Dating is miserable

[SqueeBaBooSquee]

Masters?

[dmbgodagirl41]

Originally Posted by UNC41

I'm leaning toward treating this past weekend as one final hurrah of sex and free football tickets and moving on. It's not that I'd feel any sort of guilt or anything because I've been completely honest, but rather to avoid seeing the inevitable full-forced crazy being unleashed toward me.

This. She's going to spew molten insane all over the place if you go any further. She's already smoking, ready to erupt.

[UTTAD83]

All women have doctorates in crazy

[dmbgodagirl41]

Agreed. I'm completely bonkers.

[wnderwoman]

I can be completely nuts sometimes.

[aronofsky41]

I guess it's better to find out the crazy before the wedding.

Even if it's 3 weeks before the wedding.

Gah.

[wnderwoman]

That is cutting it a little close, but if it makes you feel any better, my sister wanted to call off her wedding 2 months before it and didn't. They were divorced in under a year.

[aronofsky41]

Originally Posted by wnderwoman

That is cutting it a little close, but if it makes you feel any better, my sister wanted to call off her wedding 2 months before it and didn't. They were divorced in under a year.

Yeah. Not surprising.

I think I'm more pissed that I didn't dump her first. God knows I had reasons to.

[wnderwoman]

I think anyone can get comfortable with a situation, not matter how imperfect it is. With my sister I think she thought going through with it was what she was "supposed to do".

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by wnderwoman

I think anyone can get comfortable with a situation, not matter how imperfect it is. With my sister I think she thought going through with it was what she was "supposed to do".

Of course you get comfortable. That's why psycho hose beast and I were together for 7 years. Should have lasted 4 maybe 5 but the last few were the I'm comfortable and used to it years and just dealt with the shittiness. I never want to go through that again.

[wnderwoman]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

Of course you get comfortable. That's why psycho hose beast and I were together for 7 years. Should have lasted 4 maybe 5 but the last few were the I'm comfortable and used to it years and just dealt with the shittiness. I never want to go through that again.

I hear ya, I have serious PTSD when it comes to staying in a shitty relationship. I am a little more centered now and not quite so reactionary, I used to break up with someone at the drop of a hat. I would just end it.

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by wnderwoman

I hear ya, I have serious PTSD when it comes to staying in a shitty relationship. I am a little more centered now and not quite so reactionary, I used to break up with someone at the drop of a hat. I would just end it.

I have PTSD but not from that Well, I'm still kind of traumatized over the bullshit she pulled. And what pisses me off is she's been asking for information about me or what I'm doing, etc. The wedding I stood up in last month, the brides sister is my friend and my ex's best friend. When we broke up she told me she wasn't going to get in the middle she wanted to be both our friends.

Well she's the one who's been feeding my ex info about me, and then I hear from other friends my ex is talking shit about me. Next time I see her I'm telling her she needs to stop feeding her info and that I'm no longer discussing my life with her since she can't be trusted as a friend. Fucking gossiping women.

[cincydmbfan]

My friend suggested to me that I get in touch with my ex-boyfriend that I used to live with. She's off her damn rocker and I think she has something up her sleeve

[cincydmbfan]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

I have PTSD but not from that Well, I'm still kind of traumatized over the bullshit she pulled. And what pisses me off is she's been asking for information about me or what I'm doing, etc. The wedding I stood up in last month, the brides sister is my friend and my ex's best friend. When we broke up she told me she wasn't going to get in the middle she wanted to be both our friends.

Well she's the one who's been feeding my ex info about me, and then I hear from other friends my ex is talking shit about me. Next time I see her I'm telling her she needs to stop feeding her info and that I'm no longer discussing my life with her since she can't be trusted as a friend. Fucking gossiping women.

I'll be up there in November. You need me to straighten some bitches out for ya?

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by cincydmbfan

I'll be up there in November. You need me to straighten some bitches out for ya?

Haha nah but you will need to get a drink with me You're coming up for the Avett Brothers right?

[cincydmbfan]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

Haha nah but you will need to get a drink with me You're coming up for the Avett Brothers right?

Yes sir! I think many a drinks will be had

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by cincydmbfan

Yes sir! I think many a drinks will be had

By me I meant Jim and Riss and everyone lol. But yes, many drinks. Many many drinks.

[UNC41]

I want to see The Avett Brothers.

[cincydmbfan]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

By me I meant Jim and Riss and everyone lol. But yes, many drinks. Many many drinks.

I know that!

Originally Posted by UNC41

I want to see The Avett Brothers.

Come see them with us on Nov 18th in MKE!

[v0taw]

Originally Posted by cincydmbfan

My friend suggested to me that I get in touch with my ex-boyfriend that I used to live with. She's off her damn rocker and I think she has something up her sleeve

Whats up her sleeve?

[UTTAD83]

Ladies, does it mean anything if a girl asks if you are/were dating the girl they last saw you with? Like "Who was that girl you were with last week? Is she your gf?"

