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Originally Posted by tyler3440
Also, I dont know how to be confident.
Not sober at lest.
Once you get the booze in me I can walk up to any chick or group of chicks and start blabbering drunk. I just get the IDGAF feeling.
i get that its not a good look, but thats when I feel my best.
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Confidence is knowing who you are, what you want, and where you want to go.
It’s acknowledging your strengths and weaknesses and being willing to be vulnerable and let someone else know them too.
Honestly, until you figure yourself out you may find this hard. Maybe that is why.
Once you have your own shit together then you have something to offer someone else. That’s where confidence comes from.
And dude. Honestly looking back I was a mess in college so cut yourself some slack.
Find a few good bros and have fun. Stop trying entirely if it’s making you feel this bad about yourself.