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The_Last_Stop 02-18-2008 07:57 AM

What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
My friends girlfriend kept saying this the other night, but I could barely hear and understand what it meant, so i didn't ask.

Anyone have any input on what it means?

cryfreedom4136 02-18-2008 07:58 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
You serious Clark? :ugh

dmb1spe 02-18-2008 07:59 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
It means she wants it rough.

El Papa 02-18-2008 07:59 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
but if it gets too rough, she'll say cinnamon

TheOtherside 02-18-2008 08:00 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Last_Stop (Post 7116730)
My friends girlfriend kept saying this the other night, but I could barely hear and understand what it meant, so i didn't ask.

Anyone have any input on what it means?

wait, was she saying this directly to you?

Turd_Ferguson. 02-18-2008 08:00 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
When she says cinnamon, give it to her harder.

sunshower 02-18-2008 08:01 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dmb1spe (Post 7116732)
It means she wants it rough.

Quote:

Originally Posted by El Papa (Post 7116734)
but if it gets too rough, she'll say cinnamon

This would be my guess, too. You have to choose a word that doesn't sound like another word and wouldn't be misheard as a sexual term. Saying "no" or "stop" would only fuel the fire if they're into submissive sex at the moment. Touches don't work, either.

The_Last_Stop 02-18-2008 08:02 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
so, as you pound the girl, she'll say cinnamon to pound harder?

i see, i see.

DMB0715 02-18-2008 08:02 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Turd_Ferguson. (Post 7116739)
When she says cinnamon, give it to her harder.

Best user name ever.

Turd_Ferguson. 02-18-2008 08:03 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Last_Stop (Post 7116741)
so, as you pound the girl, she'll say cinnamon to pound harder?

i see, i see.

Yeah, you might want to smack her around a bit too.

sunshower 02-18-2008 08:03 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Last_Stop (Post 7116741)
so, as you pound the girl, she'll say cinnamon to pound harder?

i see, i see.

No. She'll say cinnamon to make it stop because it's her safe word.

Turd_Ferguson. 02-18-2008 08:04 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by sunshower (Post 7116749)
No. She'll say cinnamon to make it stop because it's her safe word.

Lies. It means she feels safe, so keep on going....

dmb1spe 02-18-2008 08:07 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by sunshower (Post 7116740)
This would be my guess, too. You have to choose a word that doesn't sound like another word and wouldn't be misheard as a sexual term. Saying "no" or "stop" would only fuel the fire if they're into submissive sex at the moment. Touches don't work, either.

13 Mistake to Avoid When Selecting a Safe Word:

1. Cognitive dissonance can be problematic. For example, using “More, More, Harder, Harder,” “Green Light,” or “Yes! Yes! Yes!” as a Safe Word may prove sufficiently confusing to evoke a transient but still uncomfortable delay in execution of the the desired response,

2. Homographs are iffy. Your more exacting Doms won’t find “You say tomato, I say tomato” all that amusing.

3. Likewise, homonyms (e.g., plays on “bear” the burden and “bare” your ass) can be tricky. I reference Master Murphy’s Law: Any safe words that can be confused will be confused and its corollary: “Momentary confusion” takes on a entirely different meaning when the “momentary” part occurs during a flogging.

4. Multi-syllabic words most often found in medical or scientific literature or novelty books about word play (e.g., “Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis,” “hepaticocholangiocholecystenterostomies,” “floccinaucinihilipilification,” and the like) are not ideal. Even if you can routinely recall such monstrosities, it’s showing off, and, believe me, nobody likes a smart ass sub.

5. Safe Words that aren’t words (e.g., “833646520034″) fall into the same category as #4.

6. While dramatic and emphatic, exclamations such as “Ouch,” “Damn, that hurts,” and “What the heck do you think you’re doing?” can be misunderstood.

7. The subjunctive mood (e.g., “It’s as though I can’t take any more” or “I wish it would quit hurting”) is typically inappropriate as ones Safe Word.

8. ” ” It didn’t work for Prince and it won’t work for you.

9. AAAA. (”Assiduously Avoid Acronyms, Asshole”). “NGSCB” may mean “Next-Generation Secure Computing Base,” to you, but does your Dom know that?

10. Think twice before choosing tricky proper names (for example, names of towns such as Unalakleet, Alaska or Prem Nagar, India and especially those vowel-deficient designations of Welsh villages such as Cwmtwrch). A good rule of thumbscrews is that if you can’t grunt the Safe Word intelligibly with a gag in your mouth, then it’s not really safe, is it?

