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Old 02-18-2008, 10:57 AM   #1
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What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

My friends girlfriend kept saying this the other night, but I could barely hear and understand what it meant, so i didn't ask.

Anyone have any input on what it means?
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Old 02-18-2008, 10:58 AM   #2
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Old 02-18-2008, 10:59 AM   #3
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Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

It means she wants it rough.
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Old 02-18-2008, 10:59 AM   #4
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Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

but if it gets too rough, she'll say cinnamon
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Old 02-18-2008, 11:00 AM   #5
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My friends girlfriend kept saying this the other night, but I could barely hear and understand what it meant, so i didn't ask.

Anyone have any input on what it means?
wait, was she saying this directly to you?
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Old 02-18-2008, 11:00 AM   #6
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Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

When she says cinnamon, give it to her harder.
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Old 02-18-2008, 11:01 AM   #7
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It means she wants it rough.
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but if it gets too rough, she'll say cinnamon
This would be my guess, too. You have to choose a word that doesn't sound like another word and wouldn't be misheard as a sexual term. Saying "no" or "stop" would only fuel the fire if they're into submissive sex at the moment. Touches don't work, either.
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Old 02-18-2008, 11:02 AM   #8
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Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

so, as you pound the girl, she'll say cinnamon to pound harder?

i see, i see.
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Old 02-18-2008, 11:02 AM   #9
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When she says cinnamon, give it to her harder.
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Old 02-18-2008, 11:03 AM   #10
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so, as you pound the girl, she'll say cinnamon to pound harder?

i see, i see.
Yeah, you might want to smack her around a bit too.
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Old 02-18-2008, 11:03 AM   #11
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so, as you pound the girl, she'll say cinnamon to pound harder?

i see, i see.
No. She'll say cinnamon to make it stop because it's her safe word.
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Old 02-18-2008, 11:04 AM   #12
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No. She'll say cinnamon to make it stop because it's her safe word.
Lies. It means she feels safe, so keep on going....
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Old 02-18-2008, 11:07 AM   #13
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This would be my guess, too. You have to choose a word that doesn't sound like another word and wouldn't be misheard as a sexual term. Saying "no" or "stop" would only fuel the fire if they're into submissive sex at the moment. Touches don't work, either.
13 Mistake to Avoid When Selecting a Safe Word:

1. Cognitive dissonance can be problematic. For example, using “More, More, Harder, Harder,” “Green Light,” or “Yes! Yes! Yes!” as a Safe Word may prove sufficiently confusing to evoke a transient but still uncomfortable delay in execution of the the desired response,

2. Homographs are iffy. Your more exacting Doms won’t find “You say tomato, I say tomato” all that amusing.

3. Likewise, homonyms (e.g., plays on “bear” the burden and “bare” your ass) can be tricky. I reference Master Murphy’s Law: Any safe words that can be confused will be confused and its corollary: “Momentary confusion” takes on a entirely different meaning when the “momentary” part occurs during a flogging.

4. Multi-syllabic words most often found in medical or scientific literature or novelty books about word play (e.g., “Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis,” “hepaticocholangiocholecystenterostomies,” “floccinaucinihilipilification,” and the like) are not ideal. Even if you can routinely recall such monstrosities, it’s showing off, and, believe me, nobody likes a smart ass sub.

5. Safe Words that aren’t words (e.g., “833646520034″) fall into the same category as #4.

6. While dramatic and emphatic, exclamations such as “Ouch,” “Damn, that hurts,” and “What the heck do you think you’re doing?” can be misunderstood.

7. The subjunctive mood (e.g., “It’s as though I can’t take any more” or “I wish it would quit hurting”) is typically inappropriate as ones Safe Word.

8. ” ” It didn’t work for Prince and it won’t work for you.

9. AAAA. (”Assiduously Avoid Acronyms, Asshole”). “NGSCB” may mean “Next-Generation Secure Computing Base,” to you, but does your Dom know that?