[UNC41]

Originally Posted by cincydmbfan

I know that!



Come see them with us on Nov 18th in MKE!

Any chance you have an extra ticket? I'd seriously look into it. They're a band I'd LOVE to see.

[SqueeBaBooSquee]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

Ladies, does it mean anything if a girl asks if you are/were dating the girl they last saw you with? Like "Who was that girl you were with last week? Is she your gf?"

everything a girl does/says is some sort of signal or psycho analysis. She's probably jealous. Guys are the complete opposite. We'll basically be upfront about what were doing/saying/thinking.

[SomeDevil#41]

I am on match.com 28yrs old. Dating does suck, no problem meeting woman or getting them to go out, just cant seem to meet the right one. If I could find a chick that is even 1/8 as crazy as I am about DMB I would be in love forever.

DMB Ladies -- I play gutiar and have pictures to send HIT ME UP!!!

[cincydmbfan]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

Ladies, does it mean anything if a girl asks if you are/were dating the girl they last saw you with? Like "Who was that girl you were with last week? Is she your gf?"

She's probably jealous and wants you all to herself OR she's a spy for your ex and is going to tell her that your dating someone.

Originally Posted by UNC41

Any chance you have an extra ticket? I'd seriously look into it. They're a band I'd LOVE to see.

I don't have an extra ticket but I don't think the show is sold out yet. We are only going Friday since Saturday was sold out when I decided to do this.

Originally Posted by SomeDevil#41

I am on match.com 28yrs old. Dating does suck, no problem meeting woman or getting them to go out, just cant seem to meet the right one. If I could find a chick that is even 1/8 as crazy as I am about DMB I would be in love forever.

DMB Ladies -- I play gutiar and have pictures to send HIT ME UP!!!

Good luck on match! I only met a bunch of weirdos and gave up after 6 months. I have 2 co-workers who had success from dating sites and are both married to the people they met online. One used match and the other used eharmony.

[Nick@Night]

I'm getting crazy/weird bullshit from three vagina sources at the same time. Women are just dumb as balls to me right now.

[aronofsky41]

How much time passes before you are considered a virgin again?

[UTTAD-BTCS]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

Ladies, does it mean anything if a girl asks if you are/were dating the girl they last saw you with? Like "Who was that girl you were with last week? Is she your gf?"

She either likes you and is trying to figure out if you're single or if you're seeing someone......or she's spying on you for your ex

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by SqueeBaBooSquee

everything a girl does/says is some sort of signal or psycho analysis. She's probably jealous. Guys are the complete opposite. We'll basically be upfront about what were doing/saying/thinking.

Originally Posted by cincydmbfan

She's probably jealous and wants you all to herself OR she's a spy for your ex and is going to tell her that your dating someone.



I don't have an extra ticket but I don't think the show is sold out yet. We are only going Friday since Saturday was sold out when I decided to do this.



Good luck on match! I only met a bunch of weirdos and gave up after 6 months. I have 2 co-workers who had success from dating sites and are both married to the people they met online. One used match and the other used eharmony.

Haha she isn't a spy or jealous. I'll fill you guys in. She bartends at the bar around the corner from my house. I had gone in there before with brown sugar (haha I can't help but say that) and have been in there a lot lately. She's a cool little hippie chick not a jealous type at all. And def doesn't know my ex. But I was walking Grux yesterday and walked by the bar (purposely lol) and she came out for a cigarette and we sat and talked for a bit.

She kind of called me out she was like "Hmm, I've never seen you walk this way is this your normal route?" And I just made some bs up. So we sat and talked for a bit and then she goes "That black girl you were with in here, is that like your girlfriend or is she just a friend or what?" And I told her she wasn't my gf and blah blah blah. After I said that she immediately said well I'm off in a half hour do you want to get a drink? So I went there and had a drink with her and then went to another bar and had a drink and got her number and went home. It was pretty fun she's a cool chick. I think she is in to me but I can never tell for sure and the way she asked if that girl was my gf kind of made me think she is.

[cincydmbfan]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

Haha she isn't a spy or jealous. I'll fill you guys in. She bartends at the bar around the corner from my house. I had gone in there before with brown sugar (haha I can't help but say that) and have been in there a lot lately. She's a cool little hippie chick not a jealous type at all. And def doesn't know my ex. But I was walking Grux yesterday and walked by the bar (purposely lol) and she came out for a cigarette and we sat and talked for a bit.

She kind of called me out she was like "Hmm, I've never seen you walk this way is this your normal route?" And I just made some bs up. So we sat and talked for a bit and then she goes "That black girl you were with in here, is that like your girlfriend or is she just a friend or what?" And I told her she wasn't my gf and blah blah blah. After I said that she immediately said well I'm off in a half hour do you want to get a drink? So I went there and had a drink with her and then went to another bar and had a drink and got her number and went home. It was pretty fun she's a cool chick. I think she is in to me but I can never tell for sure and the way she asked if that girl was my gf kind of made me think she is.

Sounds like she's def digging ya.