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Originally Posted by Tiduwho
Is this different than the other work friend girl that you were BFF friend zoned with?
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YES
that girl was back home in PA. we haven't really talked much the last few months. shes not the same girl she used to be so even the friendship has taken quite a hit. she's talking about moving away herself in the next few months, so i imagine that things will continue to fizzle until we're just people who used to be friends, sadly.
this new girl is here in CO. met at work when we were in training together.
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Originally Posted by redsox14
I can definitely relate to this. I tend to fall for guys that I am friends with first. It's my MO. The problem is once you are good friends you're afraid to do anything about it because if it doesn't work out you don't want to lose the friendship, especially in your case where you are new in town and don't want to lose the one friend you have there. However I've come to realize over the years that it shouldn't stop you. I've "not said anything" a few times and I don't really talk to them anymore anyways so I should have just gone for it at the time.
I guess what I'm saying is, if you think she's worth it, go for it even if you are worried about ruining the friendship. But as the others have mentioned to me, don't settle
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normally i'm friends with a girl first before anything happen because i know we work pretty well together before anything starts happening. this girl is really cool and we have a good time just hanging out together, but i just don't really know if theres anything that would develop past that.
we're really different and shes not really the type i would go for. i feel like letting something happen would more be because we're both in vulnerable positions right now rather than it really being a good idea. and if thats the case, its only going to end bad.
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Originally Posted by Speilmen230
Feel like a dick this morning.
Hung out with this girl from school last night that is way into me but I'm not that into. We made out but I know in the back of my mind it isn't going to go anywhere because I won't let it. She is cool but most definitely in a friendship kind of way rather than a I'd like to take you on dates and swoon you kind of way. Dunno how to handle things now because I know she is starting to develop an impression of how things are rather than how they really are.
Damn you alcohol for making me touchy feely when I'm buzzing.
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let me know what you do and how it works out so i know if i should do that or not because we're pretty much in the exact same boat