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Originally Posted by gonz085
I'd say more of a dumbass can you explain what's even going on with that situation right now? I feel very confused if you still want it to work or not. He's certainly doing you no favors in that regard.
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Pretty much very similar to the sitch with me and Ben.
His sister comes into town, and brings three friends with her, unexpected. They do drinking at his house, and he suddenly has four 23 year old drunk girls at his place. Meanwhilst, I'm waiting out at the bar for them to show, since he made such a huge deal out of us meeting. He texts me every 20 minutes or so with "We are coming, I promise! Trying to get them out of the house, this is tough"...stuff like that.
Finally, at midnight, I texted him with "Hey, I'm going home. Don't worry about it. I have an 8 am flight, have fun with your sister". He texts me a bunch of times about how sorry he is, and how drunk they are, etc.
So I just text back, "It's okay, that's tough to control. In the future, you could have texted me at 9:00 when they showed up wasted and just told me that it was going to be impossible for them to be out. Then I wouldn't have had to wait for two hours for nothing. I want to meet your sis, but it could happen another time. No big deal. Have fun this weekend, I'll see you Tuesday."
Well, he took that as me saying he's a massive prick who should have been psychic enough to know that 23 year olds are tough to control. No, dude, I was just saying that in the future, you can be honest and not feel like you have to "keep me happy" by telling me you will make it out.
So Monday I wasn't here, and he was asking everyone where I was. Same thing yesterday. I bump into him in the hall, finally, and say "Hey, how was the weekend? Everything go okay with your sis?" and he just blurted out, "I didn't blow you off! Stop torturing me with the silence! I'm sorry!"
uhhhh.....okay.
Haven't seen/talked to him since.