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Old 03-31-2015, 04:52 AM   #46921
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Anyone ever date the kids you knew from your parents friends? Like same age as you but your parents both were friends long before either of you were born.
yeah.
was OK for me.
girl was a little nutty, but we're still friends.
our parents used to date, actually.
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    yeah.
    was OK for me.
    girl was a little nutty, but we're still friends.
    our parents used to date, actually.
    Get everyone back together. Could be like that Simpsons episode, and you'll be just a wedding away from having a girlfriend to dating your sister.
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    Old 03-31-2015, 05:57 AM   #46923
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    Get everyone back together. Could be like that Simpsons episode, and you'll be just a wedding away from having a girlfriend to dating your sister.


    they dated in college. both parents are happily married elsewhere.
    she's def the type of girl who is up for a rebound bang if I'm single.
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    Old 03-31-2015, 06:08 AM   #46924
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    One of my mom's bestfriend's daughter. Graphic design student at UC who I see every so often. She is gorgeous and every time we see each other we hit it off super well. Haven't really tried taking it anywhere or hanging out with her cuz shit could get sticky really quickly.
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    One of my mom's bestfriend's daughter. Graphic design student at UC who I see every so often. She is gorgeous and every time we see each other we hit it off super well. Haven't really tried taking it anywhere or hanging out with her cuz shit could get sticky really quickly.
    So... what are you waiting for...?
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    Old 04-01-2015, 01:22 PM   #46926
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    I am cooking a quick healthy meal for myself right now to take to work instead of just picking up something... My girlfriend may have officially domesticated me. What is going one right now?!?!
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    Old 04-01-2015, 02:01 PM   #46927
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    One of my mom's bestfriend's daughter. Graphic design student at UC who I see every so often. She is gorgeous and every time we see each other we hit it off super well. Haven't really tried taking it anywhere or hanging out with her cuz shit could get sticky really quickly.
    been there, hit that

    not worth the situation
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    Old 04-01-2015, 02:10 PM   #46928
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    I am cooking a quick healthy meal for myself right now to take to work instead of just picking up something... My girlfriend may have officially domesticated me. What is going one right now?!?!
    Sounds pretty miserable.
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    Old 04-02-2015, 02:22 AM   #46929
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    been there, hit that

    not worth the situation
    Yes it is. Break out the drama, but get the goods.
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    Old 04-07-2015, 11:40 AM   #46930
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    I found a crazy cheap trip to Cuba that leaves this Saturday. The girlfriend and I are going. Will be our first trip together. Is it weird we haven't gone away together but live together?
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    Old 04-08-2015, 07:43 AM   #46931
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    Maybe just a tad weird. But not really if the opportunity just never arose.
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    Old 04-08-2015, 08:59 AM   #46932
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    Not really weird. It's hard to get two different work schedules to match up whether you're in the same house or not.
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    Asking about a personal preference and maybe a sort of weird question...do you guys like to use your tongue when kissing your significant other/the person you're dating? My girlfriend of 2 years doesn't really like to do it that much. I guess we do it occasionally. I would do it a lot more if she wanted to haha.
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    I like to use my tongue for a lot of things.
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    Old 04-08-2015, 11:37 AM   #46935
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    In what context of kissing? Like if I'm saying hi or bye or goodnight, then no, tongue isn't involved. But, like when making out? Of course.
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    But, you guys don't make out then? Did you used to do it more and it died down over the years?

    I love make out sessions, no matter the length of the relationship.
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    In what context of kissing? Like if I'm saying hi or bye or goodnight, then no, tongue isn't involved. But, like when making out? Of course.
    Yeah I don't mean like "hello" or "good night", more so just making out. She doesn't like to do it!

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    But, you guys don't make out then? Did you used to do it more and it died down over the years?

    I love make out sessions, no matter the length of the relationship.
    Yeah, we definitely used to more now that I think of it. Even more so when she's drunk. I love them too---this is something I think I'm going to bring up to her. We need to communicate better than we have been.
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    Trying using your tongue other places, she might respond better to that.
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    Old 04-09-2015, 08:54 AM   #46939
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    I'm in a bit of a mental pickle here. Advice welcomed.

    I have a "date" tonight. To be honest, it's sort of out of pity. I like the girl a lot, she's nice and no exaggeration the funniest girl I've ever met. I'm just not into her that I could ever see myself being involved in a relationship with her.

