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Song Interpretation
Written as a reply to the band’s request for Dave to write more songs, Dave (as he does in Grace Is Gone) has alluded to a girl to mask the songs true intentions. Old theories held that it was about Dave’s fallen sister Anne, but that is untrue.

Song Information
Album: Under the Table and Dreaming
Historical Rarity: 7.86671
Average Slot: 9
Average Length: 5:10

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  234 Appearances

Date Venue Position Length
DMB 1992-09-01Trax, Charlottesville, VA123:44
DMB 1992-09-15Trax, Charlottesville, VA44:00
DMB 1992-09-26La Niçoise, Washington, D.C.1
DMB 1992-09-29Trax, Charlottesville, VA65:47
DMB 1992-09-30Flood Zone, Richmond, VA64;01
DMB 1992-10-14Flood Zone, Richmond, VA54:41
DMB 1992-10-27Trax, Charlottesville, VA5
DMB 1992-10-31Trax, Charlottesville, VA125:14
DMB 1992-11-01Live Demo, Unknown, Unknown, Unknown7
DMB 1992-11-03Trax, Charlottesville, VA23:56
DMB 1992-11-11Live Trax Volume 37, Flood Zone, Richmond, VA34:11
DMB 1992-11-17Trax, Charlottesville, VA44:10
DMB 1992-11-18Flood Zone, Richmond, VA44:34
DMB 1992-11-25Flood Zone, Richmond, VA11
DMB 1992-12-02Flood Zone, Richmond, VA84:30
DMB 1992-12-04Music Farm, Charleston, SC94:25
DMB 1992-12-09Flood Zone, Richmond, VA10
DMB 1992-12-11Joker's Pub, Harrisonburg, VA14:23
DMB 1992-12-12Trax, Charlottesville, VA10
DMB 1992-12-21DMBLive - The Bayou, Washington, DC 12/21/1992, The Bayou, Washington, D.C.44:53
DMB 1992-12-22Trax, Charlottesville, VA174:40
DMB 1992-12-23Trax, Charlottesville, VA204:37
DMB 1992-12-28Lewis's, Norfolk, VA124:57
DMB 1992-12-29Trax, Charlottesville, VA34:42
DMB 1992-12-31Omni Hotel, Richmond, VA54:56
DMB 1993-01-19Trax, Charlottesville, VA104:31
DMB 1993-01-20Flood Zone, Richmond, VA5
DMB 1993-01-26Trax, Charlottesville, VA114:31
DMB 1993-01-27DMBLive - The Flood Zone, Richmond, VA 1/27/1993, Flood Zone, Richmond, VA84:27
DMB 1993-01-30Zollman's Pavilion at Washington & Lee University, Lexington, VA274:44
DMB 1993-02-01Studio Recording (Quad Studios?), Unknown, New York, NY3
DMB 1993-02-04Flood Zone, Richmond, VA204:35
DMB 1993-02-09Trax, Charlottesville, VA204:46
DMB 1993-02-10Flood Zone, Richmond, VA14
DMB 1993-03-03Flood Zone, Richmond, VA95:00
DMB 1993-03-06Kappa Sigma Fraternity House - Washington & Lee University, Lexington, VA204:30
DMB 1993-03-10Miguel Valdez Benefit, Flood Zone, Richmond, VA85:46
DMB 1993-03-16Trax, Charlottesville, VA94:47
DMB 1993-03-17Flood Zone, Richmond, VA204:50
DMB 1993-03-24Flood Zone, Richmond, VA184:51
DMB 1993-03-27Springfest, Robbins Center - University of Richmond, Richmond, VA4Tease
DMB 1993-03-31Flood Zone, Richmond, VA84:48
DMB 1993-04-02Salem College, Winston-Salem, NC12Tease4:05
DMB 1993-04-02Salem College, Winston-Salem, NC214:05
