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Old 02-25-2013, 07:49 PM   #39422
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Re: Dating is miserable

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Originally Posted by AllifromOhio View Post
The sex thing really isn't a huge issue so me having sex with someone is not as milestoney as it is to you. I continued to hang out with him because I actually enjoyed his presence as a person after we knew it wasn't going to work. I don't get attached too quickly anymore so if it has to be one or the other, I guess I'm detached.
I think you can admit you're still attached to your ex though.

I don't know just seems like you're continuously not serious with anyone and then in a week you're actually dating and planning a trip. Maybe we're just missing a few things, but it makes little sense to me.

And yeah, I'm a loser who hasn't had sex in awhile so I probably make a bigger deal of it, but I think when you're in a dating progression with someone it does represent at least some kind of milestone (Why else would people always concern themselves over how soon/which date to have sex at?). When you're just making the rounds, sure it isn't nearly as much.
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