Re: Dating is miserable
^ Nice. Thanks for the translation. English and American are entirely separate languages.
Just got in the door from night out with The Local. She was much more fun then I expected her to be. It was missing that cultural divide but it didn't stop us.
She took us to this bar called "Get Well". It's a micro-brewery with old school arcade games in the back. By the time we had finished the initial conversations it was too busy for us to get in any arcade games. It's too bad really. There was an old school Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Turtles in Time Game that was screaming out my name.
Alas, we decided to goto another pub and have some drinks there as Get Well was too busy. So we get there. shoot the shit for a bit and she's like, "Oh. I live so close". Yeah you do.
She starts talking about this guitar she has and how it never gets played etc etc. I inform her I play music and had done so for a living for a brief period of time in my life. If she's interested, I'd love to play her a couple of songs.
She agrees but stipulates, "Okay! But we're not having sex. I mean it. I'm not just doing that girl thing where I say that to be lady like. We're not doing it".
Okay, fine. If you have booze i'm totally fine with it.
So we get to her place, she cracks open the wine and we start in on that. I proceed to play her a couple of songs. Nothing too crazy; Blackbird, I Want You Back, and an original.
She's into it and proposed we move things over to the bed. All the while, she's still doing the I don't want to have sex with you bit. Her fear is that it'll be a one night stand. Totally reasonable.
I tell her what I tell most women in this case. "Look, I've never understood the idea of a one night stand. If someone is looking to hate fuck someone then I guess that would make more sense. However, sex is awesome. I'm at least going to have sex with you a couple more times, so have no fear about this being a one night stand.
Overall. Good night. She was much better looking naked then with her clothes on. I thought that was a pleasant surprise.
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-Troy
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