Dating is miserable

[rconverse]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

I need to decorate my house. The ex took all decorations. Living room I have a brass legs/glass top coffee table set, a couch, shitty tv/stand, and a bookshelf My office/computer room is more decorated, computer desk, futon, rat pack picture hung up, a painting of Dave Matthews, my bass is on the wall, and some other sports shit is hung up. My place is a total bachelor pad

The best decor is no decor. Truth.

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by rconverse

The best decor is no decor. Truth.

It's just really bare in the living room. I don't care, but people (girls) are always like you should let me decorate!

[Nick@Night]

You bring a girl to an undecorated house they will immediately be upset. In college I let a friend borrow a sweatshirt so she went to my closet and was horrified at how unorganized it was. She spent the next hour organizing it for me.

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by Nick@Night

You bring a girl to an undecorated house they will immediately be upset. In college I let a friend borrow a sweatshirt so she went to my closet and was horrified at how unorganized it was. She spent the next hour organizing it for me.

Haha yeah, every time girls come by they're always picking shit up for me and then commenting on how my fridge only has milk and beer in it I just laugh though, like I really want you to put your .02 in to the place I live, that you visit once in a while.

[dmbgodagirl41]

Originally Posted by Nick@Night

You bring a girl to an undecorated house they will immediately be upset. In college I let a friend borrow a sweatshirt so she went to my closet and was horrified at how unorganized it was. She spent the next hour organizing it for me.

What the fuck kind of mongoloid doesn't organize their closet?

Left to right, should be winter coats, winter vests, dresses (or suits for men), sweaters by color, button-up shirts, casual shirts (ordered like white, black, navy, purple, brown, red, pink, orange, yellow, multi/misc), sports jerseys by team, sports tee shirts by team, belts, scarves, and finally, spring jackets and rain coats.

Duh.

[dmbgodagirl41]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

It's just really bare in the living room. I don't care, but people (girls) are always like you should let me decorate!

Women, in general, shouldn't decorate a guy's place. Hell, they shouldn't really decorate, either, unless they are a minimalist or not a fan of hot pink.

I love hot pink, therefore, i stick to organizing, not decorating.

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

What the fuck kind of mongoloid doesn't organize their closet?

Left to right, should be winter coats, winter vests, dresses (or suits for men), sweaters by color, button-up shirts, casual shirts (ordered like white, black, navy, purple, brown, red, pink, orange, yellow, multi/misc), sports jerseys by team, sports tee shirts by team, belts, scarves, and finally, spring jackets and rain coats.

Duh.

Fuck. All. That. Shit

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

Women, in general, shouldn't decorate a guy's place. Hell, they shouldn't really decorate, either, unless they are a minimalist or not a fan of hot pink.

I love hot pink, therefore, i stick to organizing, not decorating.

Yeah, well, if I decorate the place will be covered in Packers, Brewers, and DMB shit

[Nick@Night]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

What the fuck kind of mongoloid doesn't organize their closet?

Left to right, should be winter coats, winter vests, dresses (or suits for men), sweaters by color, button-up shirts, casual shirts (ordered like white, black, navy, purple, brown, red, pink, orange, yellow, multi/misc), sports jerseys by team, sports tee shirts by team, belts, scarves, and finally, spring jackets and rain coats.

Duh.

Your closet sucks at life.

[pathetic]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

What the fuck kind of mongoloid doesn't organize their closet?

Left to right, should be winter coats, winter vests, dresses (or suits for men), sweaters by color, button-up shirts, casual shirts (ordered like white, black, navy, purple, brown, red, pink, orange, yellow, multi/misc), sports jerseys by team, sports tee shirts by team, belts, scarves, and finally, spring jackets and rain coats.

Duh.

yeah, fuck that....

who has that many different kinds of clothes?

gym/sports wear is in my top drawer, work clothes (dress shirts, polo's dockers) hanging up...that's all i really care about.

[rconverse]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

What the fuck kind of mongoloid doesn't organize their closet?

