i hope everything goes well katie
with that said, nothing is easy, especially with a baby. your boyfriend needs to start working HARD. my husband is out of the house everyday by 7 am, and doesn't come home until 7:30-8pm, and this is a salary job! life is hard only if you allow it to be a struggle...sometimes you have to suck it up and do what is best overall instead of trying to find a quick fix.
much peace to the 3 of you.