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Originally Posted by TheLastPig
Not sure if anyone has had a similar experience to this so figured id see if anyone could offer advice.
One of, if not my closest friend in the world is this girl ive known since HS. We started as close friends then ended up dating for a month our senior year, it didnt work out, with how emotions fire off left and right at that age it just wasnt right. After some time passed we reconciled and remained friends through college and beyond and saw eachother here and there. We both dated a bunch of other people but always talked until I got serious with me ex-fiancee and against my better judgement I allowed her to convince me to cut ties with her. Since that ended last summer weve become very close again. Theres always felt like theres something still there between us even though shes been dating someone for almost a year, but im so used to us just being friends its wasnt even something on my radar until the last few months.
A few times shes beaten around the bush about us trying to date again, as recently as this morning. She brings it up in a roundabout way, then backs off, Ill push the issue to get her to say whats on her mind then she turtles and ignores me. Personally, I think I would be open to exploring it because those feelings ive buried never have fully gone away even though its easy to put them aside and just be friends.
Im just at that point where I dont know if I should bring it up next time I see her in person just to see her reaction and what she says, or to just let it go and wait for her to say something if shes ready. We have always had a kind of odd hot and cold relationship in the 12 years weve known one another, so its hard to approach.
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One thought is don’t attack this head on. Like a big talk or make it a direct yes or no question for her. Don’t ask permission or anything.
Flirt, be funny, witty, awesome. Texting is great for this. Ask he to send you a pic or two so you can see how pretty she looks (in your own words). Be subtle but interested. She if she wants one back.
Keep lobbing game over the net and see if she hits it back.
Find out the anwer to your questions without even asking.
Then, if your getting a good vibe, get together and get drunk and see if she’ll make out.