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Old 07-01-2012, 02:07 PM   #36421
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You're never going to get that Ben. That's not how breakups work. People just simply are not going to bend over backwards apologizing to someone they are no longer with. It's a source of tension and frustration, and hence most people avoid it.

The fact that she texted you though, means she was thinking about you. Maybe she actually had feelings of missing you, who knows. But bringing up the breakup and the bad feelings only made her clam up whatever urge there was to talk to you. You have to realize you'll never get that "satisfaction" you are looking for from an apology. The only way you get it is by living your life better than she is living hers.
I know. I was drunk. I went against better judgement and decides to hang out with her. I wasn't going to bring it up, but I did. I just wanted her to realize how she ended things really hurt me. I didn't get that when things happened. I got stuff off my chest that I've Been holding in for months. I just re confirmed the fact that shes a shitty immature girl. She couldnt even say why it was that she has Been thinking of me and wanting to see me. She just avoids anything serious and won't face reality with anything. I'm Fine today, last Night.it sucked I admit. More so that I was disappointed in myself for even talking to her and seei.g her. I'm with good friends today drinking, hanging and going to.see the head and the heart later. Just needed to say some things to her that I wanted to say for months.
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    Old 07-02-2012, 05:51 AM   #36423
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    I hate myself right now. I mean really hate myself. I got another message from Sam earlier. Said hey, I'm at summerfest (huge music fest here), I wanna see you... or not. Just please text me. I knew right away not to. But I did. We agreed to meet up after a show, and I went and met her and a friend. It was, well, awkward. Didn't really know what to say, lots of awkward silence. Finally her friend left, and she asked me why I was so quiet. I just said well it's really weird being here, and I don't know what to say. She said well it's nothing serious I just wanted to say hi and see how you were.

    This is where things started to go south. We were both drunk/drinking, so I said well you know what, didn't really expect you to send me a message, and I don't know what to say or how to not feel weird right now. Then I just said it "You really hurt me, and I don't know how you thought I'd just show up and act like nothing ever happened, but I think I'm owed an explanation and an apology for being treated like shit when all I ever did was be there for you"

    Well, she just said I don't want to talk about that this isn't serious I just wanted to know how you were and to hang out. Really? You knew exactly how I'd feel, and after questioning your original message as to why you're "thinking" about me, knew that I was skeptical even talking. The fact that I confront you and you can't even acknowledge that you're an immature bitch who fucked me over just hurts, again. Just admit you fucked me over, just admit you are immature but don't say "I don't wanna talk about that".

    Every conflict she's ever dealt with she's avoided, but for fucks sake just man up and talk to me. At least acknowledge the pain you caused me. Don't act as if I'm making it a big deal when you're the one who keeps coming out of the woodwork and asking to talk to me. I knew better, it's my fault for even responding, but seriously just fucking stop with your bullshit and own up to what you did.
    I think I recall someone around here making a comment about how being nice to her and talking to her and keeping her in your phone is a big fucking trap, and that you should cut off all ties and just avoid her so as not to contact her....but then that same person was called harsh, unrealistic and "wrong".

    I wonder who that person was, because yeah, they were way off with that advice.
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    Old 07-02-2012, 06:01 AM   #36424
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    Yesterday was a fun day. We woke up at 8 and walked a nature trail nearby. We found a painted turtle just walking around on the path: Mr. Turtle Mr. Turtle 2

    That was a long two hours. I'm sore today from all the hills. After a quick nap, we were off to take our French cooking class. Dinner Time, Wine Time: Paris. It was a four course meal, and there were 4 teams of 2. Kelsey and I were in charge of the Ratatouille. I can't BELIEVE how good it turned out.


    Bell peppers, onions, tomatoes, garlic, and Herbes de provence

    Sauteed eggplant and zucchini

    Almost finished, just need to cover with foil and oven it for 10 minutes




    It was a really fun date. I highly recommend it. We also sampled 4 different glasses of wine periodically throughout the preparation and dinner. Here are the final products:

    Ratatouille

    Salad Lyonnaise - Poached Egg and Bacon Salad

    Steak au Poivre and Dijon Whipped Potatoes

    Boule de Niege - Flourless Chocolate Pate w/ Chantilly Cream



    Unreal good. All 4 courses were un-Godly. It was the best I'd eaten since Italy. I now have the recipe for all of these too. The Ratatouille will be made again for sure.

