Dating is miserable

[lockman21]

Originally Posted by Climb2safety

That lone female out there would literally be my ex. She picked it up when my kid started playing but played a lot and got pretty good. Not that good though.

The women’s league though had a lot of ex players. She also does a ladies lunch league. It’s her business now.

What area are you from again? Be hilarious if they knew each other.

[Climb2safety]

Originally Posted by lockman21

What area are you from again? Be hilarious if they knew each other.

Denver. I doubt it.

She did go to one tournament in Vegas once with her ladies team.

[lockman21]

Yeah doubtful. World of women’s hockey isn’t a big one though.

[tyler3440]

Originally Posted by recentlyJTR41

Dude suck it up. You can do this. Stop acting weird and act older than you age and be confident. Girls love that especially college girls. Just don't act like a shit head if you want something serious.

Why didn't you rush?

Also, I dont know how to be confident.

Not sober at lest.

Once you get the booze in me I can walk up to any chick or group of chicks and start blabbering drunk. I just get the IDGAF feeling.

i get that its not a good look, but thats when I feel my best.

[badgernation41]

Tyler have you ever tried meetup.com? its a site where you can join different groups in your area. they have everything from sports, to just going out to the bars etc... its a great way to meet people.

[tyler3440]

Originally Posted by badgernation41

Tyler have you ever tried meetup.com? its a site where you can join different groups in your area. they have everything from sports, to just going out to the bars etc... its a great way to meet people.

nope. 8888

[tyler3440]

Originally Posted by tyler3440

Also, I dont know how to be confident.

Not sober at lest.

Once you get the booze in me I can walk up to any chick or group of chicks and start blabbering drunk. I just get the IDGAF feeling.

i get that its not a good look, but thats when I feel my best.

Blabbering drunk is not the correct word but its probably to the point where im sluring my speech a bit.

[Climb2safety]

Originally Posted by tyler3440

Also, I dont know how to be confident.

Not sober at lest.

Once you get the booze in me I can walk up to any chick or group of chicks and start blabbering drunk. I just get the IDGAF feeling.

i get that its not a good look, but thats when I feel my best.

Confidence is knowing who you are, what you want, and where you want to go.

It’s acknowledging your strengths and weaknesses and being willing to be vulnerable and let someone else know them too.

Honestly, until you figure yourself out you may find this hard. Maybe that is why.

Once you have your own shit together then you have something to offer someone else. That’s where confidence comes from.

And dude. Honestly looking back I was a mess in college so cut yourself some slack.

Find a few good bros and have fun. Stop trying entirely if it’s making you feel this bad about yourself.

[fridge112887]

Tyler, even if you don't rush, you can still attend frat parties. The parties, from my experience at least, are full of the opposite sex. Strike up conversation with as many as possible, even if the poor girl looks like the creature from the black lagoon. This will give you practice and boost your confidence. Find a solid group of friends on campus and make it a point to go out every weekend to a new bar/house/whatever. Trust me (us), the girls are out there to be had. You don't have to take the easy way out and try to score every date via Tinder.

And listen to C2S's advice

[cry_minarets458]

Originally Posted by tyler3440

I dont have time for intramural sports. Plus thats not a way to meet chicks at all. coffee shops sure, but who in the hell hits on chicks at coffee shops? I go to bars but I struck out so much I just stopped. I wind up pretty drunk usually. faith? im not really into church anymore.

what do you do at school that you don't have time for two hours a week? it's a way to meet people, who then can introduce you to chicks. geeze, sometimes it's a journey, dude.

probably don't end up pretty drunk and rather just stick with buzzed, you'll probably have a much better time. and all the friends you meet, let's say at intramural sports or some other group, will go to bar with you and introduce you to said female friends.

i think you're putting all this on a pedestal and psyching yourself out brotato chip

[fridge112887]

What college do you go to, Tyler?

[tyler3440]

Originally Posted by fridge112887

What college do you go to, Tyler?

