't. Sure some might, but not all of us.

- Matt (2)

[StephDMBCrush]

guys...would you rather be swept off you feet or do you want to be doing the sweeping?

[Number27]

I much rather vacuum. Sweeping takes too much effort. :lol

All joking aside...I much rather do the sweeping, but that rarely happens.

[StephDMBCrush]

:lol...that was a very smart ass comment...thumbs up, you beat me to it. you're a man after my own heart :)

[Number27]

:lol My sarcasm and smart ass comments is the reason why I have so many friends.

[StephDMBCrush]

^ditto...when i lose my sense of humor, i will be one lonely girl...

[Number27]

PM me when that happens, I'll get you laughing again :)

[StephDMBCrush]

^hey buddy...clean out your box for cryin out loud :)

[Number27]

Its clean.:)

[StephDMBCrush]

^thanks :)

[gbs3769]

Yeah I would also rather do the sweeping. Just doesn't seem right for a girl to be sweeping me off my feet.

- Matt (2)

[Number27]

And if they do sweep you off your feet, man, that is one butchy girl. :lol

[DMBeener]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
OH yes, most definitely

I'll second that notion!

[cutigerbtf]

LADIES: why do you think it is ok to just grab a piece of food off of my plate? I ordered what I ordered because i wanted to eat it.
I've noticed many of the ladies just taking food off people's plates. what's the deal? I would most likely give you what you ask for-unless it's my last bite of steak or something- but please don't grab. we're usually paying anyway ;)

kind of a rant- but, you can deal :)

[StephDMBCrush]

haha...i never take anything without asking...but some girls are just different...it depends on the girl. some of us are beasts, some arent. the little differences between us.

[StephDMBCrush]

do guys look forward to getting married and having families, or is it just girls?

[Number27]

I don't mind girls taking food off my plate

[mmazz72]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
do guys look forward to getting married and having families, or is it just girls?

i definitely do. i can't wait to marry my fiancee and start a family.

unfortunately, i'm just not sure when that's going to be able to happen.

[lzldmb]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
do guys look forward to getting married and having families, or is it just girls?
At my age, it's hard to say this without wondering if I'm full o' shit, but I look forward to it. I think having that commitment and hardcore trust would really make me feel more at ease, ya know? Waking up next to somebody every morning knowing that she reciprocates all your feelings couldn't do anything but make the day look better.

But that's just me....at 18/19.

[slfairless]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
do guys look forward to getting married and having families, or is it just girls?

some... and others, like myself, are scared to death of it!

[kyforlife]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
do the ladies ever see a guy and just think:

"boy would I like to f*ck him"

definetly... and if i have a friend with me, i dont just think it, i tell her too.

[kyforlife]

here's a question for you guys... can you be in a "friends with benefits" type of relationship with an ex and not still care about her?

and would you still do the romantic things you used to do for her and expect her not to get attached??

(not that this is personal experience or anything;) )

[marlin1805]

when a girl says that she has not been in the mood lately because she is stressed out ... what the fuck does that mean???

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
do guys look forward to getting married and having families, or is it just girls?

I want a kid at some point, not now, but someday.

[Bartender84]

I am definitely looking forward to getting married and starting a family. Not now of course, but eventually

[ljm18]

Originally posted by marlin1805
when a girl says that she has not been in the mood lately because she is stressed out ... what the fuck does that mean???

maybe she is just too stressed and wired to have sex and relax.

[kyforlife]

Originally posted by marlin1805
when a girl says that she has not been in the mood lately because she is stressed out ... what the fuck does that mean???

i couldnt tell you.... cause that relieves stress for me....
have u tried bringing things up all sweet and romanitc like to maybe relax her a little first???

[Number27]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
do guys look forward to getting married and having families, or is it just girls?
Yea, I look forward to getting married, and having kids. Shit, I am jealous of Freddie for having a wonderful family right now. The good kind of jealous.
Originally posted by kyforlife
here's a question for you guys... can you be in a "friends with benefits" type of relationship with an ex and not still care about her?

and would you still do the romantic things you used to do for her and expect her not to get attached??

(not that this is personal experience or anything;) )
I do that constantly with the ex. Even if you don't have a friendship of benefits, hanging out with them and doing something will trigger those feelings back again.

[marlin1805]

Originally posted by kyforlife
i couldnt tell you.... cause that relieves stress for me....
have u tried bringing things up all sweet and romanitc like to maybe relax her a little first???
of course ... been together for 4 years and she is backing off strong ... no affection no nothing. Just not too sure if that means that I should back off or if that means that I should pick up the slack. Tough one huh?

[marlin1805]

there is one thing that I have learned ... trying to figure out women will never work ... just be yourself and make sure that you are happy cause in the end thats all you have.

[nutter58]

Originally posted by marlin1805
there is one thing that I have learned ... trying to figure out women will never work ... just be yourself and make sure that you are happy cause in the end thats all you have.
don't spend your life trying to make someone else happy, if you're not happy yourself. just won't work out.

[Number27]

For the longest time, I wanted to be Mel Gibson in What Women Want because he had that awesome gift. :lol

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by Number27
For the longest time, I wanted to be Mel Gibson in What Women Want because he had that awesome gift. :lol

That would be really helpful at times.

[Love_love_Love]

i was just talking to my ex about this yesterday. we try to keep what we do on the downlow..but last night he called me saying that someone asked him about us...and we both agreed that were friends..if we go out, and more happens, its just something thats between the two of us. and we agree that eachother is the only one we really do those kinds of things with.

so youd kind of wonder why we're not still together...?

[cutigerbtf]

LADIES: do any of you ever visit the 'boobs!' thread? :)

[gbs3769]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
LADIES: do any of you ever visit the 'boobs!' thread? :)

Of course they do. Some of them even post in there.

- Matt (2)

[Bartenderpls]

first post ever on ants - read through this particular thread at work though today (this and the boob one), and found it interesting. most of the guy questions revolve around sex... I remember one guy asking about personality of a female being an attractive attribute, then a few posts later it was "boobs or butt"... lol

Althought I whole heartedly agree that physical attraction is what initially drives the opposite sex to make a move.

[JustinRIT]

boobs or butt what a female question, I believe. And you looked through the boob thread at work? That would've gotten em fired

[Bartenderpls]

--Originally posted by MediumatLarge
So guys, Boobs or Butt?? (obviously you want both, but which is the most important?)--

Don't know.. the post appeared to be from a dude.

And I wanted to comment on the make-up question - although it's dead - I work in an office. I guess it's expected that we wear make-up to appear presentable... albeit, an idiotic excuse - accceptible and expected in a professional setting - I wear make-up - hey it's just a part of everyday :) I use to hate lipstick, til one day I decided to wear it, and got complimented tremendously - peace - perhaps it's a lifestyle thing.

[JustinRIT]

I'm pretty sure MediumAtLarge is female, ask the tabasco kid to be sure :)