    That main course Filet Mignon was just too good to even eat. Wow I wish I could just re-live that dinner every night.
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    Old 07-02-2012, 07:28 AM   #36425
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    I think I recall someone around here making a comment about how being nice to her and talking to her and keeping her in your phone is a big fucking trap, and that you should cut off all ties and just avoid her so as not to contact her....but then that same person was called harsh, unrealistic and "wrong".

    I wonder who that person was, because yeah, they were way off with that advice.
    Hmm I can't recall who it was. Don't think we have that person around here

    I got to say what I needed to say. I feel better, got things off my chest that were there for months. Helped me realize how stupid i was to even date her in the first place.

    Anyways, I'm hungover as fuck sitting in Jim and Marissa's basement. Ugh. Ouch. Fucking head hurts.
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    Old 07-02-2012, 07:29 AM   #36426
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    Thanks for the pictures of what happens when you put certain foods together and heat them up. I've never seen such a thing.
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    Old 07-02-2012, 07:30 AM   #36427
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    Hmm I can't recall who it was. Don't think we have that person around here

    I got to say what I needed to say. I feel better, got things off my chest that were there for months. Helped me realize how stupid i was to even date her in the first place.

    Anyways, I'm hungover as fuck sitting in Jim and Marissa's basement. Ugh. Ouch. Fucking head hurts.
    So, delete her phone number out of your phone, or are you still of the opinion that it's something you should have?

    Also, get some Chipotle and Gatorade STAT. And say hi to Jim and Rissa for me. I miss them (I miss all you guys).
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    Old 07-02-2012, 07:40 AM   #36428
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    So, delete her phone number out of your phone, or are you still of the opinion that it's something you should have?

    Also, get some Chipotle and Gatorade STAT. And say hi to Jim and Rissa for me. I miss them (I miss all you guys).
    Oh it's gone. I'm not talking to her ever again. Not a chance. We aren't/can't be friends, I said what I needed, no reason to ever talk again.


    Yeah, I can't drive yet haha. Went outside to get Grux from the yard and was like it is that blazing ball of fire up there it's so bright lol. I'll say hey if they ever get the fuck up haha.
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    Old 07-02-2012, 07:56 AM   #36429
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    Hmm I can't recall who it was. Don't think we have that person around here

    I got to say what I needed to say. I feel better, got things off my chest that were there for months. Helped me realize how stupid i was to even date her in the first place.

    Anyways, I'm hungover as fuck sitting in Jim and Marissa's basement. Ugh. Ouch. Fucking head hurts.
    i'd take this over being at work 10x/10
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    Old 07-02-2012, 08:53 AM   #36430
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    i'd take this over being at work 10x/10
    So glas I'm off today haha
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    Old 07-02-2012, 09:38 AM   #36431
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    I didn't get his phone number and didn't leave mine, so even if he regrets it, I won't know. Boom, roasted.

    I'm not doing Alpine this year due to weddings and other expenses that have come up.
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    I was just noting in another thread that there should be a support group for those of us that can't make it this year It's traumatizing shit.
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    I totally agree....there should be some kind of support for those of us who can't make it due to adult decisions.



    It's just that...horse shit. I'll be there in '13, though. Ice everyone for me, for realz.
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    It sucks so much.
    Yeah seriously, I'm with Ashley we need a support group, I'm so not going to make it through this upcoming weekend without a breakdown of one sort or another.
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    I feel like I've been losing my mind again I'll deal I guess.
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    I feel like I've been losing my mind again I'll deal I guess.

    What about?
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    Old 07-02-2012, 09:11 PM   #36434
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    Man, everything. I feel like I'm going in circles with the dating scene. I'm not even trying too hard and it's been annoying. Like I said, I'll deal I guess
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    Yeah seriously, I'm with Ashley we need a support group, I'm so not going to make it through this upcoming weekend without a breakdown of one sort or another.
    I'll have enough fun for everybody as I am making my first trip!

    Oh, dating is miserable. After taking some time to get to know each other, I went on two nice dates with this seemingly awesome girl that i was going on and on about earlier. Then she decided to play the, "I'm not going to respond to his messages anymore." Gah! Look, I understand things don't always work out. But ladies, if you discover you are not actually into a guy, just tell us! Say something like, "it was nice, but you are just not who I am looking for." Don't say, "Yeah, I would like to see you again," then disappear! We won't dissolve into a puddle if you give us bad news. In fact, outright ignoring us is worse, and a bit insulting!

    Blah, I suck hard at dating! I always overthink things (damn my lawyer brain). I always feel like I try too hard or not hard enough.

    Ah well, I get two straight weekends of DMB, Alpine then Pittsburgh!
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    I'll have enough fun for everybody as I am making my first trip!