I go to Miss. state I wouldn't want to go to any other school in the nation

[tyler3440]

Originally Posted by cry_minarets458

what do you do at school that you don't have time for two hours a week? it's a way to meet people, who then can introduce you to chicks. geeze, sometimes it's a journey, dude.

probably don't end up pretty drunk and rather just stick with buzzed, you'll probably have a much better time. and all the friends you meet, let's say at intramural sports or some other group, will go to bar with you and introduce you to said female friends.

i think you're putting all this on a pedestal and psyching yourself out brotato chip

I wanted to play 3 on 3 basketball but the games were held on the worst night possible. Monday's and Wednesday and I consistently had accounting homework due on both nights

[fridge112887]

Originally Posted by tyler3440

I go to Miss. state I wouldn't want to go to any other school in the nation

Well shit then, there are tons of women on campus. It's not like you go to some little dick college where the enrollment is under 10k. Things can only go up for you.

[cry_minarets458]

Originally Posted by tyler3440

I wanted to play 3 on 3 basketball but the games were held on the worst night possible. Monday's and Wednesday and I consistently had accounting homework due on both nights

play soccer, ultimate frisbee, anything dude

hell, become a barista. make all those PSLs for the ladies!!

[ToySoldier#34]

Parents meeting parents today, should be interesting

[rconverse]

Originally Posted by ToySoldier#34

Parents meeting parents today, should be interesting

Meet the Fockers is on Comedy Central right now. Kind of ironic.

[chadizzy1]

Originally Posted by tyler3440

Also, I dont know how to be confident.

Not sober at lest.

Once you get the booze in me I can walk up to any chick or group of chicks and start blabbering drunk. I just get the IDGAF feeling.

i get that its not a good look, but thats when I feel my best.

Well are you a blabbering drunk, or are you one that can hold it together?

[redsox14]

Originally Posted by ToySoldier#34

Parents meeting parents today, should be interesting

How'd it go!

[fridge112887]

Since when was "being too nice" frowned upon?

[Climb2safety]

Originally Posted by fridge112887

Since when was "being too nice" frowned upon?

Next!!!

999

[TheLastStop123]

Originally Posted by fridge112887

Since when was "being too nice" frowned upon?

who wants to tell him?

[fridge112887]

Originally Posted by Climb2safety

Next!!!

999

Originally Posted by TheLastStop123

who wants to tell him?

Heh?

[cry_minarets458]

Still killing it here. Hope tyler gets out of the funk.


Nice guys aren't wanted until all other options have exhausted or until women are ready to settle down. The nice guy, tho often the best guy, is the safety IMO

[tyler3440]

Originally Posted by cry_minarets458

Still killing it here. Hope tyler gets out of the funk.


Nice guys aren't wanted until all other options have exhausted or until women are ready to settle down. The nice guy, tho often the best guy, is the safety IMO

Thanks man, glad your killing it.

lol i'm screwed, I would like to think of myself as a nice guy

[Climb2safety]

Lucky for me at my age the women are actually smart enough to see niceness as a positive, mostly from what I’ve seen this is from being treated like garbage by guys in the past, and thus why they are single again.

[tyler3440]

Originally Posted by Climb2safety

Lucky for me at my age the women are actually smart enough to see niceness as a positive, mostly from what I’ve seen this is from being treated like garbage by guys in the past, and thus why they are single again.

my friend always goes after shitty guys imo. And then she complains about them.

its so annoying that girls go after shitty guys a lot of the time

[cry_minarets458]

Originally Posted by tyler3440

my friend always goes after shitty guys imo. And then she complains about them.

its so annoying that girls go after shitty guys a lot of the time

ask your friend what makes them shitty, and then try acting like that for a bit, just to get some dates and give you perspective

[tyler3440]

What is it about those douchy types that girls find so attractive?

[tyler3440]

Originally Posted by cry_minarets458

ask your friend what makes them shitty, and then try acting like that for a bit, just to get some dates and give you perspective

she showed me a pic of one of the guys she was attracted to and he had on a gold chain and was one of these white boy wanna be rapper types.

Jesus