Left to right, should be winter coats, winter vests, dresses (or suits for men), sweaters by color, button-up shirts, casual shirts (ordered like white, black, navy, purple, brown, red, pink, orange, yellow, multi/misc), sports jerseys by team, sports tee shirts by team, belts, scarves, and finally, spring jackets and rain coats.

Duh.

I organize my closet similarly.

[UNC41]

Originally Posted by UTTAD-BTCS

haha I agree with you. I would never date a pretty guy either.

I had one guy get so offended at me that I didn't recognize the designer label of his tie, and then get offended that I didn't care haha.

I could never date a guy that was more into clothes and fashion than I was either haha.

The girl I've been seeing wears dresses all the freaking time. She came over to watch football on Monday in a dress and heels. I had on a t-shirt and jeans. I refuse to dress up for football.

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

It's just really bare in the living room. I don't care, but people (girls) are always like you should let me decorate!

I gave into this and am giving my cousin a couple grand to decorated my condo this fall.

[Nick@Night]

The ex still has my giant framed Dave poster at her house.

[UTTAD83]

^^ Kill her

[bamarags]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

What the fuck kind of mongoloid doesn't organize their closet?

Left to right, should be winter coats, winter vests, dresses (or suits for men), sweaters by color, button-up shirts, casual shirts (ordered like white, black, navy, purple, brown, red, pink, orange, yellow, multi/misc), sports jerseys by team, sports tee shirts by team, belts, scarves, and finally, spring jackets and rain coats.

Duh.

That's tedious and although it sounds nice, I'd never have the patience for that. Most of my clothes are on the floor, I'm such an unorganized mess.

Originally Posted by UNC41

The girl I've been seeing wears dresses all the freaking time. She came over to watch football on Monday in a dress and heels. I had on a t-shirt and jeans. I refuse to dress up for football.

I love dresses You should too. Easy access!

[rconverse]

Originally Posted by bamarags

I love dresses You should too. Easy access!

Agreed.

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by bamarags

That's tedious and although it sounds nice, I'd never have the patience for that. Most of my clothes are on the floor, I'm such an unorganized mess.



I love dresses You should too. Easy access!

Haha, most of my clothes are on the floor too

And to the easy access part, yes. Thank you. Yes.

[Nick@Night]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

^^ Kill her

I fought the urge.

[UNC41]

Originally Posted by bamarags

That's tedious and although it sounds nice, I'd never have the patience for that. Most of my clothes are on the floor, I'm such an unorganized mess.



I love dresses You should too. Easy access!

That's always a plus, and I dig dresses on most occasions, but all dresses all the time has me thinking high maintenance, which will only cause me to run if true.

[UTTAD-BTCS]

Originally Posted by UNC41

The girl I've been seeing wears dresses all the freaking time. She came over to watch football on Monday in a dress and heels. I had on a t-shirt and jeans. I refuse to dress up for football.



I gave into this and am giving my cousin a couple grand to decorated my condo this fall.

haha wow....don't get me wrong I wear dresses all the time too but on Monday night I was wearing jeans and my Wes Welker jersey.

Were you going out somewhere or just watching the game at your place?

[UTTAD-BTCS]

Originally Posted by UNC41

That's always a plus, and I dig dresses on most occasions, but all dresses all the time has me thinking high maintenance, which will only cause me to run if true.

haha I wear dresses all the time because i'm short and dresses and skirts are much easier to wear for short people than pants. I feel like I can never find a pair of pants that fit me without having to be hemmed.

I'm not high maintenance at all but I wear dresses all the time because i'm lazy and don't feel like going to get all my pants hemmed haha.

[bamarags]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

Haha, most of my clothes are on the floor too

And to the easy access part, yes. Thank you. Yes.

You're welcome

I'm that obnoxious girl who always complains about not having the right clothes or not being able to find what I want to wear. Primarily because I am lazy and last minute about everything, I love to throw shit in a pile and never think about it again

Originally Posted by UNC41

That's always a plus, and I dig dresses on most occasions, but all dresses all the time has me thinking high maintenance, which will only cause me to run if true.

Not all girls who wear dresses are high maintenance just as not all girls wearing sneakers and jeans are easy going. I'll bet she just wants to impress you and feels her best in heels and dresses.

