Go Back   Antsmarching.org Forums > General Discussion > MikeMasseC > Chat Threads


Want to hide all ads on Ants? Click here
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 08-20-2015, 03:46 PM   #47191
bartender_man
 
bartender_man's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 15,305

Shows Seen: 32

Re: Dating is miserable

Quote:
Originally Posted by thechad90000 View Post
Yeah, got a message that she's still hung up on an ex last night. Probably bs to spare my feelings and what not but whatever. Dating blows.
Sorry to hear bro. Been through that exact situation before as well.
__________________
Currently listening to: Metallica in Chicago
bartender_man is offline   Reply With Quote

  • Want to hide all ads on Ants? Click here
  • Old 08-20-2015, 03:47 PM   #47192
    bartender_man
     
    bartender_man's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Sep 2002
    Location: New Zealand
    Posts: 15,305

    Shows Seen: 32

    Re: Dating is miserable

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Speilmen230 View Post
    I always looked to round 2 as the make or break date. Had some great 1st dates before and then it was like it never happened on date 2 and it was a stunning failure. Other times it only built on the great first round.

    Hope it goes well!

    Thanks dude, hope it's a make it date.
    __________________
    Currently listening to: Metallica in Chicago
    bartender_man is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-20-2015, 09:16 PM   #47193
    Speilmen230
    Suplex City, Bitch!
     
    Speilmen230's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Oct 2007
    Location: Cincinnati, Oh
    Posts: 21,332

    Shows Seen: 13

    Re: Dating is miserable

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by bartender_man View Post
    Sorry to hear bro. Been through that exact situation before as well.
    Yeah, SSIA unfortunately.

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by bartender_man View Post
    Thanks dude, hope it's a make it date.
    Shouldn't go in with any other attitude!
    __________________
    -Jesse- Twitter
    Speilmen230 is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-20-2015, 11:48 PM   #47194
    thechad90000
    You're Goddamn Right
     
    thechad90000's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Oct 2009
    Location: Knoxvegas
    Posts: 45,698

    Shows Seen: 3

    Re: Dating is miserable

    SSIA indeed.
    __________________
    "Her one drink had Cecelia giggling and talking and she was explaining that animals had souls too. Nobody challenged her opinion. It was possible, we knew. What we weren't sure of was if we had any. - Charles Bukowski
    thechad90000 is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-23-2015, 12:02 AM   #47195
    bartender_man
     
    bartender_man's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Sep 2002
    Location: New Zealand
    Posts: 15,305

    Shows Seen: 32

    Re: Dating is miserable

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Speilmen230 View Post
    I always looked to round 2 as the make or break date. Had some great 1st dates before and then it was like it never happened on date 2 and it was a stunning failure. Other times it only built on the great first round.

    Hope it goes well!

    This just happened to me....Chick was totally different to first date, was not interested from the point we sat down. Hardly made eye contact, was kind of negative and basically did not smile. I literally had to make all the conversation.

    That's the end of that shit.....I am quite bummed..Ah well, Think I'll have a beer and go into my man cave.
    __________________
    Currently listening to: Metallica in Chicago
    bartender_man is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-23-2015, 12:54 PM   #47196
    Speilmen230
    Suplex City, Bitch!
     
    Speilmen230's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Oct 2007
    Location: Cincinnati, Oh
    Posts: 21,332

    Shows Seen: 13

    Re: Dating is miserable

    That's always the worst. Sorry to hear it didn't buff out man.
    __________________
    -Jesse- Twitter
    Speilmen230 is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-23-2015, 03:48 PM   #47197
    bartender_man
     
    bartender_man's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Sep 2002
    Location: New Zealand
    Posts: 15,305

    Shows Seen: 32

    Re: Dating is miserable

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Speilmen230 View Post
    That's always the worst. Sorry to hear it didn't buff out man.
    Cheers dude
    __________________
    Currently listening to: Metallica in Chicago
    bartender_man is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-27-2015, 11:41 PM   #47198
    Speilmen230
    Suplex City, Bitch!
     
    Speilmen230's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Oct 2007
    Location: Cincinnati, Oh
    Posts: 21,332

    Shows Seen: 13

    Re: Dating is miserable

    In a weird lull/re-evaluating stage post Houston. Got my answers and sort of my closure on the entire situation, but it feels bizarre trying to move forward. Like Ive seen plenty of girls worth trying to strike up conversation with in my new classes this semester but the drive and desire just isn't there. Its almost like I'm expecting them to not stack up.

    #PuttinItOnAPedestal
    __________________
    -Jesse- Twitter
    Speilmen230 is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-27-2015, 11:48 PM   #47199
    bartender_man
     
    bartender_man's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Sep 2002
    Location: New Zealand
    Posts: 15,305

    Shows Seen: 32

    Re: Dating is miserable

    Maybe you just need to give it some time?
    __________________
    Currently listening to: Metallica in Chicago
    bartender_man is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-28-2015, 12:03 AM   #47200
    Speilmen230
    Suplex City, Bitch!
     
