Re: Dating is miserable
Anyways, in this case, I was only playing off of all the things she'd been saying to me. Texting me "So do you see something with us?' On the phone the next day still saying how great the date went. I guess what I should have done the second she canceled on me was just text back "K" and said nothing more. She texted me "U mad at me?" and I just didn't say anything. After that it just got weird.
I definitely need more practice with everything. Gotta learn to not show interest, and pretend I dont care about her after a good date. If you're the one showing interest, you look desperate or something. I'm not used to playing the field, after wasting my college years with a gf.
Little did she know, but I'm talking to 3 other girls right now, and actually stopped talking to two others all in that span during that week. It's not that I'm desperate, it's just that I really liked her and felt reciprocated after that date. Didn't think she was gonna flip on me like that and thought it was ok to act more "official-like" that we were going on another date. Rather than just ignoring her and waiting for her to call me again which is what I should have done. Casual casual casual.
Another learning experience for me...
__________________
"And later I talk to former Presidential candidate Gary Hart and tell him how more Democrats should follow his example -- and leave politics."
- Stephen Colbert
Last edited by Tiduwho; 06-25-2009 at 04:08 PM.
|