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Old 06-12-2009, 08:14 PM   #121
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Or a girl that doesn't share her steak!
In my world, women would never have steak when I'm around.
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    haha....girl did that to me a few weeks ago. i stopped talking to her after like 2 days. one word answers are lame.
    For real. She had pretty interesting emails, and I think she's a smart & shy type. I dunno.
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    Old 06-12-2009, 08:20 PM   #123
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    For real. She had pretty interesting emails, and I think she's a smart & shy type. I dunno.
    this girl never said much...it was like trying to break open a vault just to find out what she did for a living.
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    Old 06-12-2009, 08:26 PM   #124
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    this girl never said much...it was like trying to break open a vault just to find out what she did for a living.
    She says she was at her nanny job. "Oh yeah, so how old are the kids? Like, just boys? girls? What movie did you go see?"

    Her responses were:

    "They're 6 and 9"
    "One boy, one girl"
    "The movie Up"

    Oh yeah, I heard that was a really good movie for kids. So what did you think, did the kids like it at least?

    "Yeah, it was alright."

    And it would just be a pause then...until I'd say something else to try to keep the conversation going.
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    Old 06-12-2009, 08:28 PM   #125
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    On a different front, girl is texting me to go out with her in kenosha tomorrow night. Just first talked to her today on p.o.f. She emailed me saying i'm cute, i quickly find out her bf of 2 months broke up with her two days ago so she's def still upset about that, and before you know it she's hopping on her webcam in front of me. Well, she's out at a bar now texting me to go out with her tomorrow.

    So lol, what do I do in this situation? She's clearly emotionally vulnerable. Should I care?

    We're talking like no get to know each other stage at all...and she wants to go out and drink with me. Clearly a rebound and get-her-mind-off-ex situation. Never dealt with one though, so not sure if I should just go with it or 10 foot pole it.
    So she's going out with her sister-in-law and her in Kenosha tomorrow night and wants me to go. Sounds potentially really awkward for a girl I haven't even talked on the phone with yet. Hum.

    I think all the pictures of me on p.o.f. do me justice, but still, what if I walk into a secret firestorm where her sister-in-law is just whispering "wow, drop this guy now" to her. Egh. Potential for awkwardity.
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    Old 06-12-2009, 08:31 PM   #126
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    I don't know why I have posted in this thread yet.

    Dating fucking blow. I've been single for the past 4 years and have gone on a number of dates and honest to God can't recall a single good one. There was one girl I REALLY wanted to date. Called her, she had previous engagements. So, I waited about a week and called her again. She didn't pick up so I just left a brief message saying who I was and for her to call me back. She never did. We haven't talked since then and I graduated college and she still has a year left. Who knows if I'll ever see her again.

    I'm tired of being single but dating is such an awful route to go on to end this single life.
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    Old 06-12-2009, 09:56 PM   #127
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    On a different front, girl is texting me to go out with her in kenosha tomorrow night. Just first talked to her today on p.o.f. She emailed me saying i'm cute, i quickly find out her bf of 2 months broke up with her two days ago so she's def still upset about that, and before you know it she's hopping on her webcam in front of me. Well, she's out at a bar now texting me to go out with her tomorrow.

    So lol, what do I do in this situation? She's clearly emotionally vulnerable. Should I care?

    We're talking like no get to know each other stage at all...and she wants to go out and drink with me. Clearly a rebound and get-her-mind-off-ex situation. Never dealt with one though, so not sure if I should just go with it or 10 foot pole it.
    10 foot pole her vagina.

    But seriously...go for it if you are attracted to her or if you like her at all.
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    Old 06-12-2009, 09:58 PM   #128
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    So she's going out with her sister-in-law and her in Kenosha tomorrow night and wants me to go. Sounds potentially really awkward for a girl I haven't even talked on the phone with yet. Hum.

    I think all the pictures of me on p.o.f. do me justice, but still, what if I walk into a secret firestorm where her sister-in-law is just whispering "wow, drop this guy now" to her. Egh. Potential for awkwardity.
    Threesome FTW!
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    Old 06-12-2009, 10:17 PM   #129
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    Eh, this may or may not be the case. You're probably the type that likes to be friends/know the person well before dating them.
    Maybe. I've done ok with meeting girls randomly and going on dates...but none of them have really gone to serious territory.
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    Old 06-12-2009, 10:20 PM   #130
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    well the only friends you add on ants are females...so maybe it's time to meet real females
    Holy extrapolation batman.

    Where the fuck did that come from?