    Fast forward to Friday night. I have a date that I'm really looking forward to with this girl that I've been hooking up with and talking to off and on the past few weeks. Definitely something brewing and this will be the first time we go out just the two of us.

    Here's the kicker and where my little debacle kicks in. The two of them are pretty good friends, grew up best friends, have grown a little bit apart over the years strictly do to distance. They still talk and see each other anytime they're in town which is now. I'm not sure what or if I should say anything to either of them about the other. Especially the girl tonight since I don't want to hurt her feelings although that seems inevitable. What approach do you think I should take? What should I say?

    Sorry if this is confusing. I'd appreciate any ideas.
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    ^^ not sure why you agreed or asked the first girl out. If you have no interest then you're just leading her on. You took the date out of pity but it's going to hurt her even more if you don't be up front from the beginning.

    I'd man up and call her and tell her the situation. Let her know your intentions - you just want to be friends and you have an interest with her friend whom you've already kinda been seeing.

    That's your only way to make things as smooth as possible going forward.
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    Old 04-09-2015, 09:15 AM   #46941
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    I think threesome is the only possible conclusion.
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    Well fuck me. Advice from my sister was to accept the date and keep it casual, mention to her that I'm seeing her friend. I acted on that because I hadn't texted the girl back in like 7 hours, I didn't want her to keep waiting. So I'm not cancelling on her so I'm hoping I can come up with a polite way to tell her I'm not interested outside of just remaining friends. I done fucked up I think.
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    I'm with Steve.
    Threesome or bust, at this point.
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    Yeah it could be a way for the two girls to rejuvenate their friendship. You'd basically be doing them a favor.
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    I'm in a bit of a mental pickle here. Advice welcomed.

    I have a "date" tonight. To be honest, it's sort of out of pity. I like the girl a lot, she's nice and no exaggeration the funniest girl I've ever met. I'm just not into her that I could ever see myself being involved in a relationship with her.

    Fast forward to Friday night. I have a date that I'm really looking forward to with this girl that I've been hooking up with and talking to off and on the past few weeks. Definitely something brewing and this will be the first time we go out just the two of us.

    Here's the kicker and where my little debacle kicks in. The two of them are pretty good friends, grew up best friends, have grown a little bit apart over the years strictly do to distance. They still talk and see each other anytime they're in town which is now. I'm not sure what or if I should say anything to either of them about the other. Especially the girl tonight since I don't want to hurt her feelings although that seems inevitable. What approach do you think I should take? What should I say?

    Sorry if this is confusing. I'd appreciate any ideas.
    Just tell the first girl the truth. I think that'll be best for your chances on 2nd girl.
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    I'm in a bit of a mental pickle here. Advice welcomed.

    I have a "date" tonight. To be honest, it's sort of out of pity. I like the girl a lot, she's nice and no exaggeration the funniest girl I've ever met. I'm just not into her that I could ever see myself being involved in a relationship with her.

    Fast forward to Friday night. I have a date that I'm really looking forward to with this girl that I've been hooking up with and talking to off and on the past few weeks. Definitely something brewing and this will be the first time we go out just the two of us.

    Here's the kicker and where my little debacle kicks in. The two of them are pretty good friends, grew up best friends, have grown a little bit apart over the years strictly do to distance. They still talk and see each other anytime they're in town which is now. I'm not sure what or if I should say anything to either of them about the other. Especially the girl tonight since I don't want to hurt her feelings although that seems inevitable. What approach do you think I should take? What should I say?

    Sorry if this is confusing. I'd appreciate any ideas.
    If you like the one you're hooking up with, why accept the date with the funny chick?? Well, while you're out with the funny one, mention the fact your hooking up with her friend, and you guys just have to be friends til thats over. But be sure to mention a threesome in a joking manner and read her reaction. Maybe it will go down
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    Date tonight with a guy I've been out with a few times. On paper we are a really good match but I'm just not feeling it. I was hoping something would click, but I've got to say something tonight if nothing changes. Good conversation, similar interests etc, but zero sexual attraction on my part. I feel really bad because I can tell he really likes me.
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    Gotta have the click, Jen.

    Click is key. Why are you going out again? Just making sure?
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    Date tonight with a guy I've been out with a few times. On paper we are a really good match but I'm just not feeling it. I was hoping something would click, but I've got to say something tonight if nothing changes. Good conversation, similar interests etc, but zero sexual attraction on my part. I feel really bad because I can tell he really likes me.
    That's the worst feeling.
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