Ask the opposite sex

[StephDMBCrush]

wow...i was maid of honor at my aunt's wedding...and when my uncle started crying, my aunt started crying...and i just couldnt help but let tears roll down my face...

[dancergirl40ky]

She didn't want to mess up her make up.

I always cry at weddings, I just think they are so touching and I am such a romantic, but I didn't cry at mine. Go figure.

[dancergirl40ky]

If not having control of your emotions is a sign of weakness, than if you punch a wall or something because you are angry it is a show of weakness too?

[RuggerSelkie]

Originally posted by marlin1805
why didn't she cry?

Thanks for poppin' that up Stace. I have no idea why she didn't cry. I didn't cry when my daughter was born, but I was more worried about my wife because of all she had been through.

[katedid81]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
so when your first child is born, do you think its ok to cry? or when you are getting married, proposing, etc? are tears appropriate then? i'm answering.


i am pretty damn sure i'll cry when i have my first baby

not sure about propsal and wedding though...

[dancergirl40ky]

I cried at proposal, not at wedding.

Didn't cry at conception, cried at birth. :)

[RuggerSelkie]

But you may have cried out. ;)

[dancergirl40ky]

Oh yes, I probably did. I usually do, Thank God.

[dancergirl40ky]

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[MelissaDMBfan]

I didn't cry at all when my son was born. I was VERY VERY suprised that I didn't because I am such an emotional person. I was pretty drugged up at the time and pretty much had no idea what was going on. My ex did cry though.

[dmb1spe]

I cry when I masturbate...



























I need two tssues.
:)

[dancergirl40ky]

eeeeeew - why? :)

[cutigerbtf]

there is something about the curve that the base of the breast makes- that is just amazing to me. its beauty and allure is indescribable- but this pic shows it perfectly...


http://www.clemson.edu/~btfowle/thecurve.jpg

would you guys agree?

[dancergirl40ky]

4 words - boob job - air brush

[angelces]

did you know there are more nerve endings in the curve then there are on the nipple?

an ex told me that, totally true, he used to drive me crazy with that....

[dancergirl40ky]

yeah, it's not all about the nipple.

[angelces]

exactly, and they're not radio knobs either. ;)

[cutigerbtf]

i was just saying i like the curvature of the underside of the breast- that is all.

[dancergirl40ky]

OH come on , you just like breasts period, any way shape or form. Boobies, Boobies, Boobies. It's a playground.

[richpeace]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
If not having control of your emotions is a sign of weakness, than if you punch a wall or something because you are angry it is a show of weakness too?

You bring up a good point and even though it probably IS a sign of weakness it is more socially acceptable among men.

Rich

[Brad]

i had actually picked that up somewhere.

[Number27]

hmm, so the curve is the key. gotta try that out tonight. :D

[dancergirl40ky]

Just don't go straight for the nipple, stomach, rib cage, sides, armpits, don't go straight in. It makes us feel like that is all we are.

[Number27]

i take my sweet time;)

[angelces]

light fingertips on the curve gets my crazy!

[Brad]

<--is taking notes.

[StephDMBCrush]

^good for you :)

[Brad]

yaaaaaaaaaaaay

[StephDMBCrush]

^found any guinea pigs?

[Brad]

guinea pigs? for what?

[mrottondo]

Originally posted by angelces
did you know there are more nerve endings in the curve then there are on the nipple?
oh yes i know that :D and sheeeeeee loves it :D

[StephDMBCrush]

to experiment what you were taking notes on earlier...:)

[dmb1spe]

Question for the ladies...

Do you expect the guy to pay... or is it just sincerely appreciated?

[dmb1spe]

For dinner, etc... not for "stuff" .... perverts :)

[StephDMBCrush]

I think its very nice when a guy pays...But I wouldnt want him to have to pay all the time...I would wanna pay for stuff every once in awhile, to show him he is appreciated as well! And reimbursement is always negotiable ;)

[cutigerbtf]

that's nice of you steph.

I was raised on the 'guy pays' principle. not for EVERYTHING- but for the vast majority.

if i'm trying to take a girl out- and she wants to pay- i feel like she's denying me of being a gentleman [i know that's not her goal- but just going on how i was raised- that's how it seems]. i'm working on being more flexible and open- but it's nice to treat someone:)

[StephDMBCrush]

Thanks Ben...I do what I can ;)

He really is a true gentleman girls. We went to lunch before the Dave concert and he payed for my lunch...Granted I was only allowed to order from the children's menu...
Just kidding..Ben's a true gent :)

[dancergirl40ky]

I think if a guy ask you out on a date, then he should pay. If you have been hanging out for a while I wouldn't see anything wrong with paying for some things. It just depend on what your doing. If he says "Let me take you to lunch", then I would assume he was paying. If the girls asks " Hey , want to catch a movie, let her get the tickets and you get the popcorn"....

[cutigerbtf]

i agree with stacy's thinking^

[StephDMBCrush]

stacy...i concur

[greenpick41]

If I got this girl's phone number on Monday and I wanted to call her to see if she wanted to hang out sometime, how long is too long to wait to call her?

[dancergirl40ky]

Call her now. or tommorrow

[StephDMBCrush]

^now might be the golden time buddy...those things have expiration dates...

[dancergirl40ky]

Greenpick41, I was born and raised in Louisville. Graduated from YPAS and Manual High

[StephDMBCrush]

ok guys...do you feel emasculated when the girl drives?