[UNC41]

Valid points ladies. She is short, and I had never thought of that as why. Maybe I find it weird because I've never dated a girl who has busted out a different dress for our first eight or so dates, including a couple watching football and playing board games lounging around my place.

[dmbgodagirl41]

Originally Posted by UNC41

The girl I've been seeing wears dresses all the freaking time. She came over to watch football on Monday in a dress and heels. I had on a t-shirt and jeans. I refuse to dress up for football.



I gave into this and am giving my cousin a couple grand to decorated my condo this fall.

Bolded: is this encouraged, or do you think it's indicative of someone who is high maintenance?

I am struggling with my ability to be "one of the guys" but also show that I'm mega girly. I wear more dresses now, but I don't think I could bring myself to wearing a dress to a football get-together, but I dunno...do guys like the chick that shows up to watch the game in a dress?

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by bamarags

You're welcome

I'm that obnoxious girl who always complains about not having the right clothes or not being able to find what I want to wear. Primarily because I am lazy and last minute about everything, I love to throw shit in a pile and never think about it again



Not all girls who wear dresses are high maintenance just as not all girls wearing sneakers and jeans are easy going. I'll bet she just wants to impress you and feels her best in heels and dresses.

Yeah, I hate doing laundry, mainly folding it. I'll hang up what needs to get hung up, but everything else ends up on the floor

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

Bolded: is this encouraged, or do you think it's indicative of someone who is high maintenance?

I am struggling with my ability to be "one of the guys" but also show that I'm mega girly. I wear more dresses now, but I don't think I could bring myself to wearing a dress to a football get-together, but I dunno...do guys like the chick that shows up to watch the game in a dress?

Eh, we always question those chicks. Most of the girls that watch games with us are the jeans and sweatshirt/shirt/jersey types. I'd much prefer that to be honest.

[Styx Cover Band]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

Bolded: is this encouraged, or do you think it's indicative of someone who is high maintenance?

I am struggling with my ability to be "one of the guys" but also show that I'm mega girly. I wear more dresses now, but I don't think I could bring myself to wearing a dress to a football get-together, but I dunno...do guys like the chick that shows up to watch the game in a dress?

Bang her? Probably, like her? Nah seems like she is trying to hard. It's like the chicks that dress up to go to a Cubs game, seriously what are you trying to prove?

[UNC41]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

Bolded: is this encouraged, or do you think it's indicative of someone who is high maintenance?

I am struggling with my ability to be "one of the guys" but also show that I'm mega girly. I wear more dresses now, but I don't think I could bring myself to wearing a dress to a football get-together, but I dunno...do guys like the chick that shows up to watch the game in a dress?

I thought it was a little odd. I'm always casual hanging around my place unless I'm doing something like cooking a nice dinner. If she can accept that I'm a more casual dresser and that my hand will instinctively wander when she'swearing dresses, I probably shouldn't complain.

[dmbgodagirl41]

Thanks for the feedback!

I always make fun of those chicks that go to the ball park in a dress, so I didn't know if guys are actually a fan. I don't mean I show up looking like a bum, but I'm always in nice jeans and maybe a chic-cut tee shirt of the team I want to win and sneakers.

[rconverse]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

Bolded: is this encouraged, or do you think it's indicative of someone who is high maintenance?

I am struggling with my ability to be "one of the guys" but also show that I'm mega girly. I wear more dresses now, but I don't think I could bring myself to wearing a dress to a football get-together, but I dunno...do guys like the chick that shows up to watch the game in a dress?

Where do you get this ridiculous notion that guys want girls to be "one of the guys"?

[rconverse]

A casual dress in the summer at a Cubs game isn't a big deal. If you're wearing something tight with heels, it's probably going to look silly at the ball park. Generally speaking, I like girls to dress like girls.

[pathetic]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

Yeah, I hate doing laundry, mainly folding it. I'll hang up what needs to get hung up, but everything else ends up on the floor

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my problem is that most of the clothes on my far are clean and have to be washed anyway because i'll put something on, then 2 min later i'll decide to wear a different shirt and since that one has deodorant on it it'll need to be washed even though i only wore it for 2 min