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Old 08-14-2014, 11:48 AM   #45811
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Re: Dating is miserable

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No...I'm pretty sure it has to something to do with my cray ex and not a TV show I watch with my kids. It's actually not uncommon to see BBT listed on some female profiles.

There are so many different people out there I guess you could find someone that likes anything it you tried.
Pretty bold statement about it being the best one in 10 years.

Anyways, I find listing activities that you do outside or trades make the people more attracted to your profile than the standard TV and movies do.
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Old 08-14-2014, 11:15 PM   #45812
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Your right. Maybe a little bold.
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Old 08-14-2014, 11:38 PM   #45813
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Pretty bold statement about it being the best one in 10 years.



Anyways, I find listing activities that you do outside or trades make the people more attracted to your profile than the standard TV and movies do.

I hate when people list everything.

Is kayaking really a hobby if you do it once a year?
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Old 08-15-2014, 01:15 AM   #45814
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I hate when people list everything.

Is kayaking really a hobby if you do it once a year?
Exactly. You can't list that type of shit unless that's what you fucking do all the time or at least on a regular basis.
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Old 08-15-2014, 01:17 AM   #45815
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Re: Dating is miserable

I have had absolutely zero success with any online dating in the past few months and even less success in the regular dating world. Kind of sucks but really I just need to go do shit more often.
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Old 08-15-2014, 06:16 AM   #45816
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Exactly. You can't list that type of shit unless that's what you fucking do all the time or at least on a regular basis.
Where did I say list stuff you do once in a year?

If anything, I said the opposite because I mentioned trades. To say you are skilled in a trade, means you do it often or you wouldn't be good at it. A guy I saw mentioned he was a woodworker. Pretty sexy trade if you ask me.
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Old 08-15-2014, 09:11 AM   #45817
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What single guy doesn't become a pretty accomplished woodworker?

I don't know, hobbies, no hobbies, good ones, bad ones....my philosophy is be honest, articulate, intelligent and see what happens.

I try to list things I do that are important because it's important to me we have these things in common.

I am still trying to decide if it's all about the pictures or what you write matters. Is any girl going to pass on talking to a handsome man cause he says dumb shit?
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Old 08-15-2014, 09:15 AM   #45818
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These next few weeks are going to be long without seeing this girl. What terrible timing for vacations. :lol
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Old 08-15-2014, 12:50 PM   #45819
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What single guy doesn't become a pretty accomplished woodworker?

I don't know, hobbies, no hobbies, good ones, bad ones....my philosophy is be honest, articulate, intelligent and see what happens.

I try to list things I do that are important because it's important to me we have these things in common.

I am still trying to decide if it's all about the pictures or what you write matters. Is any girl going to pass on talking to a handsome man cause he says dumb shit?
I'd pass on him if I wanted a real relationship. If I wanted to fuck, I'd talk to him. Depends where you are in your life. I thought my boyfriend was too hot to talk to me but I gave it a shot anyways. Luckily he was hot and smart. At that point, I was looking to find a serious relationship as I had already slept my way through a good portion of local singles.
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Old 08-15-2014, 12:52 PM   #45820
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Where did I say list stuff you do once in a year?

If anything, I said the opposite because I mentioned trades. To say you are skilled in a trade, means you do it often or you wouldn't be good at it. A guy I saw mentioned he was a woodworker. Pretty sexy trade if you ask me.
Didn't say that you were doing that. I was just agreeing with Jordan that it's ridiculous. I wish I were good at wood working.
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Old 08-15-2014, 12:53 PM   #45821
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What single guy doesn't become a pretty accomplished woodworker?

I don't know, hobbies, no hobbies, good ones, bad ones....my philosophy is be honest, articulate, intelligent and see what happens.

I try to list things I do that are important because it's important to me we have these things in common.

I am still trying to decide if it's all about the pictures or what you write matters. Is any girl going to pass on talking to a handsome man cause he says dumb shit?
Since I became single I've definitely gotten better at the guitar. Seems to be much easier to throw yourself into a hobby.
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Old 08-15-2014, 01:56 PM   #45822
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Since I became single I've definitely gotten better at the guitar. Seems to be much easier to throw yourself into a hobby.
We're you married or in a relationship? (You know what I mean)
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Old Yesterday, 06:58 PM   #45823
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We're you married or in a relationship? (You know what I mean)
He was in a long, 4ish or so years relationship.

Why is this thread dead suddenly?
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Re: Dating is miserable

No news on my front. Still have a week and a half or more before the next potential date.
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Day 6 of no contact complete. I'm investing myself in my job. I'm reading books for pleasure. I'm beginning to exercise more regularly. I was in NYC yesterday to hang out with some old friends.

Despite all that, I feel like shit. This is going to be a process.
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We're you married or in a relationship? (You know what I mean)
Alli is right. I was living with a girl that I'd been dating for 4 years.
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Re: Dating is miserable

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Day 6 of no contact complete. I'm investing myself in my job. I'm reading books for pleasure. I'm beginning to exercise more regularly. I was in NYC yesterday to hang out with some old friends.

Despite all that, I feel like shit. This is going to be a process.
It takes time, and even once you start going through the day no problem, you'll wake up the next morning and relapse into feeling like shit from time to time.

Just keep with the no contact.
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Old Today, 12:36 AM   #45828
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Definitely keep with the no contact. The shittiness goes away eventually as long as you don't keep adding to the shitpile with contact.
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He was in a long, 4ish or so years relationship.

Why is this thread dead suddenly?
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