10. Think twice before choosing tricky proper names (for example, names of towns such as Unalakleet, Alaska or Prem Nagar, India and especially those vowel-deficient designations of Welsh villages such as Cwmtwrch). A good rule of thumbscrews is that if you can’t grunt the Safe Word intelligibly with a gag in your mouth, then it’s not really safe, is it?

11. Using something on the line of “Is that the best you can do, Mistress?” and “You’re such a wuss, Master” is just asking for trouble. (Handy memory aid: Taunts are for Tops; Begging is for Bottoms)

12. Some words and terms just don’t fit. For example,
• “Hamiltonian Federalist Principles”
• “Willing suspension of disbelief”
• “Bernoulli’s Principle”
• Any phrase which includes the words “butterfly” or “unicorn.”
• Anything in the form of a rhyming couplet
• Almost all scripture from the New Testament (yes, even the modern translations)

13. “Fuck You, Master” is probably best left to the very experienced, hard core players.
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Old 02-18-2008, 11:45 AM   #14
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Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

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Old 02-18-2008, 11:47 AM   #15
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it means she wants it in the butt now
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Old 02-18-2008, 12:01 PM   #16
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Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

Guys, he's not serious?
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Old 10-25-2012, 02:18 PM   #17
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Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

I doubt this is where she got the idea from, but "Cinnamon" is a safeword used by John Watson and Sherlock Holmes in a very tastily explicit Dom/Sub-filled fanfiction story.

You can read it here:

http://archiveofourown.org/works/335385/chapters/542163

Also, Homer Simpson uses it as a safeword in a threesome between himself and two demons in "Treehouse of Horror XXIII".

Though since you seem to have asked this question quite a while before either of the above would have been valid sources for your girlfriend's inspiration, I too would be very interested to know why she picked that word.

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Old 10-25-2012, 02:22 PM   #18
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I doubt this is where she got the idea from, but "Cinnamon" is a safeword used by John Watson and Sherlock Holmes in a very tastily explicit Dom/Sub-filled fanfiction story.

You can read it here:

http://archiveofourown.org/works/335385/chapters/542163

Also, Homer Simpson uses it as a safeword in a threesome between himself and two demons in "Treehouse of Horror XXIII".

Though since you seem to have asked this question quite a while before either of the above would have been valid sources for your girlfriend's inspiration, I too would be very interested to know why she picked that word.
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Old 10-25-2012, 02:31 PM   #19
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Great bump, guy.
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Old 10-25-2012, 02:35 PM   #20
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Let's do an AMA with Gummicat
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Old 10-25-2012, 02:42 PM   #21
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Gummicat,

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Old 10-25-2012, 02:44 PM   #22
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Would You Rather Fight ONE Duck-Sized Horse Or FIFTY Horse-Sized Ducks?
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Old 10-25-2012, 02:47 PM   #23
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Gummicat,

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Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

Gummicat,

Are we related?
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Gummicat,

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it means she wants it in the butt now
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Old 10-25-2012, 03:32 PM   #27
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Gummicat,

I just shot you a PM with a picture I took of a rash on my inner thigh. I've had it for about 4 years now. Any chance you know what it is/how to get rid of it?

PS. please excuse the amateur photography job, the lighting in my office sucks!
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Old 10-25-2012, 04:43 PM   #28
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Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

Gummicat,

Walnuts or pistachios?
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Re: What does "my safe word is cinnamon" mean?

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I doubt this is where she got the idea from, but "Cinnamon" is a safeword used by John Watson and Sherlock Holmes in a very tastily explicit Dom/Sub-filled fanfiction story.

You can read it here:

http://archiveofourown.org/works/335385/chapters/542163

Also, Homer Simpson uses it as a safeword in a threesome between himself and two demons in "Treehouse of Horror XXIII".

Though since you seem to have asked this question quite a while before either of the above would have been valid sources for your girlfriend's inspiration, I too would be very interested to know why she picked that word.


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Excellent bump. Cinnanimonim.
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