    Oh, dating is miserable. After taking some time to get to know each other, I went on two nice dates with this seemingly awesome girl that i was going on and on about earlier. Then she decided to play the, "I'm not going to respond to his messages anymore." Gah! Look, I understand things don't always work out. But ladies, if you discover you are not actually into a guy, just tell us! Say something like, "it was nice, but you are just not who I am looking for." Don't say, "Yeah, I would like to see you again," then disappear! We won't dissolve into a puddle if you give us bad news. In fact, outright ignoring us is worse, and a bit insulting!

    Blah, I suck hard at dating! I always overthink things (damn my lawyer brain). I always feel like I try too hard or not hard enough.

    Ah well, I get two straight weekends of DMB, Alpine then Pittsburgh!
    Men pull the ghost on me often. It's infuriating.
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    Old 07-03-2012, 08:00 AM   #36437
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    Men pull the ghost on me often. It's infuriating.

    Haha, I used to do this to a fuck buddy when Rachel and I were on a break. We'd hook up, and I'd lay in bed til she fell asleep then would be ghost like Swayze Just couldn't deal with staying over. Yeah, I was that guy.
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    Old 07-03-2012, 08:09 AM   #36438
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    Haha, I used to do this to a fuck buddy when Rachel and I were on a break. We'd hook up, and I'd lay in bed til she fell asleep then would be ghost like Swayze Just couldn't deal with staying over. Yeah, I was that guy.
    That's fine. Get in, get off, get out, go home.

    I mean, guys who tell me they think I'm awesome and that they'll call me during the week and then POOF. Maybe they all move to Spain?
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    That's fine. Get in, get off, get out, go home.

    I mean, guys who tell me they think I'm awesome and that they'll call me during the week and then POOF. Maybe they all move to Spain?
    Probably to meat up with the women who do the same to me!
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    Old 07-03-2012, 08:12 AM   #36440
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    That's fine. Get in, get off, get out, go home.

    I mean, guys who tell me they think I'm awesome and that they'll call me during the week and then POOF. Maybe they all move to Spain?
    Girls do the same. Let's face it, it's easier to avoid having to say something and just to ignore/not call them. Not that it's right, but you know that's what their mentality is.

    I can't even do it with that girl who's a virgin. I talk to her still, but it's quite obvious she wants something more despite the numerous signals I've given her. I'm honestly quite shocked her friends haven't been like ok he's not in to you like that. She just doesn't get it, and I am avoiding having the awkward conversation of saying I only like you as a friend.
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    Probably to meat up with the women who do the same to me!

    Haha, I texted someone over the weekend that we should meat up on Saturday night. They were like meat? Don't you mean meet? Oh, yeah, I mean I want our meat to meet up
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    Haha, I texted someone over the weekend that we should meat up on Saturday night. They were like meat? Don't you mean meet? Oh, yeah, I mean I want our meat to meet up
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    Nice!

    Sometimes I wish they just understood the Ants life. I need to do a better job separating internet stuff from my real life friends lol.
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    Is it wrong that I never know what to say to guys when they brag about giving a woman orgasms?

    I can't help but laugh and want to say "that is so cute you think that".
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    Is it wrong that I never know what to say to guys when they brag about giving a woman orgasms?

    I can't help but laugh and want to say "that is so cute you think that".
    Really the best thing to say right there. Any guy bragging about that is a Douche-tard.
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    Really the best thing to say right there. Any guy bragging about that is a Douche-tard.
    I really try to behave and be nice. The male sexual ego is so fragile and I don't want to come across as a bitch.
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    Old 07-03-2012, 10:12 AM   #36447
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    Haha, I texted someone over the weekend that we should meat up on Saturday night. They were like meat? Don't you mean meet? Oh, yeah, I mean I want our meat to meet up
    You should have replied that you meant exactly what you texted.
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    Old 07-03-2012, 01:52 PM   #36448
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    Pretty sure the other party would actually call you a bitch/asshole if you told them to your face that you didn't like them. There is no easy solution.
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    Pretty sure the other party would actually call you a bitch/asshole if you told them to your face that you didn't like them. There is no easy solution.
    So what? I'd rather be a bitch for being honest than a cowardly bitch for blowing someone off w/out explanation.
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    Old 07-05-2012, 05:51 AM   #36450
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    Didn't get to see fireworks (due to them being banned just about everywhere due to the drought and heat), but still had a great 4th!

    Next up: Alpine. I still haven't told Kelsey any of my Alpine stories.
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