[greenpick41]

haha thanks for the advice, I'll make sure and get on that tomorrow. Thats awesome, i've been here for 10 years now I'm a junior at St. X this year.

[dancergirl40ky]

yeah , I think they do. My husband hates it when I drive.

[cutigerbtf]

strike while the iron is hot... or something.

and this is semi- off topic- but here goes

a friend of mine once told me - guys have the 'approaching a girl you don't know' figured all wrong. it's a win-win situation.

1- you introduce yourself, and she is totally receptive and friendly- you're golden- and now you can relax- and develop a new friendship.
2- she laughs in your face and rolls her eyes/treats you like poo. this is also good because now you can label her as a stuck up hussie- and stop worrying about her...and you can move on :)

[dancergirl40ky]

Brother in law graduated St X. I dated some of those guys, always known for a good time.

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok guys...do you feel emasculated when the girl drives?

no way jose. :) I get nervous sometimes... but not emasculated.

steph drove us from milledgeville to ATl for dave- then back to milledgeville- 4 hr job- excellent quality time there. - thanks steph ;)

[StephDMBCrush]

haha...thanks ben...i do what i can
so were you ever nervous?!

[dancergirl40ky]

I think I have always been the friendly receptive kind. I really dont think I was ever stuck up to a guy. Hussie eh maybe.

[StephDMBCrush]

well i guess the only reason why guys wouldnt want the girl to drive is because it basically nixes the chance that they are gonna get road head...am i right?

[cutigerbtf]

what! ^ road head? not everyone's mind is constantly on sex ;)

and steph- i wasn't nervous once- you did well. :)

[StephDMBCrush]

:lol
well i am sure it crosses guys minds...
and i am glad my driving skills were up to par :)
(except for maybe when we got lost in the ghetto...but i guess it never hurts to take a detour joyride) :)

[greenpick41]

Sex is on my mind all day long. For example, right now I am thinking, "holy cow would I like to be taking part in sexual activities with a good looking girl right now."

[StephDMBCrush]

ok guys...
another guy told me this thought...i just wanted some feedback...
"all girls look the same in the dark"...this pertains to random hook-ups...like when you really need a fix, you will take anything you can get sorta thing...?
am i making sense? :lol

[cutigerbtf]

all girls do not look the same in the dark- especially since your eyes adjust to low levels of light- your pupils become enlarged- and your ability to see increases with prolonged 'lack of light' so you'd eventually be able to see her pretty well.

plus- when i hook up- my hands are at least on the girl somewhere- so i'm still going to touch her

i will not take 'anything i can get' - quality over quantity for this guy

[Brad]

yep. perfect sense. and i agree too.

[Brad]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
all girls do not look the same in the dark- especially since your eyes adjust to low levels of light- your pupils become enlarged- and your ability to see increases with prolonged 'lack of light' so you'd eventually be able to see her pretty well.

plus- when i hook up- my hands are at least on the girl somewhere- so i'm still going to touch her

i will not take 'anything i can get' - quality over quantity for this guy one hand on either side of her on the bed, eyes closed.

[StephDMBCrush]

^brad...can you explain?

[cutigerbtf]

brad that's horrible.

[:lol in secret]

[Brad]

sure.

[StephDMBCrush]

:lol :lol
lmfao!!

[Brad]

:D

[StephDMBCrush]

so should I call you brad or van gogh?

[Brad]

brad, i have both my ears.

[StephDMBCrush]

ok brad :)
you are an amazing talent

[Brad]

thanks. but you havent seen the majority of my talent. ;)

[StephDMBCrush]

indulge me :)

[DebbieS]

wow Brad, you're short but, uhm, big at the same time :lol

[StephDMBCrush]

:lol
my sentiments exactly Debbie

[Brad]

i gotta go to bed ladies. night. sweet dreams.

[smiles150]

What a great thread! I got lazy and had to stop reading at page 11 but here's another girl here to answer any questions I can candidly :)

[dmbecky]

i <3 penis.

[dm40band]

Originally posted by dmbecky
i <3 penis.

that's very interesting.... :p

i must say the best are the Ladies Ants!!!! you guys rule ;)

[MelissaDMBfan]

Originally posted by dmbecky
i <3 penis.


I love penis too! We have something in common :)

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
ok guys...
another guy told me this thought...i just wanted some feedback...
"all girls look the same in the dark"...this pertains to random hook-ups...like when you really need a fix, you will take anything you can get sorta thing...?
am i making sense? :lol

I think the guy you were speaking to was just being crude. I believe that most guys do have a little descetion about who they have sex with. I guess if you were in complete and total darkness it would feel pretty much the same, but who wants to have sex with out touching and exploring. Might as well just whack off.

[goodneighbor]

Originally posted by Beefsteak1138
Dirty Sanchez and Cleveland Steamers...for or against these?

4 dogs in a bathtub!:p

[dancergirl40ky]

:confused:

[Spicy McHaggis]

I have a question about gifts. My friend turns 21 in December. By then we'll have known each other a year and a half. We're very close and I'm hoping we'll finally get together soon. I'm definitely sending her flowers on the actual day. And I'm gonna write something really nice on the card. But I'm having a hard time with the gift.

I want to get her something nice/meaningful without coming on too strong. Any ideas? I've been thinking about maybe some perfume/bath stuff or a bracelet that's not too relationshippy.

I know it's early but I want to be on the lookout for the right thing. Ladies, what do you think?

