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Originally Posted by tyler3440
yeah I haven't texted her haha
I'll probably send a text finalizing a date and place.
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Well. Like I said, the game is afoot so keep playing and don’t let your guard down.
Text or don’t text but make sure you and her are on the same page. Texting before the first date is a tough one and there really is zero upside for you. You’ve already got the Yes to a date, all you can do is screw it up between now and then.
I would suggest 1. Lock down the date and time of the date. Tell her you’ll plan something fun. Or, if you already know what you are going to suggest you could do it but it’s almost better to keep her in suspense.
2. Plan a great date. Don’t half-ass it.
3. Tell her you’ll message her the day before to see if the day and time still work.
4. Text as you said.
Optional: if you are feeling good about this - you could make some small talk, ask about her thanksgiving plans, etc. You might do this if a lot of time elapses between now and the date. Just to keep her interested and if you think she’s expecting and wanting to chat. But remember, he cool and do say anything controversial or stupid.