11. Using something on the line of “Is that the best you can do, Mistress?” and “You’re such a wuss, Master” is just asking for trouble. (Handy memory aid: Taunts are for Tops; Begging is for Bottoms)

12. Some words and terms just don’t fit. For example,
• “Hamiltonian Federalist Principles”
• “Willing suspension of disbelief”
• “Bernoulli’s Principle”
• Any phrase which includes the words “butterfly” or “unicorn.”
• Anything in the form of a rhyming couplet
• Almost all scripture from the New Testament (yes, even the modern translations)

13. “Fuck You, Master” is probably best left to the very experienced, hard core players.

AFurth 02-18-2008 08:45 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
thread of the week?

kjam1988 02-18-2008 08:47 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
it means she wants it in the butt now

Tomriddle 02-18-2008 09:01 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Guys, he's not serious?

Gummicat 10-25-2012 11:18 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
I doubt this is where she got the idea from, but "Cinnamon" is a safeword used by John Watson and Sherlock Holmes in a very tastily explicit Dom/Sub-filled fanfiction story.

You can read it here:

http://archiveofourown.org/works/335385/chapters/542163

Also, Homer Simpson uses it as a safeword in a threesome between himself and two demons in "Treehouse of Horror XXIII".

Though since you seem to have asked this question quite a while before either of the above would have been valid sources for your girlfriend's inspiration, I too would be very interested to know why she picked that word.

bonzo48280 10-25-2012 11:22 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gummicat (Post 14118796)
I doubt this is where she got the idea from, but "Cinnamon" is a safeword used by John Watson and Sherlock Holmes in a very tastily explicit Dom/Sub-filled fanfiction story.

You can read it here:

http://archiveofourown.org/works/335385/chapters/542163

Also, Homer Simpson uses it as a safeword in a threesome between himself and two demons in "Treehouse of Horror XXIII".

Though since you seem to have asked this question quite a while before either of the above would have been valid sources for your girlfriend's inspiration, I too would be very interested to know why she picked that word.

1st post, bump, facts, random, Simpsons reference, safe words?

Post of the decade?

Arby 10-25-2012 11:31 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Great bump, guy.

bonzo48280 10-25-2012 11:35 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Let's do an AMA with Gummicat

LadyMadonna68 10-25-2012 11:42 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Gummicat,

Would You Rather Fight ONE Horse-Sized Duck Or FIFTY Duck-Sized Horses?

Arby 10-25-2012 11:44 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Gummicat,

Would You Rather Fight ONE Duck-Sized Horse Or FIFTY Horse-Sized Ducks?

bonzo48280 10-25-2012 11:47 AM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Gummicat,

Do you like Cats?

kittensXLI 10-25-2012 12:26 PM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Gummicat,

Are we related?

FromTheMorning 10-25-2012 12:27 PM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Gummicat,

You get banned?

chadizzy1 10-25-2012 12:28 PM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by kjam1988 (Post 7116809)
it means she wants it in the butt now

an unspoken rule of life is that all women like anal, they just don't know it yet

Rebecca De Mornay 10-25-2012 12:32 PM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Gummicat,

I just shot you a PM with a picture I took of a rash on my inner thigh. I've had it for about 4 years now. Any chance you know what it is/how to get rid of it?

PS. please excuse the amateur photography job, the lighting in my office sucks!

bonzo48280 10-25-2012 01:43 PM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Gummicat,

Walnuts or pistachios?

K270 10-25-2012 02:50 PM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gummicat (Post 14118796)
I doubt this is where she got the idea from, but "Cinnamon" is a safeword used by John Watson and Sherlock Holmes in a very tastily explicit Dom/Sub-filled fanfiction story.

You can read it here:

http://archiveofourown.org/works/335385/chapters/542163

Also, Homer Simpson uses it as a safeword in a threesome between himself and two demons in "Treehouse of Horror XXIII".

Though since you seem to have asked this question quite a while before either of the above would have been valid sources for your girlfriend's inspiration, I too would be very interested to know why she picked that word.



Is this you gummicat:

http://origamighost.com/wp-content/u...UMMICAT-01.jpg

coldengrey12 10-25-2012 02:51 PM

Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?
 
Excellent bump. Cinnanimonim.


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