Dating is miserable

[Tiduwho]

Originally Posted by smokew11

i feel like you have to have sex AND live together before getting married

there so much you dont know about someone til you live together. I can't imagine getting married, coming back from the honeymoon, and being nervous to take a shit while my wife's home

This is the correct post.

[Climb2safety]

There are no correct opinions but glad we know where you stand.

+1 for someone wanting to live together first.

[Climb2safety]

Originally Posted by AllifromOhio

I feel like you're calling me an asshole.

I did not mean to imply that, just that you don't seem like the coddling type is all.

I could be completely wrong.

Sometimes that is what bros are for anyway.

[cazzie34]

People can definitely be bad and stay bad at having sex. I've kissed some really bad kissers in my life. I don't think they are going to magically get better with practice. There is a rhythm and cadence to kissing that is hard to teach.

[rconverse]

Originally Posted by smokew11

i can see the sex before marriage thing, maybe, maybe. Not something I'd ever do though

Living together is a must

I don't really agree with this.

[Roose13]

Living together may not be a must, but constant nights at each other's places and night's spent with each other inside is important. My brother and his wife didn't live together until they were married. They lived 45 minutes away and were with each other like 3-5 times a week, which builds a healthy compatible relationship.

[cry_minarets458]

the fucking bitch called me tonight. we havent' talked in awhile. I just switched phones and didn't recognize the number..thought it was affiliated with work. needless to say, it was her and she called me tonight to talk about us........while on her way home from a date she was on tonight in which the guy kissed her goodnight. I said you say you love me and miss me, but you dug your own grave with the information you shared with me.

I'm hurting, but it felt good to put my foot down

[Climb2safety]

Originally Posted by cry_minarets458

the fucking bitch called me tonight. we havent' talked in awhile. I just switched phones and didn't recognize the number..thought it was affiliated with work. needless to say, it was her and she called me tonight to talk about us........while on her way home from a date she was on tonight in which the guy kissed her goodnight. I said you say you love me and miss me, but you dug your own grave with the information you shared with me.

I'm hurting, but it felt good to put my foot down

"I'm moving on. Please don't call me again."

You gotta do it dude.

#breakfree

[gonz085]

Yeah, I'd tell her to fuck off. She's an attention whore.

[Dramageek]

Hello miserable daters. I haven't posted here in awhile because, for the first time like, ever, dating has not been miserable. Have been with the GF for almost a year, and it just keeps getting better! We are taking a trip to Colorado to visit her friend for Labor Day Weekend. Should be a blast (provided I do not die while zip lining for the first time ever).

I just wanted to share a story about karma. Today, I got a random Facebook message from my ex who broke my heart and left me to be with another dude. My ex and the dude ended up getting married (after dating for less than a year). To the surprise of no one, the dude turned out to be an asshole. She confided to me that the dude started treating her horribly and failed to live up to expectations. Now, after less than a year of marriage, they are getting a divorce. Now, I'm not the type to wish ill on anyone, even those that hurt me, and I did feel kind of bad for her, but I admit I giggled a little at the news, and my faith in the universe has been kind of restored. Oh karma, you saucy bitch.

[thechad90000]

Originally Posted by cry_minarets458

the fucking bitch called me tonight. we havent' talked in awhile. I just switched phones and didn't recognize the number..thought it was affiliated with work. needless to say, it was her and she called me tonight to talk about us........while on her way home from a date she was on tonight in which the guy kissed her goodnight. I said you say you love me and miss me, but you dug your own grave with the information you shared with me.

I'm hurting, but it felt good to put my foot down

Yeah if she calls again I'd tell her not to call ever again. Just gotta do it at some point.

[thechad90000]

Originally Posted by Dramageek

Hello miserable daters. I haven't posted here in awhile because, for the first time like, ever, dating has not been miserable. Have been with the GF for almost a year, and it just keeps getting better! We are taking a trip to Colorado to visit her friend for Labor Day Weekend. Should be a blast (provided I do not die while zip lining for the first time ever).