DM_ 1993-04-05Prism Coffeehouse, Charlottesville, VA9
DMB 1993-04-09Wetlands Preserve, New York, NY161:41
DMB 1993-04-14Flood Zone, Richmond, VA184:37
D&T 1993-04-22DMBLive - Prism Coffeehouse, Charlottesville, VA 4/22/1993, Prism Coffeehouse, Charlottesville, VA105:18
DM_ 1993-05-04Flood Zone, Richmond, VA74:25
DMB 1993-05-19Flood Zone, Richmond, VA164:20
DMB 1993-05-22Trax, Charlottesville, VA2
D&T 1993-05-27Jefferson Theater, Charlottesville, VA94:46
DMB 1993-05-31Zollman's Pavilion at Washington & Lee University, Lexington, VA74:51
DMB 1993-06-02Flood Zone, Richmond, VA84:18
DMB 1993-06-04The Bayou, Washington, D.C.8
DMB 1993-06-12Peppermint Beach Club, Virginia Beach, VA16
D&T 1993-06-13DMBLive - The Memphis, Richmond, VA 6/13/1993, The Memphis, Richmond, VA6
DMB 1993-06-21Georgia Theatre, Athens, GA184:50
DMB 1993-06-24Wetlands Preserve, New York, NY14
DMB 1993-06-26The Bayou, Washington, D.C.13
DMB 1993-07-06Trax, Charlottesville, VA144:39
DMB 1993-07-07Flood Zone, Richmond, VA44:39
DMB 1993-07-21Flood Zone, Richmond, VA154:54
D&T 1993-07-26Benefit for Indians (F.A.I.R), Maxx, Charlottesville, VA25:26
DMB 1993-08-02The Atlantis, Nags Head, NC94:47
DMB 1993-08-10Flood Zone, Richmond, VA18
DMB 1993-08-17Live Trax Volume 30, The Muse, Nantucket, MA134:32
DMB 1993-08-31Trax, Charlottesville, VA155:48
DMB 1993-09-16Fox Theatre, Boulder, CO166:10
DMB 1993-09-23Georgia Theatre, Athens, GA13
DMB 1993-10-05Trax, Charlottesville, VA76:00
DMB 1993-10-07Car Dealership Parking Lot, Columbia, SC157:01
DMB 1993-10-20Flood Zone, Richmond, VA11
DMB 1993-10-30Wetlands Preserve, New York, NY76:23
DMB 1993-11-03Flood Zone, Richmond, VA154:37
DMB 1993-11-26Peppermint Beach Club, Virginia Beach, VA144:31
DMB 1993-11-29Wilson Hall - James Madison University, Harrisonburg, VA1
DM_ 1993-11-30WTJU Benefit, Prism Coffeehouse, Charlottesville, VA4
DMB 1993-11-30Trax, Charlottesville, VA104:38
DMB 1993-12-05Ivory Tusk, Tuscaloosa, AL5
D&T 1993-12-12Jefferson Theater, Charlottesville, VA35:30
DMB 1993-12-29Ziggy's, Winston-Salem, NC6
DMB 1993-12-31The Marriott, Richmond, VA145:42
DMB 1994-01-03Variety Playhouse, Atlanta, GA12
DMB 1994-01-03Variety Playhouse, Atlanta, GA12
D&T 1994-01-29Wetlands Preserve, New York, NY35:17
DMB 1994-02-05Georgia Theatre, Athens, GA64:44
D&T 1994-02-21The Birchmere, Alexandria, VA15:00
DMB 1994-02-25Sweet Briar College, Sweet Briar, VA94:56
DMB 1994-03-02DMBLive - Masquerade Nightclub 3/2/1994, Masquerade Nightclub, Tampa, FL5
DMB 1994-03-05Craven's Hall, University Of The South, Sewanee, TN85:55
DMB 1994-03-19Schuba's, Chicago, IL56:05
DMB 1994-04-26DMBLive - Town Point Park, Norfolk, VA 4/26/1994, Town Point Park, Norfolk, VA46:15
DMB 1994-05-12Fox Theatre, Boulder, CO6
DMB 1994-05-16UTTAD Sessions, Bearsville Studios, Woodstock, NY8
