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Originally Posted by Koreelove
Thanks guys for all the support.
To be honest, no, not in any effective manner. I had told him several times to "stop" or "you can't do that". His reactions were "oh yeah, sorry".
I had thought about getting a lawyer, but the thing is, I actually like the guy. He's taught me everything I know about aviation. In his eyes, it's always been playful. somewhere along the lines I guess I made him think it was ok to talk to me like that. I know I should have talked to him about it a long time ago...but I just suppressed the issue.
There was one instance where was got an account to do 19 pre buys on several different aircraft. That would mean we would have to go on the road to do the inspections. He straight up told me that I couldn't go because his wife would not approve. So basically, I couldn't advance my career because he didn't trust himself.
This is really hard because even though I left, I still have to work with him to some degree. I moved airports, but the 2 companies do business together. That is main reason I am not suing.
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Ummm, hi honey...sorry
Here's the deal:
I understand it's a small industry but what is the price of your self respect, you're ability to stand up for yourself, the chance to prevent it from happening to someone else? On one hand you think we'll if I start a shit storm I'll get fired and won't be able to find another job because after all how many jobs like your can there be in South Florida, I get that.
On the other hand you think well I've sort of advanced my career and gained some distance between yourself and this talking penis. So you probably feel somewhat relieved after all you still have a job and you can go on having some sort of relationship with this person that satifies the friend instinct in you but at the same time you keep a distance from this talkign penis so a lunchtime scenario of dick in the mouth thing won't happen again...I get that.
1. Aren't you in school? And when you graduate won't that open new professional opportunities for yourself? Somethig that maybe won't be in the ever tiny aircraft industry?
2. You are a very strong minded (to a fault almost
) woman. To me that is the gold that will continue to pay your bills for a lifetime. This can have profound repercussions on the rest of your life, I believe there is an aspect of trauma involved in this.
You can not and should not sit idly by pretneding that things are fine becuase you are afraid of loosing your job. I think you are intelligent and if something should happen where you find yourself unemplyed you can find yourself ina new industry or relying on your education. Sadie, I really think you need to deal with this. Please think long and hard about pursuing this ok, not only is this a classic principle of the matter situation but your sound like you feel as though you've just been walked over and are pretty down in the dunps about it. If that summation is correct then it should already be self-evident to you what you need to do....
Here if you need me...