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Old 09-28-2014, 12:16 AM   #46141
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Dating is miserable

Friday was interesting in regard to my ex. Ugh. Call backs every 5 weeks are gonna blow
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  • Old 09-28-2014, 12:22 AM   #46142
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    Re: Dating is miserable

    What happened?
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    Old 09-28-2014, 02:56 PM   #46143
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    Re: Dating is miserable

    Really thinking about mentioning making things official tomorrow.

    I just got that feeling last week that we've taken a big step forward within the past week and a half (and already have two dates planned for this week). I also feel like that if I don't bring it up, it might never get discussed. I've gathered that she is kind of timid about making the first move/talking about these types of things.
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    Old 09-28-2014, 11:40 PM   #46144
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    I'd give it at least another week
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    Old 09-28-2014, 11:47 PM   #46145
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    Re: Dating is miserable

    Eh, I don't know if a week is going to make a ton of difference. I feel like it's need some type of defining at this point. It's been over two months since we first started talking and I feel like at this point, the topic at least needs to be broached.
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    Old 09-29-2014, 12:17 AM   #46146
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    Re: Dating is miserable

    I say do it Jordan. If things are looking up and she isn't going to bring it up due to being timid then you should.
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    Old 09-29-2014, 12:19 AM   #46147
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    Re: Dating is miserable

    Monday: Went over to chick's house. Summed as the rebound guy. Weird chick though.
    Thursday: Go to bar to meet up with a girl. Turns out she's part of a group of swingers. They all invite me back to their hotel room. I decline...drink alone at the bar. Not a bad night though
    Saturday: Went over to play music with a girl who's really cool. We spent most of the time hanging out instead of playing so that seems like a good sign.
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    Old Yesterday, 06:58 PM   #46148
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    Dating is miserable

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    What happened?

    She was txting me all week and I finally caved and just said is this a fucking game to you, I'm done. She kept pushing. She begged me to hang out with her so we walked around campus for an hour. We summed in a bathroom. She's been changed ever since. Trying, correcting things she should have awhile ago, told me she's ready to try and she's upset with herself it took this long

    I told her I'm guarded. I boned her to bone her. But idk where I'm at with it. Mostly bc of my rotations and plans with other friends who are women
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    Old Yesterday, 07:30 PM   #46149
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    Re: Dating is miserable

    ^Oh lawd.
    Trouble written all over it. Stay away, guarantee she's "changed" for a month or less, it's an act.
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    Old Yesterday, 07:52 PM   #46150
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    Monday: Went over to chick's house. Summed as the rebound guy. Weird chick though.
    Thursday: Go to bar to meet up with a girl. Turns out she's part of a group of swingers. They all invite me back to their hotel room. I decline...drink alone at the bar. Not a bad night though
    Saturday: Went over to play music with a girl who's really cool. We spent most of the time hanging out instead of playing so that seems like a good sign.
    Were any of the swingers hot, Chad??
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    Old Yesterday, 08:42 PM   #46151
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    She was txting me all week and I finally caved and just said is this a fucking game to you, I'm done. She kept pushing. She begged me to hang out with her so we walked around campus for an hour. We summed in a bathroom. She's been changed ever since. Trying, correcting things she should have awhile ago, told me she's ready to try and she's upset with herself it took this long

    I told her I'm guarded. I boned her to bone her. But idk where I'm at with it. Mostly bc of my rotations and plans with other friends who are women
    Damn dude! Stay away is my advice.
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    Were any of the swingers hot, Chad??
    The one who invited me out was cute. The rest were iffy to say the least.
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    Old Yesterday, 08:43 PM   #46153
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    Re: Dating is miserable

    Aren't all swingers ugly and fat? (disclaimer: I'm good looking and fat)

    And dude, Matt stop Flacco-ing!
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    Re: Dating is miserable

    So you are talking to someone you think is attractive by their current pics online on some dating site, but the pics are not so inclusive of how you want to see. A few private msg exchanges for better pics lead to her maybe thinking you are physically shallow.... does that happen to you guys...
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    Aren't all swingers ugly and fat? (disclaimer: I'm good looking and fat)

    And dude, Matt stop Flacco-ing!
    Not all of them. Most of the people in the group weren't fat. Just some ugly and most older. I was the youngest one that would have been involved and I'm 26.
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    So you are talking to someone you think is attractive by their current pics online on some dating site, but the pics are not so inclusive of how you want to see. A few private msg exchanges for better pics lead to her maybe thinking you are physically shallow.... does that happen to you guys...
    Are you asking for noodz? Because if you are then I can see where they may think that. Though I mean typically I don't ask for more pics. I'll meet someone first.
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    So you are talking to someone you think is attractive by their current pics online on some dating site, but the pics are not so inclusive of how you want to see. A few private msg exchanges for better pics lead to her maybe thinking you are physically shallow.... does that happen to you guys...
    Sounds like you are trying to see if she is fat and those pics are current, so yeah, that's being shallow. Just meet her first. Or watch the shitty fat suit tender video.
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    I'd never ask for better pictures. That's terrible. :lol

    Just meet her for a drink or something once. If you aren't attracted, just say thanks and leave after a beer.
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