DMB 1994-05-30Trax, Charlottesville, VA6
DMB 1994-07-17Backstage Tavern, Ballard, WA54:53
DM_ 1994-07-2190.7 WVUA - The Sean Carrey Show, Tuscaloosa, AL2Tease
DM_ 1994-07-2190.7 WVUA - The Sean Carrey Show, Tuscaloosa, AL3
DMB 1994-07-24Masquerade Park, Atlanta, GA124:31
DMB 1994-07-28Irving Plaza, New York, NY134:50
DMB 1994-08-12Ziggy's, Winston-Salem, NC125:37
DMB 1994-08-13Strawberry Banks, Hampton, VA125:46
D&T 1994-08-25Live Trax Volume 48, The Birchmere, Alexandria, VA1
DMB 1994-08-27Fox Theatre, Boulder, CO85:09
DMB 1994-08-28Gerald Ford Amphitheatre, Vail, CO115:19
D&T 1994-09-26Maxx, Charlottesville, VA25:05
DMB 1994-09-27McIntire Amphitheatre - University of Virginia, Charlottesville, VA75:45
DMB 1994-09-28Flood Zone, Richmond, VA96:18
DMB 1994-09-29The Ritz, Raleigh, NC95:48
DMB 1994-09-30Roseland Ballroom, New York, NY95:45
DMB 1994-10-03Toad's Place, New Haven, CT105:42
DMB 1994-10-06Lee's Palace, Toronto, Ontario, Canada7
DM_ 1994-10-15Magic Platter Record Store, Birmingham, AL5
DMB 1994-10-16Varsity Theatre, Baton Rouge, LA64:39
DMB 1994-10-18The Mushroom, New Orleans, LA5
DMB 1994-10-19Lafayette's, Oxford, MS8
DMB 1994-10-21Mississippi Nights, St. Louis, MO65:18
DMB 1994-10-27Barrymore Theatre, Madison, WI85:10
DMB 1994-10-29Blind Pig, Ann Arbor, MI1012:39
DMB 1994-11-01Roxy Club, Amsterdam, Noord-Holland, Netherlands75:15
DMB 1994-11-03Roxy Club, Amsterdam, Noord-Holland, Netherlands4
D&T 1994-11-07Irving Plaza, New York, NY2
DMB 1994-11-18Fox Theatre, Boulder, CO135:05
DMB 1994-11-20Marriott Grand Ballroom, Vail, CO65:17
DMB 1994-11-26DMBLive - Backstage Theatre, Seattle, WA 11/26/1994, Backstage Tavern, Ballard, WA95:27
DMB 1994-12-09Ventura Theater, Ventura, CA8
DMB 1994-12-15Liberty Lunch, Austin, TX9
DMB 1994-12-27Fox Theatre, Atlanta, GA85:30
DMB 1995-02-08DMBLive - Palace Theatre, Albany, NY 2/8/1995, Palace Theatre, Albany, NY5
DMB 1995-02-12World Cafe, 88.5 WXPN-FM, Philadelphia, PA2
DMB 1995-02-14Richmond Symphony Orchestra, Carpenter Center, Richmond, VA84:45
DMB 1995-02-15Richmond Symphony Orchestra, Carpenter Center, Richmond, VA85:00
DMB 1995-02-17House Of Blues, New Orleans, LA18
DMB 1995-02-22102.7 WNEW-FM, New York, NY2
DMB 1995-02-24Roseland Ballroom, New York, NY135:22
DMB 1995-02-26Rochester Auditorium, Rochester, NY86:03
DMB 1995-02-2897.7 WOXY-FM, Oxford, OH2
DMB 1995-03-04Music Hall Cleveland, Cleveland, OH85:46
DMB 1995-03-16JBTV, Chicago, IL34:52
DMB 1995-03-1793.1 WXRT-FM, Chicago, IL45:24
DMB 1995-03-23Arapaho, Paris, Ile-de-France, France8
DMB 1995-03-30Melkweg, Amsterdam, Noord-Holland, Netherlands6
DMB 1995-04-05DMBLive - The Academy, New York, NY 4/5/1995, The Academy, New York, NY65:40
DMB 1995-04-17Avolena Studios, Nashville, TN4
DMB 1995-04-17Javelina Studios, Nashville, TN45:10
DMB 1995-04-26Backyard, Austin, TX7
