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Originally Posted by Rodey
You're making it sound like four dates is an eternity to not have sex. I don't agree at all.
That said, I think I'm going to attempt to escalate things in a different way by just saying I've really been enjoying spending time with her and asking what she thinks about seeing each other more often.
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I'm not saying that 4 dates is an eternity to not have sex. I'm saying that telling someone we are exclusive after only 4 dates without any sort of grownup intimacy is premature.
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to your plan. The natural progression should be that you see each other more often. But maybe instead of asking just start doing. What I mean by that is instead of having a conversation about hanging out more just start asking her to hang out more. So if right now you only plan something once a week, plan something 2-3 days in the future. Then repeat. Have a late night hang out where you say she can spend the night if she wants.
It'll suck though because she is in law school so as the semester goes on her busyness will increase. Watch out for that and don't get too pot-committed.