Safe sex

[HolyCow]

I'm married.

[Lude99]

Originally Posted by jiggajm18

for the condom-users, what's your favorite?

i really like trojan ribbed.

Crown. Almost like wearing nothing.

[mr.MikeD]

Originally Posted by HolyCow

I'm married.

so no sex then eh?

i kid, of course - once a week, on wednesday, after sorting the recycling.


(also i posted a long rambling reply in your newspaper thread, but seem to have killed the thread0

[HolyCow]

Originally Posted by mr.MikeD

so no sex then eh?

i kid, of course - once a week, on wednesday, after sorting the recycling.


(also i posted a long rambling reply in your newspaper thread, but seem to have killed the thread0

That's what I was driving at....

[zepfan1234]

I've been with my girlfriend for about two years. Both clean. She's on the pill, if she messes up we use a rubber. I only see her like 8 times a month anyway... :/

[javofuc]

Originally Posted by DMBBeav

Pre-Tom Leykis, I had sex without a condom with a few girls(only one was a one night stand). I never got an STD, luckily.

Moved to LA and listened to Leykis....i will never have sex without a condom unless I am with someone for a long enough time(over a year) and believe the two of us have a serious chance at getting married.

For the record, since Leykis, I have had a several moments where I was encouraged / asked to have sex without a condom. Said no every time.

No one should be having sex without a condom with one night stands, ever.

Edit: Birth control by fact or by claim does not matter with anything I said above. I still wouldn't do it.

Same deal here. Like he says, if you don't use birth control, you are looking to get pregnant. Also, be sure to put tabasco sauce in the condom when you're done No not really, but there were a couple of cases on the show where the girl tried to fertilize herself with the used rubber in the trash. I don't know where you find girls like that, but apparently there are a few.

Originally Posted by Carbon Copy

durex extra sensitive, voted best in consumer reports.

[DMBBeav]

Originally Posted by zepfan1234

I've been with my girlfriend for about two years. Both clean. She's on the pill, if she messes up we use a rubber. I only see her like 8 times a month anyway... :/

So,as you only see her 8 times a month, you don't know whether or not she uses the pill everyday....or anything else she is doing...right?

If you don't use a condom, you need to be comfortable with the consequences of a pregnancy, whether or not your girlfriend says she is using the pill. Girls mess up, flat out lie and some actually do want to get pregnant(there are many benefits for a girl if she wants a child to trick you into it).

If you have a long-distance relationship, you have to be realistic that people do cheat on one another in such situations and, as a result, also be comfortable with the consequences of getting an STD.

You say none of the above can or will happen to you until it does.

[dotpsd]

[QUOTE=javofuc;9076098]Same deal here. Like he says, if you don't use birth control, you are looking to get pregnant. Also, be sure to put tabasco sauce in the condom when you're done No not really, but there were a couple of cases on the show where the girl tried to fertilize herself with the used rubber in the trash. I don't know where you find girls like that, but apparently there are a few.


Psycho Taaaaaallkkk. wow, that's some fucked up shit right there my friend!

[DMBBeav]

Originally Posted by jiggajm18

for the condom-users, what's your favorite?

i really like trojan ribbed.

yup, mine too.

[dotpsd]

Originally Posted by DMBBeav

So,as you only see her 8 times a month, you don't know whether or not she uses the pill everyday....or anything else she is doing...right?

If you don't use a condom, you need to be comfortable with the consequences of a pregnancy, whether or not your girlfriend says she is using the pill. Girls mess up, flat out lie and some actually do want to get pregnant(there are many benefits for a girl if she wants a child to trick you into it).

If you have a long-distance relationship, you have to be realistic that people do cheat on one another in such situations and, as a result, also be comfortable with the consequences of getting an STD.

You say none of the above can or will happen to you until it does.

This is a lil different for every person though. I'd like to think that most people can be trusted. Maybe that's me just being too positive but I would trust my girlfriend if she used birth control. We are both mature people, we love each other and that trust is there.

[PinkFloydDudi]

Originally Posted by DMBBeav

So,as you only see her 8 times a month, you don't know whether or not she uses the pill everyday....or anything else she is doing...right?

If you don't use a condom, you need to be comfortable with the consequences of a pregnancy, whether or not your girlfriend says she is using the pill. Girls mess up, flat out lie and some actually do want to get pregnant(there are many benefits for a girl if she wants a child to trick you into it).

If you have a long-distance relationship, you have to be realistic that people do cheat on one another in such situations and, as a result, also be comfortable with the consequences of getting an STD.

You say none of the above can or will happen to you until it does.

Pretty sure the topic asked a question...not ask for someone to preach about condom use, STDs, and birth control.

[wnderwoman]

Originally Posted by PinkFloydDudi

Pretty sure the topic asked a question...not ask for someone to preach about condom use, STDs, and birth control.