DMB 1995-05-10Yoshi's, Oakland, CA35:17
DMB 1995-07-09DMBLive - Des Eurockeennes, Lac de Malsaucy, France 7/9/1995, Malsaucy Peninsula, Belfort, Territoire de Belfort, France3
DMB 1995-07-20DMBLive - DMB Mud Island Amphitheatre, Memphis, TN 7/20/1995, Mud Island River Park Amphitheatre, Memphis, TN8
DMB 1995-07-22Special, 99x WNNX-FM, Atlanta, GA5
DMB 1995-07-28Oak Mountain Amphitheatre, Pelham, AL86:19
DMB 1995-08-02Paolo Soleri Amphitheatre, Santa Fe, NM154:28
DMB 1995-08-03Mesa Amphitheatre, Mesa, AZ76:09
DMB 1995-08-04Live Trax Volume 21, The Soma, San Diego, CA115:56
DMB 1995-08-13Modern Rock Live, San Francisco, CA25:21
DMB 1995-08-23Live Trax Volume 5, Meadowbrook Amphitheatre, Rochester Hills, MI126:32
D&T 1995-09-24Swarthmore College, Swarthmore, PA55:14
D&T 1996-02-13Flynn Center for the Performing Arts, Burlington, VT25
D&T 1996-02-14Wadsworth Gym - Colby College, Waterville, ME28
D&T 1996-02-17Jorgensen Auditorium - University of Connecticut, Storrs, CT215:16
D&T 1996-02-18Leede Arena - Dartmouth College, Hanover, NH225:01
DM_ 1996-04-08Baseline, Mellville, Natal, South Africa16
DM_ 1996-04-14Sweet Briar College, Sweet Briar, VA16
DMB 1996-06-22Pine Knob, Clarkston, MI105:42
DMB 1996-06-23Marcus Amphitheater, Milwaukee, WI116:35
DMB 1996-07-02Mozartsaal, Mannheim, Nordrhein-Westfalen, Germany4
DMB 1996-12-01Civic Auditorium, Omaha, NE85:45
DMB 1996-12-02Assembly Hall - University of Illinois, Champaign, IL65:45
D&T 1997-01-14Elliott Hall of Music - Purdue University, West Lafayette, IN12
D&T 1997-01-25Stanley Theatre, Utica, NY65:00
D&T 1997-01-30Vets Memorial Auditorium - Johnson & Wales University, Providence, RI205:04
D&T 1997-02-21Warfield, San Francisco, CA9
DMB 1997-06-25Pine Knob, Clarkston, MI56:00
DMB 1997-07-02Red Rocks Amphitheatre, Morrison, CO105:57
DMB 1997-07-06Live Trax Volume 17, Shoreline Amphitheatre, Mountain View, CA95:47
DMB 1998-08-07Starwood Amphitheatre, Antioch, TN10
DMB 1998-08-08Deer Creek Music Center, Noblesville, IN17
DMB 1998-08-15South Park Meadows, Austin, TX17
DMB 1998-12-11Kohl Center - University of Wisconsin-Madison, Madison, WI8
DMB 1998-12-14Bradley Center, Milwaukee, WI8
D&T 1999-01-20Burruss Auditorium - Virginia Tech, Blacksburg, VA21
D&T 1999-01-23Fisher Auditorium - Indiana University of Pennsylvania, Indiana, PA6
D&T 1999-01-24Shafer Auditorium - Allegheny College, Meadville, PA14
D&T 1999-01-27Stanley Theatre, Utica, NY6
D&T 1999-01-30Eisenhower Hall - West Point Military Academy, West Point, NY25
D&T 1999-02-06Jorgensen Auditorium - University of Connecticut, Storrs, CT25
D&T 1999-02-07Weis Center for the Performing Arts - Bucknell University, Lewisburg, PA26
D&T 1999-02-17Brock Auditorium - Eastern Kentucky University, Richmond, KY27
D&T 1999-02-19Palace Theatre, Louisville, KY5