    1) They aren't all females.
    2) They're not real?
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    Old 06-12-2009, 10:37 PM   #131
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    10 foot pole her vagina.

    But seriously...go for it if you are attracted to her or if you like her at all.
    just get ready for her to be batshit crazy.
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    Old 06-13-2009, 07:32 AM   #132
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    I don't know why I have posted in this thread yet.

    Dating fucking blow. I've been single for the past 4 years and have gone on a number of dates and honest to God can't recall a single good one. There was one girl I REALLY wanted to date. Called her, she had previous engagements. So, I waited about a week and called her again. She didn't pick up so I just left a brief message saying who I was and for her to call me back. She never did. We haven't talked since then and I graduated college and she still has a year left. Who knows if I'll ever see her again.

    I'm tired of being single but dating is such an awful route to go on to end this single life.

    noticed you were a member of seanmh's thread. that probably has something to do with not having a good date.
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    Old 06-13-2009, 07:33 AM   #133
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    Holy extrapolation batman.
    nice
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    Old 06-13-2009, 09:25 AM   #134
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    noticed you were a member of seanmh's thread. that probably has something to do with not having a good date.

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    Old 06-13-2009, 10:10 AM   #135
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    I'm sure you're a nice guy in person, Carbon Copy...but I must ask: why are you such a dick?
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    Old 06-13-2009, 10:12 AM   #136
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    noticed you were a member of seanmh's thread. that probably has something to do with not having a good date.
    rofl.
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    Old 06-13-2009, 10:13 AM   #137
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    I'm sure you're a nice guy in person, Carbon Copy...but I must ask: why are you such a dick?
    Because he brings teh lulz.
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    Old 06-13-2009, 10:19 AM   #138
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    Old 06-13-2009, 10:20 AM   #139
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    hahahaha I love Friends.

    Roger is a fan of eating all steak in site, especially if it has yummy marinade from Casa Funktabulous.


    What is this Casa Funktabulous you speak of?
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    Old 06-13-2009, 10:26 AM   #140
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    What is this Casa Funktabulous you speak of?
    It's a restaurant where the site admins took all the cool members of Ants plus for a private show followed by a steak dinner with the band.
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    Old 06-13-2009, 10:28 AM   #141
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    It's a restaurant where the site admins took all the cool members of Ants plus for a private show followed by a steak dinner with the band.


    Grrr... I wanted me some tasty marinade. Guess it's back to Stubb's for me (which is not a bad thing).

    Fuck you, in-crowd.
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    Grrr... I wanted me some tasty marinade. Guess it's back to Stubb's for me (which is not a bad thing).

    Fuck you, in-crowd.
    I was only invited to carry bags. I'm not in Ants+. They're a bunch of elitist pricks!!

    It's just someone's house.
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    Grrr... I wanted me some tasty marinade. Guess it's back to Stubb's for me (which is not a bad thing).

    Fuck you, in-crowd.
    Roger isn't in the in-crowd.

    Don't let him fool you.
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    noticed you were a member of seanmh's thread. that probably has something to do with not having a good date.
    shieeeet!
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    noticed you were a member of seanmh's thread. that probably has something to do with not having a good date.
    Not sure I get this one. Everyone else seems to think it's hilarious so I guess it's a funny jab at me? But, like I said...I don't really get it.
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    Not sure I get this one. Everyone else seems to think it's hilarious so I guess it's a funny jab at me? But, like I said...I don't really get it.
    It was that seanmh is clearly too busy posting all day to have a date. Therefore, anything he touches or anyone that associates with him, must not have a date either.
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    It was that seanmh is clearly too busy posting all day to have a date. Therefore, anything he touches or anyone that associates with him, must not have a date either.
    Ahhhh hahaha. Got ya. Well, I can promise you that I do not post nearly as much as SeanMH. Hell, I don't have as many posts as you all do.

    Edit: You and I joined the same year and you have about 4 times as many posts as I do.
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    Ahhhh hahaha. Got ya. Well, I can promise you that I do not post nearly as much as SeanMH. Hell, I don't have as many posts as you all do.

    Edit: You and I joined the same year and you have about 4 times as many posts as I do.
    Then get to posting!
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    Ahhhh hahaha. Got ya. Well, I can promise you that I do not post nearly as much as SeanMH. Hell, I don't have as many posts as you all do.

    Edit: You and I joined the same year and you have about 4 times as many posts as I do.
    I think my e-cred speaks for itself.
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    Old 06-13-2009, 11:50 AM   #150
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    I think my e-cred speaks for itself.
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