    Speilmen230's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Oct 2007
    Location: Cincinnati, Oh
    Posts: 21,332

    Shows Seen: 13

    Re: Dating is miserable

    You're probably right.

    I'm an incredibly patient guy when it comes to waiting for something that I want, but when I'm trying to move past something it's like I can't move fast enough.

    Just gotta keep taking it one day at a time. As my best friend says, "it'll buff out man, it may not be how you expected it, but it always buffs out."

    Nevertheless feeling restless and impatient, although, I do have to say she doesn't populate my thoughts like she used to, which is a fucking blessing and a half. I'm starting to feel like a normal person again.
    __________________
    -Jesse- Twitter
    Speilmen230 is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-28-2015, 12:29 AM   #47201
    gonz085
    Believe in The Shield
     
    gonz085's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Aug 2007
    Posts: 10,707

    Shows Seen: 17
    Send a message via AIM to gonz085

    Re: Dating is miserable

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Speilmen230 View Post
    You're probably right.

    I'm an incredibly patient guy when it comes to waiting for something that I want, but when I'm trying to move past something it's like I can't move fast enough.

    Just gotta keep taking it one day at a time. As my best friend says, "it'll buff out man, it may not be how you expected it, but it always buffs out."

    Nevertheless feeling restless and impatient, although, I do have to say she doesn't populate my thoughts like she used to, which is a fucking blessing and a half. I'm starting to feel like a normal person again.
    From my experience, which was a way worse ending to a situation than yours was (not trying to compare, just saying it was devastating at the time for me) just put yourself out there and see what happens. I met my girlfriend now of 4.5 years while not expecting a thing. I think that may be a solid path to go down. Don't expect anything serious, but if it happens then it happens, if not no big deal. Hope things sort themselves out for ya man
    __________________
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by jpevear View Post
    There are two types of people who wear sunglasses indoors. Blind people and assholes.
    gonz085 is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-28-2015, 12:41 AM   #47202
    Speilmen230
    Suplex City, Bitch!
     
    Speilmen230's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Oct 2007
    Location: Cincinnati, Oh
    Posts: 21,332

    Shows Seen: 13

    Re: Dating is miserable

    Cheers Jon!
    __________________
    -Jesse- Twitter
    Speilmen230 is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-28-2015, 07:47 AM   #47203
    redsox14
     
    redsox14's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Jun 2002
    Posts: 6,912

    Shows Seen: 71
    Send a message via AIM to redsox14

    Re: Dating is miserable

    Meeting up with the guy I have been hanging out with tomorrow to break it off. Just want this over with. We hung out 3-4 times over the winter and then maybe 4 times June-July, nothing serious at all. He text me last night saying "we haven't hung out in almost a month. Would you be willing to get together to talk about what we want from eachother?" Not entirely sure he knows what's coming but at least I can stop worrying about it after tomorrow!
    __________________
    "In an 1888 study, ants that ingested too much alcohol were carried home by the other ants."

    Jen
    Austin, Dallas, The Woodlands, Hartford, Mansfield, Camden N2, Alpinex2, Dublin
    redsox14 is offline   Reply With Quote
    Old 08-28-2015, 10:14 AM   #47204
    cry_minarets458
    MM#45-MVP Flacco Wacco
     
    cry_minarets458's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Aug 2007
    Location: Give me Gorge (ALPINE) or give me death
    Posts: 16,859

    Shows Seen: 54

    Re: Dating is miserable

    Hugs. HAvent been following third much in here, but I think that's best given how long of a time frame you're talking here.
    __________________
    Mao's WWYS Quest: fin @ show 39 MattsMarching 1 Gorge Medal
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by efraser77 View Post
    *renounces DMB fandom*
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Prime Minister
    In fairness Brian Wilson's Beard > Amy Winehouse & the grammys & spoot.
    cry_minarets458 is offline   Reply With Quote
    Reply

    Bookmarks

    Thread Tools
    Display Modes

    Posting Rules
    You may not post new threads
    You may not post replies
    You may not post attachments
    You may not edit your posts

    BB code is On
    Smilies are On
    [IMG] code is Off
    HTML code is Off

    Forum Jump


    Want to hide all ads on Ants? Click here

    All times are GMT -4. The time now is 03:51 AM.


    Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.6
    Copyright ©2000 - 2015, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.


       
    Site LinksAbout AntsAnts MobileTweet Tweet
    Home
    Ants+
    Tour Central
    Search bar
    RSS Feeds
    About Us
    Contact Us
    The Ants Blog
    Advertise on Ants
    Ants on your cell phone
    iAnts
    mobile news
    mobile setlists
    antslive!
    Ants' Twitter
    DMBLive Twitter
    Matt's Twitter
    Jake's Twitter
    Joe's Twitter