DMB 1999-05-04Mobile Civic Center, Mobile, AL5
DMB 1999-05-13Palace of Auburn Hills, Auburn Hills, MI6
DMB 1999-06-23Deer Creek Music Center, Noblesville, IN10
DMB 1999-07-07Coors Amphitheatre, Chula Vista, CA6
D&T 2003-03-19Careerbuilder.com Oakdale Theatre, Wallingford, CT4
D&T 2003-03-20Ryan Center - University of Rhode Island, Kingston, RI7
D&T 2003-03-22Radio City Music Hall, New York, NY10
D&T 2003-03-25Belk Arena - Davidson College, Davidson, NC8
D&T 2003-03-29DMBLive - Appalachian State University, Boone, NC 3/29/2003, Holmes Center - Appalachian State University, Boone, NC4
D&T 2003-04-03Elliott Hall of Music - Purdue University, West Lafayette, IN4
D&T 2003-04-04Physical Education Center - Carthage College, Kenosha, WI23
DMB 2003-06-18Germain Amphitheater, Columbus, OH5
DMB 2003-06-20Darien Lake Performing Arts Center, Darien Center, NY5
DMB 2003-06-26Post-Gazette Pavilion at Star Lake, Burgettstown, PA8
DMB 2003-06-30Verizon Wireless Music Center, Noblesville, IN8
DMB 2003-07-03Tweeter Center Chicago, Tinley Park, IL5
DMB 2003-07-09Target Center, Minneapolis, MN5
DMB 2003-07-12Verizon Wireless Amphitheatre, Bonner Springs, KS11
DMB 2003-07-18American Airlines Center, Dallas, TX11
DMB 2003-08-01Shoreline Amphitheatre, Mountain View, CA9
DMB 2003-08-24Continental Airlines Arena, East Rutherford, NJ12
D&F 2003-12-16Fleet Center, Boston, MA3
DMB 2006-06-20Verizon Wireless Amphitheatre, Charlotte, NC9
DMB 2006-07-01Alpine Valley Music Theatre, East Troy, WI8
DMB 2008-06-07Live Trax Volume 13, Busch Stadium, St. Louis, MO11
DMB 2008-06-10Toyota Pavilion at Montage Mountain, Scranton, PA7
DMB 2008-06-14New England Dodge Music Center, Hartford, CT15
DMB 2008-07-12Cruzan Amphitheatre, West Palm Beach, FL9
DMB 2014-05-24Aaron's Amphitheatre at Lakewood, Atlanta, GA4
DMB 2014-05-31Saratoga Performing Arts Center, Saratoga Springs, NY3
DMB 2014-06-10PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel, NJ4
DMB 2014-06-14Susquehanna Bank Center, Camden, NJ3
DMB 2014-06-25DTE Energy Music Theatre, Clarkston, MI7
DMB 2015-06-30Wells Fargo Arena, Des Moines, IA4
DMB 2015-07-08Blossom Music Center, Cuyahoga Falls, OH5
DMB 2015-07-11Farm Bureau Live at Virginia Beach, Virginia Beach, VA8
DMB 2015-08-01Cruzan Amphitheatre, West Palm Beach, FL5
D&T 2019-02-16Playa Azul, Riviera Maya, Quintana Roo, Mexico6
D&T 2020-02-16Moon Palace Golf & Spa Resort, Cancun, Quintana Roo, Mexico4
DMB 2022-07-09Saratoga Performing Arts Center, Saratoga Springs, NY19
DMB 2022-07-22Coastal Credit Union Music Park at Walnut Creek, Raleigh, NC19
DMB 2022-08-20iTHINK Financial Amphitheatre, West Palm Beach, FL19
DMB 2022-09-16North Island Credit Union Amphitheatre, Chula Vista, CA19
DMB 2022-11-19Madison Square Garden, New York, NY21


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