I just wanted to share a story about karma. Today, I got a random Facebook message from my ex who broke my heart and left me to be with another dude. My ex and the dude ended up getting married (after dating for less than a year). To the surprise of no one, the dude turned out to be an asshole. She confided to me that the dude started treating her horribly and failed to live up to expectations. Now, after less than a year of marriage, they are getting a divorce. Now, I'm not the type to wish ill on anyone, even those that hurt me, and I did feel kind of bad for her, but I admit I giggled a little at the news, and my faith in the universe has been kind of restored. Oh karma, you saucy bitch.

Congrats on making it almost a year!

[katy41]

I think im about to "break free" from dating altogether. It's so emotionally draining.

[thechad90000]

Originally Posted by katy41

I think im about to "break free" from dating altogether. It's so emotionally draining.

I keep telling myself that but then I end up finding that I enjoy dating and hate it at the same time.

[katy41]

I'm tired of rejection. Lol

[thechad90000]

Originally Posted by katy41

I'm tired of rejection. Lol

Rejection is just a part of the game. I've come to accept that.

That's why when rejection happens, it's better just to let it roll off.

[katy41]

You are very correct.

[gonz085]

Originally Posted by katy41

You are very correct.

You're the woman. It should be easier.

[katy41]

Um no. Its not. I'm learning though. It's all trial and error.

[gonz085]

Originally Posted by katy41

Um no. Its not. I'm learning though. It's all trial and error.

I suppose it depends on what you're looking for.

[katy41]

Look all I really want is someone to go to DMB shows with and to one day have babies haha

[gonz085]

Originally Posted by katy41

Look all I really want is someone to go to DMB shows with and to one day have babies haha

That sounds easy

[cry_minarets458]

Originally Posted by katy41

Look all I really want is someone to go to DMB shows with and to one day have babies haha

I'm at the gorge right now and want to have babies. I think there's more to it than that lol

[katy41]

This made me laugh. Thank you.

[thechad90000]

Originally Posted by cry_minarets458

I'm at the gorge right now and want to have babies. I think there's more to it than that lol

Lolololol

[thechad90000]

Got stood up tonight on a date. Got drunk. Getting drunker. And drunker.

[dmbetc]

Originally Posted by thechad90000

Got stood up tonight on a date. Got drunk. Getting drunker. And drunker.

Bitches don't know what they're missing!

[katy41]

That sucks people are so flaky.

[cry_minarets458]

I hung out with two married chicks tonight at the gorge. They can't figure out why I'm single

[SqueeBaBooSquee]

Originally Posted by Dramageek

Hello miserable daters. I haven't posted here in awhile because, for the first time like, ever, dating has not been miserable. Have been with the GF for almost a year, and it just keeps getting better! We are taking a trip to Colorado to visit her friend for Labor Day Weekend. Should be a blast (provided I do not die while zip lining for the first time ever).

I just wanted to share a story about karma. Today, I got a random Facebook message from my ex who broke my heart and left me to be with another dude. My ex and the dude ended up getting married (after dating for less than a year). To the surprise of no one, the dude turned out to be an asshole. She confided to me that the dude started treating her horribly and failed to live up to expectations. Now, after less than a year of marriage, they are getting a divorce. Now, I'm not the type to wish ill on anyone, even those that hurt me, and I did feel kind of bad for her, but I admit I giggled a little at the news, and my faith in the universe has been kind of restored. Oh karma, you saucy bitch.

Dude! I totally remember your story. I'm so glad things are working out for you. I remember you explaining how this guy was slowly stealing your girl away. They were in a theater class together and I remember we all seeing the train wreck ahead and telling you.

Yes! I'm pumped that you found someone that appreciates you and makes you happy and I'm evilly overjoyed to hear that your Ex has now realized she made a huge mistake leaving you. I remember being so pissed reading your posts and loathing your Ex and that dude so hard.

Good for you man!