[angelces]

get her a charm bracelet with a charm for the big day.

[dancergirl40ky]

Perfume doesn't last forever. Jewelry does. What about an ankle bracelet? I like bracelets, but I love anklets cause bracelet always gets in my way. There are also some beautiful watches out now. Anne Klien at Dillards has these really nice bracelet watches. Not too pricey.

[angelces]

fossil has nice watches too, in the 50 - 80 range, nice but not expensive. Just don't go too fancy, getting a BIG gift can be really overwhelming.

[StephDMBCrush]

but if she already has a nice watch, maybe you should think of something different...

[StephDMBCrush]

guys...what is it about girls making out thats cool?

[dancergirl40ky]

Good question, did you just leave the boobs thread?

[Haiku Jimi]

I don't find it that cool...

*ducks head*

No but really...its only a turn on sometimes. Can't explain it. Personally, I'd rather be kissed than watch them kiss...

I guess its just fun to see sometimes.

[bdb23]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
guys...what is it about girls making out thats cool?

It's the hope that it will lead to more and that we would be invited to partake in the activities. Kind of like when guys get excited duing a cat-fight with girls. We're hoping you rip each others' clothes off and begin making out, etc.

[dancergirl40ky]

:lol :lol :lol Does that really happen?

[slfairless]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
:lol :lol :lol Does that really happen?

:lol

no but a guy can have dreams right?

[mrottondo]

Originally posted by bdb23
It's the hope that it will lead to more and that we would be invited to partake in the activities. Kind of like when guys get excited duing a cat-fight with girls. We're hoping you rip each others' clothes off and begin making out, etc. :lol the man hit the nail in the head :lol

[dancergirl40ky]

"oh you bitch, I am going to scratch your eyes out"
"ow, you grabbed my boob"
"oh I'm sorry , let me kiss it and make it better"
"Look at all these guys watching, lets make them suffer by leaving without them."

[slfairless]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
"oh you bitch, I am going to scratch your eyes out"
"ow, you grabbed my boob"
"oh I'm sorry , let me kiss it and make it better"
"Look at all these guys watching, lets make them suffer by leaving without them."

see! see! That's how it works in our heads ;)

[Number27]

i dont mind when a girl drives.

[slfairless]

Girls...

What would you rather have:

An average looking sweet reserved guy who is sooo nice to you but has one speed in bed -- dead.

Or

A hot spunky guy who you see as a challenge but rocks your world in the bedroom?

[angelces]

hot spunky guy. I've had both, I prefer the second over the first.

(and where have you been haven't seen you online in a while).

[slfairless]

Originally posted by angelces
hot spunky guy. I've had both, I prefer the second over the first.

(and where have you been haven't seen you online in a while).

I know... girls always talk about how they just want that uber sweet guy to sweep them off their feet but that uber nice guy always gets his nuts stepped on when the girl get's bored with him.

(I've been around... cillin like a villain.)

[dancergirl40ky]

My world must be rocked, or I am out.

[slfairless]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
My world must be rocked, or I am out.

:lol

And I know that's right!

[LipsBurnWild]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
My world must be rocked, or I am out.
This woman is smart! :D

[angelces]

well just because the guy is uber nice doesn't have anything to do with what he does in the bed room. Nice in real life is not the same as nice in bed.

[slfairless]

True. True. But the question is based on you picking between the soft sensitive man who is all about missionary jack-hammering and the hot spunky guy who will can make your hands stand up with one kiss to the side of your neck. Feel me?

[angelces]

sure I'll feel you...

I mean I feel ya, I stick with my original response then.

[slfairless]

Originally posted by angelces
sure I'll feel you...

I mean I feel ya, I stick with my original response then.

:lol

[angelces]

question, have you ever been broken up with, and then a couple of months later, as you are starting to get over the person, they come back and tell you that they made the biggest mistake of their entire life and they want to try to win you back.

... if so did you take them back?

My ex is trying, and now I'mjust waiting to see if he's gonna put his money where his mouth is.

[StephDMBCrush]

it depends on why you broke up in the first place...

[angelces]

distance, just distance Atlanta, is not exactly near NJ.

[slfairless]

Originally posted by angelces
question, have you ever been broken up with, and then a couple of months later, as you are starting to get over the person, they come back and tell you that they made the biggest mistake of their entire life and they want to try to win you back.

... if so did you take them back?

My ex is trying, and now I'mjust waiting to see if he's gonna put his money where his mouth is.

Did he, coincidently, just find out that you are seeing someone else? A lot of times guys like to think the grass might be greener on the other side but when they find out someone new is banging their girl they quick and try to snatch them back up. He might be sincere about it but be careful because at some time down the road -- it might be greener on the other side again.

No I won't get back with an ex -- IMO, if it didn't work the first time it won't work the second time. People don't change... just alter their behavior temporarily.

[StephDMBCrush]

hmmmmmmm i dunno...
i could understand maybe if you were a car drive away....but thats kinda far.......i dunno...you got me there...
how do YOU feel?

[slfairless]

distance is nothing kids... crushes have gas money ;)

[digitaldj]

Originally posted by slfairless
Girls...

What would you rather have:

An average looking sweet reserved guy who is sooo nice to you but has one speed in bed -- dead.

Or

A hot spunky guy who you see as a challenge but rocks your world in the bedroom?


How sweet it is to be sweet and reserved and not dead and hot and spunky and not a challenge. Yeah I got it all.:D

-Adam

[angelces]

he lives in georgia, I live in NJ, he was supposed to move, I was supposed to move, then was supposed to move.

