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Old 06-22-2012, 12:10 PM   #31
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To the OP, maybe you could go and talk to a professional. That can help clear up things sometimes.

I've thought about it, but my insurance won't kick in for another couple of months. isn't that sort of thing normally pretty expensive? I honestly have no idea.
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Old 06-22-2012, 12:14 PM   #32
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I've thought about it, but my insurance won't kick in for another couple of months. isn't that sort of thing normally pretty expensive? I honestly have no idea.
they're just gonna feed you Zoloft so you can realize "how great you really have it".
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Old 06-22-2012, 12:15 PM   #33
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Sleep as often as humanly possible.
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Old 06-22-2012, 12:19 PM   #34
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Multiple posts in this thread have sig potential.

We don't know the full details of your situation, but sometimes if you become clouded with smoke and booze, other things begin to piss you off for really no reason. If that is not be the case, then disregard that comment. But just taking a step back and thinking of what you do have and what you do like, while also considering the things you'd like to change, is a good way.
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Old 06-22-2012, 12:25 PM   #35
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I've thought about it, but my insurance won't kick in for another couple of months. isn't that sort of thing normally pretty expensive? I honestly have no idea.

Someone already said it, but just drink heavily on down time. Everyone seems better when you're drunk. Unless you are one of those get drunk and fight people, then you are just an asshole and nothing will help.

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Old 06-22-2012, 12:42 PM   #36
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You've been going through a selfish spell for what....26 years or so now Katie?
Let's be honest, more like 30 years and 5 months.

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Then how did you know they said that?!
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Old 06-22-2012, 12:53 PM   #37
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I've thought about it, but my insurance won't kick in for another couple of months. isn't that sort of thing normally pretty expensive? I honestly have no idea.
If you're covered, it shouldn't be too steep.

Do what you can to be good to yourself in the interim. Find some sort of relaxation technique that works for you — take a walk, throw a ball, breathing exercises, yoga, whatever.

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they're just gonna feed you Zoloft so you can realize "how great you really have it".
Depending upon a person's circumstances, medication can be helpful.
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:01 PM   #38
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Make a drastic change to your life.


No, seriously. Move to fucking Spain. Or something of that nature.
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:09 PM   #39
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This has spinoff written all over it.

To the OP, maybe you could go and talk to a professional. That can help clear up things sometimes.

Why go to see a pro. Its the same advice there as here. Only this advice is cheaper.
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:13 PM   #40
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I can't. Just started a new job, so no vacation time for me for awhile. And I'm in school through October.
College or graduate school?
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:13 PM   #41
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I've thought about it, but my insurance won't kick in for another couple of months. isn't that sort of thing normally pretty expensive? I honestly have no idea.
Honestly pretty sure your insurance kicks in earlier then that.
Not sure it's legal to have you not covered so you may want to check with hr.
Also- there are many companies that offer 1-2 "mental health" visits at no charge and not through hr.
Check your staff handbook/policy.
Again- I would def question start date on insurance. That sounds off to me.
And then I would go talk with a professional.
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:14 PM   #42
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Spinoff: I think I ate my friends and family (ZombieC)
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:14 PM   #43
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i hate 90% of the people i deal with and that includes friends and family
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:16 PM   #44
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do they do anything in particular that bothers you?
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:20 PM   #45
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Wait so you hate your family and friends, but you still want to talk to people on Antsmarching?
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:26 PM   #46
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If you're covered, it shouldn't be too steep.

Do what you can to be good to yourself in the interim. Find some sort of relaxation technique that works for you — take a walk, throw a ball, breathing exercises, yoga, whatever.



Depending upon a person's circumstances, medication can be helpful.
Or smoke a bunch of pot.
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:28 PM   #47
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Or smoke a bunch of pot.
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puff nugs, sip on a few nice hoppy beers, and listen to some tunes you like.
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:38 PM   #48
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Fuck it, literally. Get on some some bangin poon. Sex marathon.
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:44 PM   #49
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Or smoke a bunch of pot.
That'd work, too!
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:53 PM   #50
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I honestly thought that Defcon started this thread.
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:55 PM   #51
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You have depression. Go see a doctor.
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Old 06-22-2012, 01:59 PM   #52
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You need to get laid
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Old 06-22-2012, 02:11 PM   #53
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You also live in Providence, so that could be 65% of your issue.
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Old 06-22-2012, 02:33 PM   #54
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I intentionally did not wash my hands then kept mental note of everything I touched after that at the restaurant. Believe me, you don't want to know the details.
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Old 06-22-2012, 02:37 PM   #55
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I intentionally did not wash my hands then kept mental note of everything I touched after that at the restaurant. Believe me, you don't want to know the details.
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Old 06-22-2012, 02:42 PM   #56
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Old 06-22-2012, 03:16 PM   #57
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You're just going through a phase called "being a cynical asshole". It affects 8/10 Americans and is hard to recover from, I recommend listening to phish and dancing
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Old 06-22-2012, 04:37 PM   #58
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Try joining a Crossfit gym and then posting about your workouts excessively on facebook.

Seriously though exercise is a healthy way to vent and shut out the world for awhile.
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Old 06-22-2012, 04:39 PM   #59
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Try joining a Crossfit gym and then posting about your workouts excessively on facebook.

Seriously though exercise is a healthy way to vent and shut out the world for awhile.
definitely do this.
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Old 06-22-2012, 05:08 PM   #60
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You have depression. Go see a doctor.
Came to post this.

I speak from experience. I was extremely depressed last year and this was exactly how I felt about everything.

I went to both of my grandfathers funerals and was a Paul bearer at both and I didn't cry at either of them. I was numb to everything.

It sounds like OP is at the beginning stages of depression.
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