Coming Out

[ExistenceNow]

Originally Posted by drop2d

Maybe not... now his mom's going to be bugging him settling down and getting married.

With equality comes both the good and the bad.

[Arby]

:ld Jewish woman voice::

So when you settlin down n gett maaaaried??

[Arby]

fucked that up shit

[LadyMadonna68]

yikes .

[Climb2safety]

Originally Posted by YankeesDMB41

PM sent

You would not be the first to inquire.

[Jake]

OP, you thinking power bottom or top?

[keithcoldroses]

Originally Posted by Arby

:ld Jewish woman voice::

So when you settlin down n gett maaaaried??

Reported.

[gravedigger07]

Originally Posted by jcc522

Oh, thanks.

I couldn't get and stay erect to have sex with a man. Just wondering how OP could with a lady.

:thum bsup

I support this post 100%

[cazzie34]

Originally Posted by gravedigger07

:thum bsup

I support this post 100%

What are you getting at by supporting jeepkid's post? That OP is not really gay and just choosing to be gay? That he must really like women because he held an erection?

I'm sure OP was desperately trying to be attracted to women when he had sex with one. I doubt jeepkid would be desperately trying to be attracted to a man and feel accepted and "normal" by society when trying to do what he thinks is the same as OP having sex with a woman.

It's called context. We aren't robots. Our brains can try to convince ourselves of a lot of things. I doubt in jeepkid's world his brain would be desperately trying to convince him that he needs to fit into society and his family norms by having sex with a dude.

If it is true that OP was choosing to be gay, why would he write and agonize over coming out, potentially ruining relationships with the people he loves the most? If he was choosing to be gay then he is just looking for attention by posting this?

[ExistenceNow]

Also, human sexuality isn't a binary scale. Not everyone is 100% one or the other. The fact that dudes don't give JK or his mini-me cheerleader boners says nothing about the billions of other people on the planet. Congrats on being super straight though.

[thebridge15]

I mean you can be as gay as the day is long and it doesn't mean that you're repulsed by girls. it's not completely outlandish that you can get in the mood to have sex with one

[space_raven]

Ancient Astronaut Theorists say gay males/gay females have been having sex with the opposite sex for millions of years, until they realized they were actually gay or gathered up the courage to come out , and then switched to same sex sex.


It's not uncommon.

[mthawk07]

One of my best friends is gay. Said he used to sleep with women all the time when he was a teenager. Only way he could ever bust one was, by his words, "thinking about cock." So yeah, it's possible.

[thebridge15]

[ryguy469]

that's a wrap on the week, folks.

[AJF_41]

Originally Posted by Arby

:ld Jewish woman voice::

So when you settlin down n gett maaaaried??

Originally Posted by Arby

fucked that up shit

Originally Posted by LadyMadonna68

yikes .

[recentlyJTR41]

OP single handily changed this country. He should become a mod.

[jcc522]

Any didn't ask in some sort of way to question if OP picked gayness. Just wondering the mechanics of it.

There have been girls where it has taken effort to complete the task because I wasn't attracted to them. Just wondering how it works if OP wasn't even attracted to that sex.

Mthawk07's post cleared it up.

[kittensXLI]

Originally Posted by gravedigger07

:thum bsup

I support this post 100%

LOL, u ballwashing?

[YankeesDMB41]

Jesus Christ did this thread get weird?!? yes, im gay...doesnt mean that with a few beers in me i couldnt get with a girl

[JRS1386]

Originally Posted by YankeesDMB41

Jesus Christ did this thread get weird?!? yes, im gay...doesnt mean that with a few beers in me i couldnt get with a girl

I mean, you would bang Tom Brady I am assuming and that's pretty close to banging a chick

[grace2]

Originally Posted by YankeesDMB41

Another late night post....the amount of love and support I have gotten from my parents and the handful of friends I've told, have been overwhelming to the point that I'm a little annoyed...I've been hiding this/stressing out about this day for FIFTEEN years...and everyone is so positive and okay with this. There's part of me that I guess is angry at myself for feeling the need to hide it. My dad is my biggest supporter...telling me he's SO SO proud I just graduated college with honors, and have a teaching job interview, in an area where these jobs do not come by often.

Another reason I have for coming out, was going to a family friends' nephews funeral 3 days ago. Seeing a 13 year old boy in a casket will change you, and cemented the message that life is too short to fuck around, feel sorry for yourself, and hide things. Appreciate everything you have, and appreciate the love from your family. I'm telling my dad that his first child, and only son is a homo, just to get a reaction, and he's looking me in the eye and telling me he doesn't give a shit...that's something that will change you. Here are two Dave lines that have touched me deep down and made me feel... over my entire "in the closet phase"
1. "The space between, what's WRONG and RIGHT..is where you'll find me HIDING waiting for you."
2. Im lonely waiting...I wanted to stay, and I wanted to play, I wanted to love you...im only this far, and only tomorrow leads my way

Keep this thread around for a while (if anyone has any questions, PLEASE ask), because it helped me build the courage to say things I NEVER thought I'd say...I would even encourage sticky this to be honest. See everyone at Camden Friday.

Thank you EVERYONE...even you jeepkid

just amazing. this whole thread makes me happy

[YankeesDMB41]

Update: I've told about 90 percent of my friends and family, and no one cares at all. The person I would say who it weirds out/bothers the most is me This thread helped in a small way change my life. Thank you everyone

[mthawk07]

Originally Posted by YankeesDMB41

Update: I've told about 90 percent of my friends and family, and no one cares at all. The person I would say who it weirds out/bothers the most is me This thread helped in a small way change my life. Thank you everyone

[jcc522]

Originally Posted by YankeesDMB41

Update: I've told about 90 percent of my friends and family, and no one cares at all. The person I would say who it weirds out/bothers the most is me This thread helped in a small way change my life. Thank you everyone

Have you told any of the girls you had sex with?

[sbuzzz]

Originally Posted by jcc522

Have you told any of the girls you had sex with?

Why would he possibly need to do that?

[YankeesDMB41]

Originally Posted by jcc522

Have you told any of the girls you had sex with?

They were ugly enough, I don't need to bring them down any more

[jcc522]

Originally Posted by YankeesDMB41

They were ugly enough, I don't need to bring them down any more

ouch.

[YankeesDMB41]

as someone who has read these forums nonstop for 7 years, I expected one person to call me a fag and judge the shit out of me. It has been a huge surprise not seeing that....but part of me wants to hear the anti-gay side of this discussion, hearing what I have said for the last few weeks

[YankeesDMB41]

Originally Posted by ExistenceNow

Also, human sexuality isn't a binary scale. Not everyone is 100% one or the other. The fact that dudes don't give JK or his mini-me cheerleader boners says nothing about the billions of other people on the planet. Congrats on being super straight though.

This...To the 1000000th degree. I have "done what I've had to do" to girls riding the Sybian on the Howard Stern Show. I have no explanation to how that's possible, but I have......................just being honest