In the end neither of us wanted to leave everything, he couldn't deal any more and ended it.

Now he wants to move up and try again. I'm trying to decide if i want to let him.

[slfairless]

Originally posted by angelces
Now he wants to move up and try again. I'm trying to decide if i want to let him.

if he is serious about it he will move up.

[angelces]

which means I continue as before, waiting to see if he'll put his money where his mouth is.

[slfairless]

sounds like you have this all figured out then :D

[angelces]

ahhh if life were only that simple...

[slfairless]

I know I know :D

EDIT: Nobody has any more questions?

[GordonShumway]

for the ladies?

What is the best approach for asking for things sexually? I mean like things you want to try, but don't want to seem like a freak to her?

[Number27]

Girls-- do you feel dissapointed when your man won't/can't dance?

Guys--why don't you like to dance? I'll tell you why I don't...because I can't and when I try to, I have no rhythm and look like a fool...

[slfairless]

I hope you don't mind a little advise from a guy...

Everything is easier in the heat of the moment. Get her right on the verge of loosing her mind in eternal bliss and she will do anything you want... as long as you promise to keep her feeling that good.

[slfairless]

Originally posted by Number27
Girls-- do you feel dissapointed when your man won't/can't dance?

Guys--why don't you like to dance? I'll tell you why I don't...because I can't and when I try to, I have no rhythm and look like a fool...

:lol

Most guys are just too affraid to find their rhythm... everyone has at least a little bit of rhythm. Personally, I don't care much for dancing anymore but that's just because it's not fun to me anymore. Every now and then when I need too, I can shake my ass with the best of them though... and you know chicks are watching to see what guys can move their hips -- yeah, that's not so they can play chess later ;)

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by GordonShumway
for the ladies?

What is the best approach for asking for things sexually? I mean like things you want to try, but don't want to seem like a freak to her?

How long has the relationship been going on?

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by Number27
Girls-- do you feel dissapointed when your man won't/can't dance?

Guys--why don't you like to dance? I'll tell you why I don't...because I can't and when I try to, I have no rhythm and look like a fool...

Are you going to get jealous when I dance with someone else, cause my as has to dance?

[GordonShumway]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
How long has the relationship been going on?


We have known each other for 3 years, but have been active much less than that 1 1/2 years.

Sometimes she shocks me with things and vice versa, but for some reason I still feel a little odd asking her to do things that I liked in previous relationships or something I have read in maxim.

I usually will just dog ear the pages in the bathroom and she will usually read it and I don't have to say anything. Thats pretty nice.

[angelces]

i've been with guys that won't dance and I've been with guys that can't dance but do anyway, and the guys that try are much more fun then the guys that stand on the side lines.

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by Number27
Girls-- do you feel dissapointed when your man won't/can't dance?

Guys--why don't you like to dance? I'll tell you why I don't...because I can't and when I try to, I have no rhythm and look like a fool...

I don't dance, because I can't really. But I wouldn't get mad if I was in a relationship and she chose to dance with someone else. As long as she comes home to me.

[DMBfan41]

I'm a guy that likes to get his groove on even though he's got no idea what he's doin!

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by GordonShumway
We have known each other for 3 years, but have been active much less than that 1 1/2 years.

Sometimes she shocks me with things and vice versa, but for some reason I still feel a little odd asking her to do things that I liked in previous relationships or something I have read in maxim.

I usually will just dog ear the pages in the bathroom and she will usually read it and I don't have to say anything. Thats pretty nice.

Well that sounds like a pretty good way to go about it, I guess it would depend on what it was you wanted to try. I don't want to get too nosey.

[angelces]

you should talk about having a fantasy night, where you each get to put 3 fantasies in a hat, and you each get to pick one and talk about and hopefully carry it out, no mocking allowed. usually unless your tastes gravitate towards the extremes I would be game for this type of scenario, especially considering you've been together for 3 years.

[dancergirl40ky]

Thats a clever idea.

[angelces]

Thanks :D

[mrottondo]

i stand on the sideline and i'm proud of it :D....when i go out to some of those places...which may be like..1 or 2 times a year..

[GordonShumway]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
Well that sounds like a pretty good way to go about it, I guess it would depend on what it was you wanted to try. I don't want to get too nosey.

Nothing to extreme, just a few things I have read about or friends recommendations.

On a side note the book 101 Nites of Great Sex by Laura Corn is probably the great book ever written for lovers. There are 101 different ideas in there and each page is sealed and it says "For Him" and "For Her" and just you look at and then perform or modify it a bit, some get pretty complicated you have go out and buy things and wait a few days. Each one really isn't meant to be performed that night you rip open the letter.

[dancergirl40ky]

HMMMMMM Sounds interesting.

[digitaldj]

Originally posted by Number27

Guys--why don't you like to dance? I'll tell you why I don't...because I can't and when I try to, I have no rhythm and look like a fool...


You find me a place playing some hype house music or breakbeat and we'll tear some shit up. I wish more guys would find their rhythym. (<---spelling?) There's nothing like a woman who can shake what her momma blessed her with.

-Adam:cool:

[JanelleM]

Originally posted by slfairless
distance is nothing kids... crushes have gas money ;)
Really:lol :lol :lol Lets see in a blazer that would be about $2,000,000.

[angelces]

exactly!!! 40 gallons to the mile and 936 miles later....