There's always one.

[dotpsd]

Originally Posted by DMBBeav

yup, mine too.

these gave my girl an allergic reaction, this is why we use non-lubricated ones now. btw, target sells these in a 36 pack for $12.99 (it pays to buy more esp if you're as lucky as I am when it comes to having a fun girlfriend) haha

[neumdogg]

Originally Posted by PinkFloydDudi

Pretty sure the topic asked a question...not ask for someone to preach about condom use, STDs, and birth control.

I did ask a question. However, a message board is used to discuss things. DMBBeav can preach whatever he likes.

[haybale97]

Originally Posted by wnderwoman

I am pretty good about this kind of thing, but I am not going to lie, I haven't always been perfect with it.

but never if shes not on the pill. i am too young

[dmbman32]

Girlfriend of 1 year....I rubber up AND she's on the pill.

The bad thing about rubbers are, from what I'm told: Once they're off, they'll never go back on. I've never had sex without one, so I wouldn't know. But what I DO know is, if we had sex without one and it was as good as advertised, I wouldn't put them back on. And not putting them back on leads to......yeah......

[javofuc]

Neither condoms nor the pill are 100% effective. One fool-proof route to go would be to bottle up your seed, freeze it and then get a vasectomy. I don't know if I'd have the balls to do that though.

[MGH4007]

not a hot topic

[dotpsd]

Originally Posted by dmbman32

Girlfriend of 1 year....I rubber up AND she's on the pill.

The bad thing about rubbers are, from what I'm told: Once they're off, they'll never go back on. I've never had sex without one, so I wouldn't know. But what I DO know is, if we had sex without one and it was as good as advertised, I wouldn't put them back on. And not putting them back on leads to......yeah......

Yup, best to be safe right? Sex without one feels a lot better tho. The first time I did it w/ my current girl we didn't have any and we did it for a little while and I pulled out. I was drunk so was she, we knew her for 2 weeks and she was hot and ready. It's kinda hard when she's ready to go.

[PinkFloydDudi]

Originally Posted by neumdogg

I did ask a question. However, a message board is used to discuss things. DMBBeav can preach whatever he likes.

There is no discussion in telling others what to do.

[Styx Cover Band]

I'm shocked it hasn't been mentioned yet, but

[neumdogg]

Originally Posted by PinkFloydDudi

There is no discussion in telling others what to do.

He's just giving advice, and some good advice at that.

[PinkFloydDudi]

Originally Posted by neumdogg

He's just giving advice, and some good advice at that.

"Always wear a condom"...thats good advice for someone in a committed relationship?

So is "be abstinent" I guess.


Let me give HIM some advice. People cheat when they live together. Women lie ALL the time even when they live with their significant others.

Heres more advice: Condoms and other forms of birth control are not 100% effective. So if you have sex at ALL...you should be comfortable with the fact that you could (at ANY time) get an STD, get pregnant, etc...

So even if you are married, and use condoms EVERY time you have sex...you should be comfortable knowing that there is a chance you can get the same STD the guy down the street got after banging 50 chicks with no protection at all.

good advice? Sure. Necessary? Absolutely not.

[PhishSticks40]

The pill along with a bit of trust can go miles.

[haybale97]

Originally Posted by PinkFloydDudi

"Always wear a condom"...thats good advice for someone in a committed relationship?

So is "be abstinent" I guess.


Let me give HIM some advice. People cheat when they live together. Women lie ALL the time even when they live with their significant others.

Heres more advice: Condoms and other forms of birth control are not 100% effective. So if you have sex at ALL...you should be comfortable with the fact that you could (at ANY time) get an STD, get pregnant, etc...

So even if you are married, and use condoms EVERY time you have sex...you should be comfortable knowing that there is a chance you can get the same STD the guy down the street got after banging 50 chicks with no protection at all.

good advice? Sure. Necessary? Absolutely not.

if i'm married and i'm using condoms everytime i have sex i'm going to kill myself. fact

[PinkFloydDudi]

Originally Posted by haybale97

if i'm married and i'm using condoms everytime i have sex i'm going to kill myself. fact

agreed.

And you aren't going to be very healthy if you are constantly thinking and doing things assuming that your girlfriend is lying, cheating, and trying to get pregnant behind your back either.

[thatgirl224]

Absolutely. I always use condoms. Even when I am on alternative birth control I use condoms as well. Trick/Boyfriend...doesn't matter. A condom will be worn.

[DIDriveOut2SPAC]

I wear black condoms because they are slimming













































Hah, Yea right, I don't wear condoms OHHHHHH Daniel Cross FTW

[cpxc.]

I haven't worn a condom since 11th grade, been with 12 girls since then and I'm fine.

[neumdogg]

Originally Posted by cpxc.

I haven't worn a condom since 11th grade, been with 12 girls since then and I'm fine.

Wow. Good luck.