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Old 10-21-2014, 02:26 PM   #46231
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Not sure how that will work, haven't really thought to ask yet.

Not sure, he wants to buy a house in cash but I don't know how likely that is to happen.
For the first part, if you are having any reservations, espcially at this point, its worth bringing these things up. At two years, discussions about future finances, kids, relocating, etc. is not out of bounds - its probably needed.

As for the bolded, why?? And then what, work like a dog to pay cash for a bigger house?
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    For the first part, if you are having any reservations, espcially at this point, its worth bringing these things up. At two years, discussions about future finances, kids, relocating, etc. is not out of bounds - its probably needed.

    As for the bolded, why?? And then what, work like a dog to pay cash for a bigger house?
    Agree with Steve. Paying for the entire house in cash is just an unneeded financial burden IMO.
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    Old 10-21-2014, 03:00 PM   #46233
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    Paying for a house in all cash is probably a dumb use of your cash. Get a 20% down payment to avoid PMI, yes. Straight cash only saves you whatever interest you'd be paying. Can probably get a better return elsewhere.
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    Old 10-21-2014, 04:01 PM   #46234
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    Paying for a house in all cash is probably a dumb use of your cash. Get a 20% down payment to avoid PMI, yes. Straight cash only saves you whatever interest you'd be paying. Can probably get a better return elsewhere.
    Exactly. And the time you spend saving up you have to live somewhere.
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    Old 10-21-2014, 04:03 PM   #46235
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    rodey's been in a relationship for 3 days and he's giving relationship advice. hasnt even rawdog'd her yet
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    Old 10-21-2014, 04:14 PM   #46236
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    rodey's been in a relationship for 3 days and he's giving relationship advice. hasnt even rawdog'd her yet
    This is the kind of context that this thread needed.
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    Old 10-21-2014, 04:15 PM   #46237
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    i do what i can
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    Old 10-21-2014, 05:02 PM   #46238
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    Re: Dating is miserable

    Luke complains when girls don't bang him after taking them to McDonald's.
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    Old 10-21-2014, 05:15 PM   #46239
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    Luke complains when girls don't bang him after taking them to McDonald's.
    When she is your ex and we hung out all night and we always sum, I was disappointed, yes.

    She forgave me tho
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    Old 10-21-2014, 05:43 PM   #46240
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    Luke complains when girls don't bang him after taking them to McDonald's.
    Lololololol
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    Old 10-21-2014, 05:47 PM   #46241
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    Let it be known it was McDonalds because it was 1230 at night. I wasn't mad because I spent money (lol you could read that post as I took her on a date to mcD's). I was upset cause she turned me down after leading me on when literally we always hook up.

    But we're both over it.
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    Old 10-21-2014, 06:31 PM   #46242
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    Anyone gonna be up when I get home tonight?
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    Old 10-21-2014, 06:32 PM   #46243
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    If I'm ever upset because I didn't get laid when I'm getting it on the reg then shoot me. Because one should never complain if you're getting laid semi regularly.
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    If I'm ever upset because I didn't get laid when I'm getting it on the reg then shoot me. Because one should never complain if you're getting laid semi regularly.
    this statement is completely false
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    Old 10-21-2014, 07:57 PM   #46245
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    this statement is completely false
    Not false at all. If you're getting it on the reg I don't see the reason to complain.
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    Old 10-21-2014, 08:53 PM   #46246
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    Damn. Slow night evidently
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    Damn. Slow night evidently
    Chad, you know you're in Dating is Miserable, right??
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    Old 10-21-2014, 09:10 PM   #46249
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    Chad, you know you're in Dating is Miserable, right??
    chad posting in the wrong thread
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    Old 10-21-2014, 09:11 PM   #46250
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    Chad, if you get it on the reg, and then dont all of a sudden, you can def complain....the reg sum basically stops when it becomes a real relationship. then its just 2-3x a week
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    Old 10-21-2014, 09:23 PM   #46251
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    Chad, you know you're in Dating is Miserable, right??
    Lol. Had no idea.
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    Old 10-21-2014, 09:24 PM   #46252
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    Chad, if you get it on the reg, and then dont all of a sudden, you can def complain....the reg sum basically stops when it becomes a real relationship. then its just 2-3x a week
    Yeah but 2 to 3 times a week is nothing to complain about.
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    Damn. Slow night evidently
    Lololololol
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    Yeah but 2 to 3 times a week is nothing to complain about.
    Yea what's wrong with 2-3x a week?
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    ^ I was getting laid more when I was dating multiple women. Now that I'm with the girl, we spend more time together but by the time it comes to go to bed, I'm usually exhausted so I crawl into bed and pass out in like 10 minutes. I'm pulling for 2-4 times a week. I need to start getting into bed earlier maybe that'd help. Also, trying to be creative and come up with new moves all the time is tough. I hate it when it feels routine.
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    He's just pissed because his wife is pregnant and not DTF
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    Chad, brother, your out of ship post-a-thon made my morning.
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    still laughing about Chad
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    He's just pissed because his wife is pregnant and not DTF
    honestly, when we found out she was pregnant the break was welcome...5x a week for almost 10 months. im still exhausted
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    Old 10-23-2014, 08:29 AM   #46260
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    The girl I dated at my office no longer works for the company. Feels good, man.
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