[slfairless]

Originally posted by JanelleM
Really:lol :lol :lol Lets see in a blazer that would be about $2,000,000.

:lol

ahhh.... if a person wants something bad enough, anything is possible. I've been on a 28 hour, 1780 mile road trip... what's another 3 hours? ;)

[GordonShumway]

Question for the ladies again:

So last night as we all know was a heartbreaker for the Cubs. I didn't really put the Cubs infront of my girlfriend, but they did have my attention moreso than her.

Does this really piss women off or are you trying to show me that I should know she is more important that a sports game?

See, my mom knows not to mess with my dad on Sunday's for football, but I think its taken many years to perfect this art. Just wondering how you delt with the big sport fans in your life.

[WineSnob]

Originally posted by GordonShumway
Question for the ladies again:

So last night as we all know was a heartbreaker for the Cubs. I didn't really put the Cubs infront of my girlfriend, but they did have my attention moreso than her.

Does this really piss women off or are you trying to show me that I should know she is more important that a sports game?

See, my mom knows not to mess with my dad on Sunday's for football, but I think its taken many years to perfect this art. Just wondering how you delt with the big sport fans in your life.

it makes me nuts. NOTHING gets done while the football game is on. Biggest waste of time ever. For play off games, it's a diffrent story. I think they deserve a lot of attention, and don't mind the diversion.

[Tardy79]

Some women actually like baseball..........

[angelces]

good point, I was watching the yankees the other night and my guy friend was geting mad at me for not giving him any attention, and we aren't even dating!!

[GordonShumway]

Originally posted by angelces
good point, I was watching the yankees the other night and my guy friend was geting mad at me for not giving him any attention, and we aren't even dating!!

Your a keeper:D

[Tardy79]

Originally posted by GordonShumway
Your a keeper:D

I agree

[dancergirl40ky]

I go out and spend my time with someone else, hopefully when I get home the game is over.

[angelces]

^ ouch

I'm usually down for watching any game as long as its a good game, I prefer devils hockey, any college football, and post season baseball. I don't have time to watch a lot of baseball games during the summer. I will watch any basketball game over any pro football game, but prefer not to watch either except the playoffs because the games are so slow!

[dancergirl40ky]

What does he care , he is watching the game.

[angelces]

hahahah, too funny. :lol

[WineSnob]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
What does he care , he is watching the game.

It's usually the day I go to the mall :D

[StephDMBCrush]

well i would get pissed if my boy bothered me while i was watching my show. so if he doesnt want to be bothered by me when his stuff is on, its alright with me.

[RuggerSelkie]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
well i would get pissed if my boy bothered me while i was watching my show. so if he doesnt want to be bothered by me when his stuff is on, its alright with me.
Exactly. My wife can't stand it when I interrupt Trading Spaces. But we compromise too though. Sometimes I watch that, other times she'll watch a game with me....though I will say I watch Trading Spaces or Friends more than she watches games with me.

[StephDMBCrush]

^haha...
its all about compromise and being easy going...
so what if he doesnt look at you when the game is on? big deal.
i dont plan on giving him any attention when Sex and the City is on...now AFTER its over is a different story...you get so many ideas from that show...:)

[Number27]

Yea, my moms knows not to disrupt my dad and I when there is a game on.
Edit: My ex and I used to compromise on what to watch, and a lot of the stuff we were watching, we watched together because it interested us.

[RuggerSelkie]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
i dont plan on giving him any attention when Sex and the City is on...now AFTER its over is a different story...you get so many ideas from that show...:)
I'm always afraid of that.

[Brad]

the girl i am talking to now loves baseball. she said she would love to watch games with me, and doesnt like to be bothered during her denver broncos games. yay. i think i found me a good one.

[Number27]

My ex used to hate watching The Screen Savers with me, though she once did watch it with me, cause I promised I would watch Trading Spaces with her. She found Leo funny and corky, and I found Paige Davis...my dream Home Depot sex kitten. :lol

[slfairless]

When a good game is on, I am in such a trance that you can't disrupt me without changing the channel or getting in the way of the TV.

If it got too out of hand I can always bring the event out to the garage... the man fridge full of beer, and the TV mounted in the corner fixes everyting :D

[StephDMBCrush]

^^no need to be frightened...its all in good fun....
you know you guys get tackling practice after watching football games...

[angelces]

and i'm sure you say your working out there too right?

[slfairless]

Originally posted by angelces
and i'm sure you say your working out there too right?

oh yeah... always working hard ;)

[RuggerSelkie]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
^^no need to be frightened...its all in good fun....
you know you guys get tackling practice after watching football games...
I'm not quite sure what that means, but when the game is done, it's done. I'm not recreating a double play with my wife afterwards.

[Brad]

one thing that did bother me was that she asked how i would feel about a quicky during the game.... i mean what do you choose?

[angelces]

stay where you are, and have her climb on top, that way you can still watch the game, and she gets hers :evil

[angelces]

:lol

[slfairless]

Originally posted by Brad
one thing that did bother me was that she asked how i would feel about a quicky during the game.... i mean what do you choose?

that's totally cool... play the comercial game or look for half time head -- I am totally down with oral satisfaction while sports are on... can Sunday afternoons get any better? :D

[Brad]

this girl is great.

[slfairless]

Originally posted by Brad
this girl is great.

and your bothered because?

[Brad]

because umm....i dunno :D

[Spicy McHaggis]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
Perfume doesn't last forever. Jewelry does. What about an ankle bracelet? I like bracelets, but I love anklets cause bracelet always gets in my way. There are also some beautiful watches out now. Anne Klien at Dillards has these really nice bracelet watches. Not too pricey. fossil has nice watches too

I'm really liking this one (http://www.fossil.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=11734&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=112&iSubCat=170&iProductID=11734).

What do you think?

[angelces]

Originally posted by Brad
this girl is great.

you talkin bout me, or your girl?

[angelces]

Originally posted by Spicy McHaggis
I'm really liking this one (http://www.fossil.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=11734&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=112&iSubCat=170&iProductID=11734).

What do you think?

looks like you broke the fossil site, either that or my company's firewall sucks...

[Spicy McHaggis]

ya it wouldn't work on IE for me either.

[Spicy McHaggis]

try this:

http://www-scf.usc.edu/~jmurphy/images/fossilwatch

[angelces]

ahhh netscape... much better

Not bad, I really like the blue!

What do we think ladies
http://www.fossil.com/images/us/local/products/detail/ES9711.jpg

[MelissaDMBfan]

its nice. I am not a big fan of the gold and silver though.

[angelces]

I am not a big fan of the gold and silver though.

I agree.

what's her favorite color?

[Spicy McHaggis]

green

[angelces]

nevermind, the fossil site's not working on netscape any more. silly rabbits never mess with a production site during business hours.

[angelces]

what about this one
http://www.watchco.com/Images/es9649.gif

on http://www.watchco.com/

[MelissaDMBfan]

I like this one

http://www.fossil.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=11729&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=253&iSubCat=255&iProductID=11729

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by landsharkrugger
I'm not quite sure what that means, but when the game is done, it's done. I'm not recreating a double play with my wife afterwards.

Why Not?

[angelces]

hehehe, now she's out at second, then she's out at first. hehehe

[angelces]

I could go for a nice 6-3-1 double play myself. hehehe

[dancergirl40ky]

I liked this one and it comes in gold too.

[angelces]

that is cool!!

[edgarlin]

i used to live northeast of dallas in richardson...by plano. either of you guys know of it? went to parkhill junior high for a year and jj pearce high school for like a week beore comin back up north to jersey.

[angelces]

???

[JustinRIT]

Originally posted by Brad
the girl i am talking to now loves baseball. she said she would love to watch games with me, and doesnt like to be bothered during her denver broncos games. yay. i think i found me a good one.

But...she's a broncos fan :(

[JanelleM]

OK let's get back to the good stuff? How long should you wait before sleeping with someone?

[JustinRIT]

I'd say a month at least. Of course, there are varying factors. Like, is it someone you've known for years and are just now dating or, did you meet them on a blind date?

[JanelleM]

I know it all differs, but in general it's good to wait at least a couple of dates and you get a feel for who they are. Yeahblind date sex could be scary...

[maxpower]

Originally posted by JanelleM
OK let's get back to the good stuff? How long should you wait before sleeping with someone?

About 5 minutes, give or take a minute depending on if your zipper is stuck.

[JanelleM]

I second that! No, but have you ever met someone so hot and wanted to have them right then and there without even knowing them? I don't think that is such a bad thing as long as it's not an everyday thing...

[RuggerSelkie]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
Why Not?
Yeah, I don't know.

[Spicy McHaggis]

Originally posted by MelissaDMBfan
I like this one

http://www.fossil.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=11729&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=253&iSubCat=255&iProductID=11729
I like that one, too. Would I still get the type of reaction I'm looking for? Meaning is it jewelry-ey enough?

[Brad]

Originally posted by angelces
you talkin bout me, or your girl? ;)both

[dancergirl40ky]

I slept with my husband the first night I met him. I know that sounds bad, but thats what happened.

[WineSnob]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
I slept with my husband the first night I met him. I know that sounds bad, but thats what happened.

This may sound bad but it was like 3 days for us too.

[dancergirl40ky]

:lol :lol :lol

Yeah , he bought the cow cause he knew how good the milk was.

[Brad]

mmmmmmmm milk....

[Shwnliog]

Alright ladies I need help in analyzing a situation. I work with this girl who's giving me some mixed signals. One day at work she would keep on talking to me, and stepping into my conversations with other people. At one point I was talking to another guy, she was standing off to the side and she just kept staring at me and smiling the whole time even when I wasn't talking. After that she started standing right next to me, close enough that she would be bumping me, and then she started touching me. She kept on touching my arm when we were talking, and she starte rubbing my back. Normally I would say that this girl is liking me, but the next time I saw her she just ignored me. So I thought maybe the first day was just a fluke, but then the last time I saw her she started doing the same things she did before. What's the deal?

[StephDMBCrush]

guys...how long before you bring the girl home to meet the parents? and if she meets the parents, is that a big step?

[Shwnliog]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
guys...how long before you bring the girl home to meet the parents? and if she meets the parents, is that a big step?

It is necessary to keep the girl away from the parents as long as possible.

[StephDMBCrush]

^haha
why?
because the parents are nuts or the girl is nuts?

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by Shwnliog
Alright ladies I need help in analyzing a situation. I work with this girl who's giving me some mixed signals. One day at work she would keep on talking to me, and stepping into my conversations with other people. At one point I was talking to another guy, she was standing off to the side and she just kept staring at me and smiling the whole time even when I wasn't talking. After that she started standing right next to me, close enough that she would be bumping me, and then she started touching me. She kept on touching my arm when we were talking, and she starte rubbing my back. Normally I would say that this girl is liking me, but the next time I saw her she just ignored me. So I thought maybe the first day was just a fluke, but then the last time I saw her she started doing the same things she did before. What's the deal?

Hmmm, she's on drugs.

No, maybe she was a little embarrassed about her first behavior and didnt know which way you would go , she's feeling you out.

[Spicy McHaggis]

Originally posted by Spicy McHaggis
http://www.fossil.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=11729&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=253&iSubCat=255&iProductID=11729

I like that one, too. Would I still get the type of reaction I'm looking for? Meaning is it jewelry-ey enough?
^ Sorry to re-ask this but it's important.

[dancergirl40ky]

It's OK , jewelry enough eh, I showed you the one I like. Scroll up

[RuggerSelkie]

Originally posted by MediumatLarge
This may sound bad but it was like 3 days for us too.
Three days after we started dating...we knew each other for a month.

[Shwnliog]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
^haha
why?
because the parents are nuts or the girl is nuts?

If the girl meets yor parents she knows your serious, which could be good, or bad. The thing with me is that if I brought a girl home to meet my parents she would also meet my sister, and my sister hates any girl that likes me. Se then feels the urge to intimidate these girls. So for me it would be best to keep any relationship a secret from my family for as long as possible.

[Talula62]

Originally posted by Shwnliog
Alright ladies I need help in analyzing a situation. I work with this girl who's giving me some mixed signals. One day at work she would keep on talking to me, and stepping into my conversations with other people. At one point I was talking to another guy, she was standing off to the side and she just kept staring at me and smiling the whole time even when I wasn't talking. After that she started standing right next to me, close enough that she would be bumping me, and then she started touching me. She kept on touching my arm when we were talking, and she starte rubbing my back. Normally I would say that this girl is liking me, but the next time I saw her she just ignored me. So I thought maybe the first day was just a fluke, but then the last time I saw her she started doing the same things she did before. What's the deal?

Stace is right - she could be on drugs. :) Possible she felt she came on too strong so wanted to act standoff-ish so you wouldn't think she was obsessed with you.....More likely, it seems to me, is that she's waiting for you to make a move now. She put herself out there and now it's your turn. BUT, if you tried and she still ignored you.....you should probably tell her drugs are bad.

[mrottondo]

Originally posted by dancergirl40ky
I slept with my husband the first night I met him. I know that sounds bad, but thats what happened. wow, it took me and Maria 1 year and a half to...do the bartman :lol

[slfairless]

Originally posted by JanelleM
have you ever met someone so hot and wanted to have them right then and there without even knowing them?

I have only experienced this once in my life -- it was such an awesome connection... everything just seemed to click. Everything in your head says, "what the hell are you thinking" while everything else says "when can I get a plane ticket." It's a crazy thing but you can either take chances and enjoy life or play it safe and watch other people enjoy life. I am not one to take the back seat to chances :D

[slfairless]

Originally posted by Shwnliog
Alright ladies I need help in analyzing a situation. I work with this girl who's giving me some mixed signals. One day at work she would keep on talking to me, and stepping into my conversations with other people. At one point I was talking to another guy, she was standing off to the side and she just kept staring at me and smiling the whole time even when I wasn't talking. After that she started standing right next to me, close enough that she would be bumping me, and then she started touching me. She kept on touching my arm when we were talking, and she starte rubbing my back. Normally I would say that this girl is liking me, but the next time I saw her she just ignored me. So I thought maybe the first day was just a fluke, but then the last time I saw her she started doing the same things she did before. What's the deal?

From a guys perspective...
She is/was into you... there is no doubt about that but she might be turned off by the fact that she throws herself at you and you moved out of the way. If your going to make your move... make it. At least show her your interested or she will just move on.

[angelces]

I wanted to jump my ex's bones as soon as he walked in the room. 3 days later I tried to jump them, and he had a girl friend and resisted, 2 weeks later he was mine.

[slfairless]

Originally posted by StephDMBCrush
guys...how long before you bring the girl home to meet the parents? and if she meets the parents, is that a big step?

huge step... it all depends on the girl but I have waited 6 months to a year before setting up a dinner for the folks to meet my girl. Another issue for me though, is that I have two little sisters from my moms second marriage and I don't want them to get the wrong idea and think it's okay for guys to be cycling through girls.

[dancergirl40ky]

Originally posted by mrottondo
wow, it took me and Maria 1 year and a half to...do the bartman :lol

It clicked and it happened. I certainly wouldn't recommend it for everyone. I wouldn't want my own son to do it. We were lucky and have now been married 18 years.

[slfairless]

Originally posted by JanelleM
How long should you wait before sleeping with someone?

It all depends on so many different circumstances. In all honesty, I have never had a girl ask me to wait because she wasn't ready... most time she is begging for it ;)

As I said earlier, I love to tease and the best part of teasing comes in the begining when there are still all the butterflies for everything. You only get to experience that first kiss, or that first time sleeping with someone one time so why not extend the anticipation so when it finally happens it becomes that much better? Like getting close to that first kiss, looking into her eyes so she think it's coming, watching her heart beat out of her chest with anticipation, and giving her a nice kiss goodnight kiss on the check... trust me, when you finally do kiss her it will be all that much more explosive. Everything is better when you can extend the anticipation a bit... why eat the whole cake in 5 minutes when you can extend the enjoyment a little bit every day for a month?

I'm not claiming to be a prude or anything and I can't say I have never slept with someone on the first date but like I said, all circumstances are different... I just like to get the maximize the pleasure as much as I can :D

[slfairless]

Originally posted by angelces
I wanted to jump my ex's bones as soon as he walked in the room. 3 days later I tried to jump them, and he had a girl friend and resisted, 2 weeks later he was mine.

I always new you were the type of girl who knew how to get what you want!

[angelces]

yeah well I was pissed he held out that first time...

You always knew, eh, you've always known me for less than a month :lol :lol

[slfairless]

I've always known, for the past month, you to be a girl who knew how to get what you want! ;)

[angelces]

HEY!! I resemble that remark!

[dancergirl40ky]

It's amazing how quickly you can get to know people around here.

[angelces]

ok, I'm having a shitty day, so we need a good spicy question for this thread today, keeps me smilin.

[cutigerbtf]

resent- you resent that remark.

def: To feel indignantly aggrieved at.

[angelces]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
resent- you resent that remark.

def: To feel indignantly aggrieved at.

no, resemble - I RESEMBLED that remark

def: be like somebody or something: to be similar to somebody or something in appearance or behavior :evil

PUN INTENDED, I may be ditzy at times, but not stupid. :D

[slfairless]

Originally posted by angelces
ok, I'm having a shitty day, so we need a good spicy question for this thread today, keeps me smilin.

Okay... I'll try but I am having a shitty morning too so I can't think of anything too exciting -- how about we start simple and see where it ends up.

What is everyone's favorite position?

[angelces]

ooohhhhh, depends on the day really. I like the days that we couldn't decide what worked so we went with everything until we found something good.

Time honored classic for me though is doggy style :evil

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by angelces
no, resemble - I RESEMBLED that remark

def: be like somebody or something: to be similar to somebody or something in appearance or behavior :evil

PUN INTENDED, I may be ditzy at times, but not stupid. :D

i see- i apologize for assuming. my mistake.

[dancergirl40ky]

Hmmmm, not going there.

[angelces]

Originally posted by cutigerbtf
i see- i apologize for assuming. my mistake.

smile, none taken don't worry. :)

[slfairless]

Originally posted by angelces
Time honored classic for me though is doggy style :evil

There are so many fun positions but I have yet to find one that I enjoy more then doggy style :D

[angelces]

it compliments my tattoo too.

[slfairless]

you have one of those sexy ass tribals on 'the small of' your back don't you?

[GordonShumway]

I love those tattoo right above the crack, many women have them, but they are a big turnon.

[slfairless]

the tribal in the small of a girls back is so sexy... I also love belly button rings.

[angelces]

I have a sun/moon combo thing. its in the small of my back, sorry for the crappy nature of the pic, I took it myself with my phone.

1 Megapixel JPGs RULE! :rolleyes:

http://www.antsmarching.org/forum/attachment.php?s=&postid=1104666

[mrottondo]

doggy style allows you to watch the game while going at it, gets my vote

[GordonShumway]

Originally posted by slfairless
the tribal in the small of a girls back is so sexy... I also love belly button rings.

I agree, the first girlfriend I had with a bellbutton ring I just kept playing with, its so simple but for some reason I like them.

[angelces]

what about nipple rings, I've seen girls that have cute ones, and girls with not so cute ones, and my ex was into them, I don't have them either, but was thinking about it...maybe....

[slfairless]

Originally posted by angelces
I have a sun/moon combo thing. its in the small of my back, sorry for the crappy nature of the pic, I took it myself with my phone.

1 Megapixel JPGs RULE! :rolleyes:

http://www.antsmarching.org/forum/attachment.php?s=&postid=1104666

awsome tat! Very sexy. I have a similar all black tribal sun on the side of my calve.

[GordonShumway]

Originally posted by angelces
what about nipple rings, I've seen girls that have cute ones, and girls with not so cute ones, and my ex was into them, I don't have them either, but was thinking about it...maybe....

I go with no on that one. I don't like those, the nipple rings can lead to more "provactive piercings" Basically nipple rings are the marijuana of piercing, they are going to lead to more.

[slfairless]

Originally posted by angelces
what about nipple rings, I've seen girls that have cute ones, and girls with not so cute ones, and my ex was into them, I don't have them either, but was thinking about it...maybe....

They are okay... I've seen cute ones and horrible ones but they don't get me like the belly button rings.

[angelces]

Originally posted by slfairless
awsome tat! Very sexy. I have a similar all black tribal sun on the side of my calve.

thanks!

[mrottondo]

Originally posted by angelces
what about nipple rings, I've seen girls that have cute ones, and girls with not so cute ones, and my ex was into them, I don't have them either, but was thinking about it...maybe.... that's just one of the biggest turn-off's ever

it's ruining the boob completely

[maxpower]

Originally posted by mrottondo
doggy style allows you to watch the game while going at it, gets my vote

I'm able to get my taxes done.

[cutigerbtf]

Originally posted by mrottondo
that's just one of the biggest turn-off's ever

it's ruining the boob completely

i concur.

thumbs down for nipple rings.

[angelces]

maxpower, that was bad!

[mrottondo]

Originally posted by maxpower
I'm able to get my taxes done. exactly what i'm talking aboot

[maxpower]

Originally posted by angelces
maxpower, that was bad!

Well, her back makes the perfect table. One shouldn't let that space go to waste!